₦airaland Forum

KealDrogo:
Interracial marriage shouldn't be encouraged. There's a reason why God created humanity in different races, each with its own distinctive features,colours, culture and heritage. Humans have to preserve their unique diversity and be proud of their heritage, we should stop mingling with other races as this will kill off our identity. That's why mixed race children (mulattos) are the most confused set of people, they don't know which race they belong to, with no sense of identity to be proud of. All thanks to their selfish parents.
I see those who engaged in interracial marriages as people who lack self worth and suffering from low self-esteem.

What is this negro saying please?

iamrealdeji:
don't try to draw sympathy forvthem . all of you girls should close up your thighs if you don't want to be like that. no man wants to marry an after one ,we all prefer a fresh girl even if she has worse attitude than the single mum

Speak for yourself

Toks2008:
Emusmithy nice post I would say but the reason why the number of unmarried ladies of 28 and above is on the increase really has nothing to do with most things you wrote up there....

It's because men now realize they don't have to be married to enjoy the benefits of a married man.

Sex is cheap and it is easy to be a baby daddy...in fact you don't have to bother about the stress of financing a family.

Our ladies are making it even easier for the guys to aboid marriage with their crazy mindset of looking for a man to dump their bukata on and guys now know this....the worst part is that most guys who are very financially stable are never committed to one lady as they indulge in point and kill or pick and drop.

Until every lady is ready to work hard as if there is no man to depend on and be ready to settle with a guy based on his tenacity to achieving success in life without looking at the present size of his pocket I guess we will forever have an increase in the number of old single ladies.

If not for my love for christ abeg wettin I Wan use marriage do when I can conviniently lay as many random beautiful ladies as I can and get one babe pregnant while I continue with my life in total freedom without the stress of any lady.

Ladies should wise up and change their mindset before it gets totally out of hand.
My humble submition.

Is sex the main benefit of marriage ?

That your point on sex does not exactly cut it,


The main reason marriage is on the decline IMO is the economic factor in Nigeria, and increasing apathy towards it by many men, and women too (unpreparedness for commitment)

ZACHIE:
You have no need for that great health you are enjoying.
Wait until it's gone and you will appreciate that it is all not about money.

Don't mind him...

Nigerians worship money too much

RaggedyAnn:
Why are these guys always so worried about women being single? Thread after thread after thread of endless whining. Let the women be, they're not accidentally single.

I wonder.

Like it's anybody's business.

AnaMezza:
Adesua is not a Wellington. They're not even traditionally married yet. I'm not trying to badmouth their relationship or prophesy doom, but I've seen too many engagements called off. If that happens, articles like this will spoil Adesua's market abeg.

How can she he a Wellington when she was not born a Wellington?

Even after marriage, she is still not a Wellington

Even if she changed her name.

I hope no one is rejoicing over this....
because for sure, there will be a counter attack By that time, !I hope no one will start crying.
Violent behaviour is not encouraged abeg

Anybody can make a list; that is his business

If another group from the south wants to make his own list, it's a free world
Till it's time ti cast your ballot, then you will know how far

kingsolium:
U and ur entire goddam northern youths and elders are bunch of bastards. You guys have nothing to offer to this country. Since the North took over power for many years, the country has never experienced and substantial positive growth. Northern FOOOOOOLLLLLLLLSSSSSS

See a deranged human being

ItsMeAboki:
The quit notice had no violent threat in it (I am sure you have not even read it but relying on hearsay); unlike the fire and brimstone Kanu was threatening - no one in the North is currently threatening any Igbo with violence; we are all wishing you good luck and peaceful separation; so long as they get out of our land by October.

You should know that not all Igbos support the madness of Nnamdi Cownu and his IPOB touts.
So, they should not suffer for his foolishness

This is as a result of joblessness of the youth
That is why all this hate is typed everywhere


If most Nigerians were gainfully employed, and has a future to look up to, there will be no time for this foolishness

Acidosis:
Oga, that's what feminist wrote on PAPER. The reality is way different from the equal opportunity nonsense.

I've written over 25 papers on gender inequality and I've come to realize our own version of gender equality in Nigeria is impossible to achieve. Women already earn same salary with their male counterparts in the corporate world..in fact, women get more and better jobs than men. Same applies to every other sector.

None of these so called feminist is interested in the actual meaning of gender equality. The agitators are only interested in changing the Nigerian partriachial (social) system - This for me is IMPOSSIBLE.

@OP, I have to applaud your writeup because I share the same opinion, however, there is a difference between s.ex. and gender.

S.ex. is biologically determined as female and male according to specific physical features which are fixed. Whoever tries to change this is plainly displaying some moments of incurable ins.anity.

Gender on the other hand is defined as a system of roles relationship between women and men, that are determined not biologically but by social, political or economic context.

So, for me both se. x equality and gender equality are not achievable because an attempt to change our partriachial social system is tantamount to a collapsed social belief/morals.

The patriachal system in Nigeria; and of course across the world will keep weakening over the decades, even tho it may not totally be discarded.

Check back in 20 years and see what Nigeria would have become by then

Daboomb:
And in addition, the majority of the Girl-child gets properly educated in that same culture, while the Boy-child hardly get a proper education (pry Six) before he goes to learn a trade or do "business"

So, who is fooling who?

What is this mumu saying ?
Do you even know where my in laws I have reference to see from?
And you just opened your worm infested mouth to say rubbish.

donestk:
This is not an attack thread but based on personal experience.

Came across some single moms who do abortion alot.

They kept their first pregnancy to draw public sympathy as "despite all odds, she kept the baby" etc

Subsequently they continue their reckless behavior and keep aborting with justification as "how can I have two kids without marriage" etc

It's really a sad trend.

It's none of your business boy

Bloodwitch:
Seriously lets face it women are never going to be regarded as equals to men it's just not gonna happen,and the sooner we accept it the better .I mean it actually starts from birth when a woman gives birth to a male child people rejoice more without even knowing it because it's just the way things have been and don't get me wrong being female has its perks too .....but op there are some things you mentioned that were not necessary.

That depends on the culture tho
In some cultures in Africa, especially my in laws place, the woman weeps when she gives birth to a boy because they prefer girls far more than boys, so what you said is subjective

sexybbstar:
I saw a thread earlier on (why do guy thinks girls are whores?) I think this is my own view.

You had better stop comparing, if God wants equal rights for us all, he would have created everyone with p.enis or va.gina. But the difference in our private organ and body build shows that what is good for one may not be good for the other.

If a male child should become wayward, believe me if he repents, not a sign of it will be on his body but if a female child becomes wayward, I won't lie to you, let her become a pastor. There will still be signs to show for it like sagged breasts, wide va.gina, etc.Tell me can a man have a deformed organ as a result of being promiscuous.? obviously no!

Don't compare the two together.A lady that compare herself with a man is playing a dangerous game. U sure know that when he have sex with u without protection, u would get pregnant and u will receive the blame. Yet u allowed him, don't blame anyone for your misfortune because u are aware that the lady takes the blame.

Man and woman are two different words with different attributes. A man who lives like a woman won't find it easy and vice versa. Even two ladies are not the same not to talk of a man and a woman.

You want gender equality, ladies. Can you impregnate a fellow lady? Even those of us who transgendered to become a man still have so many manly activities they can't do.

Learn to appreciate your gender and bring out the best from it.

To think that this came from a "female" is just nauseating.

Duru1:
For the fact Nigeria and Nigerians are foolishly clinging to indigene and non-indigene crap gives rise to the agitation for Biafra. The real countries do not talk about the crappy indigene.

EXACTLY

modsfucker:
Actually the Chinese diplomat was right. All diplomatic corps enjoy what is called diplomatic immunity which exempts them from all these harassments and checks. Our diplomats in other countries enjoy similar gesture.

But in this case I fault the Chinese man since he knows that those revenue collectors at the gate of Wuse market are not conventional security operatives and probably don't know about the existence of such immunities, he should have simply opened the boot in the interest of stability.

At last, someone with sense

engrchykae:
nnamdi kanu isnt the one who crippled ibeto and ensured that no airport or seaport is working in the eastern region.

Ibeto did himself.

hammer6:
THIS IS OUR BEST CHANCE TO ESCAPE THE ZOO, BEFORE THE ILLUMINANTI RETURN TO POWER IN AMERICA, U THINK WE WILL MISS IT?

FOR WAT NAU?

What does this even mean sef?

SSBN:
As an Edo man I am tired of this BIAFRA Crap. We don't even need a referendum..I say let them GO. I even suggest we give them half out foreign reserve of $50 billion to help them start afresh. Until recently i bought into the propaganda that the Northeners are hateful until the day I listened to radio Biafra by accident..I nearly threw up. These people believe they are Jews and the rest of us Nigerians are gentiled. The main idiot leading this sick movement is in London with his family. Abeg I say let's grant them their wish so we gentiles can rest. Igbo this Biafra that...such arrogant self aggrandizement.

If you are igbo where ever you are in Lagos or anywhere else, please go create your own country in Enugu. We are tired of your Crap.

Please don't generalise

We sensible Igbos are different from the IPOB touts running their mouths and spreading hate speech.

unfortunately, it's all of us that will suffer from their folly and foolishness

Who are these ones?

Tweetysparkles:
Joy of being a father and when the baby is not from a baby mama... Who cares if it a secret wedding? make una go settle joor, I dey my house oya come and beat me

And so what if the baby comes from a baby mama?

A baby is a baby, and a dad is a dad, period.

the thought that many consider Nnamdi Kanu as a leader baffles me
Who the Bleep is nnamdi kanu

dienlmods:
The truth is majority of Igbo's like the Kaduna declaration.... At least, it has open the eyes of those igbos whose eyes are blind.... To me, this not even about the north, this is about the reality that "nobody should call another man,s house his home"....

.....igbos always make the mistake of calling everywhere home....Lagos did and remind Igbo's that Lagos is not their home, yet majority of ewudurized Igbo's refused to listened, perhaps, now, many Igbo's will know no place is like home

What is this one saying?

GoroTango:
Hahaha This is exactly what a lot of us have been saying on this forum for long. Nnamdi Kanu's message only resonates among the downtrodden losers in the south eastern society

True

This looks so good

Angel196:
It's such a pity how gullible and ignorant most Nigerians are when it comes to religion. Most of them think sentimental but never use their own brain to think beyond what some so called spiritual leaders are trying to spoon feed them.

I want all those people shouting islamization to answer these questions,

Is IRK and Arabic the same thing?

Do you know that Arabic has nothing to do with religion but is just a language?

Do you know that there are Christians who understand and speak Arabic fluently?

As per what I read, I read that that Arabic everyone is shouting about was made an alternative to French so what's the big deal? If you don't like the language why not ask them to add another alternative like Swahili or even Hebrews if that would make it more acceptable to you. Stop making a mountain out of a mere hill, and stop displaying such terrible ignorance. Arabic and IRS are in no way the same.

Don't mind these people

Common sense they don't have

free2ryhme:

Hausa Alhaji will not use a fellow hausa muslim girl for this rubbish
he will use a non muslim according to them it is allowed
what a wicked world

This part got me thinking.

What of those who want to study Finance, Economics, and other courses like that?

Musiwa419:
I am 100% sure that Evans' children are Nairalanders. They are among those who often engage in E-wars; boasting about how their tribe developed Lagos. How they own all the mansions in Lagos, PH, Kano, Abuja etc.

We all know that those people who claim to be industrious and hardworking are actually criminals in the real sense of it. Drug trafficking, armed robbery, kidnapping, baby factory, prostitution etc is their forte. I pray they get their country very soon.

Will this idiot stfu?

Talking rubbish like one without brain

macof:
He's making waves in the US

No mind that mumu negro that you quoted. Where Wizkid has gotten to, Davido never reach am yet. On the international stage