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lol people ask the weirdest questions on here.

You want to date her, she doesn't want to date u. What's not to understand there? Mtcheeew abeg moving on

Besides being desperate to get married or whatever u want to term it is akin to being desperate to make money (for men). Nothing wrong with that. We all have diferent priorities at different stages of our lives.

k2039: [color=#FF0099] [size=13pt]What happens to the guy he is in relationship with,since it doesnt mean being in relationship with them
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it's obvious they are on different pages of a book. She can be open enough to let him know her plans and that she has other suitors. There is no guarantee dat he'll end up marrying her meanwhile she has others who arre willing and ready to commit. She is not honor bound to be stuck with him...her future is her priority here not his feelings.

This post has to be the stupidest thing i've seen. Mtcheeeew. The only reasonable thing there is no.4. And its not exclusive to anger..it's more like an over secretion of the hormones(progesterone n oestrogen) so their emotions are heightened. Every otherr thing written there is just rubbish.

I'm with Kitty Kat on this. You're ready to get married and it wld just be silly to think u have to be restricted to one man now. You CAN be courted by multiple men, that doesn't mean being in a relationship with them or having sex with them. You're the lady here take ur time n make a choice...if they know they've got competition they'll up their game. Don't make urself too easy to get..let them work for u if they think u're worth it. Good luck.

How did I ever survive not knowing this OP? *rolleyes*. Thank you for telling us about an unknown person u're tripping for who doesn't know u exist...now all the girls u're ffing can go check ur profile and silently hope u're referring to them. Moving on

joeydozzy: u no see say na pidgin we dey forward for this caban?

how dat wan take consine me?

EGOLI-place of gold.
All about Camilla
The rich also cry
Passions
Carlifornia Dreams

BTW Inception is really good. It may take a while to understand but once u do u begin to appreciate it. Whoever wrote that script must be an alien life force. Whoever thinks of having dreams within dreams? Awesome.

I suppose sucker punch is along the same line. Still haven't gotten the concept tho. Shld watch it again.

August Rush?? U really have no appreciation for art *faints*. I saw that movie twice in one day...not mind watching it again now.

190: ijebabe do u mind telling us who these sluts in nairaland are

hehehe aproko

You don't have to be rich to marry her. She knows ur financial status and still wants marriage then she shld be ready to build up something together with u. That was why God made woman...to be man's helper. I suspect u aint ready to get married,so just tell her.

When i think of my first few years in schl he pops up...which almost never happens.

First of all u really need to work on your tenses.
Secondly, if a guy told me of his feelings for me over d phone he just made it easy to say NO. Face to face discussion is important,maintaining eye contact appeals to a person's conscience.
Thirdly,like IJ said u went in too fast. U ddnt give he time to digest d first bomb before sendin in another. You need to learn the subtle art of wooing a woman...u need to win her over gently.
My advise: chill out a while but still prepare for the worst. You may just have spoilt every chance u had of ever having her.

And as usual men always miss the point. I think she's trying to say girls shldnt be sooo proud of being thhe kept woman...nothing remarkable about that position.

12 cubes?? *faints*

*struts in and takes a look around* hello. Goodbye

Dealing with a handicapped man can be quite challenging. But i really dnt see what the problem is...he's still a bachelor so dat wld mean he does most stuffs himself, he may need lil or no personal help from her. If she thinks otherwise,i and is still questioning herself n d rship then i'ld advice she didn't marry him. Living a life of discontentment n misery isn't worth all d cash n big koboko he's got.

If you really had no feelings for her u wouldn't need to ask for a go ahead. I'd suggest you find her somewhere different to work and not tempt fate. Close proximity wit someone u've once loved well enough not to have sex with her again cld be quite dangerous to ur psyche...u cld very well begin to develop smethn for her again despite ur good intention plus i doubt ur current gf will feel comfy with that arrangement. You wldnt be labeled 'horrible' if u did urself a favour and got her a job elsewhere.

Can e-romance form something lasting in the real world? If Yes,do u suppose every attitude online depicts the real person?

Is it the woman's job to keep the relationship alive?

Today's Log.

Exercise: 15mins walk.
10am: tea n 4 slices of bread.
2pm: yoghurt
5pm: beans n yam.

With probably not enough water.

The only reason i'm following this America's ish is coz our Nigerian govt have a way of doing copy copy where Americans dey. The day our govt start minding their biz is the day i'll stop giving a damn about America.

There's no designated office of the first lady in our constitution. We shld start probing why we're ffing smething Babangida's wife started. Technically we shldn't even be giving fed allocation to the presidents wife in d first place.

Israel it's better u understand the American electoral system before u start making comparison. How many times have u heard of Obama kids on d news except they make public appearances? Hw many times have u heard of Michelle sef? They poke into family history coz they believe a man who's havin family issues cnt rule a country properly..sadly dats not a system we apply here.

Nigerians!! Don't forget these leaders are humans oo. See all the pessimism flowing by the media houses. You dnt see d first lady and the first thing to think of is all this deadly illnesses? May God help this country. BTW if the president want his personal life personal then we can grant him that..it's well within his right to keep state affairs independent of his personal affairs.

Sijo01: dont underate the velocity of the flood.......Drainages wont help! The already affected state has drainges....... Relocating for the maintime is the answer.

lol if i leave lagos where else wld i go to? On really Delta state has a terrible drainage system so does Anambra.

That said.......i think 300 was awesome n it's caricature was just brilliant.

I think i should also add that if u watch a movie made decades ago just very recently ofcoz it's gonna look overrated...movies are acted in 3D now. You'll just be judging a 5 to 10 yrs old movie by recent standards. So if it's an old movie,judge it by its standard as at d time of its release. Thank you

Can I be a judge? I know i just got here buh dat shld be an added advantage: i dnt know anyone and so being biased won't be an issue.

lalaosky: @acidiosis, thanx for your words
@ike, lol.thanx man.as for your sis, we go talk about her matter later on.
@rukemi, thanx boo boo.i appreciate
@D-x, thanx man...you got my like
@ all, i cant mention names but EVERYONE that contributed or watched, i just wanna say YOU GUYS ARE THE BEST...y'all are the reason i still believe in NIGERIA...who wouldn't love 9ja and NL with y'all around?...nobody!!

@ACIDIOSIS and IKE, hope you two survived berem and vivi?...knack me/us tori later..we are all ears.

Now this show is over, i can fully concentrate on my studies for the next 3weeks meaning am gonna be scarce till after my exams...*sad face*..really gonna miss y'all.mehn, never knew NL could be this fun

for the debaters in the upcoming ROMANCE DEBATE, i wish y'all tha best and another round of mind blowing fun though am gonna miss it.

GOODMORNING NL
GOODMORNING NIGERIA
GOODMORNING EVERYBODY
*in my language*..UDO DIRI ONYE OBUNA...(PEACE BE UNTO Y'ALL)

Onyenweanyi gba gi ume