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Religion / Re: Divorce Rates Amongst Born-again Christians Compared To Other Groups by ula(f): 2:53pm On Jul 12, 2011
it doesn't exist in d Catholic church, that is why women are going through emotional traumas and men are getting away with abuse. of course, counseling is that the woman should be patient till she's six feet below. note: if the foundation is wrong, the marriage will require the special grace of God for it to work. my advice: if your marriage isnt working, walk away from it. learn from titi's death women, it doesn't have to get to that stage.
Romance / Re: Why Is The Infidelty Of A Woman More Difficult For The Guys? by ula(f): 10:21am On Jul 21, 2010
because a man cant stand 2 share his konkolo with another man
Family / Re: Must I Wear Our Wedding Ring? by ula(f): 8:49pm On Jul 15, 2010
does a ring make a marriage? does it make a marriage work? a good man who cares about his wife will respect her and be faithful ring or not and a useless man will have sex with another woman with a ring on his finger.
Family / Re: Can Marriage To A Beautiful Woman Keep A Man From Philandering? by ula(f): 8:39pm On Jul 15, 2010
its all about discipline, my dear. there are a lot of men who have beautiful women, both on the inside and outside but they have been born to cheat and no amount of beauty can keep them
Family / Re: I Hate Her And Even The Kids by ula(f): 8:33pm On Jul 15, 2010
are u sure he is telling us the truth? what transpired 2 make his wife despise him so much?
Romance / Re: Marriage Marriage Marriage by ula(f): 8:11pm On Jul 15, 2010
who told u women are thinking of marriage? women are also thinking of how to support themselves and their families. these days, a lot of men dont want any responsibilities; they say they dont want any liabilities. others will have affairs with women that have something doing. when you even see where marriages are headed these days, you would rather not marry. good men, stable men will encourage their women; marriages that limit them 2 the kitchen. it is only insecure men or lazy women that feel they should depend on the men. so my dear, if you feel marriage is the easy way out, think again!
Religion / Re: Nigerian Anglican Homosexual Priest Defrocked by ula(f): 8:11pm On Jul 15, 2010
angry angry angry

its not new. a lot of ministers are devils, hiding under the guise of religion to commit all sorts of atrocities. theres is nothing new under the sun.
Romance / Re: Marriage Marriage Marriage by ula(f): 8:06pm On Jul 15, 2010
who told u women are thinking of marriage? women are also thinking of how to support themselves and their families. these days, a lot of men dont want any responsibilities; they say they dont want any liabilities. others will have affairs with women that have something doing. when you even see where marriages are headed these days, you would rather not marry. good men, stable men will encourage their women; marriages that limit them 2 the kitchen. it is only insecure men or lazy women that feel they should depend on the men. so my dear, if you feel marriage is the easy way out, think again!
Family / Re: How to Deal With a Wife That Nags a Lot by ula(f): 9:47am On Nov 12, 2008
live on the roof!!!

better to live on the roof than in the house with a nagging wife!
Family / Re: My Pal's Wife Cheats Constantly by ula(f): 9:40am On Nov 12, 2008
im still analysing your story. will post a reply soon lipsrsealed
Family / Re: Aristo Meets His Daughter In A Bleep Party by ula(f): 9:37am On Nov 12, 2008
if u do good, you get good things in return; if you do bad, you get bad things in return
bam!
Family / Re: Should Married Couple Sleep On Different Beds? by ula(f): 9:34am On Nov 12, 2008
depends on the circumstances
Family / Re: Can A Husband Forgive Wife Caught In Adultery? by ula(f): 9:32am On Nov 12, 2008
depends on the husband and wife involved.
Family / Re: Is Marriage Not Boring? by ula(f): 9:30am On Nov 12, 2008
if you are married to your soulmate, marriage will always be new everyday.

but if we are incompatible, then marriage is one hell of a job.
Family / Re: My Boss is Toasting Me. Should I tell My Husband? by ula(f): 9:29am On Nov 12, 2008
handle it your own way. Embarass the idiot very well, he will never ever try that again. and if it costs you your job, then you can tell your husband. your husband will then handle it from then on
Family / Re: Should I Tell My Best Friend, His Wife Is Cheating On Him? by ula(f): 9:26am On Nov 12, 2008
TATAFO! AMEBO!

wetin concern you!
Family / Re: Men Stop Abuse U Family, by ula(f): 9:23am On Nov 12, 2008
dont understand a word of what was posted
Family / Re: Adultary by ula(f): 9:19am On Nov 12, 2008
yeye!!! useless man!!!!! angry

go on banging the housemaid. you are a fool.
see ur useless mouth that you want to divorce your wife.

If im your wife, ill divorce you in a heartbeat.
Animal!!!! angry
Romance / Re: Will You Marry A Lady Without A Womb Or An Impotent Man? by ula(f): 10:43am On Nov 05, 2008
noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

i know the country i live in. no matter how blind the love is, people will turn around and call me a man!!!!!!!! angry
Romance / Re: I Love My Husband Dearly, But I Am Attracted To My Work Colleague ! by ula(f): 10:41am On Nov 05, 2008
then run as fast as your legs can carry you dear before you fall into temptation. also try and reconnect with your spouse, its like the long distance relationship aint 4 both of you.
Romance / Re: A Lady Commits Suicide After Being Jilted By Lover. by ula(f): 10:39am On Nov 05, 2008
so unfortunante she had to end her life! she had her whole life aheadof her. no need crying over spilt milk!
Romance / Re: Husband Cheating? by ula(f): 10:34am On Nov 05, 2008
my dear, its so unfortunante something like this should happen to you, especially in pregnancy. a lot of men cheat on their wives. it didnt start 2day and it wont stop.
the decision 2 leave your usband depends entirely on you. there are women who will stay with a cheating husband and tolerate all his rubbish while others will walk out of it without baiting an eyelid.

in africa, women are always blamed in 1 way or another for a cheating husband. they never blame the man; its disgusting. but if the woman cheats, the heavens will come down and she will be thrown out of the house. when this doesnt happen, then know it is only the man that knows that his wife cheated on him. the world doesnt know.

the bible said we can divorce a spouse that commits adultery, so you already have God's word to guide you. but personally, i think you should concentrate on having baby first and know what line of action to take next. pray about your situation and visit an anionted man of God for counselling, you and your spouse. i know God can turn his life around.

its hard to forgive him but you could let this go. if he does it again, the know the marriage isnt for you, you can then take whatever decision is right for you and your baby.

people cheat for a lot of reasons but not when the marriage isnt long and they are expecting a baby. sorry to say, but i dont think he deserves you.

take heart and i know you and only you can have the final say!
Romance / Re: Stereomance! Have You Been There? by ula(f): 4:01pm On Oct 23, 2008
anambra girls!! una like money angry

anambra women love 2 control their men

anambra women marry only anambra men

anambra men will be looking 4 money 2 satisfy their women so they marry late

u schooled at nau? must be razz n a cult girl
Romance / Re: Do You Really Love Someone If You Cheat On Them? by ula(f): 4:00pm On Oct 23, 2008
if u really love someone and they love you in return, then no one will cheat. but how can u love a man or woman and they dont love u in return? how do u cope with a spouse that neglects u, nags you, complains about almost everything you do, doesnt give you attention and all that? check it! 60% of people who cheat dont really cheat because of sex, they r trying to fill a void in their hearts.

love is a two way thing. when the other person isnt feeling it and doesnt have the will power to take it, the next thing is to go outside to fill the void.
Romance / Re: Friendship In Marriage! by ula(f): 4:02pm On Oct 22, 2008
thats the truth
Family / Re: How Would You React If You Discovered That Your Mum Was A Prostitute? by ula(f): 12:51pm On Oct 17, 2008
my mother is my mother. what if she got in2 prostituition 2 make ends meet, 2 make me comfortable? a past she aint proud of im sure. she must have paid her dues, why remind her of a past she longs 2 forget?

ill always love her no matter what
Family / Re: Snake In The Stomach by ula(f): 12:46pm On Oct 17, 2008
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Family / Re: If Your Mother Is Pregnant For Your Husband What Will You Do? by ula(f): 12:33pm On Oct 17, 2008
impossible with the capital i.
Romance / Re: She Has A Fiance, I Have My Baby, But We Can't Keep Our Hands Off Each Other by ula(f): 11:20am On Oct 16, 2008
she has a fiance? na wa, the guy is in trouble. u have a girlfriend, at least u didnt say u want 2 marry her.

i dont think u r guilty. u r enjoying the act and u want us 2 listen 2 ur stories?

what advice do u want? continue sleeping with her till her fiance or your girlfriend catches u guys and then every other thing will fall in place!

angry angry
Romance / Re: Gals, What Do U Think Of Guys Who Flash? by ula(f): 11:10am On Oct 16, 2008
why should a guy flash? unless its a friend that calls regularly and he hardly flashes, then ill know he doesnt have credit and then i can call him.

if not, flashing is very irritating.
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Wants A Blood Covenant by ula(f): 1:47pm On Oct 15, 2008
u wan die
Romance / Re: Would You Date A Guy Who Hardly Calls You by ula(f): 10:58am On Oct 14, 2008
if he cant call, he should be able 2 keep in touch one way or the other but if im the one making all the effort, then ill just bust him because he doesnt really care about me

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