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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Fc Barcelona Fan Thread: "més Que Un Club" by TSOM(m): 9:47pm On Mar 02, 2018
Pique always making me proud! grin

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Romance / Re: “god Is Very Foolish” – Nigerian Slayqueen Says On Facebook by TSOM(m): 10:39am On Feb 05, 2018
With her face caked in a thousand drums of emulsion paint, this bimbo who looks like a crossbreed between a grisly bear and a hippopotamus should be thankful God is merciful 'cause she's not half the weight of the artificial eyelashes on her.

Attention-craving dunderhead!
Romance / Re: Lady Did Nude Video Call With Her Friend's Benefactor, Tried To Snatch Him by TSOM(m): 6:43pm On Feb 02, 2018
She's obviously a call girl. Months or years later, she'd logon to the same social media platform trying to define who a "real man" is; and, of course, the "real man" has to be "God-fearing" while she offers the moist opening between her thighs to even Lucifer at a price.

Two-faced halfwit!

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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Fc Barcelona Fan Thread: "més Que Un Club" by TSOM(m): 10:56pm On Feb 01, 2018
Nicolars:
Coutinho in smiley

I want this boy to score embarassed

Suarez just did his thing.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Fc Barcelona Fan Thread: "més Que Un Club" by TSOM(m): 9:40pm On Feb 01, 2018
We are almost playing with a back three 'cause Roberto seems to almost be playing as a defensive/ central midfielder.
Romance / Re: (OPINION) Don't be deceived, Polygamy is not a sin? by TSOM(m): 12:58am On Jan 22, 2018
Toks2008:


My broda no be fight o...I'm not advocating for polygamy but I just want us to get it right.
I know I come off a tad too blunt with my opinions most times but, trust me, I'm not fighting you;not this time.

There was no where in the bible that polygamy was written as a sin. The Christians today make things difficult for themselves with human philosophy.
There's no where in the bible it is written that NOT defending a child from his abusive parent is a sin. After all, children must obey their parents always (as commanded in the scriptures)...even if that parent is abusive, delusional and evil, right? Yet, defending that child is the moral, right and Godly thing to do even if it isn't a law that we must.
That brings us back to inferred meanings.

God gave you, me, us the power of choice for a reason. You, we are humans - intelligent beings- not lower beings. Our intelligence (guided by Godly principles) should come into play. You aren't ruled solely by instincts.

Let's limit our discussion to scriptural evidence and not philosophy.

Again, sir, the discussion and my premises, by extension, thus far have been based wholly on scriptural evidence (of the consequences and redundancy of polygamous marriages). None has been on my philosophy. smiley

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Romance / Re: (OPINION) Don't be deceived, Polygamy is not a sin? by TSOM(m): 12:35am On Jan 22, 2018
Toks2008:


I appreciate your input but I want us to discuss within the scope of the scriptures.

Many people tend to use human philosophy to decipher issues of marriage in relation to the scriptures.
The examples I cited in my prequel post are as scriptural/biblical as can be.

You claim Jesus didn't come to change the tradition of the people but with Jesus' ministerial work came the abolition of burnt sacrifices for atonement.

Jesus didn't come to change the tradition of the people in its entirety but he changed the "an eye for an eye" philosophy and, in its stead, preached peace, forgiveness and tolerance? A complete deviation from what Moses believed in.

JESUS DIDN'T CHANGE THE LAW BUT THE UNFAVOURABLE TRADITIONS HE CHANGED.

There's no law in the bible insisting on men being polygamous. It was just a cultural practice and like such practices, it was subject to change. Changes effected in later biblical times.

I don't need to reel out exact bible passages in quick succession like a sanctimonious, new-generation evangelist fresh out of theological school seeking to impress his first audience instead of focusing on the inferred meanings.

No biblical example and consequence of polygamy I have cited have you been able to dispute. We all attended Sunday school and read the bible in our time so mentioning every bible passage every time is redundant.

Mention one polygamous marriage in the bible which didn't result in rancour and I'd mention monogamous ones which were peaceful. Mention even one.

Marry a thousand wives if you will. Have as many wives as your eyelashes if you want but stop using biblical quotations to justify those choices 'cause men in bible times who made those choices paid for them directly and indirectly.smiley

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Romance / Re: (OPINION) Don't be deceived, Polygamy is not a sin? by TSOM(m): 11:14pm On Jan 21, 2018
Does He?

God creates laws and invalidates them as at when necessary to help His children become better persons and live better, more meaningful lives.

The same God of the Old Testament who asked for burnt offerings of animals and presentation of first fruits is the same God who gave His son, Jesus, to die for man's sins and, hence, overriding the need to offer sacrifices to Him as penances of our sins.

The same God who told His children to destroy and kill their enemies without sparing their young or wives is the same God who, through His son, who asked us to be forgiving of our enemies and help lead them to the light.

God surely wouldn't be in support of polygamy 'cause the world has changed ever since Solomon had more women than the days of the year in a Gregorian calendar.

Overpopulation has its ills. Children from polygamous homes have to navigate the maze of life figuring out hard facts on their own.
Dad is too busy placating his last wife so she wouldn't stab his second wife with a fork.
The kids rarely have one-on-one moments with daddy and mummy feeds them 'hate pills' so they'd always be suspicious of their stepmums and half-siblings.
How does a child with that background grow up fully functional?
Need I mention the hanging cloud of disgust and resentment over the home? Is it even a home in the real sense if it isn't as peaceful as loving as a home should be?

God wouldn't want His children to suffer these things.

Then again, it's cowardly to bring God into this. He already gave you the power of choice. He created the biblical Adam to bed and wife Eve; not Adam marrying Eve, her best friend and the girl down the street.

Jacob chose to marry Rachel after getting Leah. Solomon chose to marry in hundreds. Abraham chose to sleep with Sarah's maid, God didn't make him do it.

You chose to wed more than one woman. You chose to bring in more women.

Oddly, all polygamous marriages in the bible had dire consequences.
Joseph got sold by his half brothers.
Ishmael hated Isaac.
David's and Solomon's younglings of polygamous relationships fought themselves. That is God letting you know you'd live with your decision(s).

Live with your decision and cease seeking justification for it 'cause there is none...no rational one anyway. smiley

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Romance / Re: Checkout This Conversation Between This Guy And A Lady Over Sex Doll (photos) by TSOM(m): 1:24pm On Jan 21, 2018
She probably has a point...
...But I am more concerned about her choice of words and inability to string the poorly-chosen words articulately. "Bïtches", "dïck", "titties", "fück" and other words all over the place.

If her profile didn't indicate she's Nigerian, I'd have thought she's one of the stereotypical razz, ill-mannered African-American women the world has come to know

A man might as well date a statue of Venus if he dates her type.

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Romance / Re: 7 Advantage And Disadvantage Of Sex Doll by TSOM(m): 1:03pm On Jan 21, 2018
MhizzAJ:
As for people who think human beings can be replaced by dolls deserve to be with animals in the zoo
Any man that goes for a sex doll is a Coward,Very demonic stuff

Why would someone wanna spend his hard earned money on a silicon made stuff

My slay game is still on....I'm not bothered

Maybe and then again, maybe not.
This is odd coming from you, a female, considering the obvious fact that members of your gender have had sex with inanimate objects like vïbrators and dïldos for decades and we haven't made a fuss of it.

Silicon-made stuff? This is hypocritically ironic. You women have had SILICON breasts and bum implants for years and men have lived with it.

Fake hair, fake eyelashes, fake nails, fake lip and skin colours, fake height, fake accents... Need I go on, o ye 'real' woman?

We've lived with your double-timing fake selves for ages and some men have decided to go the whole nine yards by sleeping with completely fake ones.

You lack the moral right to launch your sanctimonious attacks and Indignations when half the things accentuating and emphasizing your femininity are fake!
Romance / Re: Beautiful Ladies Behavior by TSOM(m): 12:33pm On Jan 21, 2018
DrinkLimca:
It defends on the guy, his first impression, his packaging and how he runs his life..

Being rude and arrogant is not about nationality,

It's all about the person they are rude to..

In all my life as a Nigerian, I have never being shouted at and disrespected by any Lady..

I can go to a party or a beach and decides to speak or woo like 100 Ladies and non will be rude to me..

like I said, first impression matters..
If LIEolympics were a competition, you'd be a seven-hundred-time gold medalist.

Christ!

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Romance / Re: More Memes As Sex Dolls Trend by TSOM(m): 2:40pm On Jan 18, 2018
This... Yoruba demons taking one for the team. grin
www.nairaland.com/attachments/6569723_tmpcam1101568564_jpegdb6b6d75841a7487fab2aa77dd1aa618

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Romance / Re: This Nairalander Robbed Me (photos) by TSOM(m): 11:48pm On Jan 10, 2018
BluntBoy:


A spiritual person.

No, it's not a sweeping generalization. It is a spiritual thing. I would have liked to explain but today is gone for me.
I understand.
I'm on the whole indifferent about religion and its ritualistic practises too but take spirituality seriously.
Most folks have probably attended more church programmes last month than I have in the last fifteen months. But that spirituality should be fueled by the doctrines(?) of the Christian faith.
Romance / Re: This Nairalander Robbed Me (photos) by TSOM(m): 9:44pm On Jan 10, 2018
BluntBoy:
When someone says he is a pastor, just know that he is a thief.

Even the established ones like Oyedepo and Adeboye. They are only after your pockets.

However, their punishment is never asleep. It may take long to happen but it will happen.

However, this is not to pass judgement on the guy because we have not heard his own side of the story. Screenshots may just not be enough.
You are an atheist or just a spiritual person who's against organized religion? Your sweeping generalization suggests you are likely the former.

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Romance / Re: What Do Nigerians Think Of White Women In Relationships? by TSOM(m): 12:35am On Jan 10, 2018
SpareNo1:
At 35, one would expect you to have functioning brain. But sadly, it's not so
You do realize you are proving her right, don't you?

Counter her assertions intelligently then add a serving of insults as dessert if you must but your counter assertions should be the main course.

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Romance / Re: What Do Nigerians Think Of White Women In Relationships? by TSOM(m): 12:22am On Jan 10, 2018
Flickzvill:
I have always wanted to date one, not pure white sha like a mixed race. Most of the girls have dated in this country just have one mindset no one is open to adventures of life they just want shawarma,coldstone ice cream,expensive hair, shoprite but what about going to a art gallery? Traveling to obudu ranch? Etc just wish i find one someday sha
While I wouldn't dispute most Nigerian females - heck, most females - are overly petty, materialistic and use emotions as extorting means on men, there are still millions of good-natured, contented girls out there.

As much as I castigate girls, I'd also state I've never dated the happy-go-lucky, petty gold-digging ones. Maybe I am just lucky or maybe I set out knowing the kind of girls I want and go only after those types.

If you haven't met the ones you crave so much, then maybe you should check yourself. Reorder the requisites for girls you seek to date. You don't expect a girl whose social media posts are nearly always something like, "Eyebrows on fleek" to have enough presence of mind to think about deeper, more significant things.

While you complain about girls being opportunistic extortionists, a girl somewhere has baked her boyfriend a small-sized cake (among other things) to celebrate his birthday in a small way from her own purse. ...And she's not rich, just a self-sustaining girl-next-door.

Again, your assertion isn't wrong but, still, you'd be amazed that the kind of girls you seek abound even in your city if you look closely enough.

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Romance / Re: 10 Reasons Why African Guys Double-Date by TSOM(m): 11:58pm On Jan 09, 2018
It's difficult to stay faithful to one girl especially when there are willing options available at no significant cost and who'd broaden your horizon on the relationship scene.

The trick is just to deal with each temptation at a time, swatting it aside like a fly. Difficult still.
Romance / Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by TSOM(m): 2:01pm On Nov 22, 2017
Ikillfools:

I once made a sexual overture to a reverend sister and she blushed. now this is someone who wasn't dressed scantily, though her boobs, curves and hips hug and cloth very well, it made my imagination come alive with lewd thoughts...
What the...?!

Hands up. You win. I'm daring but not that daring.
Romance / Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by TSOM(m): 1:22pm On Nov 22, 2017
Ikillfools:


I still believe it's left for females to prove there's more to them than just boobs, ass, hips and the likes. most male react to what they see in females. if it's not her facial features, then it's her body feature, that's the way I see it.
True. Except she sexually objectifies herself like a lot of females do now on and off Nairaland - dressing deliberately provokingly and uploading pictures to focus on their butts and boobs - I guess she hasn't given passive consent or invitations to be treated as a plaything.

If you dress like a whöre, you forfeited the right to be treated like a duchess. She can't claim sexual harassment but rape is a not an option.

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Romance / Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by TSOM(m): 12:51pm On Nov 22, 2017
Ikillfools:
Okay. regarding the second point, I'm guilty as charged. but only one female i've made such remark on and she rebuffed me, MizMyColi. grin

but still, if it's as you say, one can't make a remark about a lady without being accused of sexually harassing her. like a lady have a big butt, and you compliment her, she rebuffed you... I mean, you're saying the truth for pete's sake.

sometimes it's never easy with women. like it's never easy at all. grin
Well, while every woman sort of uses sexual appeal as a requisite for reiterating her feminity, some women do not want to be regarded as just sexual objects or judged with the sensuality they supposedly exude.

When you repeatedly sexualize them, in essence , you are saying "Your boobs and bum are the only things about you I find interesting; not your intelligence or intuition or your kindness and stoic character. Just your boobs and bum, nothing more."

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Romance / Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by TSOM(m): 12:21pm On Nov 22, 2017
Ikillfools:
Jesus! so you're saying I and Lezz have been sexually harassing ladies here? wow! shocked
If she replies with "LOL", " You're such a flirt", "You're so good with words you can make any woman swoon" or something in that region, she's tacitly given you consent actively or passively. Then it isn't sexual harassment.

But if she replies with "Leave me alone", " I am not interested" or she ignores you and, still, you continue making sexually suggestive comments about her , you are sexually harassing her.

A lot of Nairaland males are guilty of the second. The blunt truth of it. smiley

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Romance / Re: How Many Of You Can Boast Of A Faithful Relationship? by TSOM(m): 12:14pm On Nov 22, 2017
alexialin:





That's really bad, sexxing another guy and talking to bf? That's terrible.


Na wa.

Without giving too much away, I sure can confirm the statement in your comment is true. Sh

Probably why I never call females regularly ( sometimes ones in two or three weeks) and never call at night. I've seen a female do it to a guy who was supposedly her boyfriend.

I'd never want it to happen to me.

I wish I could go into details. That's why I attack guys who asslick, pester or put females on a pedestal on and off Nairaland.

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Romance / Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by TSOM(m): 11:37am On Nov 22, 2017
If you make sensually suggestive comments at or about a female who isn't into you or isn't edging you on actively or passively, you are sexually harassing her.

A lot of male Nairalanders are guilty of this. A female comments and the next is, " You look beautiful. You would be sweet in bed o. I'll fûck you till you cûm..." Such perversion.

The sad thing is, female Nairalanders ( Romancelanders, especially) revel in this and later complain about being regard as nothing more than sexual objects.

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Politics / Re: Obaseki Warns Ijaws: "Don’t Take My Tolerance For Granted" by TSOM(m): 4:08pm On Nov 20, 2017
nengibo:

No be only ibibiod, the person you are quoting is also an ibibio, ibeno & Obolo are the same people
He certainly isn't, not in the true sense.

No real Ibibio or Akwaibomite who's well-versed in the histories and cultures of the people of Akwa Ibom would assert that Ibenos are Ijaws.

The Obolos are mixed and might arguably have an Ijaw connection (which isn't entire) but the Ibenos? Certainly not.
Politics / Re: Nnamdi Kanu's Trial Stalled By Judge's Absence by TSOM(m): 3:35pm On Nov 20, 2017
yarimo:
Senator ABARIBE just produces the run away terrorist NNAMDI KANU in court, and your property will be given to you. That is all

Yeah, of course, he will. ...Right after Buhari, the CJN, , the EFCC and DSS bosses produce the thieving fugitive, Maina and those who aided and abetted the wanted criminal (the aforementioned APC folks) sniff moldy air behind cold, iron bars in prison.

Two-faced sycophant!
Politics / Re: Obaseki Warns Ijaws: "Don’t Take My Tolerance For Granted" by TSOM(m): 3:19pm On Nov 20, 2017
GrandFinale2017:
Ijaws make up two Local Government in Akwa Ibom state.
the people of Eastern Obolo Local Government and Ibeno Local in Akwa ibom state are Ijaws.
The both L.G.A shares boundary with the Atlantic Ocean and both are Oil Producing Communities.
My Mum is from there.
The Ibibio being the Majority tried to marginalize the Ijaw minorities in Akwa ibom state but they were met with a stiff resistance by the Ijaw Nation.
To know more about Ijaws in Akwa ibom state.
Read below
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Obolo_people
cc nengibo TonyeBarcanista
Dude, the people of Ibeno L.G.A in Akwa Ibom State aren't Ijaw. Cease peddling falsehood.

The Ibenos are even more 'Ibibiod' than the Esit Ekets.

I am an Akwa-Ibomite so be certain your comebacks are factual enough, not the random end result of editing by anyone who knows how to create a Wikipedia account.

Culture / Re: The Solomonic Dynasty by TSOM(m): 3:10pm On Nov 20, 2017
Hati13:

But it's very difficult to find who was really the true descendants of King Solomon at that time not only in Ethiopia, but through out the world given that the King lived around the 10th century BC time.

From what I've read, the Ethiopians of the 9th and 10th century AD purposely incorporated religious, cultural, social and political institutions of the Old Testament into their Orthodox Christianity. Then they started to identify themselves as the 2nd Zion (Israel). The royal families started to be connected with King David and Solomon. The Christian priests also started to be connected with the high priests of Israel. The legend of Queen of Sheba also started to be connected with Ethiopia.
Then the supposed assertive of the Solomonic lineage is speculative at best.

The Ethiopians sure had interactions with Hebrews and some are descendants of Hebrew migrants themselves. It's just like the supposed genealogy of the biblical Adam is more of a maze than a road map.

Are the Ethiopians distant relatives of the Hebrews? With available facts, yes, they are. Are its rulers of Solomonic origin? Well, we can't given a definitive answer.

I like the theory though.
Romance / Re: "Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before, But I Am Now" by TSOM(m): 2:04pm On Nov 20, 2017
cstr1000:

That is a shame though, because that is exactly who they need for the long haul .
Human beings are always extreme. You are either too nice or too brash. And being too nice is the better option 10 times out of 10.

I am not a nice guy but I want to learn to be nice.
Time don reach na.
Again, it depends on the definition of a nice guy and the context.

Would I assault a female physically who didn't initiate the assault? No.

Would I be unwarrantedly cruel to random women? No.

Would I feed their ego or lower my self-worth and pride or make myself look stupid , silly or be taken for a ride just to please her? Hell would have to freeze over first.

Still, by society's standards, I am a 'nice guy' but to a girl who's looking to extort from or exploit men and make them feed her ego, I am a 'bad guy'.

It all depends on your definition of a bad guy and a nice guy.

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Culture / Re: The Solomonic Dynasty by TSOM(m): 1:56pm On Nov 20, 2017
What if - just as an alternate assumption - the succeeding emperors did actually haunt and hunt offsprings of the true descendants of Solomon's son who had legitimate claims to the throne?

It's a plausible reality given such predictable happenings in the past by usurpers and conquerors.
Romance / Re: 'I Shared Your Husbands With You' - 15-year-old Girl Tells Her Neighbours' Wives by TSOM(m): 1:41pm On Nov 20, 2017
I think paedophiles should have their testes pierced with rusted needles and their phalluses tattooed with a hot iron stamp.


What's odd, however, (and hilariously ironic) is that the police arrested the men who tumbled between the sheets with the girl (who never claimed she was raped) while the legal age for sexual consent is below 18.

What's worse? Certain people still have sex with minors that are either betrothed or married to them and the Nigerian constitution turns a blind eye to it 'cause of their religious orientation...in a country which is supposedly secular.

Hypocrites! Religious orientation or not, if you (an adult) sleep with a girl who isn't 18 yet, you are an opportunistic paedophile! Lie to yourself if it makes you snore better when you sleep. smiley
Romance / Re: "Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before, But I Am Now" by TSOM(m): 1:19pm On Nov 20, 2017
Blackfyre:



@emboldened Very very true. Irrespective of your own interest, he will give you what you deserve....

For those who allow God do so tho...
You do realize you don't have to smoke, drink, do drugs or be caught up in vices to be a 'bad boy', right?

Being a 'bad boy' doesn't necessarily mean you have to be a serial cheat who's scared of commitments.

There's no one fits-it-all definition of a 'bad boy'...or a 'nice guy'; but a 'nice guy' in the context used by the thread creator, is one who's, not only chilvarous, but ditches his pride and dignity and belittles himself for a female he admires.

The one who'd call four times in a roll until she picks her call by 10.00pm and send her a good morning text eight hours later.

The one who'd accept the "I was too busy to pick your calls or call you back" or "I don't have airtime on my phone to call" excuse when you inquire why she doesn't call even when you call her regularly.

The one who wouldn't mind her chatting with other people on her phone when you both create time to hang out.

That's the OP's definition of a "nice guy". But in the real sense, that type of " nice guy" is a servile dimwit with no pride or self-worth. The Heavens forbid I play blind while any guy within my circle of close acquaintances acts like that.

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