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pansophist:
Vanity test. Are you ready?

1. You will become a billionaire in US dollars instantly, but magically transform into a 95-year-old man. If you do not agree to this deal, then ''time'' is more important to you than money.

2. Also, you will be a billionaire, but lose all your loved ones. You will be the only remaining one of your lineage. If you do not agree to this deal, then family is more important to you than money.

3. You will be a billionaire but must give up sex. If you do not accept this deal, then sex is more important to you than money.

4. You will be a trillionaire right now, then tomorrow, you will be killed. If you do not agree to this deal, then life is more important to you than money.

5. You will be a billionaire, but the price you will pay is SS genotype and stroke. If you do not agree to this deal, then health is more important to you than money.

6. You will be a billionaire, but spend the rest of your life in jail. If you do not agree to this deal, then your freedom is more important to you than money.

So please tell me which of the above you will sacrifice for money, and then we proceed from there.

TONYE001:
I'm married, and I say again, marriage isn't thathard.

bolabizzle:
Yes, but the bitter truth is most times the woman that wants to please you, worship you, make you her one and all, will 99% of the time be unattractive physically to you. Life really sucks. It likes to play strange pranks on humans. It is never fair. Let us learn to be realistic and have a stoic approach towards life if not you'll keep going in a merry go round direction.



The big question is will you be mature enough to overlook what she lacks physically and focus on other qualities that she possesses? Have you trained yourself to a level were you no longer allow physical beauty to turn your brain upside down but rather look out for other important qualities that is needed in a woman? I can bet that most guys that come here to vomit and post quotes for likes have at some point in time met a lady that treated them like a king, but because she doesn't have hour glass shape, big nyash, big breasts and eye lash like cat, they didn't even for a second think of giving the girl a chance.

Alot of men focus entirely on a woman's physical looks and this in my opinion is why there is currently disarray in the manosphere community. Today no one can give a standard definition of the redpill because different sub groups have germinated from it. PUA'S, MGTOW, BLACKPILLERS, INCELS... Some crazy weird groups are beginning to spring up in hidden corners of the internet that tries to hypnotise men to become transgender.

For those that their fingers are inching to quote me and tell me they can never have anything to do wit a lady that is ugly, look let me tell you, during our forefathers days when arranged marriage was very common, the parents of the man focused more on the girls family, their background and most importantly the behaviour of the girl. Looks wasn't considered important and if at all it was, it was definitely the last criteria on the list. Was their marriage back then as short-lived and useless like that of today?

I wish the creators of this thread requested for it to be closed but pinned. The early posts, most especially the ones from ubunja that encouraged men to have a nice grooming and start any form of romance with girls that don't look physically attractive were the best because they were realistic. He clearly pointed out the reason behind the logic. if a girl knows you don't find her Physically attractive and she's head over hills for you, how, just how she go play you wayo? There is this natural dominance, wisdom and confidence that a man has when he is with a girl he doesn't find physically attractive. Let that sink in.

Eazzii:
Hailings boss. I've been lifting for over 6 months now but no visible results.
I do 20 bar bell lifts lying on my back, 20 dumbell lifts and 10 bar bell lifts standing. What can I do?

2dice01:
I manage my Uncle business for 2months (Nov-Dec) controlling 2branches plus the Headquarters
Just cus they think am the owner son cus we look abit alike come see how these women flirt directly and indirectly with me 🤭

Even one uni girl that helps her mum stays in their comestics shop with a young lady around 24/25yrs that's owns a makeup shop became co wives

The makeup is the First wife
The Uni girl is the small wife

Just cus they think am the heir to the throne 🤤 they become besties to the extent the mum of the uni girl calls me (My Inlaw)

Women bow in the presence of power

pansophist:
Normally it is women that move to men, not the other way around. You guys are still in the phase of honeymoon, especially when you haven't met, so it's more of illusionary love not grounded in reality. Those romantic nonsense movies sell to people.

After you land in Zambia and begin to eat her food, you may not be as fine as your picture, and probably in weeks, the money you brought is finished, and maybe her job is stressing her out, and life begins to happen to the both of you, and god forbid, she or you mistakenly fart, then reality begins.

If you decide to go, just make sure you have the number of the Nigerian embassy in Lusaka, just in case she pours you hot water and you need to go to Lagos for surgery. Please tell me you are joking, because I dont get how a man will go depend on a woman he hasn't met in another country. And expecting her to sponsor your education.

it is not in the nature of women to take care of men. They have never had that burden and will never will, and only a matter of one month max, if you can't take care of yourself at minimum, and her as well, then you will hate the very day you met her. Allow women to see love as a fairy tale, but as a man, you must be realistic and see things for what they are. `

Hope say you sabi fork well sha, and get six packs, those things will prolong the time she gets disgusted and fed up by you. Because if you mess up and she wants to throw you out, then think of how most Zambian men cant fork and have potbelly, she will retain you.

CaveAdullam:
Her reason is sound. But the mistake she made was arguing it with her husband. The moment she sensed that her husband was insistent on reproducing under a rough socioeconomic condition even after having 3 beautiful kids, she would have started using spermicidal creams or using contraceptives clandestine. There is Depo Povera and Noristerat to help her do the jobs.

Divorce is not a good option right now because she may end up taking care of the kids alone or allow them to suffer in the hands of their father and future stepmother.

Let her use her contraceptives wisely with legs wide spread.

She must not succumb to her husband's wish because she bears the cost of pregnancy alone and most times do the nurturing.

Her husband needs a medical check-up on his left and right brain hemisphere.

Common sense.

TheGidRedpiller:
Simple, do not act desperate!!

It's funny how the answer to most questions like yours is right in the question.
Do not act desperate since you do not want to appear desperate.

Let her know you are interested but do not hop to her every now and then, act like you are doing her a favor by paying minimal attention to her.

One of my most frequent tactic is that I stare at her from time to time, I make sure she catches me staring, but then I make sure I have no facial expression whilst staring, and that I look good everytime I go about staring.

She will begin to ask herself some questions as to my I'm always staring and what I have going on in my head, all of a sudden she's interested, and even when I started showing interest first, I'm still in control, women love to live in fantasies, all you have to do is put her in one.

I'm acting like Gu Jun pyo in their favorite Korean drama series, all I do is stare and then slowly move my head away when she catches me staring.
She will undergo a thousand and one fantasies everytime she thinks if me.
I'm not acting desperate, infact I'm acting like God looking down on his child.

THEN, the day I will finally walk up to her, she will be literally shaking on her toes.

If you are reading this, try this and give feedbacks later.

#GoldenPenis
TRP IS GOLDEN!!

TheGidRedpiller:
You just wrote one long note of BULLCRAP.

No woman have standards, if you appear wanted enough, she will fvvck you too.

pansophist:
I'm sorry mate. But as a matter of survival, you need that pain. Her betrayal and the pain you feel currently will make you a better man in a sense that you won't trust naively, and will never confuse an innocent face with actual innocence.

So let the flowers reminds you why the rain is so necessary. Let the pain remind you why the death of trusting people by their appearance is necessary. Next time, you won't even feel pained if it happened again, because your mind will be stronger. The first time is the most painful.

I commend you, you try. Not all men can hold their anger and play along like you did. That's virtue, to control your emotions. Break up with her, and move on. Let her enjoy herself now, but a donkey will never give birth to a monkey. She will reap what she sow. The man can only give her money, but you were willing to give her a home.

Lots of women are homeless because of this rough youthful lifestyle, since they've messed up their chances with genuine men that will give them a home. A family. Care and love. If you can't pay the price, you don't deserve the prize. If she can't he virtuous, then she doesn't deserve you.

But let's get one thing clear. "If your intentions are genuine towards them, then you didn't loose them, they loose you. Keep being a good man. When the right woman comes, you'll be glad that all other options didn't work out. It shall be well with you.

Tonnyray:
Perfect take. You get time for shalaye sha. Your position is excellent and obvious to the discerning. Those first 2 words of yours actually sum it up: Who cares?
Johnny Depp’s victory is a victory for men the world over. End of story. Men don’t go about bitching on who she’s fvcking now. That’s some unmistakable female energy. It’s women I know that keep checking your social media pages and status just to see how you’re doing without them after a breakup and whether the bitch you’re now fvcking is prettier than she is. A man simply isn’t bothered, he has moved.
We have moved beyond the victory over Amber Heard. She can post threesomes with Elon Musk and Jeff Bezos for those who care.

pansophist:
There you go, men have it harder. I've seen lots of women on this forum argue vehemently that marriage doesn't favour women, only men, but at the end, its men that are boycotting marriage not women. It's women, not men that are singing "Carry me go my husband house".

That's because men knows the burden of performance inside that gift called marriage. To work, perform and carry burden until he dies. Basically she sacrifice her life for the children, but he sacrifices his life for the wife and the children, and her family too. Especially when men hear the agony other men faces in their marriage.

Who would have guess that the inequality and privileges feminist claimed that men enjoy was actually a burden that men wants to run away from? who would have also guessed why women are not transgendering to men in masses, since men have it better ? Who would have imagined that the so called patriarchy was actually designed to protect the affairs of women generally (marriage is an integral part of patriarchy for example) at the expense of men?

The next twenty years will be a big shock to women globally. They will cry for a return of the so called patriarchy, because right now, men are seeing women as other men, to compete with not protect, to show up equally at the table so no chivalry, to do baby mama things and not blessed with a home, to use and discard for sex afterall, what else is she offering ?

This is why I'm a proponent for people to think for themselves, because all these lies of society are as clear as day for me to see, wonder why its not the same for lots of people. When we criticise older cultural practices because we do not understand it, we pay dearly for it. Thats how it works. Our ancestors may be ignorant, but they ain't stupid. Patriarchy protects women at the expense of men, its that simple.

pansophist:
My guy don't mind them, it is jealousy that is worrying them. Girls like fair guys, you'll look like those black Americans like Chris brown, and women will chase you upandan.

Also, be generous. Women will even like you better if you can spend. So make sure you blow up the place with drinks, and if na classy babe, borrow or rent a car if you don't have one. As in, make sure every week, you arrange a new babe, otherwise you just waste your beautiful colour.

Leave those broke niggars blaming you for bleaching. They are broke, poor and ugly. Na jealousy make person prefer bus instead of plane. Carry on, I'm by your side.

Martinez39s:
Aren't you overreacting and running off on an impression DieRich5 never gave you? We really have to be careful not to ascribe unnecessary and unimplied meaning and intentions to someone's post. What about his post made you think he sees anything as a competition or war against females? Where exactly is he making out things to be a war/competition with females? What about his post implied and made you think he was portraying the red pill as a confraternity and defying common sense? Seriously?

Is it out of place or a crime to give a report and speak, from a red pill lens, about any issue on a red pill thread as long as one isn't defying the rules of the thread? All he simply did was give a report on the intention of someone to marry Amber Heard and he simply wrote "men are their own worst enemies." What he did is similar to what heartofcity12 does. What is the big deal? He is not forcing anything on anyone or asking you or anyone to care. You could have skipped his post if it offered you nothing new as far as your red pill knowledge is concerned.

His post isn't out of place and he is actually spot on (that's if you take the post for what it is). Men are usually their worst enemies... and that is true, even in this case. In this case, anyone with a scintilla of common sense and who sees things from a red pill lens knows Amber Heard's red flags are out in the open and they are serious: she has a history and pattern of abusing her partners. Before Johnny Depp, she was once arrested in 2009 for abusing her ex-girlfriend (yes, she is openly bisexual) and she has been diagnosed by reputable psychologists to have borderline personality disorder and histrionic personality disorder. She abused Johnny Depp in many obnoxious ways and taunted him without remorse that he wouldn't be believed in court (as audio recordings revealed) while lying to the public, defaming Depp, running him through the family court, and posing as an anti-domestic-violence activist and victim of domestic violence.

Even though her ex-girlfriend tried to defend Amber Heard in the case against Depp by claiming Amber didn't abuse her, covering for her and accusing the police officers of misogyny and homophobia, her claims were quickly exposed as rubbish and they clearly contradicted the records and witnesses.

DieRich5 point is simple: why would a high value man who can do better decide to genuinely commit and offer love to an lying abuser with personality disorders and all sorts of ill-mannered behaviours that are out in the open? Is it not redpilled to avoid ignoring red flags and vet properly? Is it not redpilled to avoid marrying out of pity? Any man who ignores these and sincerely offers Amber Heard commitment is a fool who is an enemy of himself... and that is fact. Many men keep ignoring red flags, and that's a reality. Nothing wrong in DieRich5's message.

It is not out of place or new if we give reports on things happening home and abroad and speak from a red pill perspective. In your post, you made some points worth considering, but still try to chill and claim down.

DieRich5:
Men re dere own worst enemy

ubunja:
if I'm Zimbabwean why would I care who South African women date?

mid 2017 is the year I discovered Nairaland and the simping was disgusting. It took me 4 years of personal hard work with my write-ups to change this. Now the Red Pill is trending. It was a job worth it.

ubunja:
It better not be true....

pansophist:
I prefer dark skin women to light skin ones and if I'm a woman, my man better be darker than night and at least as dark as Akon, the barest minimum.

Black is beautiful.

ubunja:
redpill is for people who want to understand women. Not people who want to put their life in the "right direction" as in become successful. Start from page 1 of this long thread and you won't see anything about investments and business. It's women women women.

Still the redpill will tell you to get your finances in order, but that's not to make you alpha, because Beta Simps also have their finances in order, so what makes your finances special? Especially since Betas by default have more finances!

Thing is, you're expecting things from the redpill that the redpill never promised.

Should you focus on women or focus on bettering yourself first? If you're failing with women the Alpha way is to develop your BODY and SEX APPEAL (gym and self care) till you start seeing success with women. That's the red pill way.

The Blue Pill way is to accumulate money and use it to attract women. Downside being that those women will first have their fun with the Body and Sex Appeal guys until they're tired and start giving you attention. Also, during the relationship those same women will make you pay for what they're giving the body and sex appeal guys for free secretly on the side. These are the painful things that bring many guys to the redpill.

Be successful in life for your own comforts, not to get women because it will hurt you when those same women fucc the gateman who has nothing but a hard body from years of toiling.

P/S this "succeed first, get women after" mindset is exactly why I've been saying ALL ROADS LEAD TO SEX. Because all your plans end with women as the trophies.

pansophist:
Think of a bird. When it perches on a tree branch, he relaxes and feels at peace, but if its breaks off, it will fly off because its strength is not external (on the branches), but internal (it's wings).

It's not possible to love someone without being attached to them somehow, that's psychopathic, but loving someone is the acknowledgement that you understood the human part of them. You did not naively bequeath messianic expectations on them and think they will be there when the going gets tough. It's like having a cat, it's the acceptance that you can be bitten, but you'll take care of yourself and be fine afterwards.

About the materials you lost, how long was it? There comes the maturity of the girls in question. Unless they've been patient and proved with deeds, not words only, that they are trustworthy, which takes time, you don't have to open up. Let them go, it's fine, better than having your heart being shattered and dumped. But if they have proven beyond doubt to be good, then you have to, but not to a point where you loose your inner strength like the bird analogy.

pansophist:
Big man

If you're young, then wait until you travel. Not saying that the grass is greener, but decisions such as a lifelong partner is something you don't take lightly. You must be extra careful, and I mean, extra extra careful. The whole world might plot to kill Buhari for example and he will escape it, but his wife can do it tonight, easily. So my advice is strictly on the premise of a soul mate, not a fork mate.

Lots of powerful men were not destroyed by their enemies but by their spouse, and the lower the virtue of a person (in this context a woman), the lower the chances of appreciating your input, and even see your principles are restricting, and may eliminate you to achieve their vanity, humans are that shallow. You tried, about your business and building yourself, and on this level, it is only fair that you want an equal partner. Though I hope what you understood as a good women is not strictly financially, that's a masculine domain, not the feminine.

CaveAdullam:
Funny thing is that a woman that has chosen you will come with her menstrual pad and flow to your room. At day other men will receive curses but at night, she'll be the one acting submissively. Real life bro!

LoL.

CaveAdullam:
Genuine desire will make a pastor's first daughter to fvck you under her father's roof. It doesn't care about strict father or moral obligations. Or, whether her free is fast sleeping, praying or preaching sermons. She will first do what's in her mind before considering all these.

Genuine desire will list more than 10 names of guys on her bedsheet but tick you as the one she wants. Meanwhile, you're not even as close to other guys in that rank.

Genuine desire will cry when you make mention of other women. She will fight these women in her imaginations.

Forget it, genuine desire doesn't care about a good place for a date. She will eat unripe plantain and oil sauce with you in your house plus boobs and a$$ to play with. Yummy!

Genuine desire always bring sex and romance to your doorstep.

The times I have been chosen by women is the best time I have had with women. No shenanigans! Smooth as sleek!

Looool.

tripleking64:
Real mataz

CaveAdullam:
As usual, anything from iLegendd is superb! Kudos!

In addendum:

1. The secret lives you explained can take different terms in different textbooks, however, it all boils down to survival. Hence, men and women must oscillate among these lives so that they can continue to exist or via their genes. It's just the game of life be it moral, immoral, amoral or a mélange of it.

2. Social media is a conglomeration of individuals from a plethora of different political, cultural, economic, social, religious, intellectual backgrounds. There is a quid pro quo of ideas on these media which serves as a template for learning. Notwithstanding, human nature is same anywhere or everywhere; the differences which contributes to these inherent nature(genetics) is as a result of the zeitgeist of that person's location or nation.

America or the Western nation might be pointed fingers at but their exposure and interaction with people from other indigenous nations helped in exposing human nature especially that of women. It is what it is.

Western nation has other good sides in which other second or third world countries ought to have mimic, but because humans first react to their basic needs: food, sex, pleasure, they tend to gravitate towards it, after all, America and other first world countries has a variety of it and are the best dealers.

Third world countries are able to copy and mimic these bad sides or corrupt part of western societies because it blends or overlaps with their low IQ state. Africa/Black communities has the lowest IQ among the major classified races!

3. Women has this dark nature, social media just helped in exposing it and bringing it to the awareness of all who are ready for it. As usual, it is an imperative, though, environment has really contributed to it. Religious and traditional restrictions which didn't came out as a result of conscious and deliberate thinking but by natural selection came into place in order to checkmate women's dark nature. The patriarchy was for a reason!

4. You subtly dropped it somewhere like kinda accusing men for women's misdemeanors, but understand: adult men are not responsible for the behaviors of adult women. Each has their own freewill and any decision not made under threat or coercion should not always paint one black or the man as the villain! Men want to fvck around; if women agree, they both will fvck. Man ought to have restraint upon his libido, however, when it calls and wants to respond and women are available, he will definitely bolster his notch counts.

In these era where more women are claiming independence, feminism, egalitarianism, "what a man can do, a woman can do it more better", you don't expect men not to follow suit and respond with game or machiavellianism. Men can only be responsible for women when women agree or come to the awareness that they are just little above adolescence and teenagers or better still, that they are 'adult children', and that they require masculine wall to guide, protect and lead them. Anything beyond this makes the game continue; and every man or woman wants to win.

5. Getting virgin women or women with lower body counts is extremely rare in our contemporary age. It is advisable for men to continue with their game rather than commit to a used wh0re! He has nothing to gain from a used wh0re except to fvck.

If he must commit, it must be a virgin or nothing regardless of the zeitgeist of that place he is, and must vet her to be true. It all depends on where he's looking at and the amount of time and energy he's ready to put into in order to get these kind of woman. [b]Not that this will guarantee an interminable relationship, but at least, while the ship sails before it finally capsized, he enjoyed the melodious voices of the beautiful sirens from the hollows of the woman he committed to. All materials don't last forever, however, starting with a quality one ensures work success.[/b] This is better rather than struggling with past memories and ghosts of ex fvck mates.

These kind of women starts manifesting as from the age 13, the ones coming of age to be used and dumped after their passage rites. He must keep his eyes on this circle. Though many will fall on the way side, but at least a good number still make it to the age of consent: 18yrs, and here he must clutch her and take her for his own and possessed her. If he waits for her to gain more experience and become more mature, then, the woman he finally wants to commit to has been rammed, used and dumped by various sizes, colours and lengths of d!cks.

Thanks.

God bless.

luminouz:
I think the game that dude meant was the urge to simp/impress/be thirsty. Women will shit-test you as a game. I never play it. It's either I keep mute or give them a nice fat, multicoloured 'K'