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Charmingrascal:
Observe crossover in your house with your family
It is not by force to go to Church

Even Bible asks us to obey "constituted authority"

Its depends on authority?

Yujin:
Lol. Are you sure Mugabe made that statement?

Have you forgotten that he was the world's most educated president

May it fail in Jesus name. Amen.

ifymadu:
Good development but I personally think Innoson should concentrate on the manufacturing of cars and trucks. They should specialize in that field just as major global players over the years - e.g., Daimler Motors Corporation (Mercedes Benz), BMW Group, Toyota, Honda, etc. This will enable them get better at it and improve quality to gain competitive edge. I feel it might be counter productive to bite more than they can chew.

I think your right but be it as it may. Year 2030 is coming mind you Europe have plans in place to discourage the use of fossil fuel cars this is a plus to him. My concern is nuclear weapon production.

Arranged marriage is the best. Love doesn't keep marriage. It's that simple.

Indelibleage:
Get ready!
Get prepared!
Get connected!
Get acquainted!
The close of the event is at the corner!
Either death or Rapture of the saints is very imminent.
Don't miss HEAVEN for anything.
Come to Jesus Christ now that you have the opportunity!

Please guys pay attention to the above message

We are now in the time of prophecies.

Mikelarteta:
All the coaches to go on compulsory lay off, no time to waste money.

Spoken like a true patriot.

There is nothing wrong though.

Most marriages suffers when the husband and wife doesn't really understand these words.

For males

Boy,man, Husband and father

For females

Girls, lady,woman, wife and mother. The earlier they do understand the better.

Because person born you no mean say she is qualified to be called a mother or a father?

hector:
I am 32. I am planning to move overseas- America, Canada, Europe or Australia in that order. But I'm seriously considering settling down before I turn 35 or at most 35. My problem right now is having to decide if getting married before i travel will be a better idea considering how uncertain things might be for a new immigrant.

I can be skeptical towards ladies, very selective and reserved. So I want to hear your suggestions please..

Dude please travel out oh.

eleojo23:
11. Politician

Politics is the highest paying job in this country. You can earn close to 20 million a month as a senator.

How do you become a politician?
By studying political science? Naaa! You are on a long thing if you think so. You can get into office even with a NEPA bill as qualification. All you have to do is be good at lying and be ready to lick some people's boots on your way up.

Nay, you only need 2 things which are

1. Eye service lick some people's boots on your way up
2. An affidavit of loss certificate

Bro, This is touching but listening.

Please do all these:
1. Take it to God in prayers.
2. Discuss with her about it.
3. If your dad is alive talk to him( be wise).
4. Discuss with the elders in your church
5. Talk to your pastor (Let the church decide)
6. Read your bible

Thank you.

Poster! What do you mean by Buhari and family appeared in US Army war college Please be specific.

No age limit

Bro, my advice to you is not to do something stupid.

My question to you is/are: why date her for over 6years and not marry her?

The guy with her now have promised her marriage but with her around you, she saw herself has a friend/possibly you not ready to take her as your wife.

Never date a lady for that long ever again. Always hit the hammer on the nails head.

Naira bounces? Abeg when it's not yet after 8 months.

Sevilla are favourites to win.

internationalman:
Wahala for young girls wey nor fit run for 1 minutes let alone 90 minutes...

Hate speech

Englov:
28.11.2020 marked it 5yrs marriage anniversary for me and my spouse.

The experiences are as follows:

1. Do not marry because of beauty:

Beauty they say is to the eyes of the beholder. My wife was and is still beautiful in my eyes but that was not only the reason I married her.
I took my time and visited her place one time they had burial ceremony in her village. This was even before I proposed to her for marriage. I wanted to see her Mum and I did. I wanted to see how my wife will look like when she start aging. I equally wanted to know how peaceful her mum lives with the Dad because she won't tell me all this things.


2. In marriage it might not work always with your plan:

I remember a friend of mine told me that once he gets married, he will relocate from Nigeria to USA with the help of the wife's family staying in USA. I can remember I asked him; what if it didn't work as you have planned it? His answer was: I have never taught of it that way.
My man is marriage now with that lady. They have gotten 2 kids but they have not moved out till now. He no longer talk about moving to USA anymore though he could even afford it.
This doesn't mean you will not plan for yourself and your family. However, as you make your plans always have a plan B in case it didn't work out the same way you had planned it.
I have learned to always have plan B even as I work so had to make plan A possible.

3. When Your wife says Yes, she might mean No most of the times and vice versa:

Most of the times when you are doing the great job on the other room, if she is saying no,stop,etc pls don't stop oh. If you do she will turn back and say to you. Why did you stop? You will answer but you asked me to stop. She will ask you are you not man enough to know that I didn't mean stop? Immerging that someone asked you to stop something and she said she didn't mean it.
You must be man enough to know when she means what she is saying. You as a man must figure somethings out by yourself.


4. Child birth:
This in most cases does not go as planned. You might say you want boys as a man and she said she want girls or boys as the case maybe. It is only God that has ultimate say on this.
It took us 3 years to get our first baby and we are expecting another soon. In that first 3 years, we went to different hospitals me and my spouse was certified ok. She use to take in but after 2-3 months miscarriage will be experienced. In this experience months became years.
We spent a lot of money looking for solution and she was restless because of that until God gave us one.
Child birth during marriage is a different ball game all together to compare when you are in a friendly relationship. When you are in a relationship, you see pregnancy come and stay but after marriage the real business starts.


5. Never marry a lady because of what she told you:
When you finally decide to marry as a man, marry because of your own reasons. Never marry because the lady told you that anyone who married her will be entitled to this or that. Pls never fall for that cheap scam. Any lady above 30yrs wants to marry by all means. You don't know the pressure she is passing through so she will do anything possible to bring you in.
Lady's knows men wick point most of the times than we know their own. Remember they can talk to each other and share their experiences with men in their discussion than men do.


6. Women are strong than men but don't know:

Believe or not women are very strong being. Brother, one weekend try and stay at home and tell her to leave all her work for you. Try and do it, guy I bet you 90% of the men will not do 60% off the work women do at home.
They will do all this things go to work and come back, carry their baby, etc.


7. She Doesn't want competition:

No woman wants to see her man with another woman. She doesn't like competition oh! A woman would do anything possible to protect her home. Women are more spiritually inclined than men. If you really want to know a visit to spiritual homes will convince you. They believe that most of the things happening around us is more spiritual than physical.

8. Shape and Size:
Before our wedding I was 66kg in weight while she was 64kg that was 2015. But now in 2020, 5years after am 64kg and she is 76kg. She has gained 12kg and I have lost 2kg such is life. That slim fight girl you see today once you marry her she will gain weight this is natural to them.
If you must marry bear it in mind that she must gain weight and as she gains weight she might start losing shape.
I have bought so many weight loss medications and even waist trainer belt but it's still there.
I have learned to live with it.


9. Buying things:
Impulse buying is their hubby. Women can buy things that they will never use. Most of the times my wife bought she doesn't even know what they are used for. Most a times they buy because it looks good not even because they want to use it.


10. Gift:
Though everyone likes gift but women cherish gift so much. You want to get something from her buy her a gift more especially that thing she likes.


11. Love life:
Once you have a baby a portion of your love will be taking away from you and given to your babe. As you number of babies increased so as the love life shift hands to the babies. The more babies you have the less attention you get from your wife.

Modified:


12. Decision Making:
Never put your wife on autopilot decision Making. Never allow your spouse to always take decision without consulting you. If you allow this from the beginning changing it will be very difficult.
Say you are working in an offshore and you have to hand over your salary ATM card to your wife to spend on without a proper spending plan, then sorry is your nike name.
Even when you are not available, you can have a lay down plan for her. In case of eventuality do this or that.


13. Third party interference:

Never allow the interference of family members into your family affairs. This is dangerous to your family life. From the first day of my marriage, I told my wife that not my mum ,Dad or her parents must hear about our quarrel as I know is inevitable. This can only be possible if you know how to settle quarrels so I advise you learn this as it will help you. No quarrel should be allowed to stay too long without settling it.


14. Work/Job:
Your wife must know what you do for a living and she must be proud of it if not there is problem. I own a phone repair and parts sales center in PH and I am in this business with my wife. Am a graduate, she is as well and both of us are happy doing this business. She helps me a lot in the business. You must not force your wife to do what she didn't like doing, if you do you will not get a good result. You as a man must be proactive in your decision Making concerning work/job selection.


15. Financial status:

Your wife must know your financial status though not in details. This will help the family to stay in peace. Though you should be in charge of the spendings so as to work within your plans. Make provision for her pocket money because whether you like it or not she must get it from you more especially if she is not a working class.



It is really a wonderful experience. I love my wife and we are happy with each other.


Disclaimer:
The experiences learned and knowledge acquired are mostly personal to me and my spouse. This experiences may or may not be applicable to you and your spouse.



I would like you to add your own experience or knowledge acquired in your marriage life to guide those that wants to go into this.

Thank you and God bless your marriage

donbachi:
If u are late for an event or occassion..wont u worry up?

The summary of the subject matter

Finally!

Nonsense parliament.

Same here Mr. Putin

Yenefer:
Rhino omokery doing all this stupidity so that the UK government will not deport him, on the ground of threat to his life. Stupid Scammer. We hope all the enemies of the state should leave this country. So that we will live in peace. Even if they go to other countries, they don't live in peace or without scamming people. Lazy people

Try get sense even if na small.

So you think English have something tangible to offer Nigerians rather than benefit from the nonsense happening in this country.

Anything from England is useless. I personally dont like English.

Always benefiting from bad govt.

At least he said "coordinated attacks meaning the youths are more organised than the government

please who ever get the prayer points make him share.

Lord protect and deliver his soul. in Jesus name

So you think Trump will not be reelected for second term?

Having read few front page comments, I come to realize that some Nigerians lack understanding.

To those mentioning Gadaffi - Just to be clear if you haven't visited Libya during his regime then do not call him a dictator. Gadaffi stood against western policies only. That was why most Africans prefers to visit Libya than Europe/America.

To those in support of Biden - I pity you.
If Biden is elected president today America is doomed. This is because he will not be the one to rule or have you all forgotten what Obama did?

I know a Leader when i see one and a Boss when i see one.

Thanks RRS

helinues:
So who should be responsible for the looting and destruction of properties?

The government should be responsible for such action. Why did the 'politicians' used hoodlums to hijack the protest?

looting and destruction of properties This is defined as an act carried out when your voice is not heard after a peaceful protest. What type of government can not understand a situation and deal with it transparently to her citizens