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what a stupid post indeed!

the woman wants 2 continue from where she stopped b4 she got married, the man knows but really doesnt give a damn becos as far as he's concerned, the woman is a stupid woman.

as 4 something like this happening in naija, men nowadays dont want to do their responsibilities when they marry. you should take care of urself and the family if possible and he'll be doing the sexual part. so im not surprised.

neither

was he like that b4 marriage, becos if he wasnt then there is competition. he is fancying another woman and comparing you both

big and costly mistake!! my hus married me because i was one of the two that got pregnant 4 him and since that day till now, there has been more trouble than happy moments in my home. if you said you loved her and she meant the world 2 you and then she got pregnant, then the marriage will survive but if you felt nothing 4 her and then becos she was a virgin and got pregnant and you married her, then you will surely be unfaithful, becos you will finally fall in love with someone else outside.

but if you want 2 give the marriage a chance, then grow 2 love her. let it b another courtship. i wish you success in your marriage and i pray Jesus becomes or is the Head of your home

when women say that men cannot change, it is a fact. for how can u explain this? that the man was never true in the 1st place? go check! u go see others wen maybe don comot belle 4 am.

my dear, take heart. it is hard but time they say, heals all wounds. there is no need going back 2 such a man unless he becomes a born again christian and you 4give him, but its really hard.

take a holiday, be with your kids and try 2 4get him, he isnt worth it. concentrate on your kids, your job and Jesus. He is the only one that can heal all wounds, that ill tell u.

remain blessed.

men will never change

u r in an abusive relationship, my dear. he sees you as an investment. you need 2 talk 2 a counsellor and a lawyer possibly.

you cant live your life like this. you have 2 kids that need their mum 2 be alive and whole 4 them. so do some real soul searching and then meet these 2 b4 u have ur final decision.
love no dey 4 this one!!!

wish you the best!

recently, my hubby told me that while i was pregnant 4 him b4 he got married, another lady was also pregnant 4 him. ive been married for 4 years and have two kids. ive had a very turbulent marriage and im not saying its all his fault, im also 2 blame. i was sincere during our months of courtship and not 4 1 day did he tell me that someone was pregnant 4 him. now im at crossroads

before this revelation, i was contemplating a separation till we could work things through - other issues like infidelity
now, do i go on a permanent separation cos i dont know what other secrets i may find, maybe he has a child outside?

can the church dissolve the marriage based on this information that was withheld?

SHE IS YOUR GIRLFRIEND AND NOT YOUR WIFE.

SHE IS UNDER NO OBLIGATION 2 GIVE YOU SEX.
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F YOU WANT THAT AND SHE AINT GIVING, GO GET IT OUTSIDE.

AND PLEASE DONT RAISE YOUR FINGER ON HER AGAIN, YOU SHOULDNT EVEN BEAT YOUR WIFE, TALK MORE OF A GIRLFRIEND.

GROW UP MY DEAR, YOU ARE BEHAVING LIKE A SPOILT CHILD

how is your personal hygiene?

no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

yes there are good naija men but they are few ooo!!!!!!!

plenty!!!

womanizing is the worst of the three. i can tolerate smoking or drinking as long as the person in question does these in moderation

if it was a fling, i blame the lady entirely. why didnt see use a condom? in tis age of HIV and hepatitis, one has 2 be very careful. even people that are married still get upset when there is an unwanted pregnancy, talk less of a fling between 2 people.

the lady should take heart, its one of those things. men always think with their heads and if it isnt work or money, its sex. she should be an adult and take a decision, either 2 kip the baby or remove it. its one of the many lessons you learn as a woman

as for the man, he should always use a condom. tomorow, it may not be pregnancy, it may be hepatitis or HIV, by then he wont be able 2 say anything.

i wont do anything! i wont even go sleep with anyone 4 revenge or all that crap. the girl will find her way, i dont even need 2 tell her 2 leave.

i wont ask why he did it. we will just carry on as if nothing happened.

ask yourself that question?

should u love whoever more than God?

was it bher sister or step sister? becos what happens these days r unbelievable? one really has 2 be careful.

our families will get involved n of course, 4giveness will be the word. ill just make them believe ive 4given them while i map out my own plans, and then strike.

one has 2 be careful in this world! cant trust anyone!

let her have the baby, take over responsibility but dont marry any of them. ur fiancee will never 4 give you, either way n her sister is so wicked 4 sleeping with you in the ist place. as 4 u u r an animal. go sort urself out

her husband must be fooling around 4 his friend 2 toast the woman. im sure he has boasted that his wife will never cheat on him and this friend wants 2 prove him wrong. either way the woman will be the loser. so let her tell the man off in the way that he wont look at her again and tell her husband or disgrace the man in front of the husband. otito!!!

i have posted this on the family section. if your husband tells you to abort a pregnancy, even when you have few kids, like 2 or 3, what would you do? what does he feel 4 you? and will you later have a baby for him if "he says he is ready now for another?"

is it true that in some parts of naija, that when a woman's husband dies, that she has to choose one of the kinsmen to marry her? i knew that existed in the past but in this modern age, i hear its still happening, especially in parts of delta state. so deltans, what say you all

is it true that is some parts of naija, that when a woman's husband dies, that she has to choose one of the kinsmen to marry her? i knew that existed in the past but in this modern age, i hear its still happening. any ideas?

fellow nairalanders, what would you do if your hubby told you 2 abort a pregnancy, that he isnt ready 4 another child, even when your kids arent up to four in number? what does that tell you about your relationship?

put on a rocket and disappear b4 she ruins u!!!!

may their souls rest in peace!!!!!