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Good move, na her toto go hot. I hope the marriage will come with financial upkeep for the men too?

Nobody expected anything less from the poor acting. Na dem dem show of shame.

GOOD MOVE! But when will you drastically reduce your aides, minimize all convoys to just 3 max, reduce the fleet of presidential jets from 11 to 2or 3, eliminate yearly recycled projects in ALL budgets, cancel foreign schools for the kids of govt officials, cancel medical tourism for all govt officials, etc

Kudos! This is type of news we want from the North. This is the type of youth Northerners should emulate... not sheik gumi when he was a young man returning from Saudi a few years ago.

So, because you think everyone is a crook and hypocrite, they don't deserve to demand for good governance?
At least, they didn't plead and CRY like Bubu to be given the chance to rule and do better. As long as politicians and civil servants chose without compulsion to hold office and lead, every Nigerian regardless of moral standing has a right to demand good leadership and returns on the trust and goodwill given to them. If they can't deliver, they should leave the bloody office for Pete's sake!

Splen07:
The way people are commenting abusing this politicians ehhh u will think if they get access to this positions they will make a change
HYPOCRITES everywhere

So, who is fooling who? Nigerians deserve this gluttonous jokers they call politicians and civil servants. If not, they know what to do , but choose not to do it!

Greatness is not just mouthed, it MUST be demonstrated. So far Nigeria has not demonstrated greatness, it has only mouthed it. Scarce resources in the hands of a prodigal child demands harsh consequences... Nigeria is a prodigal child with very scarce resources in her care.

Lazycapitalist2:
School analogy is not the same as country/nationstate analogy

You believe whites are superior to blacks and need to hang around to guide and direct them black babies. I am free to call that idea bunkum. I am also free to believe that we can and have great potential to grow without any additional guidance from the europeans, arabs, asians, or other africans for that matter.

And the best way to do that is simple. Work within the system

So there was never ONE Nigeria at any point . I wonder why some people are trying to sell that narrative to this generation?

BeLookingIDIOT:
How is this hate? He was just being honest about putting his people first.

The condition that made it legally her name ( marriage to me) no longer exists.

Well it was a short marriage (6yrs) been divorced for another 6yrs.

Retaining my name can mislead the public. Unscrupulous people can also use the retained marital name in ways the owner of the name by birth do not want.

Imagine if the ex spouse becomes a IndecentStar, a murderer or a terrorist? The maiden name is saved and the marital name becomes soiled.
Everyone should answer their papa name after a divorce. There is nothing misogynistic about that. I don’t think Dangote or Otedola’s daughters will struggle to keep a martial name in the event of a divorce.

There is nothing wrong in letting kids understand the concept of divorce. Relationships shouldn’t be by force. Even God wont force you into a relationship with HIM.

9jaRealist:
It’s HER PERSONAL CHOICE...

You couldn’t have compelled her to...
Once taken, it legally becomes HER NAME.

PS: If you have kids, why wouldn’t you want to share the same surname?
It’s egoistic (or simply misogynistic) to think it’s all about you. But likely you had a relatively short marriage.
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Isn’t this the so called founding father that told a BBC reporter how much he hated Igbos & wanted them removed from the North?
Do we need to celebrate people like this?!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pPbxt23nVTM

People and power magazine? LOL!
Purchased award from an unknown magazine.
Nigerians are just clowns! So, this minister will proudly display the plaque & look at it every morning like a real award?! LOL!

I hope people know El Rufai is Buhari X5?
This guy is so sure he will be VP or president one day. That will be doom for Southern Nigerians & non-muslims .

Your take over plan is taking longer than anticipated abi? Your cover is blown!

Like iI said if the man doesn’t mind and you feel keeping the name benefits you, there is no law that restricts you... if the name isn’t copyrighted by the man. In Mo’s case, she created a brand from her marital name. That brand is registered legally, that is why she won. The ‘brand name’ won not Mo. I am talking in terms of social context not commercial context. It is a proper thing to do after a divorce.
if you acquired the name by legal marriage, why should you keep it when that legal union gets dissolved? If you have any financial claim in the marriage, you can seek legal means to acquire that claim. Retaining your marital name is of no effect in future benefits from a dissolved marriage.
A woman who has a name worth volumes will not struggle to keep somone else’s.

sisisioge:
Your ex probably had no investment on the name hence the reason she let go at your request as she honestly has no obligation under the law to do so. Take Mo Abudu for example, her ex even sued her at a point to stop using his name but she won in court. The name was hers to keep as she had been known with the name....imagine her changing to Mo Whatever now just because the husband says so...will he buy her brand identity, goodwill, age, popularity, etc back?

If she has no real attachment to it na to leave the name jejely jare. As for me, if I ever find myself divorced from my husband, we have kids together and I have no plans to remarry, I will probably hold on to the name. Why will I be Wura Adediwura when my kid is Ifeolua Adedayo? We sha remain Adedayo together biko.

I disagree with you. I am divorced and my ex wife has changed her name back to her maiden name as requested by me.
It only makes logical sense. The kids have nothing to do with the name chage that should come with severing the legal bond you have with your ex spouse.
If the man doesn’t mind, there is no issues, but if he does... why not? If you ain’t still obsessed with the man, you should gladly do a name change back to your maiden name. That makes the divorce a clean cut.

9jaRealist:
Has NOTHING to do with “getting under the skin” of some dude you are leaving - that’s just MISOGYNISTIC thinking...
The name and marriage is part and parcel of your life, and if you have kids with the dude you will all be sharing the SAME surname.
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Actually, none. They all have a MediaTek (MTK) chipset which always develops major issues in the long run. If you plan to only own the phone for 1year, then you can go for mid range Xiomi Redmi note 9T.

Emuf:
Dear Nlanders,

I plan to buy a very good phone this weekend. My budget is between 60 - 70k. Please recommend a good phone within my budget.

Thank You.

Ideally? No, the woman simply does a name change just like she diid when she was married and wanted to change her maiden name.
But, technically you can if you want to get under the skin of the man. Since he doesn’t have copyright to the name, you can officially file for a name change to his surname...

Mr. rapist go and continue raping your mum & sisters. That’s the only thing you are proud of in your miserable life, MF Osu like you.. Anuofia! You hate anything good, that’s why nothing good comes to you. Scum of the earth.

StrongInBed:
I'm strong in bed for your mum. I hope your sister also confirmed it and presently that your little girl friend is also trying to get to bed with me.

You know what i am saying outcast.
Osu, that’s why you call yourself ‘STRONGINBED’! LOL! Mr. Strong in bed for his biological mother!
Only an Osu like you can be proud of lusting after his own mother. You incestuous MFing OSU!

StrongInBed:
You are saying what your people are known for, are you sure that your father is not your grandfather?

Osu! Your mother is waiting for you in bed. Stop transferring aggression to others . Keep raping your mum & tell your governors to do better ok?!
Frustrated bastard! ������

StrongInBed:
They can only rape the Coward like you mother not mine because I'm a biafran and no half brain from other part have say in my city.

When did you Cross to benin republic? How many of your family members has been raped since this Land grabbing started, share your pains we will respond.

Don’t worry, i have time to describe idiots like you.
I’m sure you haven’t raped your mother again recently.... the calming effect it has on you is missing. That’s why you decided to be this aggressive. Were Oloriburuku. Omo Ale.
Instead of a sane conversations, you choose insults. Onirankiran!

StrongInBed:
We don't share border with benin republic, those in refugee camps there looks exactly like you.

Oga go back to the asylum where you belong. You have missed several doses of your injection... OSU !LOL!!!

StrongInBed:
Muslim terrorist, I'm your Superior and crusader to your kind animal.. there is nothing like OSU in our land all osus are useless afonja like you who migrated to our zone.

There is a clear methodical agenda by a group to kill as many police personnel as possible in the SE. This is so unfortunate as I think murdering someone who you are not even sure is part of the injustice the murderer perceives is wrong!
I postulate the following reasons for the continued murder of these police personnel:
1. Revenge mission
2. An attempt to distabilize the SE
3. An agenda to establish the foundation for SE territories where a secessionist insurgency can govern
4. Deliberate dark agenda to force the need for state police

Sadly, I can’t even see a solution in sight, as i perceive a tacit local support for the murderers and arsonists in the SE.

I do not celebrate you Osinbajo! Until you talk sense into your principal to do better for all of Nigeria. If he doesn’t act, then you need to salvage your honor and resign from the government destroying Nigeria rapidly.
Then. I will celebrate you sir.

I am convinced that you are a classless, uneducated, outcast from the east. Your Igbo brethren dont even see you as human, so why should I ?
You tactless, bitter OSU. I argued with you based on facts , but the madness in you is throwing insults in place facts. Clothed mad cockroach.

StrongInBed:
Rant on pained afonja slave, The last time I checked asaba is fully igbo town in Delta and it's capital, PH is also igbo and the list goes on while you Muslim slaves can't have say over here you Lost goat's resort to envy.. go and develop oshogbo at least your grand parents sold All your lands to us.. soon what happen in kwara will replicate in all your brown roof republic. Ewu.

90% of Non Igbos dissociate themselves from Igbos in the SS. I even heard no sane non-igbo will sell land to an Igbo person in the SS the way Yorubas tolerate your ungrateful kind. The elders will refund your money and punish their son who sold the land to an Igbo man. I don’t blame Wike for his aggression towards the Igbo ingrates in Rivers.

You forget that a slave is someone who is exploited to DEVELOP other people’s lands. Yorubas ain’t wasting time developing Igboland, but Igbos are self-acclaimed DEVELOPERS OF OTHER PEOPLE’S LANDS... while their land remains in ruins.

I ask who is a slave now?!

I was in Aba and I couldn’t believe how dirty it was. Later your kind will claim to be clean people!

https://www.premiumtimesng.com/features-and-interviews/375805-despite-thriving-businesses-aba-remains-a-pigsty.html

StrongInBed:
Kepp fooling yourself, IGBOLAND IS BEYOUND SOUTH EAST and you have never been to even a single one, what took you there first? You are a muffy feeling funky.

Again you are a Muslim and act like one, our slave.

I am a christian who has been to 4 of 5 SE states. Seeing how underdeveloped those places are, I realized the clownish nature of the Igbos. Develop your lands, stay there and stop acting like proper bastards who leaves his father’s house in ruins.

Ask your governors to create favorable policies for your people (and probably others). Stop greedily trying to claim what is not yours.

Channel this your misguided rant to your igbo leaders. You are looking for enemies in other tribes while your real enemies are your leaders and inhospitable people.

StrongInBed:
Said a Muslim slave that don't know the direction to river niger.

You really sound like an uneducated slowpoke. Until the military created SS states, Calabar was part of the old eastern region fool.

There is no collective effort in Lagos. Smart Yorubas just created an environment that allowed everyone thrive. Your people saw it and came to benefit from the favorable policies of Lagos & the benevolence of the Yoruba people.

Sadly ingrates like you is why Yorubas are becoming increasingly intolerable of your kind.

majamajic:
U don't have sense sir , why ogbomosho and orders didn't grow ? So calabar is SE too

Why not accept that Lagos is combined effort , u running up and down like headless chicken

Yorubas have never fought against the withdrawal of the SE from Nigeria. This question should be directed at the Hausa/Fulani hegemony.

winterfell007:
You are just cynical. Why won't your government grant them their referendum to form their country and stop trooping to your 'oyinbo' Lagos?

I modified my comment. Biafra war was over 50yrs!
Pls stop clowning. You want to compare Lagos of 1993 to now? You forget that the capital moved 30odd yrs ago? Lagos is 100% better than it was since then.
Calabar was a capital too, and it was in the old SE region, what did the SE do with that?!
Like I said SE is SE problem, quit blaming others. DEVOTE YOUR ENERGY INTO DEMANDING GOOD GOVERNANCE FROM SE GOVERNORS!

Your elites in the SE have cleverly forced you to see Yorubas as your enemies while they loot you to stupor right under your noses!!!

majamajic:
Lagos is a combination of efforts , a former federal capital city , just like an hausa man using Abuja for example , use oshogbo and alagbdo as examples

Its over 50years since the Biafran war. A serious minded people can pull intellect and resources to rapidly develop their state.
It took Qatar. UAE & China less to develop poor neighborhoods into what they are now. Get up your lazy asses & demand good governance from your gluttonous governors in the SE who connive with the enemy to undevelop your land. Instead you focus so much energy on pointing fingers at those who originally don’t even see you.

The truth is that Igbos are not united & they fear that their kit & kin will kidnap or murder them if they go back home to invest. You people need to change this behavior 1st.

What has the SE governors done to create investments hubs for igbos? Do they even patronize Igbo products? No SE governor uses Innoson like the Americans use GM & Ford, like the British use Jaguar & Land Rovers.

Igbos are Igbos problem not Yorubas. But you guys devote too much energy into hating Yorubas, whence you have little energy left to develop your own shacks & slums in the SE.

ogwumgbe:
Biafran war affected our region development wise, but we are getting there now gradually, also because of the free thinking minds of igbos, we take every other places as our homes and invest there with our resources believing after all that we are Nigerians , not knowing that people fighting to keep Nigeria as one are hypocrites who pretend to love Nigeria but never practice it. But thank God for IPOB that has opened the eyes of many Igbos, let's see what will happen in just 10 years from now. The cargo international Airport in Anambra State will force the real developers of Lagos to use it for their business and that will be the demise of Lagos. No wonder you people hate IPOB so much. God bless MNK

Life is step by step. Rome was not built in a day. Gradually, the whole of the SW will model Lagos. When will any LG in the SE be developed like the S Easterners are claiming they develop everywhere else?!

StrongInBed:
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We all have better thing, when are you going to be proud of oshogbo?