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The rampancy of rape in our society is alarming. On a daily basis, we hear about people who got raped on Radio and on Television. We read about it in Newspapers. I have received messages in my e-mail of people who narrated their experiences as regards this nefarious act. My intention is to help reduce its occurrence or totally stop it through my writings. So, we are starting off with an article on its causes and how to prevent rape. Nevertheless, rape is the crime of forcing someone to have sex, especially by using violence. More so, It is also the act of forcing sexual intercourse upon another person without their consent. Any sexual activity that is not consensual is regarded as rape. See This: The Stats Of That Act Five Causes Of Rape • The Rapist Factor Please, read this passage carefully and pay extra attention on the capitalized words. Deuteronomy 22:25-27 [25]But if a man find a betrothed damsel in the field, and the man FORCE HER, and LIE WITH HER: then the MAN ONLY that lay with HER SHALL DIE: [26]But unto the damsel thou shalt do nothing; there is in the damsel no sin worthy of death: for as when a man riseth against his neighbour, and slayeth him, even so is this matter: [27]For he found her in the field, and the betrothed DAMSEL CRIED, and there was none to save her. Two things are be to noted here, the man who raped the damsel shall be put to death. And rape is seen as a sin of murder. According to this passage, the blame was upon the rapist — the man. Because the lady cried out and there was no one to help. So, it was not the fault of such lady. Causes Of Sexual Violence Rapists Have Issues Here is my point; it is unfair to blame the female for being a victim of rape. It is true that some ladies dress indecently. But that shouldn’t be a reason to forcefully have sex with someone. Every day, I walk on the street and I see people who dress indecently. Does that mean I should be raping every woman who dresses indecently? No! Additionally, I have heard of cases where some women raped the men. But it is not as prevalent as that of the women. In other words, those who rape the opposite sex are those who have problem with their sexuality. The rapist is the first cause of rape and not the victim. Before You Blame A Victim Whenever a victim of rape is seen. Don’t be quick to blame the victim. But perceive the rapist as the first cause of that act. A person who has problem with his sexuality is the one who assault people sexually. I don’t care if he is a Pastor, Bishop or a lecturer. No normal person in his/her right state of mind will forcefully have sex with someone. Or will you say a 7-year old girl that got raped by a 40-year old man deserves to be blamed? Will you say it was the little child’s fault? Besides, what does that little child know? Can a normal and mentally stable 40-year old man rape a little girl? Let’s stop defending a rapist. Although, they may contribute little to the act. But the total blame should be on the rapist. It is either the rapist is mentally deranged or has sexuality issues. As we have read it, Mosaic law put the blame on the rapist than the victim. Here, we can infer that the first cause of rape is the rapist. Myths About Sexual Violence NOTE : The male and the female can be the victim of rape. And I am writing with this view. It is not only the female that are being raped on a daily basis as we read in our Newspapers. Men are also being raped by their female counterpart. • Total Trust In People Read this story 2 Samuel 13:9-11 [9]And she took a pan, and poured them out before him; but he refused to eat. And Amnon said, Have out all men from me. And they went out every man from him. [10]And Amnon said unto Tamar, Bring the meat into the chamber, that I may eat of thine hand. And Tamar took the cakes which she had made, and brought them into the chamber to Amnon her brother. [11]And when she had brought them unto him to eat, he took hold of her, and said unto her, Come lie with me, my sister. Amnon raped his sister. Though they had the same father but different mothers. We can infer that Tamar got raped because she had more trust in his brother. If you don’t trust your brother as a female you can’t stay alone with him in a room. Truly, Amnon pretended! But then, that shouldn’t be a reason for staying with him alone after the men had left. Flee From The Appearance Of Evil Read this; 1 Thessalonians 5:22 [22]Abstain from all appearance of evil. Maybe she never thought his brother could rape him. And this is why some people have been victimized today. They couldn’t just believe their pastors could sexually assault them and they were assaulted. Trust no man. You won’t find it anywhere in the Bible where God said we should trust in man. He said we should trust in Him. But he reiterated in His word never to trust in any man. Expressly, in Jeremiah 17:5 God went as far as cursing anyone who trust in any man. In Today’s World Many people have been sexually assaulted because of the total trust they have in people. Some ladies unduly goes out with the elderly ones whom they feel they will never rape them. But these people end up raping them. Also, some men of God have raped many of their female members and they still threaten them not to speak out. Why? Some women have forgotten that pastors are mortal not immortal. So, they are not immune to sin. Trust no man! Calling: How To Know What God Has Created You To Do On Earth • Evil Company 2 Samuel 13:3,5 [3]But Amnon had a friend, whose name was Jonadab, the son of Shimeah David’s brother: and Jonadab was a very subtil man. [5]And Jonadab said unto him, Lay thee down on thy bed, and make thyself sick: and when thy father cometh to see thee, say unto him, I pray thee, let my sister Tamar come, and give me meat, and dress the meat in my sight, that I may see it, and eat it at her hand. Amnon was advised by his friend to pretend in order to rape his sister and he did that. Candidly, he wouldn’t have thought of that if he had a good friend. His friend who have advised him to tell the King about it. But his friend contributed to his bad behavior. Tunde Korede: Three Types Of Relationship You Should Avoid Actually, bad company corrupts good manners. Let’s be careful of whom we have as friends. If you have known your friend as a rapist, there’s no need for your friendship. Leave such person. Why? For you not to be his/her victim or next target to assault sexually. Must Read: Why Men Commit Sexual Assault • Indecent Dressing Proverbs 7:10 [10]And, behold, there met him a woman with the attire of an harlot, and subtil of heart. God’s Word talks about the attire of an harlot. In other words, there is a way a sex worker dresses that triggers the thought of sex. To some extent, indecent dressing contribute to the rampancy of rape. Are you asking me how? 5 Things To Consider Before Dressing Well, our level of self-control differs. There are some men who cannot control themselves anymore whenever they set their eyes on sexily dressed ladies. Immediately, the devil in them will be triggered. Indecent dressing is not the main cause of rape but it triggers evil intention. Play your own part by dressing well. Don’t let your dressing put you into trouble. Dear friend, don’t say it doesn’t matter. Don’t look sexy. A sexy person is someone who is ready for sex. Beware of those who say you look sexy. Look good and dress decently. Click On This: Why You Need To Dress Well Always • Carelessness 2 Samuel 13:7 [7]Then David sent home to Tamar, saying, Go now to thy brother Amnon’s house, and dress him meat. King David should have asked Amnon if he had no cook that would prepare something for him to eat. Though, I’m not blaming him. Basically, Amnon had men who were serving him as prince. They could cook for him. Why would you want your sister to cook for you? I guess David didn’t think about all these. Parents should be careful of who they leave their children with. No matter how much you trust those people. Give your children sex education if they have grown up to that level. Let them identify sensitive parts of their body. Don’t be too busy to take care of your children. Yes, it’s important to work. But it is of utmost importance to raise godly children whose sexuality have not been damaged. My Experience With Someone See, I have been privileged to counsel a lady who have become a nymphomaniac. A nymphomaniac is someone who has been addicted to sex. She became a sex addict because of her early exposure to sex. She was frequently raped when she was at a very tender age. How To Prevent Rape • Work on yourself if you have sexuality problem. See a professionally trained counselor or explain this to a true man of God. Also, you can also send me a mail on tundekoredeblog@gmail.com. Confidentiality is guaranteed. • Dress decently, don’t expose yourself to danger by dressing like an harlot. • Be mindful of whom you choose as friends. Have friends that will enable you to grow in the Lord. Avoid sexually promiscuous people. • Please, trust nobody. There is nobody thtat the devil cannot use to achieve his goal. Trust in the Lord. All men are mortal. • Shun any form of carelessness. The Bible says; “Watch and Pray.” God’s Word did not only say you should pray alone. Be watchful as well. • Pray to God constantly that you should not fall into the hands of rapists. Pray to God for those who are victims of rape. Pray that the Lord should be with them. • Speak Out! Dear reader, let me know your thought on this. Thanks for reading! Source: http://www.tundekorede.com/rape-five-causes-of-rape-and-how-to-prevent-it/#comment-4711 |
Meet 3 Popular Hip-hop Artistes Whose Fathers Are Pastors The average person expects pastor’s children to pursue career that is in agreement with their religion. Only few Christian will see nothing wrong in a pastor’s son becoming a hip hop artistes who sings for drunkards, prostitutes or at club houses. However, there are some Nigerian artistes whose fathers are either the founder or the pastor of a particular ministry. Tunde Korede, presents to you, the artistes whose fathers are pastors. (1) Lil’ Kesh Singer, Lil Kesh Keshiro Ololade popularly known as Lil’ Kesh, is a Nigerian songwriter, rapper and singer whose father is a pastor. Lil Kesh rose to stardom in Olamide’s YBNL record label but left after spending two years there. He revealed in an interview with Punch Newspaper that his father is a founder of a church in Lagos. Lil’ Kesh perfoming in his Dad’s Church In fact, on December 25, 2016, Lil’ Kesh stormed his father’s church to perform alongside the choristers of the church. More so, he released a video titled, ”Ishe,” in 2016 to eulogize his mother who sacrificed a lot of things for him. Lil’ Kesh maintained that his parents loved what he does for living and have been supportive. In an interview with LegitNG, he said his parents are his number one fans as they have been supportive to his music from the outset. He says, ”My Dad is a pastor and he owns a church. However, it is not like I made a conscious decision to become an artiste; it grew on me until I knew this was what I wanted to do.” (2) Zlatan Pastor's son Zlatan Ibile Omoniyi Temidayo Raphael widely known as Zlatan Ibile, is a songwriter, Hip-hop artiste, singer and dancer. He is also a son of a pastor. According to Notjustok website, Zlatan’s father is one of the pastors of the Redeemed Christian Church of God. It is amazing how he turned out to become a hip-hop artiste, despite his Christian background. When asked about his parents reaction to his career. He said, ”Before my dad became a pastor, there was a life he was living. That’s my dad, this is me. I have my own life to live. He’s trying all his possible best but at the end of the day, you can only take a donkey or the camel to the river, you can’t force it to drink…” (3) Terry G Pastor's son Terry G Gabriel Oche Amanyi, popularly known as Terry G, is a Nigerian artiste, songwriter and producer. He is known for speaking vulgar words in his songs. Also, he is known for his eccentric behaviours, controversial lyrics and uncouth words. However, Terry G is also a pastor’s son. Incredulously, he was once a chorister at the Redeemed Christian Church of God before he delved to Hip-hop. Interestingly, report has it that Pastor, E.A Adeboye, the General Overseer of the RCCG once laid his hands on him and prayed for him while he was still a chorister of the church. Additionally, according to him, he disclosed that it was the prophecy of Pastor Adeboye at the Redeemed Camp in 1996 that changed his life dramatically. QUESTION: Do you see anything wrong in a pastor’s son becoming a Hip-hop artiste? If yes, why? Source: http://www.tundekorede.com/meet-3-popular-hip-hop-artistes-whose-fathers-are-pastors/ |
The average person expects pastor’s children to pursue career that is in agreement with their religion. Only few Christian will see nothing wrong in a pastor’s son becoming a hip hop artistes who sings for drunkards, prostitutes or at club houses. However, there are some Nigerian artistes whose fathers are either the founder or the pastor of a particular ministry. Tunde Korede, presents to you, the artistes whose fathers are pastors. (1) Lil’ Kesh Singer, Lil Kesh Keshiro Ololade popularly known as Lil’ Kesh, is a Nigerian songwriter, rapper and singer whose father is a pastor. Lil Kesh rose to stardom in Olamide’s YBNL record label but left after spending two years there. He revealed in an interview with Punch Newspaper that his father is a founder of a church in Lagos. Pastor's son Lil’ Kesh perfoming in his Dad’s Church In fact, on December 25, 2016, Lil’ Kesh stormed his father’s church to perform alongside the choristers of the church. More so, he released a video titled, ”Ishe,” in 2016 to eulogize his mother who sacrificed a lot of things for him. Lil’ Kesh maintained that his parents loved what he does for living and have been supportive. In an interview with LegitNG, he said his parents are his number one fans as they have been supportive to his music from the outset. He says, ”My Dad is a pastor and he owns a church. However, it is not like I made a conscious decision to become an artiste; it grew on me until I knew this was what I wanted to do.” (2) Zlatan Zlatan Ibile Omoniyi Temidayo Raphael widely known as Zlatan Ibile, is a songwriter, Hip-hop artiste, singer and dancer. He is also a son of a pastor. According to Notjustok website, Zlatan’s father is one of the pastors of the Redeemed Christian Church of God. It is amazing how he turned out to become a hip-hop artiste, despite his Christian background. When asked about his parents reaction to his career. He said, ”Before my dad became a pastor, there was a life he was living. That’s my dad, this is me. I have my own life to live. He’s trying all his possible best but at the end of the day, you can only take a donkey or the camel to the river, you can’t force it to drink…” (3) Terry G Terry G Gabriel Oche Amanyi, popularly known as Terry G, is a Nigerian artiste, songwriter and producer. He is known for speaking vulgar words in his songs. Also, he is known for his eccentric behaviours, controversial lyrics and uncouth words. However, Terry G is also a pastor’s son. Incredulously, he was once a chorister at the Redeemed Christian Church of God before he delved to Hip-hop. Interestingly, report has it that Pastor, E.A Adeboye, the General Overseer of the RCCG once laid his hands on him and prayed for him while he was still a chorister of the church. Additionally, according to him, he disclosed that it was the prophecy of Pastor Adeboye at the Redeemed Camp in 1996 that changed his life dramatically. QUESTION: Do you see anything wrong in a pastor’s son becoming a Hip-hop artiste? If yes, why? Source: http://www.tundekorede.com/meet-3-popular-hip-hop-artistes-whose-fathers-are-pastors/ |
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At a time like this, there is need for us to encourage each other. Many Christians depend solely on what is preached in Church every Sunday. Some don’t have the capacity to pray alone for hours. The outbreak of Coronavirus has made many countries to ban public gathering, especially religious gathering. The idea of running online services has only produced a lukewarm response from worshippers. Because some churches in Nigeria have chunk of members who are illiterate or who have no access to gadgets to browse. Then, what do we do for our love for God not to grow cold? How do we cope with the lockdown? Cope With The Lockdown (1) Take Preventive Measures Preventive measures have been stated by World Health Organization (WHO). Do not see people in power as your enemies. The lockdown that has been declared in some States is to help in curtailing the spread of Coronavirus. Wash your hands frequently and stay at home as much as you can. Also, keep a safe distance, and cover your cough. Most of us are aware of these measures that have been put in place to fight this enemy of man. Matthew 26:41 (NIV) says, ”Watch and pray so that you will not fall into temptation…” It is not enough to pray. The Bible enjoins us to watch and pray. So, let’s be watchful. Watch and pray so that you will not be the victim of COVID-19. Four Biblical Reasons Behind Coronavirus (2) Grow Spiritually Many of us are not even going to work. We should take advantage of this opportunity to develop ourselves in our walk with God. Instead of doing irrelevant ‘challenge’ online that doesn’t contribute to one’s growth and development. Challenge yourself in a good way. If you have never read all the books in the Bible, this should be the good time to do that. Start from Genesis and purpose in your heart to complete it before this year runs out. You can even post this as a ‘challenge’ on social media. You will find serious minded Christians who will join you. Listen, the best way to kill boredom is read the mind of God — His Word. Develop your faith by reading and hearing His Word (Rom 10:17). Additionally, make sure you increase the time you spend in God’s presence this time. You can’t spend time in God’s presence and regret it. When Jesus took his three of disciples to the Mount of Transfiguration. Peter said to Jesus in Matthew 17:4, ”It is good for us to be here…” The time they spent in His presence must have been splendid for a former fisherman to have said that. Emphatically, I have said to believers who said they are bored at home to find a quiet place to pray. The problem we have is that we really do not want to grow. Dear friend, this is the time to develop yourself in the place of prayer. Grow in the Word. This time will soon be over. Tips On How To Pray Effectively (3) Be Positive Obviously, a lot of people are dying of Coronavirus daily and many are being infected on a daily basis. Hence, as believers, we are to walk by faith not by sight ( 2 Cor 5:7). In other words. we are not to allow the things we see or hear to control us. No matter what you see on Television or what you hear on Radio. Be positive. Do not join those who propagate fake news that breeds fear. Job said, the very thing he feared came upon him (Job 3:25). If you fear something to much, you will be subject to it. Concentrate more on the news that breeds hope and confidence in God. Stay safe. Eat good food and distribute to those who do not have. Spread the message that bring hope to the heart of men. Rest assured, God is a covenant keeping God. He has promised not to bring horrible diseases on His children (Deu 7:15). How To Be Positive As A Christian Stay positive! Be hopeful! You can share how you have been coping with the lockdown in the comment section. Source: http://www.tundekorede.com/how-to-cope-with-the-lockdown/ |
Coronavirus (COVID-19) is the current pandemic that is ravaging the world. It is imperative to know that it is not the first time a plague will hit the earth. There have been biblical antecedents where such were experienced. We have already examined the reason behind the outbreak of COVID-19 HERE. God’s Word is not silent about this pandemic as provisions for exemption have been made for His people. This article will enable you to prevail in this moment of pressure and fear. I have compiled the biblical solutions to this invincible enemy of man called coronavirus. (1) Fear Not There is propensity for everyone to panic when anything that kills people is at work. It is natural for us to be fearful when we hear of a disease that kills human being. But ‘fear’ is not the fruit of the Spirit. No believer is expected to panic or become fearful when negative events take place. We must realize the fact that fear cannot solve any problem. There were a total of 10 plagues God sent to Egypt before the Exodus. Whereas, God kept the Israelites safe in His Hand. What The Bible Says About Coronavirus The God who kept the Israelites safe is still alive today. He has not changed and He will never change (Mal 3:6). Job 3:25 says; ”For the thing which I greatly feared is come upon me, and that which I was afraid of is come unto me.” Irrespective of Job’s fear, it could not hinder trouble and misfortune. As a matter of fact, one could infer that trouble came upon him through the channel of fear. The fearful you become, the more you become susceptible to satanic oppression. The first solution to coronavirus is that you should increase your faith and avoid being fearful. Seven Reasons Why You Should Not Take Revenge (2) Feed On God’s Word My son, attend to my words; incline thine ear unto my sayings For they are life unto those that find them, and HEALTH TO ALL THEIR FLESH. Proverbs 4:20, 22 The Word of God imparts healing and energizes the body, no matter who you are. The more you study His Word, the healthier you become. Apart from the natural immune system that your body has. God’s Word increases your immunity and fight against every disease. We should cease this opportunity to study God’s Word. It is not enough to read about preventive measures. However, the most important thing is to get the Word in you. Because all things were created. So, everything is subject to the dominion of the world, even coronavirus. Specifically, if you want the Word to work for you. Read, study, meditate on the Word and confess it. Instead of sitting down before the TV set all day watching every latest news about COVID-19. Take time to develop your Spirit man. Study the Word and increase your immunity against every form of disease. More so, the only thing that set the Israelites free from their sicknesses and diseases is the Word they received (Psalm 107:20). (3) Obey Natural Laws Many of the safety measures health practitioners asked us to take are biblical. Some of these measures are practised in the Old Testament. For instance, seven days of isolation is recommended for those who have infectious disease (Lev 13:4). If there is no recovery from that disease, the person should continue to live in isolation (Lev 13:5). This is done in order to prevent the disease from spreading. In other words, if you are showing symptoms of coronavirus. Do not keep on spreading it. Make this known to health care givers and through this the disease will be prevented from spreading. Wash your hands regularly with sanitizers or soaps and water. Aaron and his sons were asked to wash their hands before entering the Tent of Meeting (Exo 30:17-21). Stop being unreasonably religious. Stop tempting God. Take preventive measures as recommended by World Health Organization (WHO).Maintain social distancing as well. Reasons Why You Should Celebrate Your Birthday (4) Pray 2 Chronicles 7:13-14 [13]If I shut up heaven that there be no rain, or if I command the locusts to devour the land, or IF I SEND PESTILENCE AMONG MY PEOPLE; [14]If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, AND PRAY, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land. Prayed stops evil. When believers pray, miracles happen. We can change times and seasons through prayer. This time of plague can be changed if we can pray. Let’s keep praying. Humble yourself and stand in the gap for others. May the Lord heal our land in the name of Jesus. God bless you all! Source: http://www.tundekorede.com/four-biblical-solutions-to-coronavirus-must-read/ |
Coronavirus (COVID-19) is the current pandemic that is ravaging the world. It is imperative to know that it is not the first time a plague will hit the earth. There have been biblical antecedents where such were experienced. We have already examined the reason behind the outbreak of COVID-19 HERE. God’s Word is not silent about this pandemic as provisions for exemption have been made for His people. This article will enable you to prevail in this moment of pressure and fear. I have compiled the biblical solutions to this invincible enemy of man called coronavirus. (1) Fear Not There is propensity for everyone to panic when anything that kills people is at work. It is natural for us to be fearful when we hear of a disease that kills human being. But ‘fear’ is not the fruit of the Spirit. No believer is expected to panic or become fearful when negative events take place. We must realize the fact that fear cannot solve any problem. There were a total of 10 plagues God sent to Egypt before the Exodus. Whereas, God kept the Israelites safe in His Hand. The God who kept the Israelites safe is still alive today. He has not changed and He will never change (Mal 3:6). Job 3:25 says; ”For the thing which I greatly feared is come upon me, and that which I was afraid of is come unto me.” Irrespective of Job’s fear, it could not hinder trouble and misfortune. As a matter of fact, one could infer that trouble came upon him through the channel of fear. The fearful you become, the more you become susceptible to satanic oppression. The first solution to coronavirus is that you should increase your faith and avoid being fearful. Seven Reasons Why You Should Not Take Revenge (2) Feed On God’s Word My son, attend to my words; incline thine ear unto my sayings For they are life unto those that find them, and HEALTH TO ALL THEIR FLESH. Proverbs 4:20, 22 The Word of God imparts healing and energizes the body, no matter who you are. The more you study His Word, the healthier you become. Apart from the natural immune system that your body has. God’s Word increases your immunity and fight against every disease. We should cease this opportunity to study God’s Word. It is not enough to read about preventive measures. However, the most important thing is to get the Word in you. Because all things were created. So, everything is subject to the dominion of the world, even coronavirus. Specifically, if you want the Word to work for you. Read, study, meditate on the Word and confess it. Instead of sitting down before the TV set all day watching every latest news about COVID-19. Take time to develop your Spirit man. Study the Word and increase your immunity against every form of disease. More so, the only thing that set the Israelites free from their sicknesses and diseases is the Word they received (Psalm 107:20). (3) Obey Natural Laws Many of the safety measures health practitioners asked us to take are biblical. Some of these measures are practised in the Old Testament. For instance, seven days of isolation is recommended for those who have infectious disease (Lev 13:4). If there is no recovery from that disease, the person should continue to live in isolation (Lev 13:5). This is done in order to prevent the disease from spreading. In other words, if you are showing symptoms of coronavirus. Do not keep on spreading it. Make this known to health care givers and through this the disease will be prevented from spreading. Wash your hands regularly with sanitizers or soaps and water. Aaron and his sons were asked to wash their hands before entering the Tent of Meeting (Exo 30:17-21). Stop being unreasonably religious. Stop tempting God. Take preventive measures as recommended by World Health Organization (WHO). Maintain social distancing as well. Reasons Why You Should Celebrate Your Birthday (4) Pray 2 Chronicles 7:13-14 [13]If I shut up heaven that there be no rain, or if I command the locusts to devour the land, or IF I SEND PESTILENCE AMONG MY PEOPLE; [14]If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, AND PRAY, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land. Prayer stops evil. When believers pray, miracles happen. We can change times and seasons through prayer. This time of plague can be changed if we can pray. Let’s keep praying. Humble yourself and stand in the gap for others. May the Lord heal our land in the name of Jesus. God bless you! Let me know your thought about this article. Source: http://www.tundekorede.com/four-biblical-solutions-to-coronavirus-must-read/ |
Without embellishment, on a daily basis pseudo prophets are increasing and miracle-seeking people are being entrapped by them. They have devised unscrupulous means through which they exploit people and still go scot-free. By implicative, a lot of believers now see ministers of the gospel as swindlers who should not be trusted. Many say, ”All pastors are fake.” All these assertions come as a result of proliferation of false denominations, spearheaded by false ministers, thereby misrepresenting Christianity. Jesus said that by their fruits we shall recognize them (Mat 7:20). In other words, believers who are oblivious of the schemes/strategies of pseudo prophets will fall into their hands. Once we know their signs, we will be able to avoid them. Hence, I have come up with seven strategies false ministers of the gospel use. Some of these gimmicks are trending and believers should look out for these signs so as not to be entrapped. How To Identify False Prophets 7 Gimmicks/Strategies That Will Make You Recognize False Ministers (1) Selling Prayer Materials Acts 19:11-12 11 God did extraordinary miracles through Paul, 12 so that even handkerchiefs and aprons THAT HAD TOUCHED HIM were taken to the sick, and their illnesses were cured and the evil spirits left them. Honestly, handkerchiefs were used in the days of Paul to perform signs and wonders. But the people were the ones who brought them to Paul to be touched by him. And miracles happened. There was no record that Paul sold those aprons and handkerchiefs. Hence, any prophet who blesses some materials and sells them outrageously is false. I have been to a crusade where handkerchief of #100 was sold for #1,000 each. It’s a strategy used by false ministers to enrich their pocket. It’s fine if you take an handkerchief, bottle of water or anointing oil to a minister for prayer. But something is wrong if a pastor sells a product for an outrageous amount because he has prayed upon it. Frankly, you can pray on that materials and miracles will happen. Just work on your faith. Beware! Tunde Korede: The Best Gift You Must Give To False Prophets (2) Telling Lies About Miracles That Never Took Place After Jesus Christ raised a dead child; He gave strict orders not to let anyone know about it (Mark 5:43). During Jesus earthly ministry, there were times He would perform some miracles. But He would warn people that they shouldn’t publicize it. Jesus was not the one who was going about publicizing his miracles. On the contrary, false prophets are fond of blowing their own trumpet. They will share stories of how they healed an incurable disease so as to make people develop confidence in them. Additionally, they ascribe glory to themselves, thereby making miracle-seeking members to see them as the embodiment of power. They are charlatans. Avoid them. Our testimony is Christ. Don’t let any pastor endear you with words. (3) Charging Before Prayer Pseudo Prophets Doing the unlawful Pseudo ministers charge their clients for consultation, prayer and fasting and for counseling. When Jesus was sending out his disciples. He told them that freely they have received, therefore, they should give freely (Matt 10: .Healing is to be done freely. There are ministers who charge people battling with terminal disease before praying for them. They are also false! Services are to be done freely. Even if a pastor should fast with you, he shouldn’t demand money from you. You can decide to give him money. But he should not be the one to demand the amount you must pay him. (4) Acting of Miracles/b] Pseudo prophets Pseudo prophets Fake ministers breed fake miracles. Sadly, some ministers now stage miracles. They will hire unknown men who will play different roles in order to make the movie (miracle) interesting. It is another strategy false ministers use. Daily Post: Pastors Paid Me To Perform Fake Miracles If you are seeking miracle, you will be trapped. Accept Jesus, and walk with God. However, this does not invalidate the occurrence of authentic miracles. Miracles still happen. That is why we are asked to test every spirit (1 John 4:1). [b](5) Giving Information Interestingly, fake ministers will furnish you with every information you need to know so that you can believe in them. They will tell you about your background, phone number, parents, your date of birth and other irrelevant things. So, people get shocked when these things are said by a pastor they’ve never met before. That’s why those pastors keep echoing to their clients, ”Have I ever met you before?” Beware! Some of these prophets search for your information online while many have spies all around. Once you get entrapped, they can make you do any unlawful thing. (6) Twisting Scriptures For Personal Gain Scriptures have been manipulated, wrongly interpreted and twisted with powerful exegesis by false preachers. They ask people to borrow money and give it to them. They twist the Bible to exploit believers. You need to be careful! Do not be a believer who swallows everything a pastor says hook, line and sinker. Be like the Berean members who examined the Scriptures to see if what Paul preached was true (Acts 17:11). Be a studious Christian. Never obey any instruction that contradicts the Scriptures. Why Fake Prophets Thrive In Nigeria (7) Presentation Of Scaring Vision To a woman who loves her children. They will say, ”I see one of your children in a coffin.” False ministers prophesy doom in order to get people trapped. You need to be careful. Women must learn to study the Word instead of running around from one prophet to another. Also, men must provide spiritual covering they need to provide for their family. Even if they tell you a negative vision. Reject it and pray to avert it. Thank you for reading. Please, leave a comment after reading. You can add to the list, using the comment section. Mail: tundekorede16@gmail.com Source: http://www.tundekorede.com/7-gimmicks-that-will-make-you-recognize-false-prophets/ |
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Please, tell me few modern day gimmicks that false ministers of the gospel use these days. I want to compile them in a blog post. Just tell me at least one that you know. If you have been duped by them before. Kindly tell me the strategies they used to trap you. The post will be published on Nairaland front page so as to save others. Thank you as you help me out. |
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Dressing Sometimes, we just dress to cover our unclothedness. We often forget to dress fancifully and elegantly. As good as it is to dress to cover one’s unclothedness. It cannot replace the place of nice and elegant dressing. Some people repeat clothes as if they do not have other ones. To them, it doesn’t mean anything. Whereas, it means a lot. Every believer needs to look good no matter the condition. Be patient as you dogmatically read and digest this article. Five Basic Reasons Why You Need To Dress Well Always Man Judges You Based On Your Dressing God uses what is in your heart to judge you while man uses your appearance to judge you. 1 Samuel 16:7 [7]But the LORD said unto Samuel, Look not on his countenance, or on the height of his stature; because I have refused him: for the LORD seeth not as man seeth; for MAN LOOKETH ON THE OUTWARD APPEARANCE, but the LORD LOOKETH ON THE HEART. A natural man judges based on what he sees. People hardly pay attention to the inner man. They pay more attention to the outward look than on the inner side of man. More so, nobody can lay claim to knowing all things in the heart of man. Despite this, we have the responsibility to dress well every time. If you dress well, you are not dressing well for God to see but for man to see. My friend, do not say you only need to be accepted by God. Do not forget that God will send man to help you. And that person we need your good look. Before Esther was favoured, she dressed in a way that would please the King as specified by Hegai (Esther 2:8-9). When Esther reached the presence of the King. She captivated the attention of everyone. Although, God’s favour was upon her but she spiced it up with good look. That’s why people easily look down on an anointed man of God who is not properly dressed. You need to dress well because man looks at the outward appearance. Dress Well In Order To Cover Your unclothedness Genesis 3:7,21 [7]And the eyes of them both were opened, and they knew that they were naked; and they sewed fig leaves together, and made themselves aprons. [21]Unto Adam also and to his wife did the LORD God make coats of skins, and clothed them. God originally created man naked but he later clothed him because man had realized his unclothedness. Biblically, God would have chosen to have man being naked if man he had not known he was naked. So, the primary purpose of dressing is to cover one’s unclothedness. Any style of dressing that reveals one’s unclothedness is out of God’s Word and original intention. Beloved, avoid any dressing that depicts irresponsibility, immorality, and worldliness. As a believer, you are not to dress to meet the standard of the world. You are to meet up with God’s standard. Your dressing should portray you as an ambassador of Christ. When people see you; don’t let them see Jesus in your words alone. Let them see Jesus in your dressing too. It is not possible for you to be saved and be dressing like an unsaved person. Summarily, you need to dress well in order not to violate God’s standard. You Will Be Addressed The Way You Are Dressed My friend, you don’t need any preacher to tell you that. If you’ve never done this before, please try it. Just dress like a pastor one day. Put on your suit, hold your Bible and have a good haircut. Then, try to walk around your street. If no one calls you pastor, come and slap me. Let people address you well by dressing well. If you dress badly, you will be addressed badly. We have many carnal people living in this world. People who only care about what you wear before they respect you. Honour can come to you if you dress honourably. You need to dress well for you to be honourably addressed. Five Wrong Reasons For Attending Church Your Dressing Portrays Who You Are Proverbs 7:10 [10]And, behold, there met him a woman with the ATTIRE OF AN HARLOT, and subtil of heart Bible speaks on the attire of an harlot. In other words, there is a specific way an harlot is expected to dress. More so, that means there is a way a person can dress that will make you think that, that person is an harlot. See, don’t implicate yourself. Although, wherever the Spirit of the Lord is there is liberty. But you are not to misuse that opportunity. Are you wondering why people address you without respect? Believe me, it might be because of your dressing. People have the propensity to address you based on how they perceive you. And how you look. Dress To Attract Favour For example, if you are a pastoress and you dress like an harlot. You’ll still be addressed as an harlot. Dress to attract the favour of men. Nobody dresses to attract God’s favour. Throughout the scriptures, God did not favour anyone because he/she dressed elegantly. God looks into your heart not your dress. That’s why you need to dress well because people will always judge you with your outward appearance. Only few men try to seek the face of God before they know who you truly are. Present yourself as a responsible person. I know you are a responsible person. But let your dressing portray you as a responsible person. How To Know Someone Is About a to Commit Sucide Dress To Attract Dignity God wants you to dress in order to attract dignity. Please read this; “Make a sacred garments for your brother Aaron, to give him dignity and honour.” – Exodus 28:2. He wanted Aaron to dress in order to attract dignity and honour. He also want you to dress to attract dignity and honour. Shun any dressing that demeans your status. Shun any dressing that makes people to easily disrespect you or make people to see you as a pauper. Beloved, God wants you to attract dignity and honour. He is not delighted whenever people dishonour you. If God could allow Aaron to dress in a certain way in order for him to be respected. The implication is that; He wants you to dress well. Stop giving irrelevant excuses for dressing badly. It doesn’t cost much to look good. You only need to buy clothes with sense. Buy clothes that fit you not oversize. Know your taste. Buy clothes that reveal God’s glory and smile as you wear them. More • Married people need to be aware of the fact that they need to dress to please their spouse. See, when you are alone with your spouse. You don’t need much secrecy. But you need to cover your unclothedness when you are not alone with your spouse. • Young people also need to dress well for potential suitors to locate them. Don’t be too spiritual to the extent that you dress shabbily. • Dress to glorify God. Do not dress to fulfil the lust of the flesh. Do not allow people to see you and be thinking of sex. • Dressing determines who proposes to you. If you dress like a prostitute, expect proposals from louts. Definitely, If you dress like a believer, expect proposals from believers. Like begets like. You attract who you are. Let me have your thought on this piece. Do you have any question for me? Source: http://www.tundekorede.com/dressing-why-you-need-to-dress-well-always/
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God gifted married people with the most enjoyable act — the act of sexual intimacy. The importance of sex has been debased and ignominiously represented by the world to the extent that believers have joined the trend.Source: http://www.tundekorede.com/five-things-every-believer-must-know-about-sex/
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Seven Reasons Why Christians Should Stop Taking AlcoholSource: http://www.tundekorede.com/7-reasons-why-every-christian-must-stop-drinking-alcohol/ |
Aphroditee:Do all these and you will never be poor. And if you are still poor, it's a proof that you haven't gotten rid of those habits. Thanks. |
Conscience is a person’s moral sense of right and wrong viewed as a guide to one’s behaviour. It is a vigilant eye that holds up imagination and acts for censure or approval. Your conscience is your God-ordained policeman. Therefore, it is sinful for you to willfully act against it. God has given every living soul conscience. There is nobody that does not have it. This has nothing to do with salvation. I don’t care if you have given your life to Christ or not. The crux of the matter is that; you have a conscience that you must obey. It is given to you by God to enable you live a morally upright life. If you know the five types of conscience that we have, you will understand why some people are heartless. Five Types Of Conscience • Good Conscience 1 Peter 3:16 [16]Having a GOOD CONSCIENCE; that, whereas they speak evil of you, as of evildoers, they may be ashamed that falsely accuse your good conversation in Christ. This is the natural conscience that God has given to every man to serve as everyone’s guide. In the beginning, everything the Lord created was good. Having a good conscience requires a lot of hard work and determination. Because you will be tempted to tell lies, cheat on your spouse and deny your guide several times. Train it Because it can be trained to be good, weak, defiled or dead. The best one to have is good. If your conscience is good, you will be able to do the right thing. Even, whenever you do anything bad, it will quickly correct you. One can make his God ordained policeman to be dead due to one’s disobedience to its voice. A good one will enable you live to please God. If you dogmatically obey your conscience, you won’t need professional counsellors to tell you what you need to do. Just obey your conscience. Again, it is that voice that usually warns you whenever you want to steal. It is that voice that tells you to seek the good of others all the time. Furthermore, it is that good voice that tells you to tell the truth all the time. It is that voice that convicts you whenever you lie. Every human being has this voice within them and if we all obey it, we will have a better world. Death: How To Know When And How You Will die • Weak One 1 Corinthians 8:12 [12]But when ye sin so against the brethren, and wound their WEAK CONSCIENCE, ye sin against Christ. This kind of conscience is vulnerable to environmental pressure as it is susceptible to change. Anyone who has this type can be easily influenced. More so, that person may be a very strong Christian with a strong Christian foundation. But can be easily influenced by the new set of people he is lives it. In his new environment, if they steal people’s belongings. He/she can also join them as he will see nothing wrong in stealing. So, any Christian who has weak conscience is a person of weak faith. Because he has made his conscience to be fragile. That is why you need to be careful of whom you choose as friends. Environmental Pressure Environmental influence or pressure can make a conscience weak. For instance, you know bribery is sinful. But you work in an establishment where bribery is the other of the day. Believe me, you could be forced to assume that bribery is not sinful because some of your bosses are involved. My friend, prayerfully choose where you want to work, live and serve God. Please, do. Suicide: How To Know When Someone Is About To Commit Suicide • Defiled One Titus 1:15 [15]Unto the pure all things are pure: but unto them that are defiled and unbelieving is nothing pure; but even their mind and CONSCIENCE IS DEFILED. People in this category have successfully defiled their God-ordained policeman. Whereas, they claim they truly know God but their deeds deny Him. As a matter of fact, some prophets or evangelists are in this category. They can preach well but their lifestyle is contrary to what they preach. The reason is, they have defiled their God-ordained policeman. A defiled conscience is the one that has been remoulded through sin and disobedience. Stay Strong: Six Ways To Stay Strong During Difficult Times • Evil One Hebrews 10:22 [22]Let us draw near with a true heart in full assurance of faith, having our hearts sprinkled from an EVIL CONSCIENCE and our bodies washed with pure water. Truthfully, a person with an evil conscience is someone who has trained himself/herself to do evil. This person has lied to the extent that lies have become truth to him. Additionally, there is hardly no evil thing someone like this cannot do. Because he/she has trained his God-ordained policeman to accept evil as a lifestyle Without mincing words, this is why some politicians can kill people and they will never feel guilty. This is why some people are heartless and inhumane. The best gift one can give to his God-ordained policeman is to obey its leading. Because it cannot lead you to do the wrong thing. Whenever your (God-ordained policeman) corrects you. Please, listen and change. If you refuse to listen to its leading, you will end up having an evil conscience. • Dead One 1 Timothy 4:2 [2]Speaking lies in hypocrisy; HAVING THEIR CONSCIENCE SEARED WITH A HOT IRON; Practically, when you place a hot on a hour body part for too long. It can kill the cells of your body. This will make it unresponsive to outside world. Similarly, when you sear your conscience with hot iron. You have killed its functionality. It will be unable to work as expected. In other words, when something is dead, it means that thing is no more working again. God has given you a natural guide in life that will make you do the right thing in life. Never allow selfishness and wrongdoing to kill it. Summary • Every human being is blessed with a guide and an instructor. If everyone listen to this God-ordained policeman, we will all do the right thing. • Having a good conscience should be the goal of every believer in order for us not to do unlawful things. • Don’t quickly blame those who commit atrocities or do barbaric things. It may be because of their dead conscience. That’s why we must train our conscience by doing the right thing all the time. Let me have your thought on this piece/article. Please, don’t forget to share your thoughts, using the comment section. Stay blessed. Source: http://www.tundekorede.com/types-of-conscience-and-why-some-people-are-heartless/ |
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Nobody loves poverty because it does not dignity anyone. Our society honors the rich while it despises the poor. Besides, if you are poor, you won’t be able to meet your educational, vocational or personal needs. Hence, there is a need for you and I to avoid certain habits that engender poverty. Unfortunately, many poor people are not aware of them. Both the rich and the poor need to read this piece. Because it will enable the rich to sustain their wealth while it will enable the poor to come out of poverty. Four Basic Habits You Must Avoid If You Do Not Want To Be Poor • Acquisition Of Liability Unfortunately, the poor people are fond of purchasing liabilities and not asset. What is a liability and asset? Liability is what takes money out of your pocket. While an asset is that thing that gives you more income. An asset generates more income while liability decreases that income. For an unemployed graduate, your car may be a liability to you. While the same car may be an asset to a driver. Those things you possess that are making you to spend money without receiving any income are the liabilities that you have. Job’s Assets Job 1:3 [3]His substance also was seven thousand sheep, and three thousand camels, and five hundred yoke of oxen, and five hundred she asses, and a very great household; so that this man was the greatest of all the men of the east. When the Bible described Job. He was described as someone who had so many animals that could be regarded as assets. No wonder he became the greatest in the east. It was the rearing of those animals that brought him a lot of money. Therefore, invest in assets. Stop buying things to impress people. If you buy things to impress people, you will remain poor. But if you buy things based on necessity and the ability of that thing to generate income. Then, you are ready to be free from poverty. Stop acquiring liabilities, rather, start buying assets. Land is an example of an asset. Death: How To Know When And How You Will Die • Impulse Buying Proverbs 13:16 [16]Every prudent man dealeth with knowledge: but a fool layeth open his folly. Buying goods and services impulsively will make you end up buying things you do not really need. Refuse to be captivated by the outward appearance of products. Refuse to be captivated by catchy advertisements that you see every day. Be determined to buy products that you really need. Whenever you want to buy anything. Ask yourself these salient questions? • Will I survive without this product? • Is this thing/product important to me? 3. • Do I have other alternatives if I don’t buy this thing? In other words, if that product is important to you and you cannot possibly survive without it. Also, if you don’t have other alternatives. Make sure you buy it. Buy things with sense. Do not be quick to jump, pick products and pay for them. Make sure you need them before you buy them. You may need something and not want it. Try to know the difference between want and need. You must learn to buy things with sense if you don’t want to be poor. Continue reading here; http://www.tundekorede.com/four-habits-you-must-avoid-if-you-want-to-be-free-from-poverty/ |
Poverty Nobody loves poverty because it does not dignity anyone. Our society honors the rich while it despises the poor. Besides, if you are poor, you won’t be able to meet your educational, vocational or personal needs. Hence, there is a need for you and I to avoid certain habits that engender poverty. Unfortunately, many poor people are not aware of them. Both the rich and the poor need to read this piece. Because it will enable the rich to sustain their wealth while it will enable the poor to come out of poverty. Four Basic Habits You Must Avoid If You Do Not Want To Be Poor • Acquisition Of Liability Unfortunately, the poor people are fond of purchasing liabilities and not asset. What is a liability and asset? Liability is what takes money out of your pocket. While an asset is that thing that gives you more income. An asset generates more income while liability decreases that income. For an unemployed graduate, your car may be a liability to you. While the same car may be an asset to a driver. Those things you possess that are making you to spend money without receiving any income are the liabilities that you have. Job’s Assets Job 1:3 [3]His substance also was seven thousand sheep, and three thousand camels, and five hundred yoke of oxen, and five hundred she asses, and a very great household; so that this man was the greatest of all the men of the east. When the Bible described Job. He was described as someone who had so many animals that could be regarded as assets. No wonder he became the great in the east. It was the rearing of those animals that brought him a lot of money. Therefore, invest in assets. Stop buying things to impress people. If you buy things to impress people, you will remain poor. But if you buy things based on necessity and the ability of that thing to generate income. Then, you are ready to be free from poverty. Stop acquiring liabilities, rather, start buying assets. Land is an example of an asset. •Impulse Buying Proverbs 13:16 [16]Every prudent man dealeth with knowledge: but a fool layeth open his folly. Buying goods and services impulsively will make you end up buying things you do not really need. Refuse to be captivated by the outward appearance of products. Refuse to be captivated by catchy advertisements that you see every day. Be determined to buy products that you really need. Whenever you want to buy anything. Ask yourself these salient questions? • Will I survive without this product? • Is this thing/product important to me? 3. • Do I have other alternatives if I don’t buy this thing? In other words, if that product is important to you and you cannot possibly survive without it. Also, if you don’t have other alternatives. Make sure you buy it. Buy things with sense. Do not be quick to jump, pick products and pay for them. Make sure you need them before you buy them. You may need something and not want it. Try to know the difference between want and need. You must learn to buy things with sense if you don’t want to be poor. Keep reading here; http://www.tundekorede.com/four-habits-you-must-avoid-if-you-want-to-be-free-from-poverty/ |
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There are some habits ladies have that can turn on the man. If every lady is aware of these habits, they will keep those good habits. And avoid the bad ones. This article will bring to the fore the basic things that trigger love in men’s heart. No matter how stern a man is, he has what turns him on. Unfortunately, the main reason why some ladies don’t enjoy their spouse is because they don’t know what turns them on. Hence, I present to you, the six basic things that turn on a man. Six Habits Ladies Have That Turn Men On • Caring Habit Every man will definitely experience ups and downs in their life and businesses. However, men love it when their spouse stand by them and care for them during good and hard times. Every man loves a woman who talks to him about what matters to him. For instance, when you husband tells you that he isn’t feeling fine. Don’t just pretend as if you do not hear him. Don’t just tell him, “Sorry.” Do something to him that will make him know that you care for him. You may not like this, but it is the truth. You have a lot to gain if you over pamper your spouse. The more you take care of your man, the more he loves you. The more you show him that you don’t care. The more he dislikes you. Therefore, being caring is an act that turns men on. • Great Understanding Showing great level of understanding to the plight of your man earns you a lot of respect. You must be a woman who shows understanding to her spouse. Men don’t like it when women bombard them with irrelevant questions about their movement. You must try to be a type of woman who tries to understand your spouse easily. For instance, if your husband has told the reason why he won’t be having sex with you for the next three days, due to fasting and prayer. Never be quick to condemn his decision. Let him finish the fasting and prayer, before you present your complaint to him. Just show great level of understanding. Try not to be a woman who nags over little misunderstanding. Understand the fact that your man may not have money all the time. At times, when he gives you meager amount. Don’t be quick to condemn him. It may be because his business has gone down at that point. So, just try to put yourself in his shoes. Keep reading here: http://www.tundekorede.com/five-habits-ladies-have-that-turn-men-on/ |
Unfortunately, Some young people have been entangled in an undefined relationship. Some people have wasted their time and efforts investing in a relationship that eventually hit the rock. There are signs to look out for in any wrong relationship. There is no failed relationship today, that did not show these signs before they failed. I am going to show you those signs in this blog post. God is a loving father who does not take delight in wasting the time of His children. He said to the Israelites to leave when they were wasting their time, staying too long at mountian Horeb. He authoritatively told them to leave the place because they had stayed too long on that mountain (Deut 1: 6-7). Till today, God still speaks to people to leave any relationship that can waste their time. And any friendship that is parasitic to them. Listen now, because through me, the Holy Spirit is about to minister to you. He will show you; How To Know You Are In A Wrong Relationship • Relationship That Produces Frequent Conflict Amos 3:3 [3]Can two walk together, except they be agreed? Every relationship that is not solidly based on shared goals, beliefs and vision will continually spring up frequent conflict. It is not possible for both parties to enjoy their friendship if there is no agreement in their basic values. You will know that you are in a wrong relationship when it turns to a battlefield one. Don’t be surprised when your partner engages you in a physical battle. If you do not leave this kind of relationship, you may harm yourself. A wrong association will definitely produce endless conflict. One can easily sense the absence of love as the people involved fight ignorantly over trivial issues. Any association that constantly produce conflict or dispute is not the best the relationship. It shows how bad such association is. Although, two people can disagree over certain issues but they are to solve it amicably. And this should happen once in a while. But if this is constant, and always lead to physical battle. Such friendship is awfully wrong. • Relationship That Has Deceit As Its Hallmark Jeremiah 17:9 [9]The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it? Anything built on deceit will not endure the test of time. There is no association or relationship that can enjoy stability with lies. Wrong relationship will produce lies, cheating on one another and hiding under guise to dupe one another. When there is no truth in the relationship anymore, the love that binds the people involved will plummet. Samson was taken and dealt with by his enemies because whom he perceived to be his lover, Delilah dealt with him deceptively. Honestly, there was no way Samson would have been handed over to his enemies. If his lover had told Samson that she had been sent to hand him over to the Philistines. More so, they would have fought the battle together if there was truthfulness in that friendship. That’s the power of openness and truthfulness. Avoid any relationship that is founded on lies. It is a wrong association. Whether you like it or not, you guys are not going to make it work like that. When God detected deceit in Lucifer, he sent him away from His presence (Isaiah 14:12-15). Because God knew no good will come out of their relationship once there was a deceitful thought in Lucifer. Above all, you know a wrong relationship by the level of its deceit. Deceit is also a principal sign of parasitic friendship. Continue reading here: http://www.tundekorede.com/relationship-how-to-know-you-are-in-a-wrong-relationship/ |
BENARI:Love is the hallmark of a true Christian. Whoever loves the Lord, himself/herself and his/her neighbors will never tell lies. Please, understand me. |
The Word “Christian” is not an emblem. It is the name given to the real followers of Jesus Christ. There are many who professed to be Christians today, yet, they are nothing but unbelievers. Christians are expected to possess Christ-like character. They are supposed to be representatives of Christ on earth. They are supposed to possess certain qualities that set them apart from unbelievers. However, there are certain qualities that are repugnant to Christ-like character. Also, there are things a good Christian should never do. Come with me as I highlight and expound them one after the other. Four Ways To Know If You Have a Good Conscience Six Things A Good Christian Should Never Do • Never Hate 1 John 2:9,11 [9]He that saith he is in the light, and hateth his brother, is in darkness even until now. [11]But he that hateth his brother is in darkness, and walketh in darkness, and knoweth not whither he goeth, because that darkness hath blinded his eyes. Your Christian living is faulty if you have certain people you hate. If you have developed deep hatred towards certain people whom God created, you are not a good Christian. More so, the lifeblood of Christianity is love and no true believer should hate any human being. The Bible says you abide in darkness, if you hate people. No matter what others have done for you, the word, “Hatred” should not be found in you anymore. We are commanded to love everyone. You are not to love believers and hate unbelievers. God loves the World and He gave us His only begotten son. That’s the kind of love every Christian should possess. God expects us to love all men, irrespective of their belief, lifestyle, exposure, tribe, or nationality. So, one of the things a Christian should never do is to hate people. Hatred is true mark of our fellowship with the devil – darkness. The true mark of a believer is love. • A Good Christian Should Never Hold Grudges Against Anyone Ephesians 4:31 [31]LET ALL BITTERNESS, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice: Biblically, every believer is to put away every from of malice. How can you call yourself a Christian and find it easier to hold grudges against people? Grudge is a deep-seated and/or long-term animosity or ill-feeling about something or someone. It may be because of a past bad deed or mistreatment. Definitely, people will offend us. They will do specific things that will incite us against them. But a good believer will not keep malice with them. We are to love them for who they are. Candidly, if you are referred to as a Christian. And you love to hold grudges against people, my dear, you are not a true Christian. Because a true Christian is to put away malice. Today, forgive that person who have offended you. Start greeting him/her if he/she isn’t greeting you. End your dispute today. Who knows when Jesus will come back? Nobody. Once again, a true Christian will never hold grudges against his fellow. Hence, he forgiven them irrespective of the levity of the sin. • Don’t Use Your Tongue Wrongly James 1:26 [26]If any man among you seem to be religious, and bridleth not his tongue, but deceiveth his own heart, this man’s religion is vain. You may be the type who attends Church from Sunday to the next Sunday. But whenever you come back home, you use your tongue wrongly. The Bible says your religion (Christianity) is false. Hence, a good believer should be able to bring his tongue under subjects. You should be able to keep your mouth shut at times. And you should know when to talk. People will doubt your testimony of salvation if you speak foul words. Believers should steer clear of corrupt communication such as abusive language, curses are coarse jesting. Also, if you are able to control your tongue, you are a perfect man (James 3:2). Don’t allow your tongue to control you as a believer. Indeed, as a good Christian, there are some things you should never say. There are words that should never come out of your mouth. Weigh your words. Don’t just talk. Represent Christ well on earth by bringing your tongue to subjection. Read more here: http://www.tundekorede.com/six-things-a-good-christian-should-never-do/ |
You are right, sir. Some people think once you have God's anointing, you can get away with some things and that's why I wrote this piece. |
How To Render Anger Useless In Your Life Anger Anger is an emotional outburst which is usually stirred up by frustration. Anger may make one take costly and destructive decisions. More so, research shows that diseases could be emanated from anger. Diseases such as kidney stone, gallbladder trouble, arthritis, colitis, blood pressure and heart attack etc. No angry man or woman enjoys himself at the moment of anger. Anger is not a good emotional trait believers should exhibit. In this article, by the help of the Holy Ghost, I have developed four powerful ways to suppress anger. Almost Everything You Need To Know About Anger Four Ways To Deal With Anger Anger Solution 1 • Be Slow To Speak James 1:19 [19]Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, SLOW TO SPEAK, SLOW TO WRATH. Most of the time we get angry, we listen to respond, we don’t listen to understand. It is not every time you respond to every word people utter towards you. Listening to respond will make you flare up easily. But when you listen to understand what someone is saying. You will know how to respond without flaring up. Luke 23:9 says concerning Jesus, when Herod questioned him that; “Then he questioned with him in many words; but HE ANSWERED NOTHING.” If you really want to overcome anger; you must learn to be slow to speak. At times, you may need not to respond to that person at the time he/she speaks to you. For example, when someone says something that gets you angry. Just look at him and don’t say anything. Why? If you say anything at that time. You may make statement you may live to regret that you uttered. The truth is, words are like eggs. Once they fall, to gather all fragments after the fall is absolutely impossible. To deal with anger, learn to be slow to speak. Be like Jesus who responded to his enemies only when it was necessary. Additionally, whenever you are angry don’t utter any word. If your wife says something that makes you angry. Say nothing to her at that point. Joyce Meyer Wrote On How To Deal With Anger Anger Solution 2. • Forgive The Person That Made You Angry Ephesians 4:32 [32]And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, FORGIVING ONE ANOTHER, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you. Whoever makes you angry, deserves your forgiveness. Why? If you do not forgive that person, the anger you have towards him/her will not be subdued. Forgiveness is a gift to give to the person who has provoked you to anger. Honestly, if you really want to overcome anger. Just learn to forgive. There are some people who claimed to be believers, yet they find it difficult to forgive people. One of the fruits of new nature of Christ is forgiveness. Those soldiers who tortured, beat and dealt with Jesus, received Jesus forgiveness. Jesus prayed to his father that He should forgive them for their ignorance. You might be free from anger, if you genuinely forgive the person who made you angry. Forgive that man! Forgive that woman! Sincerely, if you forgive someone, you haven’t done a favour to that person. You have only done yourself a favour. Yes, forgive people and be free from anger. If you fail to forgive. Then, anger continues. But, I’d implore you to forgive. Read more here; http://www.tundekorede.com/anger-four-powerful-ways-to-overcome-anger/ |
Truly, as vital and powerful the anointing of God is, there are certain things that the Lord’s anointing will not do for us. Biblically, It’s true that the anointing breaks yokes and it is the anointing that empowers.Source: http://www.tundekorede.com/five-things-that-gods-anointing-cannot-do/ |
There are some habits ladies have that can turn on the man. If every lady is aware of these habits, they will keep those good habits. And avoid the bad ones. This article will bring to the fore the basic things that trigger love in men’s heart. No matter how stern a man is, he has what turns him on. Unfortunately, the main reason why some ladies don’t enjoy their spouse is because they don’t know what turns them on. Hence, I present to you, the six basic things that turn on a man. • Caring Habit Every man will definitely experience ups and downs in their life and businesses. However, men love it when their spouse stand by them and care for them during good and hard times. Every man loves a woman who talks to him about what matters to him. For instance, when you husband tells you that he isn’t feeling fine. Don’t just pretend as if you do not hear him. Don’t just tell him, “Sorry.” Do something to him that will make him know that you care for him. You may not like this, but it is the truth. You have a lot to gain if you over pamper your spouse. The more you take care of your man, the more he loves you. The more you show him that you don’t care. The more he dislikes you. Therefore, being caring is an act that turns men on. • Great Understanding Showing great level of understanding to the plight of your man earns you a lot of respect. You must be a woman who shows understanding to her spouse. Men don’t like it when women bombard them with irrelevant questions about their movement. You must try to be a type of woman who tries to understand your spouse easily. For instance, if your husband has told the reason why he won’t be having sex with you for the next three days, due to fasting and prayer. Never be quick to condemn his decision. Let him finish the fasting and prayer, before you present your complaint to him. Just show great level of understanding. Try not to be a woman who nags over little misunderstanding. Understand the fact that your man may not have money all the time. At times, when he gives you meager amount. Don’t be quick to condemn him. It may be because his business has gone down at that point. So, just try to put yourself in his shoes. Source: http://www.tundekorede.com/five-habits-ladies-have-that-turn-men-on/ |
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