₦airaland Forum

Timbuktou:
Oh, you will be shocked at the sort of men in circulation these days. There will be a willing and ready horde of civilised men enrolling to be cuckolds in this new reality of ours.

Such "men" are not civilised - more like "feminised".

I heard the worst story this summer; someone who contracts for us said he was moving to Eastern Europe.

- Why I asked.
- Nothing for me here he replied
- Are'nt you married I asked
- Divorced he responded.
- Kids?
- Two daughters, and I miss them terribly as my ex won't let me see them
- How can (so shocked I reverted to my bushman persona )
- They are not actually mine, they are hers from a previous relationship, I basically raised them, then she left me for another man

This woman used him as a provider and to help raise her kids - then left him when something better came along. Note how she didn't have any kids for him? I was like huh? She used him as a "side-husband" to raise someone elses spawn.

When coaching young men I always advise they forcibly avoid divorcees (with or without children) and pretty much write-off wilful single mums.

Why be a cuckold in a buyers market


TV

njokusboy:

Big Fooool

...the truth is Bukatyne' rancid shrewishness is only only exceeded by - and used as cover for - her quite shocking mental dullness. That's why she prefers to spiritualise her threads - so she can sound like one who possesses understanding, by just quoting scripture or regurgitating sermons she's heard parrot-fashion .

Trying to engage her intellectually is an exercise in frustration - but to be fair that's probably as much for her, as you can sense her brain frying as she struggles with basic logic and comprehension - I would not advise it. It's why I limit her to trolling.

Her one redeeming feature is the fact she's married, although I seriously wonder what our broda is suffering at her hands . Anyway, thanks for small mercies - we only have to suffer her from time to time on NL, not 24/7 in real life. Can you imagine? .


TV

^{...and don't hold your breath waiting for her to admit her error, humility is basically non-existent in her lexicon, plus she has zero sense of humour .}

bukatyne:
Amusing you amuse someone of fake piety. Check in the mirror, the image stirring at you is a poster person for fake and hypocrisy

Be quiet woman...your shrewishness is legendary on this section - e no get part II

bukatyne:
So you believe I am married? Lols! I thought the story before was that I was pretending?

Hush. I've never doubted or questioned your story ...why would I? I celebrate marriage and hope all experience and enjoy it's benefits.

bukatyne:
And I guess this snake is plainly women's thing? Men don't have the little snake in them? Or is there a special snake women around you possess? Your average post is filled with direct or subtle jabs yet you are taking of snakes in women (around you)

Still your mouth. You introduced the term "viper", and sneakily tried to associate it to my wife - as you've done again by emphasising "around you". Not just shrewish, not just passive aggressive, but also sneaky and as thick as two short planks !

And your thread is about "women being their own worst enemies". It's not about men - as much as you've encourages NL #1 AssLick to make it so.

bukatyne:
I am not passive aggressive, I do not just have tolerance for bullshit and hypocrisy amongst others on and offline. However, I can understand your reference to passive aggressiveness... You bark from thread to thread on NL yet you cannot practice 1/10 what you incite men to do with stupid posts contradicting yourself so you would expect everyone else to be like you. Remove your Pharisee garment and maybe... just maybe you will see around you more clearly.

Utterly bogus. Your "personal qualities" are well known around these parts. If there were contradictions in any of my posts, you simply do not possess the smarts to spot them - oya, I dare you . But keep making baseless accusations if it gives you the tingles.

bukatyne:
My threads are sickly childish and you keep posting here, how wise of you.

My thoughts about the quality of you "elejo wewe" threads, in no way impairs my right to troll on them . Like I said, "limited smarts".

bukatyne:
If posting your wife's pictures here would add colour or meaning to your life, please entertain us.

I'm free to post, you are free not to look or pointedly ignore her when making "fake salutations". No one has stopped you posting your own -partially obscured - pics. You are emblematic of the "own worst enemy" saying. Distended bad belle + e jelosi !

bukatyne:
keep trolling.

My pleasure. Are extreme hormone fluctuations to be blamed for your current high levels of crankiness? !


TeeVee

bukatyne:
If you know my threads usually suffer a usual malaise, common sense should have dictated you steer clear it or drop a post of healing.

Thanks for the wishes and regards to your kids.

Feel free to troll

Answer the question na - has oga put a bun in your oven? A year and 2 days later We are interested to know when you'll be popping one out ! No to Jaffa's !

We want pix - still no wedding fotos? - and good news, not just your usual "sickly child" threads (which by the way my "trolling" helped ginger up - no don't thank me ).

Kids are fine thank you - why didn't you ask after my gorgeous wife? - "worst enemy type thingy right there" ? Make I no spam your thread with her lovely pictures 0!

bukatyne:
It is either you were once a woman or surround yourself with vipers.

Change your company for starters.

No girl, years of experience and life lived. Pretty much all women have a bit of the "snake" in them. With your passive aggression, I have little doubt how you deal with other women. Your fake piety not withstanding.


TV

^{...baby pix, not sickly chil' threads}

FrancisTony:
I will let you continue wallowing in your utter cluelessness and pseudo-gender-superiority.

You are the chauvinist here ;

FrancisTony:
I agree that women are their worst enemy

And my "superiority" over effeminate gender-confused men did not come cheap...I had to study to show myself approved ! Now assume the position below, there are females on the thread !

FrancisTony:
Lest I forget, don't quote me foolishly again.

Certainly...just as soon as you stop "posting stoupid"


TV

FrancisTony:
Why not ask for an explanation

Ask for an explanation? From you!


TV

FrancisTony:
Women are their worst enemy is a "chauvinistic/sexist phrase"

FrancisTony:
I agree that women are their worst enemy

YourCoffin:
What are you saying? Apologies but you're a mass of confusion.

Abi? Allow small sha, effeminate Frank is not always at his best duing his period !


TeeVee

MarvellousGod:
No gender is perfect.. Even men get jealous of their friends who have a 'perfect' relationship..

Saw a thread few days back where a lady was being talked into, to get a divorce by her husband's best friend so that he, her husband's friend could marry and take better care of her.. smh.. You also see guys sleeping with their friends' gfs... or a gal tells you she's already in a relationship, you keep pestering her.. no be another man parole you wan spoil?

Even in places of work, men get jealous of a promoted colleague. ..

So op, it goes both ways, human imperfection.. Just that anything that has to do with the female gender in our society gets more pronounced...

For me, I have good female friends who I hv known for years and no issues at all... or maybe cos I'm good myself?

I'mma tell you the difference;

Man sees best friend with foine gyal, thinks "I want one like that for myself"
Woman sees bff with a proper dude, thinks "I'm having him" - starts scheming, or showing the bobo that she's more desirable than her friend - even if she can't have him.

It's an aphorism, but not far off!

TeeVee

bukatyne:
Let's discuss

And no bashing.

Good evening.

Happy anniversary Bukatyne. Hearty congratulations. Are you baking yet ? It's a race betwixt yourself and Coco.

No bashing, but I'mma troll on your thread small. Appears to be suffering the usual malaise .


TeeVee

Superleo2:
Tsk! Tsk! You should understand that I didn't come to abolish law but fufill it means that the law wasn't nice.
Not like he came to abolish it, but to fufill it.
Whew! I'm done

I was all but done here as well, but couldn't overlook your lame attempt to twist the scriptures.

Yes, The Lord indeed fulfilled the law - in that He lived it perfectly - and it is no longer by fulfilling it that we attain to righteousness. Rather our righteousness is in Him - believing in Him and His saving work on the cross. Hallelujah!

But to imply that the fulfilment of the law leaves us free to act anyhow or at least overlook that fact is plainly deceitful. Take time. I guess you'll be back with a new username - Superleo3 - but the same puny arms and wor-wor theology.

chalantmike:
u way too matured and nice.

Cheers.


TV

Timbuktou:
I missed the party again. Damn. I see uncle TV is schooling em proper as always and Francesca is right up there trying to justify his perversion. Let me warm up. Back in a bit.

Welcome.

Superleo called on the foaming gay cavalry, but once the saw me limbering up for battle, they opted to rather go pack some fudge and fled. Francesca is silently taking notes. Hopefully it's not too late for him...her?


TV

Superleo2:
Young boys are also gays and mostly compel the adult ones to have sex with them. The feeling is mutual.
They begged for it.

Like I said the perversion of homosexuality spans paedophilia, hebephilia and pederasty, which just make it a more heinous sin. Homosexuality even among consenting adults already being a sin. Dishonouring oneself and the male/female stamp given by your Creator.

Superleo2:
Healed? Desires, I've had that from when I was a kid. Jesus! I'm one of the best christian if you want to divert to that corner. I'm already saved and no deliverance can heal the innate feelings. The best I can do is to surpress it but I was born that way.

Sometimes what you believe hinders what you recieve.

1. You were not created/born that way (and even if you were, God can still deliver you and re-order your desires). No one is born with sexual desires, only the physical organs and functionality for male/female complementary intercourse in due course. Any deviation from this or different outcome due to any deviation is by definition pathological/disordered.

2. Hebrews 4:12 For the word of God is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any twoedged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and is va discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart.

Don't approach with pre-concieved notions or demands or by qualifying yourself - as God has not - as a homo/bi etc. He will surely do it. Testimonies abound, I can share some if you like. Then we can attend to your puny arms with some "heavy-ass" weights ! (nothing coded there 0! Before you get all excited).

Superleo2:
Jesus never said it's a sin.

The whole of scripture cries out against it as against the integrity of your created being, against nature and against God. Dirty, dishonouring and disease-ridden. Scripture even goes so far as to declare it as judgement from God. Tremble and be very afraid.

Superleo2:
Paul did and his teachings contradict Jesus own.

No they do not and as above.

Superleo2:
Come for a nice massage, TV.

No thanks. But you've been delivered of a life saving message will you hear or likewise decline?


TV

lalasticlala:
Guys do you envy him?

Not really. Double wahala in some senses and there are wider implications to consider - all told not my preferred model. But I can see the merits in two women fighting for your attention and competing to win your favour - talk about self-regulation


TV

^{...when does diminishing returns set in here?}

Superleo2:
Homosexual is different from homosexual-paedophile.

A needless distinction. Gays are obsessed with youth - mostly boys/young men, that some stray to children just compounds their sin.

Superleo2:
You find it easy to lump both together but when I do the same about heterosexual, you cry foul.

The whining is all from you and your ilk. "Heterosexual" sin should be called what it is.

Superleo2:
You can read my diary, i'm homosexual; never had sex and i'm attracted to male-adults

Seek deliverance - do not follow your illicit desires. Whatever trauma or pathology led to these desires can be healed.

Superleo2:
Infact, I'm not too attracted to my teenage age-mates except ones that have beards and/or outgrew their age.

Salvation first and deliverance will surely follow. God is faithful

Superleo2:
Really? Do you expect me to start giving you statitics about father fingeríng and fvcking his daughters? I won't waste my time on that, just google it.

It's sin, say it loud and clear; but no one is saying we shoul dconsider that as good, healthy or normal like homosexuality

Superleo2:
The majority, and the worst sexual crimes committed against female childs are by adult heterosexuals.

As above.

Superleo2:
BTW, pull your stats from anus the way you do and compare male child abuse to female child abuse.

Please, leave my anus out of this discussion .

Superleo2:
Repent from what exactly?

Asked and answered already


TV

Nonso23:
...
www.thefreelibrary.com/Doctors+speak+out%3A+'gay+marriage'+and+homosexuality%3A+brief+sent+to...-a0133249485
www.thefreelibrary.com/Getting+it+straight%3A+six+misconceptions+about+same-sex+relations.-a0131362938

Informative - there is so much out there about the real perversity and dysfunction in so called homosexual love"

lezz:
In Europe , toy shops and toy manufacturers have been requested not to distinguish toys according to sex
Consequently, a little boy or girl would be denied their inherent sexuality.

There is no pretense of courtesy or diplomacy in my approach to these homo/lesbo earth's reject.

they need verbal dose of the gay conversion therapy..

It's all part of the same push. "Gender" they say "is a construct". The feminist power grab dovetails nicely with homosexual activism. If women are equal - i.e. the same - as men, why can't two men or two women be married?

And they are already messing up children who identify with the opposite sex by commencing sex change procedures on pre-pubescent kids. And others are engendering further confusion by raising thewir offspring/chargers "gender-neutrally".

We continue to resist them.


TV

masonkz:
I don't know where you get such baseless researches, but here is a more accurate research, with good references to back it up. http://psychology.ucdavis.edu/faculty_sites/rainbow/html/facts_molestation.html

Be quiet. Baseless research? Or "research that doesn't make me feel good about my perversion or it's ills, therefore I'll denigrate it and find some gay-friendly writing to try and deceive you". Read it. It's a mish-mash of subjective opinion, and lame attempts to wish away the evidence based on arbitrary classifications.

masonkz:
Heterosexuals have done more harm to a child's mind than a gay person would ever do.

And this totally fabricated and vexatious claim is not baseless . In weighted terms, homosexuals are simply monstrous in terms of child abuse - especially male molestation.

masonkz:
Now tell me, in Nigeria alone, how many pedophilia cases have you heard of, and how many were perpetrated by gay people? I'd be the last person to support anyone that abuses kids sexually, whether straight or not

Hush. What is this arrant nonsense of a submission?
There are no "gays and straights" or "hets and homos", just "normal and abnormal sexual behaviour - and only male/female is normal. Both in it's statistical occurrence and it's morality.

masonkz:
Personally I feel sex itself is a personal issue. Anything out of sex in biology/psychology classes shouldn't have anything to do with schools.

Who care what you think. Your deviant cohort are pushing for vulnerable children as young as 5 to be indoctrinated into the joys and supposed normalcy/healthiness of deviant homosexual intimacy.

masonkz:
Where there should be issues would be when one gay person is being discriminated in school for the fact that he's girly, or manly but someone now has the knowledge that he's gay...ditto for the female. Such instances are what the laws were meant to address in the first place in schools, as bullying kids for their sexuality has led to suicide/suicide attempts.

Bullying occurs for numerous reasons - and if there weren't any reasons at all, there'd still be bullying. I agree it should be addressed, but supposed anti-bullying efforts by LGBT' are just trojan horses for gay indoctrination.

masonkz:
i have no business if a present doesn't have a positive view on homosexuality, but don't go hating on a kid that is gay or hating him cos your straight kid is friends with the gay kid.

Keep whining. Lots of kids don't play or consort with others based on a whole plethora of reasons. That is their choice. The gay push is for everyone to celebrate homosexuality and sell it as a good thing. It's deviant, and should be treated as such.

masonkz:
I've had straight best friends since time immemorial and the last thing I'd do is think of sex when with them. If anything, they're grateful to have me as friend.

As ever homos parse everything in terms of their perverted sexual activities. Like people go around thinking "how lucky I am to have a gay-homosexual friend". It's always about your perversion for you gays.

Repent of gay-homosexuality, lesbianism, gayism and all other sexual perversion. No to SSM, no to SSAd, no to normalising dysfunction.


TV

Superleo2:
Ratio? That's a fvcking lie.
Legalise homosexual and you won't hear about homosexual-peadophilia any longer.

BTW, why didn't you counter his cooked up statistics?

Be quiet you deviant.

We are not fooled by the homosexual ruse of claiming paedophilia is a "different orientation". Homosexuality is by it's very nature obsessed with youth, and whilst this was historically pre-pubescent and pubescent children, the worst of them even go for children.

http://au.ibtimes.com/gay-paedophile-couple-sexually-abused-their-adopted-son-1334488 (they trafficked the child globally )
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2068731/Gay-couple-accused-abusing-adopted-sons.html
http://news.stv.tv/scotland/133584-life-behind-bars-for-vile-paedophile-ring-leaders/ (please watch video!!!)
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-edinburgh-east-fife-15790605

The majority - and the worst - of sexual crimes committed against male children are by adult homosexuals. And they are typically driven to it by their lust, not by circumstance

Spiritually, sexual deviance is sexual deviance, and it abounds as it's permitted, indulged in - and even celebrated as is fast becoming the norm these day. Every kind of sexual perversion will increase. No to the normalisation and forced acceptance of homosexuality.

Repent


TV

^{...and your dp is foul - your arms are weedy, patchy coloured and it looks like you have a cheap tattoo - how gay !}

masonkz:
Pray tell, Did anyone stop you from having and growing your children normally? Or did gay people tell you we'd like to raise your kids?

Since when did having sex have anything to do with raising kids?

Be quiet.

In the UK the national union of teachers no less, is calling for a normal portrayal of homosexuality and the related physical activity as healthy and normal to young children. Sexualising and homosexualising children?

Further, there are now calls for parents who do not present a positive view of homosexuality to their children to be exposed to the law. Following that to its logical conclusion means that there may be a time when normal parents have their children taken away if they do not act accordingly.

Give sin an inch and it abounds. Homosexuality is deviant and should not be normalised.

Repent


TV

masonkz:
I'd like to know please, where did you get the statistics from. care to tell? I've searched and couldn't find.

Thanks

First, I'm sure you could have found it if you really made the effort - as ever the homosexual push is one of lies, deceit and ad-hominem.
http://www.rense.com/general24/reportpedophilia.htm. The first link I looked at.

Second, cursory research will reveal that pederasty was historically the main theme of homosexuality...older male with pubescent teen.

Thirdly, homosexuals try and separate the two deviances, but we know they are well intertwined. NAMBLA - THE north American man/boy love assoc. - is a de facto homosexual lobby. In due time this will be at the fore as well. Many are already clasming adult/child (or inter-generational love as they call it) is beneficial to and desired by children.

Fourthly, I am no longer engaging purveyors of sin in polite debate. Give sin an inch and it will abound. You - and others with your gay agenda - have been warned.

I repeat, "homosexuality" - and I use that non-word advisedly - is sinful and evidently pathological. No to normalising or legitimising it, no to adoption by homos and no to SSM. No denial of human rights or opportunity like everyone else, but no to the deviancy - and I for one will resist it whenever it's in view, or it's endorsement/celebration is required.

Repent

TV

Superleo2:
It's funny how straight homophobes that the word gay makes them to puke, spend time arguing about us. It was nice read aswear.
BTW, the girl that wrote this article needs to redefine the word hateful.
Homophobes spew their hatred and when we counter, they'd say we are trying to shut them up. Wow!

What's more in been hateful? like
Gays and bisexual don't spend time analysing how demonic heterosexual is.
We don't say spiteful things about them.
We mind our business.
We don't make heterosexual rape and paedophile a big deal.
But guess? They spent time bullying us.
Who's more hateful?

Abeg, Masonkz, Gsking, beryl04, Scaredsilent2, Johnfavous, blainee, banglesover.
Come and dash likes to the monikers that have helped us in putting homophobes in there places.


Superleo2 - The masculine gay dude without suspect he's a downlow nigga.

Be quiet. Your whining about being bullied is almost as pitiful as your egregious desires. And quit the falsehood - over 85% of peados are homosexuals.

Superleo2:
Leaving your wretched thinking and initiating another one.

Buncha rètards. Where's Gsking? - she's needed here to finish them off.
I miss Missmeiya - homophobes slayer.

masonkz my love.

No...you leave your wretched lifestyle and expect to be resisted whenever you spew it as normal on the Family section.
Feel free to blow the trumpet for the gay hordes...all of whom I've slapped down...and will willingly do so again - the walking wounded and it's not just butt-hurt that ails them...pun intended .


TV

masonkz:
Please shut up if you have nothing reasonable to say.

Go tell your heterosexuals to take care of their numerous unwanted babies in the orphanages scattered all over the world.

...and what you said was reasonable

Because there are some babies in orphanages we should normalise the deviancy called homosexuality Babies in orphanages is not ideal - we also know that placing them with a same gender couple is likewise sub-optimal - and much more risky.

Whine all you like to be allowed to rectally invade each other, but please don't present your perversity as a solution to societal pathology - as homosexuality is a pathology in itself.

Repent.

TV

...congratulations to the royal couple and their family and friends - wonderful news.

I wonder if in naming or looks there will be shades of Lady Diana? And if they'll have any more?


TV

FrancisTony:
Do you know what I meant by, "Sex is a human invention?"

Well, y'all need brain transplant to function your brains properly.
Attraction can't be controlled but having sex can be controlled.

That's why cheating is never a mistake.
You get attraction involuntary and have sex voluntary.

I repeat once again, "Sex is a human invention"

FrancisTony:
For example, someone annoys you, we are all human and it's a must you get angry.
You can choose to control it or slap the person.

Slap is a human invention.

...I've been concerned by your effeminate nature and homosexual mindset for a while but it seems things are more serious and more complex than I imagined - you repeated it

Did humans invent the outcome of coitus? Please, you are wounding us with your gibberish. We surrender .

Dumbschlau²


TV

FrancisTony:
Without reference to religion, sex is an invention by man and how it happens is neither natural nor abnormal.

So, wrong, so unthiniking, so nonsensical, so meanlingless, so early in the morning .

We can't fault your passion for your ideology and neither can we disqualify you due to your age , but dude, you can't just ad-lib meaninglessly to try and make a point. Any worse and we would have had to consider that babyspeak. . And 3 other toddlers liked your post !

Whether one believes in creation (as I do), evolution, both, or nothing, teleologically "sex" is clearly about biological function. Ontologically it's about procreation - no gainsaying.

Human beings have seperate reproductive and alimentary systems. Misuse is patently pathological - "abnormal" - and evidenced by the diseases it causes. We need no recourse to theology to see that as evedently true. Theology just proscribes it as immoral, the biology explains why.

The one - male/female coitus - leads to life. The other - male/male "sex" - leads to disease and death. Now, you can attempt to restate your hopeless cause in a more meaningful way .


TV

^{read and weep - http://abcnews.go.com/images/Politics/Holsinger_on_Homosexuality.pdf}

...close.


TV

^{...I also thought "loving"}

naijababe:
@ TV01, Well, you should have no problem adjusting if rent/mortgage is not a put-off. I've lived in Scotland for nine years and I love it here so much that I can't even see myself going elsewhere. In fact, the only expat move(s) I'd consider now are some parts of Middle East and Malaysia, anywhere else can kiss my black behind. My hubby is pretty sporty, lots of sporty things to do even if some of them might cost you an arm and a leg.

...I'm quite "rugged" in some ways, and you're right, I'd have no problems adapting. Not to mention I was pleasantly surprised once I started visiting. It's wifey' position and the family upheaval. I guess I'l continue to visit !

Ewuro4:
Hehe TV01 that little oga is not joking oh, he means business see his strong papa eyes.
Abeg leave him he'll come around in his own time. All the shifted attention is not easy to take in even for the agbayas we have over here are not smiling.
God bless your home and grant your heart desires. IJN.

Amen to that & thanks very much.

bukatyne:
@TV01:
Your kids look very cute.
God bless your home.

Graciás and amen.

babygirlfl:
@ TV01 Your princess is so so cute.

Cheers. She's grown on me so much.

Shollypopzz:
He is too cute. And he is making the same face I make when I read your posts on NL.

...auntie Sholly you funny!


TV

damiso:
Awwwww TV01 that picture is making my uterus hurt she is soooo cute. I love the baby stage but having just finished the horrors of potty training i don't want to go down that route ever again. Naijababe is right though about keeping skills relevant by working part time. That's one of the reasons i went back to work, the longer there is a gap in your CV the harder it is to get back in the labour market. Thank God for Grace but i know how hard it was with just 2 years. Preferably sef she should stay in the same

Thanks. And yes, her arrival led to "regression" in TVjnr - he now resolutely refuses to use the loo - @3 0! We've tried everything and I've decided; "in his own time"

naijababe:
Aberdeen is a great place to raise kids, lots of things for the kids to do, not so much for us adults The one thing that costs a fortune in Abz is rent/ mortgage! God!!! The difference relative to the rest of Scotland is gianormous

...as an adult, all I do is family, work and gym + a few sundries. I'd be fine. I really fancy the idea. And although house prices are high, I wouldn't lose out making the move from LDN.

Apart from housing, there's the weather - it always seems to lag LDN. But the biggie for mwe would be NS and the SNP. I would be concerned about being an "Englishman" in an independent Scotland.

crackhaus:
@TV01, that's a really cute baby you got there... with eyes that seem like they could see through one's soul
Curious, whose eyes did she get?
You, the missus, or one close relative?

...I think I mentioned how we agreed that if it were a girl she'd look like wifey . At this point it's hard to tell to be honest, but she does remind us of her brother at this age - just more hair, lighter and cuter.

Ewuro4:
Awww TV that princess is adorable. God I want to smooch her and kiss that soft cheeks.
You're right about a warm welcoming home and its doable. She just need to employ more flexible schedule compared to what she had or even work from home.. I myself recently made some schedule changes. I know it's gonna cost me and but its all worth it. We organized our days off so Now the kids see much of me and oga's food is always piping hot ( that reminds me , I think he tossed his food warmer )
Dont forget your #1 NL fan when you hit that Lotto jackpot, plenty money go come. 6k/sqf ranch house where Junior can freely ride his horses without traffic, his sister on her pink pony 24/7. Madam Pushing pram on London bridge with friends , spend the entire winter in Rome/Italy with fam and all that rosy stuff. I just heard a resounding Amen.

Thanks J & Amen to that.
To be honest, harsh relaity means that both parents typically have to toil. And it is sensible for both to have marketable skills. I dream of an enterprise we can run jointly. In the old days it was always about family enterprise - and I see so many advantages if we can make that happen.


TV

naijababe:
Big smile on my face looking at that picture. Please don't let madam stay at home permanently she should return even if part-time. I always think of curve balls that life can throw at you when you least expect it.

There is an acquaintance that is in one of those weird situations, she is French (Caucasian) has two masters and a PhD, worked for Schlumberger 10 years and decided to be a stay at home mum until her daughter turned 5, which was 4 years ago. She has been unable to get back into the job market, unfortunately, the drop in oil price has added to her problems due to job cuts. Right now, she is even struggling to get an interview with 'Call Centres' Sure enough, her husband works but what if he sustains an injury or worse still dies, what would she do? Her daughter is 9, she is in her forties.............she'd have to resort to stacking shelves or what?

For me, it is important to keep your skills relevant, stay in the job market even if on part-time basis, you never know when that job could be your only lifeline.

...thank you.

I doubt she will, but I'd love for us to have the unfetered choice - like I said, I'd like it to be until the kids reach school age, but even then. We'll see.

I was in Aberdeen last month. I do like it up there, and cost wise, it must be even easier to raise kids; making it that much easier to be a SAHM, lemme talk to wifey


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Ewuro4:
Oh please...Your wife is on mat leave. How's that princess doing?

Again, Nobody cares bout their (SAHM) choices, as long as she's not IDLE and have something to fall back on like Naijababe said. Just DO something.

I was home too for each child and literally almost rip my all braids out.
The overpriced jogging stroller, YWCA new mommy group(all we did was gossip) , swimming lesson for tots, eat at the food court with new moms like a gorilla(excuse to pack fat) ... Been there done than , worn the T-shirt.

They all went to daycare at 10months when I realized the braids in back of my head are all gone.

Ciao.

- a condition I have a cunning plan to make permanent ! I love it when I get home and am recieved with a kiss and my son is happy and eager to see me. The whole house is warm and welcoming, it makes the whole day worthwhile.

...keeping home is not idle; household operations + lunching + gym + etc...allow now, at least until the kids are both school age . Just need to find the money

Princess is fine jare! Thank you for asking...


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