₦airaland Forum

BafanaBafana:
The woman is a genuis.
But despite all her qualifications and experience, Dangote who just managed to get one degree is her master now and signs her paycheck at the end of the month.

not entirely true

she has multiple streams of income

Neyoor:
The statistics though might not be accurate but it is verifiable. We all know where feminism is rampant and we know the divorce rate and single parent statistics in those places. This is Africa, where we are guided with morals and traditions. Submisiveness and respect is something that can't be wiped out of African morals and traditions. We are product of these things and changing it might hinder our relationships with one another.

Meanwhile, back to the subject at hand, feminism is not the only problem militating against harmonious relationship but then, feminism is a bane

point of correction

EVERY SOCIETY IS GUIDED BY MORALS AND TRADITIONS, not just Africa.

It's just that different societies are guided by different traditions, that's it.

All of you talkin about first class, be honest, who first class EPP

first class is for yourself and does not help the society in anyway.
All you did was to pass exams


However, if such monies are channelled to those who did good and meaningful research that profers tangible solutions to the society, then it will be a good thing

If not, the first class graduate is as useless as the BBN finalists

Of course he has kept his promise
To keep us as 5%

Anu Ofia di ka gi Of course he has kept his promise
To keep us as 5%

Anu Ofia di ka gi

Nwaohafia1:
Sophia shouldn't bother herself with Nigerians.

Her consolation should be someone paid $50 million as dowry and boxes full of diamonds, and not 45 million (ordinary) naira.

Someone will pay $50m for Sophia?


Abeg I no wan laugh

Narldon:


"I cannot date guys who can't buy me Porsche"


says a SlayQueen whose Bra has turned to Seat Belt...

bra like seatbelt
girl, you are WICKED

Dirkcoyt:
Easy my woman. is not that deep. Sex is an adventurous journey that we keep exploring and getting wowed the more. sex doesn't make you less intelligent or not. i think everyone just have todo what alive them alive with regret. So far i dont force her then no problem. dignity? selfworth? it has nothing todo with dignity but what makes you happy. you're lucky if your cravings her met.

i understand as a lady you might have some fears but like virgins before being deflowered they thought pussy sex was harmful till they try and we all know how it ends. so like anal until you try and try with a skillful person you never can tell if you might gibe that asshole up

The lady you quoted is from a conservative household, hence her world view.

you should understand that

KenModi:
There is a difference between a stripper and a prostitute but considering the high level of illiteracy and unexposure in Nigeria, you wld not understand no matter how it is explained to you. So lets just leave it there.

A lot of ignorant and unexposed folks I tell you

BeckyLynch:
I really support the motive of the restaurant!

Not everything is racially motivated as some inferiority complex laden Blacks usually paint it.

It could have been that blacks especially Nigerians usually run away in that restaurant without paying after their meal. Blacks are very terrible people. Am certain of what am saying because I have seen them do it most times in Italy. Nigerians just eat and bolt! They call it "street meal". So, I won't be surprised if this man has experienced it so many times from some shitt holeans and decided not to sell to blacks especially Nigerians!

You have a point

black folks can really misbehave

wizmikeee:
smh it's funny to see so called rich ass country like Nigeria richer than America, China, Germany, Australia. citizens relocating to hmmmmm not that rich and who's small like their brains Ghana. lol plz don't come the biggest jobs ugly no shape like yam Nigerian women do is ashawo and the illiterate men do is robbery. so plz stay in ur shithole country thanks but no thanks

What is this one saying

purples25:
He said material gain is the only reason a woman will stay like that. That's not true. I'm not justifying this, but , there are women out there for centuries who suffered and died at a poor man's hands. How about the many poor women with boyfriends and husbands equally broke, that have endured all the disrespect ? What would he then call those ? Shit diggers ? So , as you can see - material gain is not the only reason bro.

Then, he keeps talking about a woman who will stay. A woman who will stay. My dear, is there really, truly, even a fairly large amount of relationships where the men, or women are not cheating for that matter ? If you'd be honest, truly there's almost no such thing as this respectful relationship you are referring to. It's 10% of the population, rich or poor. The rest just hide their issues from the world. You know what this means ? It means that rich or poor, majority of women are not saints either. The lady staying with this man doesn't make her the gold digger you call her then. All is suffering, in her own case she will be crying for a rich unfaithful man, instead of a poor unfaithful man. Even without the money, millions are still languishing in relationships. Are those ones to be called shit diggers then, lol ? Is a golden casket really not a casket at the end of the day, same as a wooden one ?

You have things to hide . Things that you would be more than ashamed of. You are not good even by miles. If God were to judge without mercy you would be gone as soon as Chioma would be , because very few of us in this world are worthy. So its sad to wonder what gives you the arrogance to give her such names and accuse her so badly. My friend, I think you may have been happier if this woman was suffering this with a poor arrogant man. Then, you may have sat and smiled and calmly adviced her to leave, or even told her to endure. You see virtue in the same condition when it is a poor man, which is biased, and doesn't make sense.

I think, in my opinion therefore , that your fire might be borne out of envy or bitterness of only God knows what in your soul. But your type loves to make impact with harsh words man, so what can I say. I have a bro who is an expert on lashing one with words too.

I'm not supporting anyone and I wouldn't be a demon even if I did. Poor men are not angels either. Being in a poor relationship does not make those women good either, neither are they inferior. Go solve the underlying issues in your life leading to such an attack on your fellow human being.

Exactly!

How many women have I seen/heard of that were driven away from their homes by their husband's for not having a male child, or other stupid excuses?

How many women endure a whole lot under abusive husbands?


And a lot of people are pained by chioma's choice.

If she chooses to overlook the excesses of the man (as women have done since time immemorial, whose business is it


Nigerians just get this PhD mentality


The comments coming from ladies are even the worst.

They are masking their jealousy with hate speech

Women sef

laudate:
Don't mind them. What the guy was simply saying was that as a single girl, she should not have sacrificed her self-respect & dignity, on the altar of money, by staying glued to a guy who has little respect for her feelings!

Did most men of the past care about the feelings of their wives in the past

Before they took actions, did they care about how it could hurt the wife (or wives)?

But because of the "marriage" tag, you guys will not see anything wrong with it

sekem:
What exactly is wrong with our morals in this country?

Is this what poverty has eventually reduced us to?

How come no one saw the message in what the guy is trying to pass along?

But rather, they just chose to abuse him for speaking out?

Well, what am I even trying to say?

Of course, what else do you expect from a totally wasted generation?

The guy is talking rubbish as far as I'm concerned

Women of the past (our grand ma era) suffered a lot of disrespect and shit from their men (well not all men were like that, but a lot were) beating, chasing out of the house, cheating and polygamy and the list is endless

Didn't they still stay with such men

Or because they were "married" to such men?

The society has evolved, and it has come to stay.

whether we like it or not is immaterial

frankwealth:
she is average looking like the normal Jane out there.

Talk about Nigerian celebrities who married hot ladies, then u talk about:

1. Omolola the wife of Peter of Psquare
2. Adesua of Banky W
3. wife of Actor Iyke Ogbonna
4. Adaeze Yobo Joseph Yobo's wife
......and many others.....

Davido is just trying his best to hype the girl, and I think its because he met the girl a virgin not because she is that pretty

did you say virgin?

lol

Kobicove:
African culture does not permit an individual to call a much older and more experienced person by their first name.

I'm very sure that your 4 year old cousin or nephew/niece does not call you by your first name

Actually, they do

My family is not stuck with such mumu dogma

it belongs to the past

Chloe88:
the comparison isn't necessary

It us very necessary, so that those shameless men (and women too) change

Awon olodo

skillz121:
I have seen a fowl consume it's eggs. ....... Does it mean our women � should also do that to their babies? We are humans not animals.... It's crazy Dat some has chosen to behave like animals.. ... .. Take ur time and watch discovery channels, I bet u will see other weird animal behaviors Dat u will like to copy since animals are now ur role model

You are missing the point

Finstar:
WTF! She's what? A psychologist? She just spewed trash and her level of ignorance is highly appalling. This is what happens when you bag a degree in Nigeria.

Everything she wrote is laughable and has no scientific backings. I mean, what sort of a psychologist is this?

Homosexuality isn't a choice. These minority group grew up only to discover how different they are. They didn't choose to be gay, just as we straights never choose to be straight.

It saddens me when graduates are homophobic, and sardonic when a self acclaimed graduate of psychology make such illogical statement publicly. Folks like that are the reason Alan Turing committed suicide.

If not for western influence, we would have still be wallowing in darkness, killing twins because they seem unnatural. Because something is different doesn't make it evil. Enlightement is what we should all ask for.. I'm outta here mehn

SMH!

She is talking based on sentiments and world views shaped by her upbringing, nothing more.
A real professional will write without sentiment, like the ones you see in Mayo clinic

but Africans

youngest85:
Lesbianism is Ok but gay is abomination

What kind of nonsense talk is this bikonu?

kolawoleibukun:
Igbos are like disease to their own selves.
They will spray money on others at weddings. Spend millions to marry a girl. Show off in luxury fleets and build exorbitant mansions in foreign.

In their own hometown, they will build second-class homes and fence it off. But the roads leading to their homes are piles of mess. They do not want the poor to benefit from their own wealth. They want to give salt and bread to the poor so as to be perpetually praised and held in high regards.

Look at their roads and bridges. Everyone cares about his personal cash. But the ogbo man is the first to contribute for any devopment in Lagos. Wherever there is no light, igbo man will move in there and personally pay for NEPA connection. The igbo man will aggitate for the construction of bridges in Lagos. They complain of traffic jam hence the government makes the moves.

Unfortunately in their own states, nothing moves. The only governor to have made major changes in the east is Sullivan who constructed roads which had been a major setback for Enugu state.

Okorocha built a statute of Zuma, a man regarded as a criminal in his own hometown. There is no agitation and no conscience at all. Funny enough people go to take selfies by these statutes of criminals.

The on-goings in Anambra is like a war of thugs. Everyone is choked up in his own pride. They want to measure up with the next person. Everyone wants to step on someone and no one wants to be stepped on. The spirit on negative competition. In all the money and boasts from Anambrarians, Anambra is still an eye-sore giving that development of the Igbos began started from there. The earliest top easterners who rose to the helms of any government position or who height of capitalism came from Anambra. They boast of it and they fail to realize that is it a curse. The very first president, first governor general, first senate president and first millionaire or billionaire all came from Anambra. But go to Anambra today, more than a half of her children are outside the state. They have invested trillions elsewhere. They cannot live in the mansions that they build in their hometown. It is like a curse. They are hugely involved in rituals and unscrupulous means of earnings. The average Anambrarian has dual-religion and is supportive of illegality.

People from Imo state have danced their waists to foolery. Imo and Abia are beautiful. They are the most beautiful of all Igbos. . But to what end? When you talk of Handicraft, Abia is grade-A. They create and they are decent. But, when the head is twisted the brain moves along with it.
People from Imo state have used their traditional to destroy themselves. The tradition and attitudes are very bad. Gossip and evil-oriented agendas have destroyed those people. They cannot move forward. Owerri is the helm of success in those places yet who wants to go to Owerri? No one!

The east is not a choice place to live for the average Igbo man. They are all seeking greener pastures elsewhere.

This bridge has been this way for years but no one cares. They will rather seek alternative route than repair a place that is not their very own plot.

Shame on the pride of igbos. It has eaten up your success.

Do not blame the government for everything. Lagos was not developed by the government, but by the people. Igbos inclusive. Igbos have developed even badagry. Today, there is not boundary between Lagos and Ogun state thanks to Igbos. Soon, there will be no border between Seme and Cotonou, thanks to Igbos.


This is Igbo through the eyes of an outsider.

This is not an accurate description of Igbo people


The truth remain that govt has failed across the country, That's it

igbobuigbo:
I don't know which part of the U.S. you speak of, but in West Virginia, Oklahoma, Mississippi, Alabama, Arkansas and Louisiana, poverty is so rife in large swathes that a car is a luxury for many. Besides, most Americans who own cars took loans to get them, with heavy interest. Many are still paying up, and a lot have had their cars impounded by lenders due to non-payment. So please take your fairy tale to the land of the ignorant.

no mind that guy

dominique:
Sadly a lot of young men are turning to crime because of this.

Yes o


Across Nigeria, and even outside, our men are on the hustle (mostly illegal stuff anyways) just to make the money, because the pressure is too much.

A society that evaluates a human's worth by his possessions is a shithole society.

ideology:
Lol

Nigerians still don't get how it works

The more you talk about a person or a thing (hashtags)

You make them popular, then big brands also want to associate with it

But you see, they will pay the subject or object of discourse not the fans #LazyNigerianYouths

That's why some yeyebrities post controversial stuffs with the hope of being talked about.

See DJ cuppy of yesterday,

Get something doing so that people will talk about you


These guys a raking millions from YouTube alone

At last, someone who gets the business angle to this....


you sabi jare

StaffofOrayan:
Do Nigerians even realize they are the poorest people in the world?

Poorest people in the world?

Will you gerrout

dominique:
Some people work very hard, sadly not all hard work translates to plenty money. That doesn't mean that they should be shamed because of it.

That's very true

It's a shame what our society has become

ITbomb:
Mostly government deposits
For real customers, na first Bank and GTB dey lead

GTBank dey try
Very innovative

Dem try sha


1 trillion is like 2.7+billion dollars and they are recording 1 trillion plus, meaning 3b plus dollars using black market rates.


Dem try.

sunnysunny69:
Igbo will not stop talking bad of Yoruba people and yet their life depended on Yoruba to some extent. This is BBC Igbo service, just as we have BBC Hausa, BBC Yoruba, BBC Russia etc but did anyone notice the BBC Igbo is based in Yoruba land, Lagos ? One would expect BBC Igbo to be based in the east . Awa ni baba baba won .

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So101:
Hmm na wa oh Reno Omokri you never tell us if you dey sleep and wake up with Buhari on your mind, Mr know it all..even in Washington a reporter addressed Buhari as the first president from sub Sahara Africa to visit Trump. Must you look for something to say every time? Reno you and FFk are disgusting please do well to get a life!! Very soon Nigerians will know the truth that you guys don’t mean well you’re just after getting back to power so it can be business as usual finish!

mumu

Is first president from sub Saharan Africa and first president in Africa the same thing?

Go school una no gree

deomelllo:
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The fact that we have a presidential system of government doesn't mean our President is more powerful or must obtain better diplomatic priviledges than any prime minister or the German chancellor.

Again, is the Nigerian president more powerful diplomatically than the German chancellor or the British prime minister?

No.

The Chancellor's visit wasn't her first visit to the WH, she's been to the WH several times and even a State dinner was thrown in her honor, something only visiting powerful leaders get.

So, why did Emmanuel Macron get the prestigious State dinner at the White House last week and PMB didn't get a State dinner.? Is Macron not a prime minister? Is the German chancellor not a prime minister?


Stop embarrassing yourself with your elementary school ignorance.

Macron no be minister


He is the PRESIDENT

just negodu

fxjunkie:
A car means nothing here in the US, all this noise about a common car gift boils down to one thing: there's so much poverty in Nigeria.

Buying your girl a Porshe car anywhere on planet earth is a BIG DEAL.

Even in countries with credit systems


So take that crap elsewhere

MrCEO69:
sorry for the guy who bet 900k

Bad market; D
That's one plot of land the person just threw away