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our true personalities is reflected by hw we relate to those we feel superior to.housemaids in alota situations are treated with such base indiginity.they seem 2 give our low esteem a lift.we arnt dat much different 4rm d animals aftarall.its always nice 2 climb up further in d food chain n hav someone 2 luk down at.u know a good woman by hw she gets along with her maid

buchibabe: OMG!!! Can I eva forget dis one? He engaged me,and I tot we will marry.I committed abortion 3 times,because he was not just ready all of a sudden and he didn't even want to hear about me havin d baby...acording to him he had better plans for us,so he convinced me to get rid of dem.

After 3 months,he got married to someone else,bt karma visited him. Up til now (6yrs later,no child).I pray God helps him.

I just thank God I have a baby now frm one who loves and respects my feelings. What if somthin had gon wrong wit my womb?

na big lie.most of u gurls r lieing

gurls hardly do silly tings for men.

[quote author=Mynd_44]hey this guy really loves you[/quote]naaa! He doesnt.jst wanna get a test of ur pinkie.

wow! women seem 2 b the ones commenting d most here.and they all have one ting in common; thier spouses all hav dat much vaunted super human quality 2 tolerate d devil in them.no wonder men find it hard 2 commit.and no wonder men die quick.

the madness is unbearable.i still recall with shock when a die-hard extreemist redeemed christian guy told me with all certainty dat bishop adeboye waz the jesus christ of our time.i left my mouth agape in fear of being lynchd if i said a word, because they were acting like islamic extreemist at dat time.i couldnt tel dem apart.wat jst came 2 my heard waz AL Q'AEDA!.honestly its so saddening bt its jst a passage of events.uk waz one like dis in d neoclassical era.

icon aus: Forget about what anyim said . he was reading what the presido has typed of for him to read . Anyway, igbos are doing well in nigeria today . apparently igbos are running this nation . if the north and west steal money from the govt it will end up in igbo mans pocket through business and also given that igbos are every where in the country and doing well ; there is no need to part with nigeria . igbo re better of in nigeria today .

i'm comfirm igbo man.na lie u talk.who tell u say na igbo man pocket dia money de enter.abi na 4 ur boutique n spare part? Mumu

misreal: my ppl dnt lose hope with God nigeria can get there under two years.its just because we av negleted God.lets all go bck to him nd watch how he will handle our economy.

u r a big fool.pple like u r our biggest problem.i mite even waste u if i had a gun rite nw

for all ur comparisons, they seem 2 b all baby husbands except ur kingdom husband whom i suppose will b thrown down by zeus 4rm mount olympus mayb if u work hard enough 2 b half a kingdom wife.

MRbrownJAY: so being insecure is NO more human nature?! lol some people out there are insecure BY NATURE, and there is nothing wrong with that. you are going around the subject being afraid to call a spade A SPADE.



abeg, leave God out of this matter, i am referring to relationship and nothing else.....as i said earlier, if you are jealous of your neighbour's new car, thats another matter, BUT, being jealous because your partner speaks to some opposite sex person is nothing more than insecurity......and ONE THING is for sure, jealousy has absolutely NOTHING to do with love, like the OP is trying to claim.

sori 2 say u lack depth of knowlegde with jelousy as a strong human emotion.evry human being have different forms of insecurities that is born out of our life experiences.its mainly a question of d degree of such insecurity.pple with bipolar disorder r usually in extreems of unstable emotions and they can b pritty difficult 2 deal with in relationships.but a healthy, 'Normal' relationship has 2 hav some jelousy.it is a strong subconscious human emotion even a God can't resist.

MRbrownJAY: so being insecure is NO more human nature?! lol some people out there are insecure BY NATURE, and there is nothing wrong with that. you are going around the subject being afraid to call a spade A SPADE.



abeg, leave God out of this matter, i am referring to relationship and nothing else.....as i said earlier, if you are jealous of your neighbour's new car, thats another matter, BUT, being jealous because your partner speaks to some opposite sex person is nothing more than insecurity......and ONE THING is for sure, jealousy has absolutely NOTHING to do with love, like the OP is trying to claim.

sori 2 say u lack depth of knowlegde with jelousy as a strong human emotion.evry human being have different forms of insecurities that is born out of our life experiences.its mainly a question of d degree of such insecurity.pple with bipolar disorder r usually in extreems of unstable emotions and they can b pritty difficult 2 deal with in relationships.but a healthy, 'Normal' relationship has 2 hav some jelousy.it is a strong subconscious human emotion even a God can't resist.

MRbrownJAY: so being insecure is NO more human nature?! lol some people out there are insecure BY NATURE, and there is nothing wrong with that. you are going around the subject being afraid to call a spade A SPADE.



abeg, leave God out of this matter, i am referring to relationship and nothing else.....as i said earlier, if you are jealous of your neighbour's new car, thats another matter, BUT, being jealous because your partner speaks to some opposite sex person is nothing more than insecurity......and ONE THING is for sure, jealousy has absolutely NOTHING to do with love, like the OP is trying to claim.

sori 2 say u lack depth of knowlegde with jelousy as a strong human emotion.evry human being have different forms of insecurities that is born out of our life experiences.its mainly a question of d degree of such insecurity.pple with bipolar disorder r usually in extreems of unstable emotions and they can b pritty difficult 2 deal with in relationships.but a healthy, 'Normal' relationship has 2 hav some jelousy.it is a strong subconscious human emotion even a God can't resist.

pple arnt commenting like i would've expected.well dats cause alot of us r religious estremists or rather we have had d pious doctrines of religion shoved down our throats over d years.we have been made 2 accept wateva witout doubt or questioning.we hav substituted intellectualism 4 manipulative doctrines millions of gullible faithfuls dnt even undastand bt accept anyway.n i must admit its had not not 2 realy join d crowd.these pastors r pretty intilligent.the share idea of a higher power(God) is enough manipulative tool.alota pple dnt seem 2 notice dat dese pastors create a perspective of God 4 them n dats because their power of reasoning hav be taken away 4rm them.i believe in God but no one can creat a perspective 4 me

i served as a youth corper in the national assembly and i had the rare 'Honour' of particpating with them in committee meetings.one thing i noticed was the nothern senators' often unconsciouse drift to the hausa language even when they had some senators who got lost and often called their attention-albiet with some humour.i could recall a certain senator, james manager; rivers state consituency who often did this then.my point, while a good grasp of the english language may be the criteria to measure once literacy level in nigeria, it is however not a geniune proof; (nothing like your mother tongue).conversations in the procedings went smoother because of the better grasp of vocabulary, grammer... in the mother tongue.though there is no gainsaying that some of them,(in the national assembly) are acualy a national disgrace.

Techwriter: I think it depends on the lady (or who ever is judging)and her degree of depth in the things of God. A christian can be one of these three:
1. Baby Christian: Newly born again-her choices may still be based on the values of where she's coming from or she may overzealously make hasty conclusions. Those of them that came to Christ needing husband, money etc will more likely opt for the carnals. Those that came because they needed God may be overzealously carried. They are just babes carried about by every wind.
They may not sound interesting to a rational mind but its just a matter of time before they adjust. They can end up as any of the last two categories:

2. Carnal Christian: though they are saved and have been in church for many years yet they are not governed by the Spirit but by the flesh. They are controlled by the lust of the eyes, the lust of the flesh and the pride of life(1 John 2:15). Unfortunately, most Nigerian ladies fall under this category so they can judge a serious believer as uninteresting and a fellow carnal believer as very interesting

3. Mature Christians: Now I don't mean religiously fanatical dudes. But these ones know that their first assignment is to please the Master. That they are not in this world for themselves and that there is a hereafter. Ladies of this category look for God fearing men that will take them there. Their marriages last because they built it on the rock not the sandy foundation of the above.
NB: the word interesting depends on a lot of factors. What is of interest to u may not interest me so u may say I'm not interesting to be wt. For instance a guy may enjoy football and his continues discussion of football before a lady who likes discussing cars will be very boring.

Techwriter: I think it depends on the lady (or who ever is judging)and her degree of depth in the things of God. A christian can be one of these three:
1. Baby Christian: Newly born again-her choices may still be based on the values of where she's coming from or she may overzealously make hasty conclusions. Those of them that came to Christ needing husband, money etc will more likely opt for the carnals. Those that came because they needed God may be overzealously carried. They are just babes carried about by every wind.
They may not sound interesting to a rational mind but its just a matter of time before they adjust. They can end up as any of the last two categories:

2. Carnal Christian: though they are saved and have been in church for many years yet they are not governed by the Spirit but by the flesh. They are controlled by the lust of the eyes, the lust of the flesh and the pride of life(1 John 2:15). Unfortunately, most Nigerian ladies fall under this category so they can judge a serious believer as uninteresting and a fellow carnal believer as very interesting

3. Mature Christians: Now I don't mean religiously fanatical dudes. But these ones know that their first assignment is to please the Master. That they are not in this world for themselves and that there is a hereafter. Ladies of this category look for God fearing men that will take them there. Their marriages last because they built it on the rock not the sandy foundation of the above.
NB: the word interesting depends on a lot of factors. What is of interest to u may not interest me so u may say I'm not interesting to be wt. For instance a guy may enjoy football and his continues discussion of football before a lady who likes discussing cars will be very boring.

Techwriter: I think it depends on the lady (or who ever is judging)and her degree of depth in the things of God. A christian can be one of these three:
1. Baby Christian: Newly born again-her choices may still be based on the values of where she's coming from or she may overzealously make hasty conclusions. Those of them that came to Christ needing husband, money etc will more likely opt for the carnals. Those that came because they needed God may be overzealously carried. They are just babes carried about by every wind.
They may not sound interesting to a rational mind but its just a matter of time before they adjust. They can end up as any of the last two categories:

2. Carnal Christian: though they are saved and have been in church for many years yet they are not governed by the Spirit but by the flesh. They are controlled by the lust of the eyes, the lust of the flesh and the pride of life(1 John 2:15). Unfortunately, most Nigerian ladies fall under this category so they can judge a serious believer as uninteresting and a fellow carnal believer as very interesting

3. Mature Christians: Now I don't mean religiously fanatical dudes. But these ones know that their first assignment is to please the Master. That they are not in this world for themselves and that there is a hereafter. Ladies of this category look for God fearing men that will take them there. Their marriages last because they built it on the rock not the sandy foundation of the above.
NB: the word interesting depends on a lot of factors. What is of interest to u may not interest me so u may say I'm not interesting to be wt. For instance a guy may enjoy football and his continues discussion of football before a lady who likes discussing cars will be very boring.

u jst made up fictional crap.wats with d distnction in christianity.'matured'!

religion has destroyd more than it has built in dis country.its a pity ppl hav substitutd geniun education 4 religious extreemism.dis is wat u get wen a society is far unenlitend n ignorant.wat hapend 2 intellectualism? Ppl dnt seem 2 kno dia rights nor d right of anoda.our schools r more of commercial sectors so de produce crap.and dia is one sector enjoyn d situatn.THE GOVERNMENT.That is y u hav our bugdet on education so low.i cud remember OBJ even reduced d bugdet further during his tenure.I pity dis CUNTry.

safarigirl: Marriage is a fulfillment of one's supposed obligation to society. It is over rated, and some of the most successful women in the world are not married, but they are achievers, Oprah Winfrey, Tyra Banks, Genevieve Nnaji, and if Whitney hadn't ruined her exemplary life by marrying that d0pe head, she would have been one of them. I feel that having kids is more of an achievement. Women who get married but have no kids, are considered failures, same as men to an extent, once you have good kids that are a pride to society, no one really cares bout your marital status.

do i sense someone who is possibly giving dis a seriouse thought? Mayb having a kid out of wedlock since age mayb catching up? Or a single mum already? Wel jst so u kno if marriage arnt an achievment 4 u, having kids isnt either sweethrt.

well marriage is not neccessarily a achievement 4 a man whether 'good' or bad.it is more of an achievment 4 d women.if a man can deep his hands in his pocket n pull out some cash 2 buy a beer den he cant look his peer in d eye weda married or not

[quote author=Anti-Gbagaun] [/quote]hehehe u de madt abi.alota of tings women ask 4 arnt 'Realy' wat de wud like.wen de kip saying God-fearing, it is dia insecurities speaking

women jst ask 4 2much.if men wer 2 measure dia chioce of partner by ur yardstick den many women wil neva get hitchd.

so dem no go fear devil abi?

[quote author=onye ego]Are u this shallow minded
Who told u that d president is not working?
D man is working tirelessly to make this country better.
D question now should be; what have u done to better yourself not to talk of Nigeria other than to run ur mouth.
Its good that people like u will leave ur caves sometimes to see what this humble man is doing for his country.
Power,rail,airports,economy,electoral reforms,agriculture e.t.c
D man has touched virtually all
d sectors of d economy and u say he is not working?
For d first time in this country we see highly placed people arrested and charged to court for corruption,ministers resign for conflict of interest.
No president before Goodluck Jonathan has faced the kind of challenges he is currently facing yet the man has been committed to defend the entity of Nigeria as a Nation.
To you he might be clueless,a retardeen,weak e.t.c
But to people like me who will look before we leap.
He is d best president Nigeria has got so far.
my joy is that Goodluck Jonathan is setting a pace for presidents to come, and when he finally leaves office.........
Before you insult GEJ again, just remember that to be Nigeria's president in these times is a task reserved for the gods[quote author=onye ego]Are u this shallow minded
Who told u that d president is not working?
D man is working tirelessly to make this country better.
D question now should be; what have u done to better yourself not to talk of Nigeria other than to run ur mouth.
Its good that people like u will leave ur caves sometimes to see what this humble man is doing for his country.
Power,rail,airports,economy,electoral reforms,agriculture e.t.c
D man has touched virtually all
d sectors of d economy and u say he is not working?
For d first time in this country we see highly placed people arrested and charged to court for corruption,ministers resign for conflict of interest.
No president before Goodluck Jonathan has faced the kind of challenges he is currently facing yet the man has been committed to defend the entity of Nigeria as a Nation.
To you he might be clueless,a retardeen,weak e.t.c
But to people like me who will look before we leap.
He is d best president Nigeria has got so far.
my joy is that Goodluck Jonathan is setting a pace for presidents to come, and when he finally leaves office.........
Before you insult GEJ again, just remember that to be Nigeria's president in these times is a task reserved for the gods[quote author=onye ego]Are u this shallow minded
Who told u that d president is not working?
D man is working tirelessly to make this country better.
D question now should be; what have u done to better yourself not to talk of Nigeria other than to run ur mouth.
Its good that people like u will leave ur caves sometimes to see what this humble man is doing for his country.
Power,rail,airports,economy,electoral reforms,agriculture e.t.c
D man has touched virtually all
d sectors of d economy and u say he is not working?
For d first time in this country we see highly placed people arrested and charged to court for corruption,ministers resign for conflict of interest.
No president before Goodluck Jonathan has faced the kind of challenges he is currently facing yet the man has been committed to defend the entity of Nigeria as a Nation.
To you he might be clueless,a retardeen,weak e.t.c
But to people like me who will look before we leap.
He is d best president Nigeria has got so far.
my joy is that Goodluck Jonathan is setting a pace for presidents to come, and when he finally leaves office.........
Before you insult GEJ again, just remember that to be Nigeria's president in these times is a task reserved for the gods
No doubt governance is not realy easy.managing ppl aint particularly d easiest of jobs either.bt his position as a president unda a political party we ought 2 hav lost faith with waz compromisd d minute he won.much as i wuld nt put emphasis on his kind of personality which is nt wat we do need, we r unda a tight grip in dis country.wake up! D world is moving fast.nothn is hapening here.he is jst a figure head.ofcourse kip praying.9ja 2 mumu