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Its your fault bro so take it easy on her

Iyaebe:
Source of wealth is very important and as far as a person is into fraudulent activities then he's as poor and worthless as a church rat.Nothing is thrilling about people who steal and lives off other people's sweat

Rich is rich !!!!!

I know of a man who had so many opportunities to make money in life, an uncle actually. He was busy playing them humble man card. Right now he is broke as fck and his wife and people around him dont really respect him. He walks in rain and sun. Hes suffering like hell

My sister, olowo laye man. Lifes too short to worry about how u made it sometimes

Iyaebe:
But he's a fraudster

Rich is rich who cares

Iyaebe:
If you think otherwise then mention their Monika's. I've come to the conclusion that there are no real big boys on nairaland, please when I mean big boys,I mean those who are genuinely and legitimately rich and not some audio millionaires and internet fraudsters. Why do rich guys avoid nairaland?

Dont be naive , invictus obi had a nairaland account ..

betcliq:
This days na sex before relationship. No Nigerian Girl will take you serious unless you don bang the hell out of her.

Swear, reminds me of this girl I met infront of her hostel for the first time.. we got along well, and the next day she was already begging to suck my d*ck ... apparently, she has a thing for certain type of guys..

kals4luv990:
and she takes ur money and brings to me..pls stop under rating women..yu r better than this

Lol, that's the whole point , I'm rich , I dont care if she takes my money and gives to you , I'm not looking for loyalty in her but you are.

She broke loyalty code with you and got close enough to me to get money , she might have s*cked my dick, kissed me deep or had a quickie sex with me or hot romance , while you're out there believing that your woman is loyal. Brooo, the most dangerous element on earth is a man with money.. please change your mentality o.

kals4luv990:
Den yu know nothing bro

No you know nothing , let me be a multi millionaire, and you're broke. Put me around your woman for a month, shes gone bruh , even though she does not leave you for me, she'll still cheat on you to an extent

You people just eat anything hot water can boil and stew can accommodate.. ya'll worse than those animals... I hate sharing this planet with many of your kind.

RealTalker02:
Lies, Explain all those ones collecting their man money and still visiting some broke boys for sex

Lmaooooooo, pray to be rich or be okay and also be average looking as well. .. you dont expect to look like Adam's oshiomole and expect a dope ass girl to be French kissing you

Truvelisback:
Nowadays, money buys Loyality. When some ladies notices that u are doing well as a guy, they tend to be loyal automatically.

Woorrrrrrrrrrd

Faaaaaaaaaaaact

If anyone is against my niggaz statement, go hug transformer.. even small girl wey still dey secondary school go dey loyal to you automatically because you have money .!

socialmediaman:
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Sapa is coming not winter

Healthrelatedjo:
Virgo pls

Virgo ( August 23- September 22)

1- Virgos know that hard work pays off. They aren't afraid to throw themselves into a project, no matter what it takes, and may even go some sleepless nights.

2- reliable : When left in charge, Virgos are sure to take their responsibilities seriously, and they'll always show up when you need them to

3- Virgos are also humble and affectionate. Along with their desire to see the best in people, they are unfailingly kind and are always willing to help others.

4-While no one is infinitely patient, Virgos are more patient than others. They're always willing to see the best in people, and are willing to give people time when they need it to shape up their act.

5- As critical thinkers, Virgos can also be chronic over-thinkers. Their minds are so busy all the time, constantly thinking about things they need to do or how they can get ahead on their next project. This means they also overthink emotions and relationships.

6-Overthinking and worrying are classic Virgo traits. They are bothered by lots of little things, and are often told by friends that they need to chill or relax. Lots of Virgos are what we'd think of as type A personalities.

7 - very picky

MufasaLion:
Who can guess mine?

Lol probably Scorpio

Truvelisback:
Warabat Tairus?

Taurus ( April 20- May 20)
1-Taurus sign value honesty above all else, so don't try to pull a fast one on them—they'll never forgive you if they find out you've deceived them

2- Taureans don't shy away from hard work and aren't afraid to do what it takes to get the job done. In other words, if there's a Taurus in your group for a class project, you're in great hands! Coupled with their hardworking nature is a level of ambition and mental tenacity that makes Taureans a true force to be reckoned with.

3- Taureans aren't fond of authority and might challenge a teacher or professor who they believe is wrong about something or just wasting their time. So you know that one student in class who's always talking back to the professor? Probably a Taurus.

4- Can be very stubborn

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(Aries)- March 21st- April 19th

1- You dont just get angry but when you do.. na wahala for who go face your anger.

2- you're always impatient with everything, especially when you wanna get something done.

3- You're the most caring.

4- Very low key , calm and kind, but can be proud.
5 - Can be very stubborn, we do what we say we will do .

(Libra) Sept 22- October 23

1- Why are you always indecisive? Confused about everything ? What to eat ? What cloth to wear lol

2- Why do you love holding grudges? Or holding on to a negative word and using it against somebody in the next argument?

3- Libras have a strong sense of justice. They want to make sure everyone gets heard, and are passionate about making sure that things are balanced

4- Libras love beautiful things, including themselves. You may find a Libra taking selfies everywhere they go, or spending lots of time on pampering and appearances. They may be critical about how other people look or be reluctant to hang out with people who they think are less attractive.

5- Libras hate being confronted, they might hold all accusations at them in until they burst out with anger and negative words.

(Gemini) May 21 - June 20

1- Why are you so manipulative?. Act good to you with a fake character when they need something but after getting with

2- Gemini 's are two faced - They can be nice to you in your presence and start talking bad about you the moment you step out of the room

3- Can be very friendly , sociable, fun to be with, a Gemini would jump up to go to the club anytime of the night.

4- If you're up for a great adventure, call a Gemini.

5- Great friend to share deep talk with, they are very good listeners and ready to stand with you when there is a problem.

6- they can start a plan with full energy but ignore it halfway .

7- Ignore how they make other people feel

The Jamb failing part, you have a little point.. excessive masutubation makes you have a bit of memory loss, you forget things so easy... as for quitting , I'll be honest, most men died trying to quit, it's kind of part of human nature.. you can only reduce how nasty and often but you can never escape mastubation in this life or next. No human can vouch not to have masturbated in his or her life.

Klass99:
Lmao . Thanks for responding, I appreciate it when people engage back and we are able to interact and just gist in a civil manner.

You must be drop dead gorgeous to have experienced all this. I don't doubt you at all, I was once in VI for an early morning interview when I saw this great looking guy jogging. To make matters worse he wore body fitting joggers which accentuated his physique, muscles, well toned body and then he had grey beards again (I'm a sucker for grey hair on men)

Omo, I wan craze that day (just kidding and exaggerating a bit) but I stopped and stared until the bloke went out of sight. If we were within close range I would have told him he's a very good looking man. This happened in 2019 but you can see how the memory of a brief sighting has stayed with me till now. I was so tripped at his looks that day!

So, yeah I get you.

Wow lol, interesting to read and I love the honesty, well, he really sounded like a good looking man , you should have tried saying hello

Some people are blessed I guess. Though I've also been In a couple of similar situations of random public approaches.

But I love love love been lowkey in every aspect of life .

Chno:
Ogbeni small small dey lie for here

Lie for what ? Do I even give a dammn about this forum than to come here and spit trash ? What motive do I have to lie ? I don't even have my profile picture here . It's even more , just had to reduce it so it does not sound like a movie .

Klass99:
Abeg share, my ears are itching for gist.

They probably dont sound real but they are ..

I've been drugged by a girl who found me attractive but I don't like her , she did it so I can make love to her , I put myself together, left her house and went home..

Got over 5 women who ended being so obsessed, those who fought thier friends did, those who did jazz did , those who almost committed suicide in my name did all because I wanted a breakup .

Constant stalking and bugging . 16-25 daily missed calls for weeks using new numbers after blocking random ones. There was a day a particular girl used over 15 phone numbers to call me after blocking hers.

Rape allegations because I wanted break ups, this and that .. omoo

Some are correct some are not... what I've been through for my looks only God knows but at the same time we thank God.

Datboredberry:
Before I rant::

I'm a girl... I like and date mostly boys (so I'm focusing on them)... I'm eighteen, so I like and boys between 18-25... I'm from a southern state... I rarely judge...

My observation::

I recently travelled back home, to my state... I'm living in my family home in a small quiet town... Correction, it was quiet then... Now, it's just one big nightclub!

Before, I've been residing in Abuja... The boys there are from all over the country... They are just okay... Some are wayward, others aren't... An average score of 5/10... I hardly liked any...

Where I am presently, every boy who's my age mate is a yahoo boy!!!

It's insane! The dreads, the ripped jeans... These would be normal to me because I'm liberal but I'm smart enough to know that this is the signature look of yahoo boys...

This afternoon I went out... There's a neighbour who's about 21-23... He's really cute (I find dreads attractive)... He's been looking at me a lot too... But he's a yahoo boy... He hangs out with a rough crowd... And he's UNDATABLE!!! Because yahoo boys are into rituals and therefore predators...

And nearly 80% of the boys here are like him... Young, poor, desperate and dangerous...

I also found out that the South South States are hot... In pidgin, "most of the boys don cast"...

Delta (Warri, Abraka, Sapele esp.), Bayelsa, Port-harcourt, Edo (Benin esp.), etc...

Not to mention the Western states and even those to the East...

Girls my generation, it would be very difficult to find someone to date... Especially the good girls...

Even the bad boys in Abuja and the other Northern states, most were Southerners...

Good boys are nearly extinct in Nigeria...

No harm in what you said , but some people would still come here and talk trash

Dizzyyish:
PART III:

The fundamental defect of the female character is a lack of a sense of justice. This originates first and foremost in their want of rationality and capacity for reflexion but it is strengthened by the fact that, as the weaker sex, they are driven to rely not on force but on cunning: hence their instinctive subtlety and their ineradicable tendency to tell lies: for, as nature has equipped the lion with claws and teeth, the elephant with tusks, the wild boar with fangs, the bull with horns and the cuttlefish with ink, so it has equipped woman with the power of dissimulation as her means of attack and defence, and has transformed into this gift all the strength it has bestowed on man in the form of physical strength and the power of reasoning. Dissimulation is thus inborn in her and consequently to be found in the stupid woman almost as often as in the clever one. To make use of it at every opportunity is as natural to her as it is for an animal to employ its means of defence whenever it is attacked, and when she does so she feels that to some extent she is only exercising her rights. A completely truthful woman who does not practice dissimulation is perhaps an impossibility, which is why women see through the dissimulation of others so easily it is inadvisable to attempt it with them. – But this fundamental defect which I have said they possess, together with all that is associated with it, gives rise to falsity, unfaithfulness, treachery, ingratitude, etc. Women are guilty of perjury far more often than men. It is questionable whether they ought to be allowed to take an oath at all.
- Arthur Schopenhauer

As stated in the quote, nature has bestowed onto women dissimulation as their attack and defence, even in their day to day lives. That's why makeup and fake hair is very common amongst women...

Why else would one pay money to attach synthetic hair or real hair harvested from the scalps of other humans to their own heads? (On top the discomfort that comes with it like their head scratching them because they can't let hair touch the hair or inability to sleep properly)...

"The beauty accessories women use perform the same function as a hunter's collection of weapons. The discomfort borne in carrying and maintaining them is offset by the acquisition of the prey (man)."
- ReacherSaidNoth


Addendum: This post is not an attempt to antagonise or degrade women but to try and explain why exhibiting childish behaviour is far more prevalent in women than men in our society, as having childlike behaviours and mindsets along with it's "perks" is NOT exclusive to one gender. Every behaviour has an origin and you may not be responsible for your upbringing or how people treated you, but you ARE responsible for how you treat others so please be compassionate to others as you'd be to yourself.

This is the most BRILLIANT thing I've ever spent my 15 mints reading!!! Niceeeeeeree and facts

BigYash:
Mumu try get sense..

Even short responses no fit you. You cant force savagery bruh let it go ..

CHoccolaTE:
@bold,

See how you finished that guy, choii

Those damn tiny dot pricks can be so annoying jare .

BigYash:
If say u get sense ,I for know.. Dey there dey ass lick women dey go.. Na una type make all these small girls dey see una finish... Getat jor.. See werey dey call person werey. When last you take your medication? Its obvious ,e don tay with this ur misbehavior.

For a second, I think sey u no go reply or when you do , it will be something reasonable.. well I wanst expecting much common sense from any online Redpiller gang.

Lol why you port to peidgon from English, werey self wan prove street boy. Who rared all these chickens , my lordddd

Candidlady:




Iblame the nurse that placed you in an incubator


You this premature kid

Lmaooooooo

BigYash:
@ d bolded.
Not all fathers are like your self centered prick father.. ... And I blame him for using a licking condom. If he had used a good condom,a useless son like you,wouldn't have been here making stupid comments.

Hooolllddd on , who the fck is this fuuul?
Why your blood dey hot? Abeg get out with your rubbish English!!! . We no sey you go expensive primary school.. ponmo boy, silly Ajebutter pikin . Werey say licking condom ... .. u come carry Ajebutter English come here dey preach sermon, who cares if dem award ur papa the world best werey

TheGidRedpiller:
You deserve to be castrated honestly, you don't really know what you are talking about until you be become a father yourself! Until then, shut up.

All of you stupid f*cks claiming Redpiller, the Gig Red piller , you're nothing but kids within the age of 18-25.

At this stage of your life you're busy forming hard guy online? No real man in real life has time for all these childless rubbish you shameless chicken heads are dedicated to on here .

Back to the real topic. A good father is a good father, a bad father is a bad father. Dont sweat it Pig, this is a simple fact any human should get.. and tell the rest of your gang. I'll wreck you one by one , dont play with me !

BigYash:
When I see male children saying they love their mom more.. I usually pray for them.. The prayer is " that's how their children will love their wives more than them..
No one appreciate the stress fathers goes through to ensure the family stands and succeed.. You will see some mothers brain washing the kids ,to hate their dad...

If a father was good enough , it's hard to brainwash any child, this is super simple. Fact is that some fathers are self centred pricks

Datboredberry:
Most men sacrifice for their children? Sure, but compared to the mother what extra mile do they go?

Paying the bills? Taking loans? Being deprived of sleep just to raise funds for the children's school fees? Having to hustle all day to make a little cash so the family can feed?

In most cases, both parents do this... The pressure and struggle isn't for the man alone...

Apart from this, the reason mothers are held higher is because of their active roles in the lives of their children...

Mothers are closer to their children... They take care of them, listen to their problems, go out of their way to solve them, etc...

They are the ones the school teachers know, the doctor's appointments calenders, the laundry cleaner, the cook, the parent we report the mean folks to, best friends we tell our secrets to... Our moral and emotional support...

Most men as fathers believe they should be distant... That it makes them better role models because good fathers don't reduce themselves to be shoulders for their children to cry on or be their gossip mates...

For example fathers step into the living room and the children are expected to be 'respectful' and leave... The children go off to be with the mother who welcomed them no matter how busy or tired she is..

Kudos to every good father... But paying the bills alone doesn't make you a good parent if you can't even remember you child's birthday or the name of the person the like... Or you can't prepare their favourite dishes...

God bless you

Hisbah21:
cos the reality shows its real. tell me what makes it not real

Let's be realistic here , the markets you go, your neighbours, school or office mates, how many of them died of covid ? This is nothing but a propaganda