₦airaland Forum

Gabs4mine:
Good day everyone,
Is this what civilization has brought to we Africans? imagine you have a good intentions about a lady the next thing u have turned into an ATM machine that must dispense all the time, they don't have anything to offer,even #500 they can help u with but they r always at the receiving side

Naijagram:
Seeking your thoughts, everyone!!!

I work as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.

However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.

I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.

She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything.
Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.

I'm considering a breakup as a solution.

Has anyone navigated a similar situation?

kooyanbliss:
Good day to you everyone I wont be bias with what i want to say coz i don’t need no validation i just want to air out my plight…My Girlfriend of 4months has always been nice to me ever since i went broke a month into when we started dating. When she started helping me she didn’t count it as anything and still respected me as her boyfriend which i do give back to her anytime i see small change for aza too coz i appreciate her effort a lot on me and her eagerness to see me succeed…..My Girlfriend started behaving anyhow to me when it got to a point due to my broke life which i understand that most women won’t stay with a broke/managing guy but i was putting all my effort to make changes. The last time my girl came to visit she started raising her standard between us. she would talk to other guys on the phone beside me and some would even send her money which i totally have no issue with but once she sees me chatting a female friend or see a female friend’s picture on my phone she accuses me of cheating and all and she does that rigorously/vulgarly . As if thats not enough she doesn’t want to see me greet any of my neighbors male or female to the extent that she nagged at me and slapped me two nights before the day i beat her over an argument that why would i be greeting so so so person beside her bla bla bla. I used to tell my girl not to frustrate me to the point of me thinking of raising my hands on her that anytime a lady angers me to the core i just like to go out of that house to calm myself down. thats my nature but it seems this girl just wanted to dare me. Two days after, We had another issues that led to an argument again which she went out of the house and i did the same
some minutes after just to go grab some local drinks at a local liquor shop. About an 30mins later she started calling me to ask for my whereabouts which i told her not to bother about me coz my head dey hot due to wetin she dey follow me drag before we both left the house. As i came back in i didn’t want to pour out my anger by saying any harsh word to her i just went straight to the bathroom to take my shower but this girl wont let me be she kept stalking me and i was avoiding her she kept on doing the same all in the name of settling things with her but i was really angered i just needed some lone time because the anger kept aggravating so i took my cloth and decided to leave the apartment again to the balcony this time around but this devilish girl wont let me. there comes another dirty slap again on my face (2nd time slapping me within three days) telling me i am very stupid for wanting to leave the room for her. i was seeing stars but i still endured again and continue struggling to leave her so i can go outside rather than raising my hands on her but this girl wont leave me na my cloth she dey drag and also hitting me hard multiple times on the chest which i still have the mark till now. I kept on begging this girl not to push me to a point where i would do what i don’t want to do but it seems she was bewitched already that time that she won’t stop hitting me hard all over my body and holding my clothes not to leave. I had no choice than to give her what she wanted coz i was really provoked. I didn’t want to do this, she pushed me and i’m regretting now!

imagrg:
I for marry you if I know who you be.
Your talk is rich and instructive.
You are a good wife-material.
Get yourself a bottle of Irish Creame at my expense please.

Jennyclay:
Why recording and posting it online?? Is not as if he’s faithful either . Nigerian Men are really childish . The idiot even said he’s feeling like God . Mumu!

You don’t give your girlfriend money, you don’t take her out on a romantic date, you nonsense men don’t even care about her well being and you want to experience faithfulness and true love . You foolish men must be joking!!

I’ve said it, if I can’t get enough money, sex and true love from my man, I’ll look else where. No time!!

Shior!!

luminouz:
I still make 22k...and you already said you don't want that!!😛

luminouz:
Damn....you are impressing me these days. It's rare to see nice logical takes like these.

You are tempting me bayi o

luminouz:
Lol, you are new to Nairaland. Don't let people here corrupt you oh.

imagrg:
You never know with women my friend.
We tolerate them...This is the reason I call them a necessary evil.

NoahHadNoArk:
Ehen na😁
This thread is not for you nagha 😂

All those who know the truth that women are a necessary evil will gather here. And you will be outnumbered 1000 to 1


As you use your hand bring your mama and papa into this matter e concern u o 🤣🤣🤣


Peace I leave you jhare 🤣😂😂😂

NoahHadNoArk:
Let’s begin with you asking your Dad and you tell us his opinion







As for me and myself, this is my take

“women are a necessary evil”

Hold me to my words tomorrow!


My peace I leave you

Vinnie2000:
If you are a Broke married man and your Wife is okay with your condition,
You are doomed and will likely remain in POVERTY for Life! 😨😌😌

But If you have a Nagging, Materialistic, Loose-tongued wife,
You will be pushed to walk Bitter Paths to making Money.🤨🙂🙂


If you are a Man and your wife happily takes your N500 to cook Okro soup, You better be Worried.😏😏
Do Something that will make her Reveal her Frustrations/Anger in the marriage.

You need to be Told Harsh words, to wake you up from your Slumber! 😕😕



Nplfmod. Push to FP for Pple to learn.

Dtruthspeaker:
Your cover up no work!

You are just complaining because you know I have exposed all your operations and now your men market will get even drier.

immortalcrown:
You surround yourself with bad people.

That's why you think there is no good woman on earth. I know some women that are good.

I agree the majority of women is bad. We should also admit that the majority of men are bad. But there are good men and good women.

Your mother is a woman. You are basically saying she hate your father. Your sisters and your (unborn) daughters are women. You are basically saying they all hate their husbands.

adaperry25:
Is it a Nigerian thing or something? Met 2 ladies already and its same old stuff.

I initiate all chats and calls. If I don't call..no communication..if I don't chat..no communication.

While chatting..you have to ask all the questions and bring up gists.

They can't call u randomly to ask after you.

I don tire o

Trying foreign ladies might not be a bad idea.

HellVictorinho6:
Was getting mentally exhausted

HellVictorinho6:
The opay is 8184275086


victor omerigwe


But these things dont make sense


Am not feeling entitled

Am fed up

My older sister was yarning dust about me investing in myself


Like wtf

What does she know about that?

She's not yarning dust she's only advising you to be better as a good sister.. if na others your daily breakfast will be insults upon insults.

Just calm down, think of a way out there are low-key hustles you can do for the main time to keep head above water... Plan, work hard and remember no condition is permanent.

Damn!

HellVictorinho6:
my wema account is dormant

my opay is useless cuz i have no android

I opened it with hope of getting an android

when people commit suicide, sometimes ,itz bcuz of people like u refusing to help bcuz u think they are trying to scam u.


if not bcuz i was born poor, what is 5k?


what can 5k do in todays economy?


accusing someone of scam online is not wise until u confirm 4rm EXTERNAL SOURCES.

I rest my misery/case

vickydevoka:
If a ladies start earning 100k , oko nobody can hear again