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it doesn't exist in d Catholic church, that is why women are going through emotional traumas and men are getting away with abuse. of course, counseling is that the woman should be patient till she's six feet below. note: if the foundation is wrong, the marriage will require the special grace of God for it to work. my advice: if your marriage isnt working, walk away from it. learn from titi's death women, it doesn't have to get to that stage. |
because a man cant stand 2 share his konkolo with another man |
does a ring make a marriage? does it make a marriage work? a good man who cares about his wife will respect her and be faithful ring or not and a useless man will have sex with another woman with a ring on his finger. |
its all about discipline, my dear. there are a lot of men who have beautiful women, both on the inside and outside but they have been born to cheat and no amount of beauty can keep them |
are u sure he is telling us the truth? what transpired 2 make his wife despise him so much? |
who told u women are thinking of marriage? women are also thinking of how to support themselves and their families. these days, a lot of men dont want any responsibilities; they say they dont want any liabilities. others will have affairs with women that have something doing. when you even see where marriages are headed these days, you would rather not marry. good men, stable men will encourage their women; marriages that limit them 2 the kitchen. it is only insecure men or lazy women that feel they should depend on the men. so my dear, if you feel marriage is the easy way out, think again! |
![]() its not new. a lot of ministers are devils, hiding under the guise of religion to commit all sorts of atrocities. theres is nothing new under the sun. |
who told u women are thinking of marriage? women are also thinking of how to support themselves and their families. these days, a lot of men dont want any responsibilities; they say they dont want any liabilities. others will have affairs with women that have something doing. when you even see where marriages are headed these days, you would rather not marry. good men, stable men will encourage their women; marriages that limit them 2 the kitchen. it is only insecure men or lazy women that feel they should depend on the men. so my dear, if you feel marriage is the easy way out, think again! |
live on the roof!!! better to live on the roof than in the house with a nagging wife! |
im still analysing your story. will post a reply soon ![]() |
if u do good, you get good things in return; if you do bad, you get bad things in return bam! |
depends on the circumstances |
depends on the husband and wife involved. |
if you are married to your soulmate, marriage will always be new everyday. but if we are incompatible, then marriage is one hell of a job. |
handle it your own way. Embarass the idiot very well, he will never ever try that again. and if it costs you your job, then you can tell your husband. your husband will then handle it from then on |
TATAFO! AMEBO! wetin concern you! |
dont understand a word of what was posted ![]() |
yeye!!! useless man!!!!! ![]() go on banging the housemaid. you are a fool. see ur useless mouth that you want to divorce your wife. If im your wife, ill divorce you in a heartbeat. Animal!!!! ![]() |
noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo i know the country i live in. no matter how blind the love is, people will turn around and call me a man!!!!!!!! ![]() |
then run as fast as your legs can carry you dear before you fall into temptation. also try and reconnect with your spouse, its like the long distance relationship aint 4 both of you. |
so unfortunante she had to end her life! she had her whole life aheadof her. no need crying over spilt milk! |
my dear, its so unfortunante something like this should happen to you, especially in pregnancy. a lot of men cheat on their wives. it didnt start 2day and it wont stop. the decision 2 leave your usband depends entirely on you. there are women who will stay with a cheating husband and tolerate all his rubbish while others will walk out of it without baiting an eyelid. in africa, women are always blamed in 1 way or another for a cheating husband. they never blame the man; its disgusting. but if the woman cheats, the heavens will come down and she will be thrown out of the house. when this doesnt happen, then know it is only the man that knows that his wife cheated on him. the world doesnt know. the bible said we can divorce a spouse that commits adultery, so you already have God's word to guide you. but personally, i think you should concentrate on having baby first and know what line of action to take next. pray about your situation and visit an anionted man of God for counselling, you and your spouse. i know God can turn his life around. its hard to forgive him but you could let this go. if he does it again, the know the marriage isnt for you, you can then take whatever decision is right for you and your baby. people cheat for a lot of reasons but not when the marriage isnt long and they are expecting a baby. sorry to say, but i dont think he deserves you. take heart and i know you and only you can have the final say! |
anambra girls!! una like money anambra women love 2 control their men anambra women marry only anambra men anambra men will be looking 4 money 2 satisfy their women so they marry late u schooled at nau? must be razz n a cult girl |
if u really love someone and they love you in return, then no one will cheat. but how can u love a man or woman and they dont love u in return? how do u cope with a spouse that neglects u, nags you, complains about almost everything you do, doesnt give you attention and all that? check it! 60% of people who cheat dont really cheat because of sex, they r trying to fill a void in their hearts. love is a two way thing. when the other person isnt feeling it and doesnt have the will power to take it, the next thing is to go outside to fill the void. |
thats the truth |
my mother is my mother. what if she got in2 prostituition 2 make ends meet, 2 make me comfortable? a past she aint proud of im sure. she must have paid her dues, why remind her of a past she longs 2 forget? ill always love her no matter what |
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm ![]() |
impossible with the capital i. |
she has a fiance? na wa, the guy is in trouble. u have a girlfriend, at least u didnt say u want 2 marry her. i dont think u r guilty. u r enjoying the act and u want us 2 listen 2 ur stories? what advice do u want? continue sleeping with her till her fiance or your girlfriend catches u guys and then every other thing will fall in place! ![]() |
why should a guy flash? unless its a friend that calls regularly and he hardly flashes, then ill know he doesnt have credit and then i can call him. if not, flashing is very irritating. |
u wan die ![]() |
if he cant call, he should be able 2 keep in touch one way or the other but if im the one making all the effort, then ill just bust him because he doesnt really care about me |
