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CrimeRe: Sharon Ojong Takes Rapists Spiked Drink, Escapes Death by Tushed: 10:47pm On Mar 18, 2019
Ok

FamilyRe: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by Tushed: 5:19am On Aug 31, 2018
What exactly is the the problem here?
PoliticsRe: 100 Most Reputable Africans: Nigeria Tops List By Reputation Poll by Tushed: 11:42pm On Mar 20, 2018
Where is Wole Soyinka?
FamilyRe: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by Tushed: 11:02pm On Aug 02, 2017
Just pretend as if everything is normal. He will come back to you.

Don't just worry yourself my dear
CelebritiesRe: Does Davido Really Have 30 Billion In His Account ?? by Tushed: 1:55pm On Jun 10, 2017
na song naaa>haba. Anybody can sing about anything.
PoliticsWe Will Pay All The Arrears Of Workers’ Salaries, Even If ...akeredolu by Tushed(op): 8:46am On May 14, 2017
WE WILL PAY ALL THE ARREARS OF WORKERS’ SALARIES, EVEN IF IT TAKES ALL THE STATE’S RESOURCES-AKEREDOLU
Ondo State Governor, Arakunrin Oluwarotimi Akeredolu, SAN, has promised to off set the arrears of salary left behind by his predecessor, Dr Olusegun Mimiko even if it takes the entire state resources.

The Governor made the remark today while receiving the report of the committee set up to look into the Salary Arrears of the state public servants. The committee is chaired by the Deputy Governor, Arakunrin Alfred Agboola Ajayi.

Ajayi while submitting the report thanked the Governor for the opportunity given him to serve in that capacity. He expressed hope that when government look into the detailed report payment may not be difficult.


The Governor also thanked the state civil servants for their resilience and doggedness during the difficult time.

“We can’t ask the workers to forgo their salaries. We have to pay even if that’s all we are able to do as government.

http://blog.pleromaintegrated.com/2017/05/14/we-will-pay-all-the-arrears-of-workers-salaries-even-if-it-takes-all-the-states-resources-akeredolu/

cc:mynd44
lalastclala
PoliticsBuhari Nominates Lucky Ayedatiwa As Ondo Nddc Representative by Tushed(op): 8:30am On Mar 31, 2017
The Senate has confirmed the receipt of the nomination of Honourable Lucky Ayedatiwa as the Ondo State Representative on the board of the Niger Delta Development Commission,( NDDC). In a nomination letter by the President, addressed to the Senate, which was read at the plenary session earlier today, The President, Mohammadu Buhari requested for the confirmation of Ayedatiwa as Ondo State representative on NDDC board.

When confirmed, Mr Lucky Ayedatiwa will fill the vacuum created by the Senate rejection of Tokunbo Ajasin on the account that he was not from the oil producing areas of Ondo State.

Lucky Ayedatiwa was the APC’s candidate in the 2015 House of Representative election for Ilaje/Ese-Odo Federal constituency and a close ally of Arakunrin Oluwarotimi Akeredolu, the Ondo State Governor. Ayedatiwa is from Mahin ward IV of Ilaje Local Government

http://blog.pleromaintegrated.com/2017/03/31/buhari-nominates-lucky-ayedatiwa-as-ondo-nddc-representative/

CareerTen (10) Tips On How To Handle With Rumours About Yourself by Tushed(op): 11:09am On Feb 06, 2017
Ten (10) Tips On How to Handle With Rumours about Yourself


One of the worst things ever, especially in school and workplace, is having to deal with rumours about yourself. One thing I’ve learned over the years is that no matter how “popular” you are or not, you will have to deal with at least one nasty rumours about yourself. Rumours happen to all of us, and even when they’re not that bad, they’re still horrible.
Since I know a lot of you have to go through the same thing, I put some tips together so you can get through this rough time with grace and maturity – unlike the people spreading the rumours. Here are 10 tips on how to deal with rumours about yourself.

1. Ignore As Much As You Can
When you hear a rumours about yourself, one of the first things you should do is try to ignore it. Sometimes, if you ignore something like this, it goes away. It also shows that you're above the rumours, and if you show that you don't care, other people will stop caring.
2. Don't Deny Too Hard
Whether the rumours is true or not, our first instinct is to defend ourselves. This is understandable, but defending yourself too much will make you look guilty, even if the rumours is completely false. Instead of running around yelling at everyone that it isn't true, or writing about it on social media, ignore it (like I said before). Or, if you're asked about it, simply say, "No. That's not true." And leave it at that.
3. Make People Feel Stupid for Talking About It
Go a step further than just simply saying, "No." Make people feel stupid for even bringing up the rumours, or for believing it in the first place. You can do this by laughing it off and acting like it's the silliest thing you've ever heard that you also don't care about. For example, if someone asks you if it's true, laugh casually and say, "Um, no. That's not true." Roll your eyes and then change the subject like it was never brought up. Blowing it off like this will make some people feel really silly for even thinking it could be true.

4. Stay Calm and Don't Let Them See Your Reaction
Part of ignoring a rumours is to not let other people see how upset or angry it is making you. Again, seeming too defensive and angry will make you look guilty. Crying about it isn't going to make others feel bad - it's just going to add fuel to the fire. People can be really mean. They want to see you react, because they want to watch the drama. Don't give them that satisfaction! Instead, blow it off, like I said before. If they don't get the reaction they're looking for, they will eventually stop. If they do? They'll keep going.
5. Confront the Person Who Started the Rumour
If you find out who started this rumour, say something to them! It's probably better to do this privately than publicly, as that can get messy and just make people talk even more. Confront the person in a calm manner, and say, "Why would you say something like that?" Make it clear that you're angry, but also show that you're the mature one here. Find out what their problem is and try to get to the bottom of things from there.
6. Lean on Your Friends
Dealing with rumours can be tough. Don't feel like you have to go through this alone - lean on your closest friends for comfort. We don't always feel comfortable going to our parents for this kind of thing, so instead, go to your besties. Talk to them, vent to them when you're angry, and cry to them when you're upset about it. Let them help you feel better.
7. Don't Plot Revenge
I know that sometimes it's tempting to fight fire with fire - or, in other words, start a new rumour to battle the one about you. But don't do this. It's immature, and you shouldn't stoop to that level. The best revenge is continuing to live your life by acting like nothing is bothering you. Trust me.
8. Stand Up for Yourself When Necessary
I know I just spent this entire time telling you guys to ignore the rumours, but sometimes you just need to stand up for yourself. If things get out of hand and people are being really horrible, don't be afraid to defend yourself. Don't do this by whining "it's not true!" or crying. Do it by acting assertive and in control, and saying something like, "This is getting ridiculous and needs to stop. I really don't appreciate what's going on."

9. Talk to an Authority Figure If Needed
If things get really out of control, you should definitely consult an authority figure, like a teacher, guidance counsellor, or parent. If people are harassing you, that's not okay. You should feel safe in school or work, or wherever the rumour is happening. Don't be afraid to fill someone else in. They may have more power than you do to stop it.

10. Accept That There May Be Nothing You Can Do
The worst thing about rumours is that sometimes, there is nothing we can do to stop them. Most of the time you need to just ride them out and wait for people to get bored, or find something else to talk about. I know it sucks, but sometimes it's best to just accept that and try to ignore and move on. It will give you a better piece of mind.



http://blog.pleromaintegrated.com/2017/02/06/ten-10-tips-on-how-to-handle-with-rumours-about-yourself/
PoliticsRe: NNPC Engineers Mount GPS Monument As Search For Oil In The North Intensifies by Tushed: 10:37pm On Nov 12, 2016
Who oil don epp?
EventsRe: Nigerian Twin Sisters Wed The Same Day (pics) by Tushed: 8:59pm On Nov 12, 2016
lovely
CelebritiesRe: Kenyan Reporter Shades Nigeria As Zuckerberg Leaves Nigeria For Kenya by Tushed: 11:21pm On Sep 01, 2016
wft?
CareerRe: 10 Jobs That Makes It Difficult For Men To Intimately Satisfy Their Wives by Tushed: 11:02am On Aug 13, 2016
which job come remain?
CelebritiesRe: Captain Demuren's Curvy Wife, Toolz Looks Alluring In New Photos by Tushed: 10:39pm On Aug 11, 2016
Abasha
CelebritiesRe: Film Producer, Abiodun Ibitola, Dies by Tushed(op): 9:17pm On May 16, 2016
Stevebamdex:
Sir, are you saying we have remdel tv on startimes?
Yes Channel 171
CelebritiesRe: Film Producer, Abiodun Ibitola, Dies by Tushed(op): 6:15am On May 16, 2016
She is one of the finest producer of Yoruba genre. She co-own Remdel TV, Startimes Channel 171 with her husband Remi Ibitola.

Another Tragic loss to Nollywood.

Visit: http://www.remdel.tv

We need this on the FP please

Moderators please.

cc: lalasticlala, mynd44
CelebritiesFilm Producer, Abiodun Ibitola, Dies by Tushed(op): 10:24pm On May 15, 2016
The Managing Director of Remdel Optimum Communications and Director of Remdel TV, Mrs. Abiodun Ibitola, has passed on.

She was said to have died while receiving treatment for an illness at a hospital in Ile-Ife, Osun State.

Her husband and Remdel Chairman, Mr. Remi Ibitola, confirmed the death in a telephone interview with our correspondent on Sunday.

Together with the husband, the deceased was the producer of several Yoruba movies that include Afonja, Owo Eje, Ofin Ga and Ojo Ola.

Ibitola was a graduate of Theatre Arts from the Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-Ife, where she majored in directing.

She worked at various radio and television houses, including the Federal Radio Corporation of Nigeria.

 She was a winner of Best Indigenous Film Producer of the ZAFA Award, London, 2009; Nollywood Outstanding Personality Award, 2007; and Award of Excellence in Creativity by Yoruba Studies Association

Also, Ibitola was the founder and a trustee of The Independent Film and Video Producers and Marketers Association of Nigeria, Chairperson Coalition of Associations of Film and Video Distributors in Nigeria and Festival Director, Festival of Indigenous African Language Films.

SOURCE http://www.punchng.com/film-producer-abiodun-ibitola-dies/

PoliticsRe: Ekiti Lawmakers 'offered' $1m To Remove Fayose by Tushed: 8:00pm On Mar 08, 2016
Elo lo ma jé ta ba şé si Naira?
PoliticsRe: Throwback Picture Of Dino Melaye And His Female Friend by Tushed: 8:50pm On Feb 28, 2016
The major issue I have with them is that; after crossing they destroy the bridge.
CrimeRe: Baby Mama Kills Her Twins In Jos (Extremely Graphic Photos.) by Tushed: 12:29am On Feb 13, 2016
I'm sure she has a mental health challenge. How come she was left alone with kids so young?

Very sad!
PoliticsRe: Real Reasons I Conceded To Buhari —jonathan by Tushed: 8:20am On Jan 31, 2016
GET lost because he lost the favour of South West. He lost because he lost the control of POP. Under his watch nearly half of the PDP governors decamped to APC. He couldn't even control his wife. With such abysmal grammatical blunders his wife became a comic relief all over the country. We just automatically took him for a joker.He lost and he should go and sit down and keep quiet!
PoliticsRe: I Won’t Return N100 Million, Says Chief Falae by Tushed: 1:59am On Jan 12, 2016
It's a pity
FamilyRe: My Wife Is More Sexually Responsive After I Beat Her Up by Tushed: 10:49pm On Dec 30, 2015
Issues...
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Always Come To My House With Three Of Her Other Friends, Help!! by Tushed: 3:50pm On Dec 26, 2015
Are you a leaner?
PoliticsRe: New Lagos Governor Ambode Incompetent - The Economist by Tushed: 11:11pm On Nov 09, 2015
Who are the Economist? NA today traffic jam don dey Lagos? Dem no serious.
PoliticsRe: Fayose Stops His Convoy To Interact With An Old Woman In Ekiti by Tushed: 10:36pm On Nov 03, 2015
Fayose has always been like this
EducationRe: Beautiful Pictures Of Covenant University Campus by Tushed: 11:09pm On Oct 23, 2015
Tushed:
This institution was built by Nigerians and it's been attended by Nigerians, and proud of that
EducationRe: Beautiful Pictures Of Covenant University Campus by Tushed: 11:09pm On Oct 23, 2015
This institution was built by Nigerians and it's been attended by Nigerians, and proud of that
CelebritiesRe: See The Sexy Photo Toolz Shared Last Night That Left Her Fans Panting For Breath by Tushed: 9:20am On Sep 27, 2015
Hmmm it is well
PoliticsRe: CBN Governor Emefiele Hurriedly Leaves US After Buhari's Tongue-Lashing by Tushed: 10:11pm On Jul 22, 2015
No vacancy in CBN yet, no matter the level of press war...
PoliticsRe: RESIDENCY CARD: Ondo Breaks New Ground by Tushed: 6:51am On Jul 12, 2015
U need to come to Ondo State and see the untold hardship Mimiko has brought on their lives
EducationRe: If You Can Solve These Math Problems, You Are One Of The World's Smartest by Tushed: 11:20pm On Jul 11, 2015
How does that translate to Naira and Kobo

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