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He asked "Can God Lead one to marry someone he/she doesn't love?"

yes.

I agree character is very important, but is it more important?

yes it is.

Does it make you go that extra step for someone that only love (the commitment part) can make you go?

too ambiguous. What exactly is extra step here. Most people go extra steps on the strength of infatuation alone and some dont even need infatuation at all.

We're talking about people with more than a shallow understanding of love here. Even if we are talking about shallow people, while you can mistake infatuation for love, it is nearly impossible to mistake not loving someone for loving them (i.e. if you're convinced you don't love someone, it's most likely the case)

ideally, love is a verb, not a noun. Meaning its not supposed to be the fluttery feeling per se.

To love is a verb & is active

true that.

character is more important than love when it comes to marriage.

not saying love isnt important but it shouldnt be the only requirement or the priority.

people fall out of love just as quickly as they fall into it. Especially when they mistake infatuation for love.

does loving some[b] always [/b] mean you have to marry them? What if you love multiple people at various or the same time/s.

my opinion.

still thinking.

The governors of the 36 states will today meet to consider a report that listed 16 states as “bankrupt”, nine “unhealthy”, six “critical” and five “distressed” as a result of the implementation of the minimum wage which commenced August 2011.

so what are they planning to do with the list.


anything tangible?

while you and your crowd, the disbelievers do say to God "we hear and we disobey"

quite funny though sometimes true.

harakiri my post was meant for you.

you're not even a christian so why are you so vocal about the letter even if its real.

well, fat, ugly and obnoxious are words you used to describe your fellow human beings who are also women like yourself.

just pointing that out for reference purposes.

now, hope you dont interpret my civility as being scared of you.

i'm just not interested in giving you any attention, that's all. I know you crave it but i think you should find a fellow l.esbian to oblige you. (Not to mention some bolts are missing from your end).

sorry for the disappointment and goodbye.

dont waste time on tpia when you could be using it to search for a le.sbian lover here.

thanks for heeding this friendly advice.

no genetic or DNA evidence of any sort

that would be helpful if done and analyzed by a neutral and informed party.

and if the male ancestry could be definitively processed.

currently i believe they go by maternal dna.

e ja gboran for goodness sake!!!

the man was dethroned and disciplined by his own people largely because of the suffering he inflicted on the congo, so its not like nobody knows what went on.


what's the way forward now should be the question, not how do we rehash over and over again the contents of racist letters of questionable sobriety!!!

lets not make the thread about tpia, thanks.

though some are waanking to my photo sha.

but what to expect from s.ex addicted buffoons who desperately crave attention. They lap it up anywhere they find it, and are pathetically grateful for whatever they get.

understandable.

well, that's why some dames own choice property in lekki and have cool rides thanks to their ego stroking techniques used on needy fellows.

Relax101:
You come across as an insane and mentally unstable individual.

^^just because you are, doesnt mean everyone else is.

sorry.

Pennywise:
Still hating after so many years.

you find that surprising no doubt.

why would anyone who knows you, hate you?

amazing.

are you just noticing that @ poster.

nl music section itself nko, talkless the wider scene.

if you're a murderer, you need help.

lol

men.

smh.

their everlasting search for "angel" [more common with nigerian men though].

then when the funk hits the fan you couldnt pay them to repeat the moonshine.

public schools arent necessarily bad.

it all depends.

thought denrele said he retired.

and why is his hair long like that.

a lot of the dresses are ok- kate's especially.

but nigerian hairstylists need to come up with hairstyles that flatter our appearance, imo.

the jobs are ok for single people, but not so okay if both husband and wife have the same long hours.

now everything seems mean to me 'cos it's hard raising him

easy to have s.ex, not easy to raise a kid.

very risky.

smh.

he was treated for serious burns to his groin

what's the condition of his groin now?

lord have mercy.


a rich boy from a very wealthy home, doing something like this.

smh.

if he'd even just considered the number of poor people in nigeria who he could have assisted if he had no other use for money. . . . . . .