₦airaland Forum

From your responses, looks like u r still emotionally attached to the babe..u can lie to us but be true to urself, if u still like the babe, don't do it...Office romance 9 out of 10 times never ends well.
If u had come out straight to ask if u should take her back(insteading of this hide n seek u r playing with us), i for tell u where they they sell sense.

DaddyRochie1642:
You should ask yourself if this same so called EX can do the same for you.... Don't cross river for someone that will never cross gutter for you.

I dont think Life works this way, most times we reap somewhere and sow elsewhere

Godada:


Don't you have a sister or someone else? You gotta actually move on from a relationship that crashed

did u read his post completely? That he has moved on does not mean he cannot help an ex. Howvever he should protect himself as much as possible. If its such a sensitive position where the lady's misbehaviour can affect his own job, make e pass

Just Imagine ....if this wasnt discovered this one would probably get ticket to become House of Reps member in future......In Nigeria Thieves become leaders..thats what you get when u dont appoint based on ability. Dude must have worked hard towards the election of the governor and the appointment was a 'Thank you'

mrwonlasewonie:
yinmu

looooooooooooool

Put the news appropriately. NIGERIA TAKES POSSESSION OF IBORI'S 4.2mpounds LOOT THAT WILL BE RE-LOOTED BY ANOTHER LOOTER

Just imagine this one with the power of the Presidency...una go hear am for this country....Ordinary member of OBJs caninet then, he was riding Atiku like camel...same thing he did with osinbajo....Give this midget small power, everywhere go scatter

Fear short people

Una wahala too much on this matter...

I feel sorry for the woman, ideally he should rot in jail, BUT the law is a mess

mrwonlasewonie:
in Nigerian setting,a 20 something year old that is buying cars worth millions of Naira IS DEFINITELY INTO FRAUD, STEALING, KIDNAPPING, ROBBING,DRUG BUISNESS Or anything that smells of ctime

I said what I said.we are all Nigerians we know/ understand how the system works

Most of them, not all my brother. People are making legit millions online. Information is power. I agree most young men living recklessly n spending on frivolities are into fraud n all these things u mentioned. Because even money made legitimately online requires work n some sort of stress. But believe me a young man in his 20s with the right info and luck can make millions and drive big cars and live quite big.

mrwonlasewonie:
yoruba elders will say a child is not a laundry man but everyday he brings home new clothes,you saw the legs of a thief and you didn't grab it.
What is a 20 something year old Nigerian doing with cars worth millions of Naira if not criminality
This 20somethings have cars bigger than their age and yet they won't live a low key life, they'll be living a lousy life so what do you expect

See mindset. My brother hustle o... make every success of a young man no dey look like fraud to u

Springboot:
Nigeria youths are finished, see them defending fraud

Think am...Who get weytin to hide no go get liver come out come protest like dis...except the boys don't have sense....not saying there are no fraudsters there o, that city is notorious for yahoo Boys,

jayboy112233:
Sorry I posted this on here.
Please i need your sincere advice most especially from the married men and women here.

Can a guy who is earning 80k in Lagos marry with that income?

31yrs and family have started bringing issue of marriage. Citing the advantages of early marriage and disadvantages of late marriage, that it's not good to have your kids in secondary school @60yrs when you should be relaxing.

Yes U can marry with a salary of 80k(me i for say make rethink am sha), it all depends on the lifestyle you and your wife choose to have. But it looks like the reason u wana get married now is beacuse ur family is pressurizing you to do so, it should be up to u and ur partner, not ur family, not her family.

Noblepeace:
i married 2006 with salary of 84k, but i make sure that i save 50k monthly come rain come sun. i was leaving in one room self-contain in ajegunle. if ur prudent and marry economical lady u will enjoy d marriage with 80k

86k in 2006 na very cool pay...In 2006 150k would still get you a nice 2 bedroom apartment if not 3 sef

federalgodey:
Very well!
My younger bro earns 40k in Lagos and he's happily married to a medical Doctor

married to a medical doctor that earns how much

Seyi62:
Location: Lagos Berger
Price: 50m
Contact: 07069254351
Fixtures includes;
Car Port
10 units of split AC
Standby generator worth 4m
Security post
Interlocking

Please what is d plot size and what paper is available

Benrosaria:
Yea we all know how gullible we are, but my point clear is the best marketing strat should be on the pooor and not the rich. Bring a child from the trench, groom the child while you use this product on the child and tell me you won’t buy the soap if you are way above 40.
Misplaced priority

I get your point but Businesses n Corporate organizations care about immediate success. They prefer to pay for success than groom it. Businesses succeed based on the needs of the market. If most of us identify with a kind of gutter to glory story, corporate organizations will package that model for their adverts. If majority of us are obsessed with how celebrities live, then a business man will give us that model. What they do is business, not charity, even behind their CSR, business motives dey there.

Benrosaria:
So marketing is about using the rich to advertise and expecting the poor to buy... cause davidos daughter isn’t using Eva baby soap to look this good if really she would be using Eva soap she is an ambassador and won’t be expected to buy one till her contract ends.

Marketing sucks

It's about people with influence pretending a product is d reason they are the way fans perceive dem. And since in Nigeria we love to follow trend, rather than look at things critically, then that wil be a good marketing strategy.

egobeket:
Eva soap couldn't give the contract to the less privilege that patronizes them. Am not sure if the little girl has ever used Eva soap to bath.

This life is a mess....everything is for show, from politics to religion to corporate branding/CSR....just get urself in a circle that matter, however u can, for d sake of ur kids, because nothing will change in the future.

egobeket:
Eva soap couldn't give the contract to the less privilege that patronizes them. Am not sure if the little girl has ever used Eva soap to bath.

Even the ones that will be given to her, only God knows where they will end up

northbird:
Have you made such before in PH? No conjectures, op needs facts backed by figures. As it stands, the most lucrative city for e-hailing is still Lagos.
Even in Lagos 100k/week is still a tall order.

2blockus
1.stick with your job.
2.Drive on weekends, don't give your car out on rental or HP

I agree with ur No.2 totally, However that no1, let him not keep postponing, time waits for no one, i wonder how much poster can even save from a 100k bank job(possibly 50k or even far less) and progression doesnt look certain , he should try and drive himself n get other skills, particulary if he can do tech

Kingfragz:
get a driver and give out your car on rentals

u wont tell him to endeavour to inspect his car as frequently as every week

Eryyy92:
Sir please keep your bank job
100k monthly currently in Nigeria is no joke
90% of persons advising you to resign don't have any meaningful job/business
You can start savings or better still invest in cryptos and stocks with 5-10% of your monthly salary.
As for your car, if the distance to work is far, keep your car I don't think it would cost much maintenance as you only drive in the morning and evening then occasionally during weekends
If you have a wife, get her engaged in a descent profitable venture
Please and please
Don't sack yourself
Driving work isn't easy as you think
Save and invest for the raining days
Thanks and God bless your family

Dont advice someone to just invest in crypto if u wont make dem understand the fundamentals of crypto.......the best approach to crypto is to buy and forget, in some cases for years.....put 5m in crypto now, e fit become 2m in 2 months, but that 2m can become 100m in years ....its difficult to advice the poster without knowing his long term goals.....if hes looking at travelling out OR raising funds for some business, he should do uber/bolt......he has higher chances of raising funds for something bigger compared to 100k salary...He should not give car out on Higher Purchase..except he has a mechanism to inspect the car every week and retrieve his car almost immediately

which federal government job be dat, weytin u wan go do for dubai...oga give us the full details before we go advice u appropriately. CBN na Federal government job, NIMASA na federal government job, ministry too na federal government job,

Jazzman01:
The man is guilty. A video of him begging profusely for mercy has gone viral online.

U dont know lawyers sha...they will turn the case around, they will argue why their client had no option but to agree with the people interrogating him for his safety.....the problem here is the Law, the law is too weak on these kind of crimes, sexually molesting OR trying to seduce a child should attract express 15years in jail, no need of negotiation...dat way the video would be sufficient. I was surprised to read that the law is treating harrassment with penetration differently from harrassment without penetration.

abbey621:
Yea in a perfect world this would be a solution but in 9ja it won't work. Average parents spend nothing less than 12 hours away from their kids per day, the poorer they are the more likely they are to be concerned about safety and the more likely they are to leave their kids with a neighbor, aunty or uncle. In this particular case because of the high profile people involved and the level of witnesses, Ijesha cannot escape it. The words "I MOL,ESTED HER" came out of his mouth, the video shown is just one part, there is another video that shows him entering the house, undressing etc, even if the first video was not a nail on the coffin, the second one will crucify him and the Ijesha that I saw int he video looks stupid enough to go to court and say yes I molested her .

his lawyers and people supporting him(of course he has have sympathizers). They will have access to him and will be advising him on what to say and what not to say, so he can get out of it or probably get a lighter sentence......Thats why i fear lawyers

Roddwave:
o boy see levels
So even cbn governor's calls gets rejected
Na waoo
God elevate me make me dey reject Minister's call

Bank owners are so so big....In Nigeria, money controls power. See the narrative of the CBN governor sef, e be like when small boy do him oga bad thing, e come dey explain himself make d oga no too vex.

abbey621:
If you watched the video you would know that guilt has already been established, what remains now is motive. Ijesha himself confessed to battling spiritual forces for years now so there's no witchhunt here, they did not hold a gun to his head, they did not even call boys to tie him up and pour petrol on him, he confessed and even smiled in the video. What remains to be seen is whether he is sorry for the act itself or sorry that he got caught. Either way, man will likely rot in prison.

Unfortunately, the law is stupid. What can be termed a confession in d eyes of stupid law is when someone says I, so so so so so, did this and that and I am not making this confession under duress....Its very unfortunate the law is weak. I also understand there's a technical clause that can be used to knock the molestation/rape incident of 7 years ago off because e dun tay.
Going forward, d solution to this thing is that ladies should be encouraged to speak up immediately, without stigma or backlash from the society. Parents should please be friends with their kids, ensure ur kids can confide in you....study ur child/ward and see what works for him or her, do what u can to earn their trust n confidence.

They should add 3 and 4 together for him, make e no serve am concurrently.
I am surprised indecent treatment of a child is not 15 years.

I agree with the person that said u should remove dem emojis 4 d sake of professionalism. Also change the 'an hardworking' to 'a hardworking'

Kingcredo:
I recently finished my final undergraduate exams and staying idle will not be a good decision for me. Now, I am having this particular person on my social network, who is a school owner. I am thinking of contacting him to consider me for a role.
Please will this be a good decision?

The world today is so unconventional, norms no longer exist, shoot your shot.... Be different from others that will follow the conventional means to apply, stand out from the crowd.