Romance › Re: How Many People Have You Dated So Far? by Uche2nna(m): 9:19pm On Sep 28, 2006 |
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Romance › Re: Ladies: Will You Marry A Poor, Jobless Man? by Uche2nna(m): 9:16pm On Sep 28, 2006 |
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Romance › Re: How Many People Have You Dated So Far? by Uche2nna(m): 9:13pm On Sep 28, 2006 |
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Romance › Re: How Many People Have You Dated So Far? by Uche2nna(m): 9:06pm On Sep 28, 2006 |
Hey,I want to realy understand if there is a big difference bw date and relationship |
Politics › Re: Breaking News: Nigerian Governors Indicted by Uche2nna(m): 9:04pm On Sep 28, 2006 |
But EFCC is kind of limited by Baba's instructions! |
Politics › Re: Breaking News: Nigerian Governors Indicted by Uche2nna(m): 9:01pm On Sep 28, 2006 |
Iyke-D: Nigerians, can't please them at all! Everybody is not indicted or in jail so EFCC or Ribadau is not doing his job or is being selective, so they say.
If the same crowd of doubting Thomases care enough to read they will see where Ribadu pointed out yesterday that it if was really about 3rd term as some critics have suggested, that the senate president himself would have been in jail? Still not impressed.
They will also see where he claimed that foreign agencies provided him with information to collaborate suspected looters, and that the EFCC actually started with Obasanjo's name. Still not impressed.
But, but, but what about Transcorp and Obasanjo's shares? But, but, but what about the N50million bribes to senators (yet no single senator has been able to come forward), still not impressed.
Folks, Obasanjo and Ribadu is going to dissappoint a lot of you on this corruption thing. I am happy to say I was one of the few people voicing support for Obasanjo and EFCC. Whether all the governors walks or not, a new trend of transparency is being set in the country. It will be a deterrent to future office holders. I am hopeful. Honestly,I think the concept of EFCC is very nice |
Romance › Re: Ladies: Will You Marry A Poor, Jobless Man? by Uche2nna(m): 8:58pm On Sep 28, 2006 |
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Romance › Re: Lonely: When will I ever see him again? by Uche2nna(m): 8:54pm On Sep 28, 2006 |
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Family › Re: The Ideal Age Gap Between You And Your Spouse? by Uche2nna(op): 2:27am On Sep 28, 2006 |
izoneb: Uchenna better hang out with your mates.Na so e de start. Na so wetin dey start  izoneb: Now am getting angry.What do you mean when you are in Nigeria.Y the emphasis?where you de?Another igbo man. Is it only in naija u hang out with seniors?Read your post and make more sense.I wan know where u de. I really do not understand your grouse!And y are u alluding to my 'IGBONESS'.Yes I am an Igbo man(a proud one for that matter) but wat is the relevance of that to the topic of the thread!Na wa o!The world is a global village in terms of everything including prejudice and tribalism! |
Romance › Re: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Uche2nna(m): 2:20am On Sep 28, 2006 |
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Celebrities › Re: Charlize Theron Is The Best African Actress by Uche2nna(m): 8:42pm On Sep 27, 2006 |
Orikinla: Uche2nna, I found that picture showing that queer guy smelling her bum very disgusting!  Yeah,I think that sucks! |
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Romance › Re: Ex-Boyfriend Calls And Hangs Up by Uche2nna(m): 8:15pm On Sep 27, 2006 |
Where is Kiki  @Lauryn Hmmph! |
Family › Re: Please Help, My Wife Wants To Leave Me by Uche2nna(m): 1:13am On Sep 27, 2006 |
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Family › Re: Please Help, My Wife Wants To Leave Me by Uche2nna(m): 12:43am On Sep 27, 2006 |
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Romance › Re: Ex-Boyfriend Calls And Hangs Up by Uche2nna(m): 10:58pm On Sep 26, 2006 |
Yeah!Pleased to hear that!Do not let anything get you dejected!I have been thru a lot of shit too but I am still here!So if a weak person like me can still stand up amidst all the thorns of life then I believe you can do it! |
Romance › Re: Ex-Boyfriend Calls And Hangs Up by Uche2nna(m): 10:52pm On Sep 26, 2006 |
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Celebrities › Re: Charlize Theron Is The Best African Actress by Uche2nna(m): 7:50pm On Sep 26, 2006 |
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Romance › Re: Lonely: When will I ever see him again? by Uche2nna(m): 6:56pm On Sep 26, 2006 |
somegirl: I do think he loves me but I don’t remember him saying it. He wrote me poems in the beginning, love poems just for me. He doesn’t do so anymore. I remember one evening when he brought up the topic of getting married and having children. For me it was way too early back then and I asked him not to talk about it yet. However, I did like that he had touched the matter because I took it as a sign for his seriousness and since then he has been avoiding it.
I know I am pressing him hard at the moment to do what I want him to do so that we can be together. The thing is that it always seemed that he wanted to do exactly that what he now seems to be reluctant to persuade. Yes, the application I hope he will send of soon is not for his favourite country, in fact it is not even where I would like him to go if I could decide. However, the UK is too expensive for a non-EU student if you’re not rich.
Call me stupid, but I think he loves me. To me he seems depressed and confused, not crazy nor mad and definitely not gay. When he tells me he doesn’t love me, I wonder if it is just a flinching to protect himself so that nobody can get close enough to hurt him. I know I’ve caused him pain over the last couple of months but so has he when keeping quiet about the things in his life.
Unfortunately, I was raised completely in Europe, unfortunately I have not spend enough time in Nigeria to understand the little information he sometimes shares with me. Unfortunately, he has never been here and has never experienced the difference. When I question him it might often be because I know it differently from here and the parts of his story he leaves out I fill with bits of life in Europe which makes it an all-confusing picture.
He has said now he doesn’t love me but how can I take it seriously when in the same breath he says other things that are not true, that he knows that I know they aren’t true. I wonder if he just says it to hurt me so that I will break up with him. He even advices me to do so and then he says he’s confused. Confused about what? He says he doesn’t love me – one might think he was sure about it if there was not this defiant undertone in his voice (you demand an answer, so let me give you a “no”) and then the avowal that he’s confused. Just a few days ago he was still saying that he is thinking of me, in a language that is so hard for me to understand.
I had hopped he would realize from this thread that the tiny amount of information he let’s me have would cause a many people to draw certain conclusions (I didn’t expect that they would be that many though). It doesn’t seem to have worked an I’ve decided to wait. What else should I do? Don’t say “leave him”.
But I know if he will not start SHOWing me his love (despite the distance), my love for him will fade away over time and, one day, I’ll meet somebody else. Not necessarily somebody I like more, maybe even somebody who could never compete with him if I had had a real choice, but somebody who is here and not somewhere far away on another continent. Olufe, I know you’ll read this and I want to tell you: For now, I (still) love you.
Tell me why What did I do?
Just the other night the love of my life went away And I can’t sleep at night it’s driving me crazy Why can’t you see that I miss looking in your eyes Why can’t you see that I miss kissing you at night?
I still love you Please take my hand Let me help you to understand Ain’t nobody gona love you like I do Ain’t nobody gona do the things I do for you
Tell me why when I call you at home You say you're with your friends, don’t call no more Why can’t you see the love that’s right in your face Why can’t you see that I don’t want no one to come and take your place
(Amanda Perez - I Still Love You)  |
Celebrities › Re: Charlize Theron Is The Best African Actress by Uche2nna(m): 6:41pm On Sep 26, 2006 |
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Celebrities › Re: Charlize Theron Is The Best African Actress by Uche2nna(m): 6:33pm On Sep 26, 2006 |
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Events › Re: Please Announce Your Birthday Here: by Uche2nna(m): 6:18pm On Sep 26, 2006 |
neelsel: And what is that to you? Were you the one who nurtured my mom's cravings, cut my 'navel string' and sent me to school and college? Dang!Girl slow ya row |
Romance › Re: Ex-Boyfriend Calls And Hangs Up by Uche2nna(m): 6:05pm On Sep 26, 2006 |
Cool  .Hope you already having a nice week |
Romance › Re: Girls Who Force Themselves On Guys by Uche2nna(m): 6:02pm On Sep 26, 2006 |
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Romance › Re: Ex-Boyfriend Calls And Hangs Up by Uche2nna(m): 5:59pm On Sep 26, 2006 |
kiki: hey Uche? Hi Girl.How body? |
Romance › Re: Ex-Boyfriend Calls And Hangs Up by Uche2nna(m): 5:56pm On Sep 26, 2006 |
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Romance › Re: Ex-Boyfriend Calls And Hangs Up by Uche2nna(m): 5:56pm On Sep 26, 2006 |
kiki: hey Uche thatnx for axin well i'm feeling much better now thanx alot 4carin You are welcome anytime anyday! |
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