I don't comment on such threads

theophorus:
Life is not hard and it's not a 1+1 =2 situation.

That He doesn't call or send Sms doesn't mean he doesn't love you.
Hope say he no dey take something Sha?

Stop enabling bad behavior.

Pepperdemisback:

Banish somebody living in Congo?

Yes banished from his village. It's always for 7 yrs with some other penalties.

PriceActionZ:


Gosh!...... That is so disheartening. I can now see, This is the type of updates they supposed add to the incident so that it wont look look it was a witchunt. The man no try at all. He deserves what he gets. What they will do for him eh, he will never balance again in his life. Thanks for the update.

He might be banished to exile from his community or imprisoned.
The way I dey fear humans now.You dont know who you will touch and they will die

Ndo nwannem
This is a very sad occurrence and like the videoer said"let the Oga dismember his body and devour him the way he wants now that he is dead." Why hiding his face.
Onye obi tara mmiri!
The Igbo Apprenticeship system is a beautiful one with so much success but the govt must come in at some point to protect the "Boyi."
Yes some of them are thieves or very headstrong but if you feel dissatisfied,send them home,involve umunna or go to the police with evidence.
Stop abusing and intimidating them.

The day those ones will day, ppl will say rip.
As a woman I know the harassment I have encountered right from childhood till now.

It's your word against theirs. The one of uni was so profound ,other course Lecturers had to intervene.

It goes both ways though. Stop using your position to abuse ppl. Posterity will come for you.

nairagenone:

Seems you love to live in denial.

Congratulations to the OP, but be aware she is married to a widower who is 20 years older than her.

OP is getting married to her 3rd husband (who is 20 years older and a widower) and all you can come up with is a way to somehow make it feel like our choices in life do not matter ?

If the OP had her way, would she be marrying a widower who is 20 years older than her ?

I am putting this here to provide guidance to younger ladies out there who might get the impression that our choices do not matter in life cos thats the message your write up is conveying...

Nobody needs your fjcking advice!
Reginas first marriage is to a 60s man, as long as she finds her happiness in an ancestor let her be.were her mates she married not the ones giving her headache?

Viva vivyanvy, God bless your new home.
I'd forever respect you for standing up for your son.
Hopefully goodnews all the way.

Who noticed Umahi strangely has been quite for q long time.

Stargurl20:
Do we really have to pay the sum of #1,500 to take Npower examination?

Put head let maga chop you .Some of you have browsing phones but to conduct due diligence on issues is hard Tueh!

Meanwhile our mama

Borno ,home of peace being terrorized by the adherents of the religion of peace but their former Gov under whose watch it started and continues came to Abia to rescue it in the name of "Peace in the SE initiative."

Talk about hypocrisy

How did you move from UK to Nigeria?
We're you so desperate for marriage that you allowed your husband treat you like a floor rag. A masters holder?
You ppl were not in good terms yet pregnancy just dey come.

Nne, this is 2024,one thing I'd never do is to advise married people because I believe everyone knows what's good for them. We will say one thing now and 2moro we will be used to settle quarrel. I know because it is what a lot you ppl do.

Lastly, as a human,place value on yourself. Look good,laugh more,make money and see your partner respect you. FOr me I call out my husband's bulshit right there so everybody knows their place.
Respect is earned.Respect who you are to be respected.

It is unnecessary pressure that mislead alot of we women cos what is this?

One wig I don't have and I'm never bothered.

ivolt:
Its funny how someone wrote a memo that she wants to "loot" millions of Naira
and none of those who saw it raised an alarm.

It is obvious what went wrong.

When you work with these ministers ,you'd understand more. Imagine raising alarm on Woke or Umahi or anyone of them.
Listen I understand you very well but they deresg mistreat and underrated perm secretaries.
Not absolving themll it if you show yourself too much,they make you an enemy so imagine a 2 yr appointee coming to rubbish your 35 yrs work. YOU go just cooperate and pray they don't beam light on your ministry.

God bless you so much.
A guy that served the owner of the property opposite ours also did for them some years ago.
Posterity will not forget you.

One would think he'd donate tractors and other farming machineries to accelerate it .

Fraudulent BBC is trying to launder Tinubus image
BBC do a documentary on his life,no.On the sham elections,no. On Nigerian politicians stealing our money to the UK,no. On your country scamming Nigerians thru non existent care jobs,no
Suddenly you found your voice on dead TB Joshua and now.
Taaa!
Tinubus and Betta should pay Npowertheir 9 month stipend.

My 4 yr old son still does it rarely now. His brothers did it too but once a new baby comes,they get over it . But this last one has proven difficult even though my husband dey kick shout or spank him which reduced it

Pls pop that's my husband's main line You ppl shouldn't cripple him oo

First find out the Colonel Gambo who issued them Oshodi Indigenship certificate in connivance with the LCDA chairman .

Btw , I thank God they aren't Igbo e for be another Internet buzzer.

LMAO!

Imagine telling that kill yourself to an already suicidal person.
Omo.
I go run ooo

Obainoman6:
I just communicated to this man and he said he haven't even gone to his bank to verify if the money is there or not and it's festive period so he couldn't go to the bank now.
Op he said you are also threatening him, that is not the right thing to do.
He said on January he will go to his bank and see how he can refund you.

How do you believe such shit!. He looks exposed so definitely has an app. Banks charge not more than #50 to send an e statement to e mail addresses so whats he going to the bank for?
He's a fraudster who is clearly buying time and using intimidation on the Op.

FanRong:
I'm sorry, this post is going to be a long one. But you're saving a soul if you read through and advice candidly.


My story
We've dated for 6months and we've lived together for the 6months.

On our 3rd month, I found her interesting and told her I'll like to marry her. She accepted but no engagement ring or anything to show. We just accepted by word of mouth.

Since then, I've worked towards it. I've told her to call her mum and eldest brother(dad is late) to relate my idea and understand their feeling since it won't be that easy to marry. (same state, but my people and her people are highly selective in marriage)

After several persuasion, and threat that I'll throw her out if she doesn't relate the circumstances to her family, she called the mum. And again I had to force her to call the eldest brother. She claimed she did. And that's enough. I'm ok.

Meanwhile, there's this guy(her ex) she claims helped her when she came to Lagos. It was when I started accommodating her that I found out in her chats that she was living with this guy, but lied to me she was living with her Aunt and the aunt's husband was harassing her sexually and she wants to leave. She later told me the guy, though provides for him but has never had sex with her, even when she was living in his house. These stories doesn't move me since everyone, who is not a virgin has an ex. So I forgave all that and we moved on.

She wasn't everything I need in a women, but I told myself I could train her the way I want. We continued adjusting to each others likes and dislikes.

I feed her this 6 months, provide comfortable shelter, buy her things she needs,(not want). Told her I'll do more and open a shop for her, if we get married, but she still confronts me asking why should I wait till after marriage? . I didn't allow the words move me cos Its my decision and my money and also, I'm used to gold diggers.

A good number of times, I see her as being selfish. If things doesn't benefit her, she'll not get bothered even if I'm involved.

Just this week, It became obvious to me that she argues everything I request her to do. From 24th Dec, we've been on holiday, we're always at home.
1. I'll wake her up at 9 and ask her to prepare breakfast for the family, she'll prefer to roll on the bed than do it. I'll finally have to do it myself so I can get things done and get busy.

2. I detest girls on eye lashes. I've repeatedly told her how I dislike it, but when she went to fix herself for the Christmas, she fixed the eyelashes, Contrary to my demand.

3. I got her some sneakers to upgrade her fashion style and look smarter, instead of the usual slippers and sandals she wears.
When we prepared to go to the beach few days ago, I requested her to put on the sneakers to look more fashionable, but she refused buttressing that she must wear what she wants, sandals.

4. Few days ago, we had a heated argument and she said that if I'm not happy that she's living with me, that she can go, afterall, she has somewhere to stay. I asked her to go and she immediately called that her ex bf to come to my house. I immediately swung into action, took all her belongings out, before the ex will arrive, at the same time, retrieving the items I gifted her.
While she was struggling to have her gifted items back, our neighbours heard the struggle and had to come and settle for us. She apologized and I forgave her. we were back into the house.

5. Just yesterday , we left home together, and I locked the door and I took the keys with me. We walked down the street together to the Busstop, I have almost no friend and seldomly greet. But there's this my ex girlfriend by the roadside, she saw me and yelled my name, I went to greet her and my Fiancée picked offence, left me without waiting for me. After that I chased her and told her it's nothing because I've told her everything about this ex.
Before we could get to the Busstop, she demanded for the house keys and I gave her since she might come back earlier than me.
We couldn't say bye. The anger was clear on her face and we parted ways.

After about 15mins, I got to where I wanted to make payment for the items I picked only to notice I am not with my transaction phone. I was confused where could I have kept it, the seller insisted I may not have come to his shop with the phone, and the phone rang as I called with my second phone. so I had to call my Fiancée for assistance since she's with the keys.
At first, she said she was still around the Busstop but when I told her I needed her to go home and confirm my phones whereabout, she said she can't go back that she has gone far, shouted on me and hung the phone.

I called and called and called, but she didn't pick. Many thoughts ran into me. Who took this phone? My money? , my phone? , my sim card? . I had to find my way and trekked back about 4km to the house since I had no cash with me. And finally saw the phone ringing in my house. I was relieved.

The way she shouted to me on the phone got me unbalanced, I felt she would be fire if I get this girl as a wife.

We finally traveled to our home state today and I paid the bills for the traveling. My major plan of traveling was to see her people and do the needful before I mistakenly get her pregnant. But I'm seriously contemplating of canceling this plan and throw her out come January. I need peace.

Dear nairalanders, I'm really in the middle of the deep blue sea and the devil.

I need mature and candid advice please.
Should I continue with the marriage plans or the redflags are obvious?

Abort sir,her heart isn't with you

And who advised you that the seed oil also known as vegetable/groundnut oil is healthier for you?
Palm oil is way better .
If you intend to go the healthier route,use the fat from your meat or the oil in Egusi itself.

Again Palm oil is better and healthier than "g.oil*. ITS IN QUOTES because THERE'S NOTHING GROUNDNUTY ABOUT THAT SCAM PROCESSED OIL SOLD IN NIGERIA.Don't be deceived.

Western media deceiving you ppl the same way they deceive you ppl that cow milk is better for your baby than breast milk.

And the way it's making alot of my fellow women bald ehn!
To look at themselves in the mirror when they remove every every at night even fears them.

TV.
To watch it now is like you are punishing me

One of the laborers that died while the house was being constructed.

Bragalane:
Poverty wan scatter their lives

He made announcements for it.ppl didn't go their uninvited.

This is the first time hearing from the other side wore Nigerians out

We heard Emeka Ike's side,his younger brother's side,his wife's side and now his son's side.Ex Magodo residents too,their former neighbors testified of constant abuse and violence on the wife.

Me I say,why did Emeka decide to stir up the hornet's nest.

Adekunle1665:
https://www.intelregion.com/news/buharis-ex-minister-in-trouble-as-efcc-uncovers-n37bn-fraud-in-humanitarian-ministry/

This wa the season they first accused Dbanj then next was the nonsense validation.Ppl kept validating and revslidating acc without issues not knowing they were laughing behind the keyboards and buying time till elections.
Then some of us received on the eve and morning of the elections to cover their tracks.

Mths ago when the investigation started,majority that weren't paid got their payroll tab changed to successful without receiving a dime.Yet it was a woman always on a religious garb pérpertrating this evil.

Nataba:

I went for my capturing on September 27.

And after waiting till last Monday (December 18), I decided to contact one of their officers to find out why it took that long, and lo and behold, he showed me my passport.

It has been printed since November 18 (that's approximately 6 weeks after my capturing). However, I couldn't collect it because I was told that there's an error on it, which will be corrected immediately after the yuletide.

Will go back there first week in January to pick up my passport.

This is my advise for anyone who intends to apply or just applied.

Don't rely on the online tracker.

Go to the passport office 6 weeks after your capturing.

There's high chances that your passport has been produced.

That error they observed will however become an endless journey for you.
It's called QC code issue and mine which was produced in 4 weeks took 8 mths to correct the error.

If you collect it the day they told you to come,pls quote me.

Go and start fasting now.i wish you speedy correction though.