₦airaland Forum

Pavore9:
How does love for spouse reflect in infidelity? This rationalization baffles me or does the faith or none you profess affirms your position?

help me ask o

joxxy01:
As a guy, maybe u should consider marrying a porn star and then u would understand what the article meant on the long run

A good number of porn stars and strippers are married

So?

toplinetrtrend:
women should go ahead and marry more than one husband nah. Let's see how they will fair

there are cultures in this world that permit that...
their civilization is not dead yet

So what are you saying?

PlusVibez:
For the guys. The fear of dangerously beautiful cheating wives is the beginning of many parts on the shoulder that you are an overcomer, CONGRATULATIONS! It ushers you into great shoes of confidence to conquer your destiny and at peace with your conscience. If you can overcome the ones that looks like goddesses, the ugly cheating wives na moi-moi.
Saying from experience. I can relate to all the words said here. I had to break my sim card, travelled to another State for a year far away from the possessed and obsessed one married woman like that that was all over me back then. When after much plead to make love to her failed, to prove her love me, she suggested we elope to another country where we can start a new life, that she has saved millions to take care of our needs for life. She leaked every unimaginable secrets of her husband to me; everything. All this bullshit started from just normal greeting ooo whenever i walk pass her, shikena! Love just possessed her.

Most times we men contribute to their cheating. Boy friend, man friend, husband, whichever one you are, never give your wife the silence treatment. Communication matters a lot in every relationship, be romantic/playful with your wife, let her be monitored lovingly and passionately without the feeling of being alone. I learned a lot after making personal assessment of why she wanna cheat on her multi-millionaire husband who gave her all the cars and houses even with the intention of eloping with me.

She was at my mercy, i could have used her to my own selfish advantage, but thank God for my christian upbringing and to my wonderful mother early sermons which occasionally rings in my ear. That verse in the bible that says train up a child bla...bla...really works. I for dey for one mansion codedly living off d life with her, but to what ends? God forbid! For the men in the house, never give her any reason to cheat. Continue being the wonderful biblical husband to her and watch how God unites, bless and move your family to the permanent site like the likes of Pastor Oyedepo and wife, Pastor Paul Eneche and wife and others. Gracias.

You have spoken well....

African man does not believe in catering to the needs of their wives, hence all these troubles, it's all abt them then and them

but I won't blame them 100 % tho

after all they paid "Brideprice"

an emotionally vulnerable woman is easy prey for those ravenous wolves in sheep clothing bad boys we have there

SLBMS:
TO MY FELLOW MEN OUT THERE.

If you like your life, if you want to keep your sanity DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT EVER EVER EVER GET MARRIED unless you have a relationship with God. If you have no relationship with God you cannot escape what is to come.

The greatest weapon of he devil is a WOMAN. Not because they are evil creatures but because they are emotionally wired and soft. Satan brought about the fall of man not through Adam but through the weaker vessel Eve. Same with Samson, King Ahab. David at a time. There is no greater weapon in the arsenal if the devil than women. That's why majority of women are into witchraft.

On a personal note I just learnt last week that the man I have always known as my dad is not my dad. Apparently I was the product of an affair and as such for years tried to figure out why the rejection and hatred and animosity towards me. I've had my "dad" spit on my face countless times and suffered physical abuse. I still bear the physicals scars of a childhood of pain and brutality. Guys, our society has fallen deeper into debauchery with the advent of social media and cell phones. It's now very easy for a women to hook up with an ex or something and have sex at he discretion. 15 years ago it was impossible. Many people today do not realise that they may be the product of an affair. The institution called marriage is DEAD. It's no longer a sacred thing but a joke.

Have a kid, raise your child.

dayum

sorry bro

Adakintroy:
You are referring to African women. Mostly subdue by cultural thinking of what a woman should or should not do. Lift those away and take yourself to the western societies and women are having one night stands like no one business.

no mind him

hammerFC:
ALL THIS SUGAR MUMMY FUUCUKING YOUNG BOYZ UP AND DOWN, I WONDER IF THEY DO SO WITH EMOTION OR JUST FOR FUN.


NIGGAS LEARN, WOMEN ARE JUST LIKE U OR MAYBE WORSE.

don't mind him

Headlesschicken:
A cheat x a cheat, doesn't matter d gender,n!gga stop talking sh!t,most ppl now cheat wivout reason cos it has just become a lifestyle... We r all human beings regardless of the gender..

true

Divoc:
A man can cheat on his woman and still love her but a woman cannot cheat on her man and still love him. I say this because while many men do not have s**x with emotions, women can’t have s**x without attaching emotions to it. This is the reason men simply need a place to have s**x while women need a reason to have s**x.

Most women who take their husbands to court for divorce are those that cheat on their men. A non cheating woman would most likely never take her husband to court for divorce, unless the man exceedingly abuses her physically and emotionally to the point of killing her.

Men don’t equate s**x with love. A man can have s**x with another woman but still doesn’t love her. That’s why women who fall in love with married men find it difficult to find happiness in those relationships as they are just being used by those married men. But once a married woman starts sleeping with you, she can even narrate some hidden secrets concerning her husband and she will even tell you why she hates him (her husband). She can even accept poison from you to eliminate her husband.

For men, s**x and love are two different things. But for women, s**x and love are one and the same thing. For men, s**x comes first before love (infatuation), but for women love comes first before s**x (true love). Therefore, once your woman starts having s**x with another man/men, her love shifts from you to that man and she can even start giving that man the best food and love than she gives you.

The fact that your man is cheating on you doesn’t mean he has stopped loving you. But I can’t say the same for women. Once a woman starts cheating on you, she has fallen for someone else and you people will never live the same again. And she can even kill her husband once she starts cheating on him.

If your wife starts cheating, you should be a lucky man not to die in less than 10 years. It has been found that 95% of women who cheat wish their husbands dead. That is the main reason it is dangerous for a man to continue staying with a wife who cheats on him. That is why it is now encouraged everywhere in the world including in the Bible, for a man to divorce his wife only once she starts cheating on him. Cheating women are more deadly to husbands than ordinary criminals or weapons.

There are many cheating women in the world who invite criminals to break into her house at night only to come and eliminate her man and police officers plus relatives can’t detect this as the same woman tend to mourn more than any person at the funeral so as to attract sympathy and hide her evil acts.

That’s why psychologists discourage women,more than men, from cheating.
Women can’t handle the emotional conflict that comes with cheating.

That’s the reason an observant and intelligent man will notice that his wife has started cheating on him once he starts doing it because most women tend to lose respect for their husbands and try to avoid s**x with them in most times.

Cheating Women will even be giving excuses for not wanting to have s**x with their husbands. Study has revealed that nearly 90% of women who cheat find it hard to have enjoyable s**x with their husbands, again an intelligent man will detect this once his wife’s behaviour with regard to s**x starts changing. But a dull man can never detect this and always tolerates fake excuses from his cheating wife until he is completely eliminated.

Women can’t cheat on their partners with people they are not emotionally involved with. They attach emotions to everything. That’s why you can’t always trust their judgement. When a joke is cracked, most women who laugh are not laughing because the joke is funny but because they like the person who cracked the joke. If they don’t like you, no matter how funny your joke may be, they won’t laugh, but when a man laughs at a joke, it’s because the joke is funny, not because he likes the comedian. Men are not always sentimental and emotionally involved.

Study has shown that every relationship begins to flounder once a woman starts cheating. There are many men who cheat on their partners but still show them true love. But it is very hard to find a relationship in which a woman is cheating and things still remain the same.

I repeat, nearly 100% of cheating women wish their husbands quick death or divorce to have unlimited s**x freedom while nearly 100% of cheating men can’t wish their wives quick death or divorce. That is why most men can’t allow their wives to be physically or verbally abused by their girlfriends. Men will always stand for their wives.

A man would cheat but would still love and respect his wife, but the opposite is true with cheating women.
Once your wife starts sleeping with other men/man, just know that your death is near.


https://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/11/cheating/

this one na yeye talk.


so a woman having an affair with the gateman is emotionally attached to the gateman?


Yeye

meobizy:
I remember when I poured carrot juice into two different women.
I’m meant to have two thirteen year old children now if those women didn’t do the needed.

lol

Unlimited22:
Only reason I'll pick Canada is because the option for dual citizenship is straightforward. Germany only allows it in special instances.

this is another valid point

omohayek:
And you think it was always like that? Do you realize that anti-Asian racism in the west used to be so bad that the US completely banned Chinese immigration in 1882, Canada did the same in 1885, and Australia followed in 1901? Are you aware that it was the imposition of similar policies against the Japanese, including the veto of their attempt to add a "Racial Equality Clause" to the League of Nations charter, which set them on the path that would lead to Pearl Harbor? I'm guessing you have no clue just how many tens of millions of Asians died in racist wars of imperialist aggression between the Opium Wars of 1852 and the end of the Vietnam War in 1975? Did you have even the faintest idea that it was the black Civil Rights movement that eventually pushed the USA to roll back its anti-Asian laws and allow them to start immigrating in the late 1960s?

As I said, you speak from a position of rank ignorance, fueled by nothing more than your own self-loathing. It took a lot of Asians dying horrible deaths in war for them to reach the point you see today, from nuclear bombs on Hiroshima and Nagasaki to napalm carpet-bombing of South Vietnam; it wasn't as if white people simply decided "These guys are alright, let's treat them better than black people", they forced the west to respect them the hard way, through fighting that would make the Biafran War look like child's play, just as the Israel so many Nairalanders uncritically admire forced the world to take Jews seriously by repeatedly beating the Arabs in war. Nobody respects a despised group just because they happen to follow some "model minority" template, that's just some right-wing hogwash for consumption by the self-hating.

interesting perspective

emsheddy:
How some set of idiots believe it's ok for the President to decide who heads National Assembly beats me. Who will check the excesses of the Executive arm then?

It baffles me too.


That goes to show the low quality citizens we have in that failed $hithole zoo!

Educational system failed them
Failed educational system and value system is to blame

myopic citizens


Tufiakwa

Baawaa:
You follow man to hotel by 5am,moreover where is she coming from by that time

Don't be stupid

just don't be

can't you read?

Denikayan:
Be chest beating. They will go bankrupt by 2023 to sustain their lifestyle.

Can they make what psquare was giving them

don't be too sure

Denikayan:
Be chest beating. They will go bankrupt by 2023 to sustain their lifestyle.

Can they make what psquare was giving them

don't be too sure

Denikayan:
Initial shakara


Dey won't be able to sustain their lifestyle come 2023
Money is being spent and psquare is dead
They better get back to winning ways, unless, Owu go kill them

They may be heavy in other investments tho
you never can tell

OYAY:
It is obvious that the lady is a scam and jobless because I don't see the reason for demanding gratification for helping a less privilege minor!!! I suggest she should be arrested for wanting to turn that innocent girl to her money making machine!!!!

You see the kind of people we have in Nigeria

NewBea:
We'll get there.

get where?
lmao

eduson33:
when will African countries be discussed like this?

maybe never

Africans have chosen to remain foolish

Both countries are good in their own way.

Realtord43:
Is APC a united party? lawan endore by oshiomole, ndume bless to contest by Buhari and Tinubu and Goje back by some APC senator. so you see that the party is divided nd so any one the minority choose to support will win

that is what I'm telling him


once APC presents two to three candidates

They have already lost it

StOla:
Delusion of grandeur.
What power does the minority have when the majority is united?

that is where the APC will make mistake the second time

They are NOT United And PDP got the block votes that can sway the way things will go.

There is going to be an election, and the APC votes are already split

Whoever PDP gives the block votes win.


this thing will shock you guys the second time

lionlee216:
Thanks bro. How is it going?

Fine o

how your wife?

ssogundele:
Youths don't wanna work and the few that want to do are not getting it except you're connected! May God help us all in this perilous time we are in. That how my former landlord brother in law sneaked into my apartment around midnight through the window to steal my phone! The privileged few should be prepared for a time is coming when their money and wealth wouldn't be able to buy them security!

you have said it all


in the next 15 years, Nigeria will become a Honduras /Guatemala or even worse

Let the elite continue to bask in the enclaves they have created for themselves
while the vast majority of Nigerians continue to suffer excruciating poverty, hopelessness and lack of opportunity

When the thing blows and the poor get berserk, they will all have to flee the country
Like is happening in Honduras


Population is growing, opportunities are scarce and even such opportunities are being sat on and cornered to a few


Tales of a third world failed $hithole mess called NiggerArea

lekzyn:
This is a very good development. At least, we start from somewhere than to do nothing. But can it be effective with Nigeria mentality.

that is the issue

Nigerian mentality

hisgrace090:
Backwardness continues.

I just pity them

Anambralstson:
Abia is not dead except you know nothing of Abia

The infrastructure in Abia is dead

I have been there

why do you guys like to lie like this?

Roads zero, waste management zero....


you can't compare with what is on ground in anambra state on average

All their billoons and whatever mean nothing when the place is like a dilapidated zone

ChristianNorth:
If you are not from Anambra shut-up, Abia still has more millionaires than where ever you came from

??


Abia is A DEAD STATE

infrastructures ZERO

It's a fact we all know

why are you picking offence?

EdenNG:
There is no Visa free route to Barbados you must either have US visa or some Caribbean country Visa to visit there, however note you may turn back upon arrival if your reason to visit is not legitimate or you don't have enough resources to support yourself during your stay! Try & do some research a lot of naija has been sent back from there.

that's interesting to know

lefulefu:
so true. Many of these married men wey dey play away matches dey carry HIV come house take infect their wives. Come and see in govt hospitals were pregnant wives dey do compuslory hiv screening and u will understand wat iyam talking about. In short ehn sometimes i feel sorry for married nigerian women whose husbands flirt around.any married woman whose husband is faithful to her no know how God take bless her.

your last paragraph is so true

MrBrownJay1:
let me guess, did he teach you to lick banana and bend down for that same banana? i guess not, so just enjoy life the way it comes at you, and NOT the way you imagine it should be. your above statement is not only dangerous but also very sad (if that is your excuse for running from your loving partner)

many people out there are getting married to handicapped and/or dwarves... this certainly isnt what they had planned but LIFE had other plans for them, and they dealt with it maturely/accordingly. pls open your mind.

you know the predominant shitty mentality in Nigeria

why are you still engaging them?


The way people think in that useless country is what makes me hate the country the most.

there are many hiv discordant couples even there in Nigeria

I read of a hairdresser back in 2009 who got the virus

and as at today, she is still with her man and her kids


tho she had to stop the business


But most Nigerians think like fools so I am not surprised by the comments