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UyaiIncomparabl:That's the frigging point. Your prequel post I quoted had you stating you can't be traced. After I laid waste to that by piecing information you unwittingly revealed about yourself to factor in my search, your full identity popped up...including information linking to your family members. Mutual friends on that social media platform even. And your home town? It so happens that a friendly acquaintance of mine got a property there recently and the family name attached to yours is traceable, very traceable. ![]() Not even interested in knowing more. I'm not interested in the female whose identity it is. The whole point is, you aren't anonymous and your mask of supposed anonymity is only in your head. Be discerning when making certain personal comments of 'causing harm or being violent. It always can be traced back to you. Kpem idem! Diongho sé afo wed on the internet. |
UyaiIncomparabl:Alright, Enobong. See? It took me less than six minutes to dig that up. Imagine what anyone as determined could dig up in two days of persistent researching. Keep making damning comments. Your ignorance is amazingly fascinating. Something like a rummaging pet brought into a new home. |
UyaiIncomparabl:Yeah, the wonders of make-up. If only you knew how much information you've given away during back-and-forths on the pages of Nairaland without even mentioning your full names. If only you knew the number of Nairalanders who have had their identities revealed with less that half the amount of information you've given away unsuspectingly. But it's alright. Sometimes we all love to wrapped in the comforting cocoon of denial. |
UyaiIncomparabl:So, basically, this is you admitting you cheat regularly then? Some of you females assume guys cheat on you. You can only cheat on someone you are in a romantic relationship with. MOST of you females portraying yourselves as girlfriends/lovers aren't even regarded as such by the men you tag "boyfriends/lovers". He might say anything -especially if he's a sweet talker - to tumble beneath the sheets with you when he pleases even accept the "boyfriend" tag but you never had his heart from the first day. I wish I could state more but let's make do with that. A lot of you women are in illusionary romantic relationships, relationships that are only in your head. And no, you'd never find out. Guys have gotten that good. Start with the mutual friends you share with him on Facebook. Darn! I wish you females knew the real truth. |
UyaiIncomparabl:I hope you realize you have a picture of yourself on your profile, you've made comments which reveal your offline identity and in the event of anything untoward happening to any man you are romantically entangled with, this would be termed premeditated murder. The internet never forgets. |
HardMirror:All sexual acts are disgusting? Just 'cause you were captured by Neo-Communists and turned into a eunuch doesn't mean you have to project your twisted asexuality on the rest of us normal humans. Weirdo! |
obafemee80:Victor Valdes is a two-time Euros winner, a World Cup winner with Spain and a two-time UCL winner with FC Barcelona. Still, he's just a Spanish Ike Shorunmu. Messi and Ronaldo would always be the two best footballers in contemporary history, World Cup achievements or lack of it regardless. |
Rickyuzzy:Cheap validaton-seeking orangutan. You are the guy who made the first comment using Twitter's 'retweet and comment' option. You are @Uzy_JFM and still, you hype yourself on poorly-articulated comment in that screenshot on Nairaland. What's more? The 'view tweet activity' option is only available when the tweet is yours and it's indicated on the first comment. Some of us are active on Twitter so we notice these things. You can't fool everyone. Ill-bred youngling! |
Drealthing: Once she starts going abusive verbally, physically or emotionally, you've got your phone to record the audio and/or visual evidence. It could be done discreetly and even openly 'cause she'd be none the wiser for it. She'd just think it's her man fiddling with his phone as usual. If she's irrational and sentimental enough to abuse you, she'd be irrational enough to destroy your life, false accusations regardless. Then again, even though it seems cliche, befriend a girl before setting out to date her. Befriending her gives you the window to her life and personality, a guage of her character. Some people, no matter how pretty or literate they are, have poor interpersonal skills - the requisite skills needed to sustain a healthy relationship. It's like window-shopping before you take the actual plunge into the dating/courting/marriage pool. |
safarigirl:Your frustration about being single oozes off your post like putrefying cowdug in a semi-closed drum. Even women who are lovey-dovey with good intentions turn bitter and vindictive when they feel their men feel and care less for them. Same bitter women would cry out to the world playing the victims' cards just to spite these men. At the end of the day, females on the whole are vindictive when relationships go south. Most. It's up to men to take pre-emptive measures to protect themselves and their reputations. |
CANDYDADDY:She'd manipulate you if she pleases. She'd play the victim of domestic violence, rape or cheating if she pleases. To defend yourself as a man, always have evidence. If you are in a relationship with any women in recent times without evidence to prove your intimacy with her is consensual or her admitting you have been nice to her, your reputation is a time bomb counting waiting to explode. Never be caught off guard. Never! |
Pavore9:Exactly! If Ronaldo had moved on to the next round, we Messi fans would have been trolled till the end of time. |
AnonyNymous:I hold text conversations with females I get entangled with and somewhow the fact that we have willing sexual interactions would be obvious in our chats. Call logs should never be deleted. Deleting chatlogs must never be done. These distraught, heartbroken scorned females are becoming increasingly daring and would ruin you just for the sheer sadistic satisfaction of it. Always have evidence. Almost immediately I got the grasp of the scandal, I made a mental note of females I've had such intimate relationships with and the conversations over time. The heavens forbid that TSÔM be caught off-guard. People talk about "rape victims being scared to come out" as the purpose for the #MeToo movement but in my honest opinion its the other way round. Women are actually bold enough to accuse any man they have issues with of rape. And movements like that were so poorly though out that they made no provision for how to detect liars and frauds who'd take advantage of the system.The #MeToo movement has become a tool to destroy successful men. Nas was almost ruined. Donald Trump is being haunted. Morgan Freeman is being targeted. XXXtentacion was a victim. Tiffany Haddish openly admitted she sexually harassed Leo DiCaprio and even when he continually rebuffed her aggressive harassments, he turned her down. She admitted Drake stood her down too. People downplayed it and laughed over it. If the tables had been turned, DiCaprio and Drake would have been accused of sexual assault and their careers ruined. Only few women like Candace Owens have openly criticized the #MeToo movement. Men have become increasingly suspicious of women since that vindictive movement started. Until I have presentable evidence that a female willingly wants to tangle with me, I'd never be alone with her, ever! |
lefulefu:She made allusions in her blog post that she has low self-esteem and she hates herself for being skinny and ugly. Here's her profile: www.twitter.com/b_moree_ Here's one of her blog posts where she's lexically wallows in self-pity , hate and vulnerability: https://medium.com/@bimboajao/skinny-shaming-40d7040c665b?_e_pi_=7%2CPAGE_ID10%2C5747504525 ...But she logs on to Twitter to present herself as a 'strong woman', 'beautiful' and a 'feminist' Her pre-2016 Twitter posts also prove she only became a 'Twitter feminist' after she was rejected. She also posted overly-edited pictures to decieve others, masking the aesthetic bodily inadequacies she makes allusions to in her blog posts. Basically, she became a feminist to get back at men who rejected her. Have evidence when dealing with all women. All! Once you notice signs of vindictiveness in her, make sure you have evidence just in case she goes out of her way to ruin you. The only reason why the @UcheDandyMUFC guy didn't lose his job and become a disgraced wanted man shunned by all is because he had evidence. The only reason why he isn't potentially in police net is because he had evidence. Those chatlog saved him. |
lefulefu:...Or so you think. Your girlfriend could accuse you of raping her after you both break-up. How about this: Girl: " A guy I trusted ( Moses Johnson) raped me last Sunday. We broke up after a year of dating 'cause I caught him cheating. I called to let him know I'd go over to his place to get my things 'cause I leave a few personal belongings since I spend some days over at his place regularly. On Sunday, I called to confirm if he was around and he said he was. I had nothing to fear since he's someone I've known a while and that was my mistake - I thought I knew him. Immediately I entered his apartment, exchanged pleasantries and started picking up my things, he went on his knees begging me not to leave him, saying he was sorry. I said nothing and he held on to my legs still on his knees pleasing. It was like he was possessed when he started pushing me. I begged him to stop but he tore my clothes and raped me. I have been traumatized ever since." Man, imagine a girl posting on her timeline on Twitter and try to convince the said Victor Johnson wouldn't be automatically labeled a rapist even when he hasn't been given the chance to state his side of the story or when she has no evidence to back up her claims. Society is prejudiced against men in this regard and everyone just pretends it's not an issue. |
QueenSuccubus:If a colleague tags accuses you of trying to defraud your firm while at work, you prove your innocence there and then if you can before the malicious tag catches on. In the first example, she accused him of rape on social media so he had to defend himself there and then on Twitter, first. He has a reputation to protect since he does his business online. Her aim was to ruin him just to spite him. Taking it up legally is secondary. His reputation comes first. |
DonPiiko:A man's better looks or financial stability compared to a woman's are clear-cut justifications for proving he didn't rape her. Men of power and good looks have been proven to rapé even children and preteens. Men have even raped mad and physically challenged women. Still, men shouldn't be lampoon in such cases until the allegations are proven to be more than unfounded - proven to be real. If you are meeting with a girl, I guess it's safe to have evidence (lexical ,verbal or pictorial) that she agreed to the rendezvous willingly. One can never be too safe. |
FALSE RAPE ALLEGATIONS (ON SOCIAL MEDIA) : HOW DO MEN PROTECT THEMSELVES? |
There's understandably so much angst amonst Nigerian football lovers but certain fans got something out of the game - Messi qualified and he wasn't humiliated. For we his fans, it's consolation enough. That stated, refereeing decisions have been awful, the VAR regardless. Mascherano should have been penalized, again, for the handball in the duel with Ighalo and Nigeria awarded a penalty. England got awarded two penalties against Panama so there's precedence. |
neezar:The G.O.A.T deserves nothing less. |
Gooalll! King Messi! We promised the G.O.A.T would come through. Cc: Kellycute Gbosaa Cool10 |
Icon4s:Let's arrive at a middle ground. Nigeria 11: 10 Messi. At least he'd be the highest goal scorer - he'd go home robed in pride and glory. ![]() I think I can learn to live with that. The G.O.A.T can't exit this tournament under a dark cloud. That'd be too much to handle after the 2014 World Cup final. |
Icon4s: COOL10:I understand your positions and I'd criticize me too for feeling that way if I wasn't one already. I suppose for most Messi fans, the irrationality is born out of the need to see him have one (or many, even) over Ronaldo and cementing his place as the "G.O.A.T" as we call him. What we actually mean is, while we love the Super Eagles and would want to see us win the game, we'd rather Messi (Argentina) benefits from our loss (if we lose) than any other team/player. Of course, there are exceptions to my sweeping generalization about Barça fans supporting Messi tomorrow - there are always exceptions to any such rule or assertion, you two being examples. But MOST Nigerian Barça fans want Messi to progress to the next stage, even if it's at our expense, sadly. All you need do is search out posts by Nigerian 'Messi fans' on social media platforms (Twitter, especially) and the interactions with them/us off the internet. ![]() Again, it's an oddly irrational loyalty. We all know this. |
Danielnino00:He's not alone. Most Nigerian Barça fans want Messi (Argentina) to win; to win every international competition, even if it's against us. It's probably unpatriotic but we can't even explain away the irrationality. Only Barça fans understand why we are that fanatical. It is wrong but it feels so right. |
His beard style is alright but he should reduce the hair mass on his head. A 'low-crop' hairstyle with laser-sharp hairlines would be perfect. |
While religion and spirituality have their places in our lives, I resent people who are religious fanatics. Once your decisions are based on "...But my pastor said...", that's it for me. Be rational - think for yourself. As a girl, once you even start posting "...My pastor said..." all over your social media pages and going out of your way to throw your religiosity in other people's faces 'cause, for some reason, it'd make you appear saintly, my resentment for you starts. |
ozoebuka1:I celebrated Messi' goals against us in the 2014 and I was almost 'lynched'. ![]() Folks couldn't understand my 'blind' loyalty - bothering on unpatriotic tendencies- but it's not my fault they under-appreciate the god of soccer - Messi. |
fratermathy:They are Scandinavians - they are Vikings. Get the double entendre? |
ozoebuka1:Oh! I thought it was weird of me to think the same. If Nigeria wins and Argentina beats us in the next game , Messi would qualify. This is probably unpatriotic but we 'Messi stans' do not care. |
Rosay15:[b] It actually does. The picture depicts a girl in the throes of passion, lost in the pleasurable sensations of sex receiving a phone call. ...A phone call which in this case might be from a lover or love interest who is faraway and who's getting played. Women do it regularly. Several guys can attest to this. ![]() |
dangotesmummy:You are so half-witted you couldn't check to see the gender-designate close to my moniker is (m) which is 'male' and to check my post history to view conversations with others to know you have been wrong about my gender. Your careless, uncoordinated approach to issues is why a ten-year-old girl swindled you of #650 - your weekly earning from your pepper stall at Oshodi Market - and gave you counterfeit naira notes instead. Your inability to pay attention to details was the reason Madam Folake sent you packing two days after she hired you as a house girl many years ago when you cooked ewedu soup with industrial sugar. You always disgrace yourself, Nofisat. Ogbomosho weeps for you! |

SMH. I pity the Woman in your life.

