₦airaland Forum

gidgiddy:
All it took is one good beating to make Deji Adeyanju to see the light

I am laughing in swahili. Do I feel bad for some people? Not really

NihiIist:
This works for you right ?

This didn't work for you right?

NihiIist:
You invite a girl to come over, she promises you. Because of her, you quickly arrange your house, clean everywhere, wash your toilet clean, lay your bed and spray airfreshner. You even down a bottle of alomo bitters and all sorts of concoction just in case.

The time for her to come is here as you agreed and well you decided to give her about an hour or so maybe she'll show up but she doesn't.

You call her phone to ask her whatsup, she's not picking, some will even switch off their phone.

Pls if you know you wouldn't come, you shouldn't have made the promise. It's nothing but wickedness

Try getting her to say what she want you to keep for her in advance and see her in your house earlier than expected.

The one on alomo bitters really got me

It's better for people to be honest and sincere about their feelings.
It's her choice

Nothing wrong in having fun. Enjoy yourselves folks

Only Nigerians will read the truth and call it Damning.
There's nothing damning about what I just read

Jackipapa:
When are we going to be free from this continuous slavery.

White man inspecting and supervising us!

They are inspecting and supervising you for the safety of their citizens and not yours. Tell NG government to do same for their citizens.

BedLam:
Nice that you took your time to see my profile...I don’t care about yours because you are useless and so unimportant.
Finally you don’t have a business haha.

Yours is the mindset of a loser and an a fraudster. I will be on your tail henceforth, waiting for you to sell anything here on Nairaland.
Authorities out there will be given your number here. We need to know what you really do. In the end we will both know who is real or who does shady things. One mistake losers like you make here on NL is you get carried away until you get in real trouble. Keep ranting

BedLam:
[s]Ok scumbag, what is the name of your business? You see how stupid you sound? just the opposite of what to expect from someone living in the USA not to mention the heap lies about 30 different countries.
Name the company you founded in america or you are just another fraud like the brothers you have there.

Here you have american veterans moving to more stable and affordable countries like Vietnam :

https://rt.com/op-ed/477118-vietnam-veterans-pension-american-war/

Why are they fleeing your so good america?
You basically don't understand how good society works which is something very common with your type since you want to call one of your NGOs to refund money Wakanow charged, because to a dweeb like you, I should keep quiet so others can fall prey to them.

If you truly are a business man like you posited, you'd know that every penny counts unless you are a fraudulent bastard like I stated earlier.

Funny how you left the topic of discussion to attack me lol! [/s]

Let us know when you begin to reason like a normal person. You have lost your mind since you tried to dupe wakanow.com You are just another frustrated clown who had great opportunities but wasted all on Nairabet and MMM. Doing Yahoo Yahoo and selling fake phones and laptops from Russia will add to your misery because you are a sad story. I have not pity for folks like you because thugs like you deserve no mercy or pity.

Continue to blame others for your problems, from wakanow.com to FAAN instead of doing legitimate and productive things. Olodo

BedLam:
Ok scumbag, what is the name of your business? You see how stupid you sound? just the opposite of what to expect from someone living in the USA not to mention the heap lies about 30 different countries.
Name the company you founded in america or you are just another fraud like the brothers you have there.

Here you have american veterans moving to more stable and affordable countries like Vietnam :

https://rt.com/op-ed/477118-vietnam-veterans-pension-american-war/

Why are they fleeing your so good america?
You basically don't understand how good society works which is something very common with your type since you want to call one of your NGOs to refund money Wakanow charged, because to a dweeb like you, I should keep quiet so others can fall prey to them.

If you truly are a business man like you posited, you'd know that every penny counts unless you are a fraudulent bastard like I stated earlier.

Funny how you left the topic of discussion to attack me lol!

You need the name of my business so you can defraud me, right? You think I will fall for that. Next you will ask me for by blue passport number. You are now ready to be outed because fraudsters and Yahoo Boys like you are the first to mention use that dirty word on others. Now, tell us what you are doing in Ghana again and why you were 'allegedly' duped by wakanow. You are really a pathetic piece of sh*t and beneath me in anyway.

He will never be a man again if he shaved his beard, right? Look at his beard like an underfed squirrel.
Grow beard because it look good on you not because other guys grow beard.

I see a fine babe and not some stranded orangutan

BedLam:
Typical Nigerian, pseudo-intellectual, you've resorted to cheap insults while derailing like a rural Indian train. We are talking economics but since you brought government you should know that you don't get everyday mass shootings in the so called communist states. China and Russia are safer than America or you can google the stats, they are there staring at you. You are still ranting and failed to tell us why America is the best country to live in, in terms of what? I gave you example like medical, transportation, et al.

Bring facts next time or I won't bother replying your dumb ass next time! Agbero.

You can move on without replying me because your response is worth nothing to me and countless others. You are already stressed because of the reckless way you lost a ticket to GHANA and I am not going to make you go jump in the lake by trying to get you to reason like a normal person.

Like I wrote earlier, do your research before making a jerk of yourself in the public domain. I resent dullards like you who claim to know it all when they know nothing. I have visited over 30 Countries and I can tell you that US is the best and the greatest Country in the face of the earth.

Unlike you, I have live in it and I am grateful for the opportunities it has given me and my family of which I will cherish for the rest of my life. Unfortunately, US is not designed or made for dullards and frustrated characters like you and I can understand why you feel that Russia or China is better that 'God's own Country'. You are wrong, ignorant and misinformed about facts.

When you recover from your ticket loss from wakanow.com due to your greed, here are some assignments for you: Google the following:

1. Countries with the best technologies in the world. Google, Twitter, Youtube, Facebook, Microsoft, IBM,Oracle, Netflix, Cisco and other techies you enjoy today are from US, China/Russia=Nothing. They only thrive is taking advantage of intellectual properties of others.
2. Countries with the best Universities in the world. Out of 200 best Universities in the world, there 61 in USA and Russia or China has none. So, 100 years from now, who will still be the leader? Loser!
3. Look into the average monthly salary in Russia Vs US: Russia is $686.16 while USA is $3.258.85 Do you need more? Check out the life expectancy between US and Russia and see why you need to go back to school, if it's not too late for you.

I am here to discourage losers like you from casting America in bad light. I came in with nothing and I have a thriving business here. Losers like you who lack ambition can be homeless in any Country ok. There is no Country where my story is remotely possible than this awesome place. Your weak mind see homelessness and I see tremendous opportunities for me and other Nigerians who are welcome to do better things with their lives.

Finally, if you have not recovered from your recent loss with wakanow.com let me know and I will ask one of my NGO trustees in Naija to give you that money on tone condition that you will stop being pained and receive sense this year.

Until then, just shut up and keep quiet because you think you know it all when you don't.

BedLam:
You beg to differ with no points? China now has more millionaires than america, every week more millionaires are emerging with the fastest internet, cheapest medicals, urban and vast on-time transportation which america has neglected. This is the same thing found in Japan, Europe, Russia and the UAE so what is your point? While the rest of the world is getting richer, Americans are becoming homeless just like in cities like LA.

Medical bills accounted for a large percentage of bankruptcy, something alien to the rest of the developed world, so what is your point?
If you need more education let me know or don't quote me again.

You are ignorant and that's why you woefully failed to see my point. I cannot educate you further because I am not your teacher. China has more millionaires than America but how are their citizens faring? You must be a loser to compare a thriving democracy like America to China or Russia, both of which are communist Countries where the rights of their citizens are trampled upon.

You really need to get it together and stop hallucinating ok. America is the best Country to visit or live in. Continue to deceive your ignorant self with homelessness in America as if there is a Country where there are no homeless people. The truth is, the weakest American homeless person is better and more privileged than you BedLam. You are indeed a Joke.

You 'honestly don't know what people do in the USA' because America is not for losers like you. I will quote you as many times as I can and there's absolutely nothing your lizard behind can do about it.

Tough question but I guess you are looking to marry the poor girl and leave her there in Nigeria
If this is one of your plans, she will be your wife in theory and another man's sleeping partner in practice.

Goodluck sha, but the truth is that married or single, living in America is no longer as good as it used to be.
Not when you have a republican President who is hunting immigrants like antelopes.

BedLam:
I honestly don't know what people do in the USA if not for seeking employment and business.
I find it revolting that people go there for holidays or anything other than economic gains. The world has developed to a point
where most things available elsewhere in the world aren't in the USA. There are now better living in Asia, Europe and middle east than you could find in the USA. Even south American countries are coming up.


Meanwhile WAKANOW is a fraudulent establishment, stay away from them!

I beg to differ. The best way to appreciate a Country is to first live in it. Have you visited or lived in America?
If so, I am sorry for your bad experience. If not, try to visit and enjoy the Country. America is still Gods own Country, believe it or not.

Omotayor123:
Met this guy late September, he was in for loving doving and all. Told me I was the perfect definition of what he was looking for in a bride.

This is a well to do single man with chains of businesses, cars, a good house & also working for mining company. He is Responsible disciplined and religious.
Bottom line is He's what any lady would be glad to have.

The thing is, He had problems with his bae & wanted to find solace and comfort with me, forget his Fiancee and moved on.

I could have taken Advantage of their situation, played the Angelic Good wife, hold him tight, pretend to tolerate all his mess & made him forget totally about his bae.
But I see it as a challenge I have to overcome.
Why

I had issues with my fiance, he left to find comfort in the hands of another girl. The girl jumped on the opportunity without hesitation, played the perfect babe and the rest is history...

I couldn't do the same to another girl, i know how heartbreak & betrayal feels.
so I decided to help them for I know their issue isn't beyond repair.

I took my time to let the guy know I am not perfect and equally have my flaws.
I made him see reason why he shouldn't give up and run to a comfort zone each time his relationship has issues.
Their issue was just communication breakdown & lack of understanding. They could fix it if they really want to and ready to shift grounds...

And now, I'm grateful my efforts played off, with my coaching, he realized he was making a mistake taking the risk of throwing a 3 years relationship away for another one which the outcome is yet unknown.

Now they are back Together, settled all differences and their wedding date is set.
I just received an IV to attend their wedding holding on 18th of January 2020.

If i had entered their Picture, it may be impossible or almost imposssible for this great feat to happen.

I couldn't be more proud of myself.

Ladies This Year Let's help ourselves out!
Don't take Advantage of other people's situations
Don't be the reason why a relationship or marriage breaks totally.
Don't let Despiration push you into hurting others.
May God help us, Give us the best of partners and not make us a stumbling block to the happiness of others.

I did well right


Sorry for the Long Epistle
Cc. Lalasticlala help push to Front Page, Let others Learn.
lalasticlala
farano

Good for you, but is this for real or some fairy tale?
Also, are you financially stable like the man or not? Let's read a little more about you because I am stunned that you have this kind of self control.

The greedy are the easiest ones to fall for mugu. Anyone who sell iphone 11 to you for 300k is either on drugs or stole it.

ExAngel007:
is that all u know?

So much can be resolved during that beautiful moment.

Yes, that's all I know after an argument with my wife
Good thing is, she call for it most of the time and who am i to be in denial?

empirebosscrew:
Good day everybody. So I have lived with poliomelythis for more than two decades now. I have strived so much to achieve alot for myself because I never allowed my situation deter me from achieving my goals in life.

Everything has been going on smoothly: Education up to MSc level, a job, a car and things a man can acquire and say he has reached a level of comfort.

The one thing I'm yet to get is to be in a stable relationship. 99% of the girls I've dated never took me serious and we never lasted long. Some will even take advantage to chop my money and bail after a while. It got to a point I had a bitter negative stereotype thinking all women are mainly out there to exploit a man.

It wasnt until earlier this year when I met someone who changed the horoscope. Like she is so down to earth and actually loved me for me, without even looking at my paralysis. Things were going smoothly until she started becoming aggressive and emotional over little issues.

It took a while but she was able to open up to let me know how her family vehemently told her they dont want to see her with someone like me. They also threatened to disown her if she insisted on being with me.

Currently, we decided to stop seeing each other for the sake of peace to reign in her family. We do keep communication on a 100. We both love each other genuinely and we do not want us to split just like that.

What do we do?

May your struggles make you a better person. You can't push people to accept you because of your condition or success. The best is for you to be happy first and other things like an accommodating partner will follow. I am not disabled, so I don't know how you feel but you should ask God to give you a right partner.

Cheato64:
I got married in 2018, I love my wife so much and I know she loves me too but my wife is too dramatic.

She always claim she trusts me but mehn she doesn't let me out of her sight. I do everything and it's affecting me, we have a son and another is on the way, she has refused to learn how to drive on purpose, I take her everywhere, antenatal, market (hate this one the most), I drop and pick her from work, am forced to go church or other programs which I wouldn't like to go.

She goes through my phone every 3 days most especially at night. She noticed I snore I asked for a separate room, she will never let me, she Insists we sleep with light on.

Sometimes I pray for Nepa to take light. The day I called an ex that works in bank to assist me with transaction due to crowd, she went through my phone saw it, I had to explain out of anger she smashed my phone she does this very often she has smashed hers b4.

I feel like running away for a week but I can't leave my work or our son and she might go to my parents which I wouldn't want.

Pls I need help on how to tackle this wahala

Well, you must have done something that made her to distrust you my brother.
My last born plays his game on my phone next to my wife when I am relaxing in my room
The most important thing is your admission that you both love one another. So, try to get her to feel secure around.

sassysure:
Stop misleading people.
The cane used on u didn't make u a good child.
It didn't mould you one bit.
Stop supporting bad things.

"It didn't mould you one bit" If you are a block that's molded, that's your problem, not mine.
Our ways are our ways, deal with it or remain a loser that you are and will always be. You can't take away discipline in raising kids.

sassysure:
Stop misleading people.
The cane used on u didn't make u a good child.
It didn't mould you one bit.
Stop supporting bad things.

And you should shut up. If you are still pained about what your parents did to you, that's your problem, loser.
Mine turn out good for me and I can't blame anyone for anything. Move on because it looks like you are still pained.

sassysure:
Story story.
Nigerian don't know how to discipline children.
We are so egotistical to come down to their level to teach them through their mistakes.

U hardly see a Nigerian father correct his wayward child.
He is not even there for the child in the first place. Goes and comes, shout or give order and that's that.
Mum end up transfer it repressed aggressions meant for dad to the kids
I guess the flogging has made us the most peaceful and successful country in the world.

It ended up making us more angry, violent and egotistical just like our parents.

I am writing about my experience. Share yours and stop mentioning me.

I would have amounted to nothing without the flogging I got from my mum and grandmother
The fear of waking me up at 2 am in the morning and giving me a dose of it was the beginning of wisdom for me.

Ironically, I grew up to love and admire both of them for making me who I am today.

Motherhood is Supreme. I salute great dads too.

Those who have been in love can relate to the pictures above. Both of them are having fun and I wish them nothing but the best.

Wailing cannot make them less happy, so tone it down and you may be blessed like the two.

I don't know why the western world think they can change our lifestyle and values so easily.

Looking at our national anthem again.

Arise, O compatriots, Nigeria's call obey
To serve our fatherland
With love and strength and faith
The labour of our heroes past
Shall never be in vain
To serve with heart and might
One nation bound in freedom, peace and unity.

Oh God of creation, direct our noble cause
Guide our leaders right
Help our youth the truth to know
In love and honesty to grow
And living just and true
Great lofty heights attain
To build a nation where peace and justice shall reign.

One Nigeria. I am lol