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Amarisco:
It’s not about the receipts, it’s about the prestige.

For example, in other parts of the world even being a plumber let alone an actress can make someone very wealthy and honoured in society. Or anybody with a business model for that matter

But those jobs aren’t so respected and are not satisfactory explanations/routes for wealth here. If the work is not associated with significant education - it’s undermined

If you want to be validated by society, you will have to show receipts as to how you got to where you are. Or dont, and live your life.

As a regular plumber, you can be honoured all right, but you are not getting any wealthy. For the most part, wealth is created by ideas, not through regular jobs.

You cannot demand respect from people when your source of income is shady to say the least.

averageguy:
Yeah, I understand that people get to respond to what she says. I was just saying I didn't understand where the hate, since a lot of us have our desires in a spouse as well and some people might consider some of our desires to be shallow.

I don't know her enough to understand how rich she is. I was just going off google search on her net worth lol

If I'm understanding your argument on this third point correctly, it seems you believe that since there is a good chance men could find women with the qualities they desire, it is fine for them to state those desires but since there is a lesser chance for women to find those qualities, they should be more realistic (if I'm wrong in my understanding, please let me know). I disagree with this argument because she's not hurting any of us with her desires, and if she ends up waiting a long time, she can choose what's best for her. Also, she probably hangs around a different circle of people than the average Nigerian; so, I would imagine there's more wealthy guys around her.

High value men are picky, so are high value women. However, women tend to not marry down. A well-to-do guy can marry a broke babe with the right features.

This lady is hardly a 5/10 and like i said...Nollywood na packaging (so not high value). However, the higher you project you taste, the higher potential sutors tend to pay but usually only for a while because the guy go soon see say you be fraud (check divorce rate)

There is nothing wrong with her wants like you said. And people will criticise or praise her. But money scarce, she is not.

aikyg:
The founders of India's biggest stratup, Udaan, schooled and worked in India.
The founder of Israel's top startup, cCato Networks, schooled and worked in Israel.
The founder of China's top startup, WeChat, schooled and worked in China.

Do you need more?

i never said there aren't home grown pioneers. i said major.

Also, China, Israel, India or South Korea is not Nigeria. Check the level of infrastructure and higher education in the countries, Nigeria is way behind.

People who can think dont just fall from the sky..There has to be a sound structure and good leadership.

averageguy:
I don't understand the hate here.
1. She said what she wanted in a relationship, and didn't insult anyone.
2. She is relatively rich herself, and isn't asking for what she doesn't have.

When men have a listing of physical features they want in a lady, why is that any more acceptable? Especially since there is not much a lady can naturally do about her physical features.

Both genders can be shallow. Just be honest about what you want. If you find another adult who wants you and is fine with it, good luck to you guys.

Once you put your business out in the open, people will either hail or criticize you.

She is not rich. Forget packaging.

There is no scarcity of beautiful women with the right curves, there is a scarcity of healthy, tall and handsome men with resources.

captainamiedi1:
So what if the rich man later get broke. Life can be unpredictable. What will she then do?? I think love should be the driving force. Yes is the dream of every man to take care of his family

there is no love. Pursue understanding

Amarisco:
Tomorrow now u go call am ashawo, abeg!

nobody de call career women and business women with receipts ashawo.

Even guys wey get money without receipts are labelled Yahoo.

Hustle legitimately.

She works huh...?

aikyg:
Maybe, but not always. None of these people that he mentioned in his post had serious careers abroad before they moved back to Nigeria to join and build the tech ecosystem down here. It's always funny to think that you have to leave Nigeria to be the best. People leave the country for a while and come back to Nigeria after a year acting like know everything. Meanwhile they are just using their overseas internship level exposure to bobo people who know far more than they do.

I've worked with a lot of these so called foreign developers. Trust me, most of them are not as good as people here would want you to believe. One even told me to my face that what I was building for a telecom company was not possible. I was more shocked than angry. Shocked that someone who was in such environment does not know that so many things are possible when you have deep understanding of a technology.

The only reason you'll want to go abroad is for the money and better living environment. You can get knowledge from anywhere. Indians, Chinese, Israelis and Koreans understand this and they are building training and their people at home and getting the abroad to ship jobs to their door steps.

It's all about the money!

Indian, Israel and China didnt just became tech hubs overnight. The major IT pioneers in these countries came back from the west. The current CEO of Microsoft is Indian.

You cliam to know so much....act like it.

111sunshine:
true

if after seeing "DEVELOPERS" in the title, you assumed this story is about our "developers from the east"... click like

You need help.

Vickyvice:
Hmm. Marriage wan begin crash for lekki. Lekki women will be jittery by now. Just hope it won't be set ablaze one night. My thoughts may be wrong

you are giving them ideas.

Romanoff:
Me I don't see any problem in this o.

Na only one bill she dey pay, yet she wan turn terrorists for your head. You sef, always remind her how expensive DSTV and foodstuff costs as often as you can.

You can add the rising cost of rent too.

Treat people how they treat you and watch them adjust.

Just cause your own wife is like that doesn't mean all women are that way.

I know women who are bread winners and you'd never know, even n their house.

One just bought car and house that her family just moved into. Na her husband dey drive the car.

So don't conclude all women who are bread winners are like that.

i hope you actually read the article. He made no conclusion.

Onyi22:
Why can't the man just rent a one room apartment for the girl, instead of putting her through this stress

why doesn't she have her own flat?

is side-chicking a job?

Paternity test?

[quote author= post=106115324]@ the bolded,
Hmmmmm, this is deep!!![/quote]deep indeed. See how word salad has turned your head.

What Mughalu is saying doesn't appeal to him but Buhari or Tinubu wins his heart anytime?

See una life outside.

Righteousness2:
Sex outside Marriage is not Dating, it is Fornication. And is a sin against GOD.

Prostitution in any format, whether as a male or Female, Private or Public is Evil. It is Ungodly. It is Sin. It will take you to Hell.

Where is this hell? better than Nigeria?

dimmyj:
Atleast, they're finally using the loots found for something reasonable, if only this is true tho

lol. didnt they say they used it to empower market women during the 2019 elections?

Sirjamo:
Get over it dude, its been six years plus and you're still crying.

especially since baba is delivering.

Maxymilliano:
NEPOTISM at its peak ...

Naval base in Kano

There is already a refinery in Kaduna,

Useless entrapment.

Fahdiga:
Imagine this happening in Nigeria and this brutal regime. I think Africa is blessed in terms of not witnessing such a devastating natural disasters

coursed with terrible leadership.

Earlystar698:
1000 before 2024 zombiesm is a curse

at this pace, N1000/dollar is possible early next year.

Ishilove:
Na you get load of problems, no be me.

no vex

Ikpunekenwa:
Ehee! These oloshos always think the world revolves around them that they can eat their cake and still have it back and can treat anyone or talk to anyone anyhow and no repercussion will ensue. I talked her the truth of her life, she got angry though coupled with her frustrated and depressing life I won't blame her make she no go drink sniper cos of what I told her.

Easy nwanne. Many people carry serious load for head. abeg make una settle.

Ikpunekenwa:
Na wetin I explain give her elaborately she go report me and they banned me.

ewoh. e reach like that?

Ishilove:
My sister, I find laugh I no see

DHL no fit carry your load of problems be that.

sapientia:
Big big Grammer is the reason Nigerians dont know their right from their left

Just to tell us that CBN could not prove abokifx manipulates exchange rates.

That CBN is just practicing trial by error and hoping for the best luck, premium times is just blowing Grammer up and down

Naira will sink further and Emefiele might blame endsars protest, when it happens, explain it in a way every Nigerian will understand.

What is the problem with "blowing grammar"?

Almost every Nigerian, especially in the south, knew that Buhari was a calamity but still voted for him twice.

We Nigerians know our problems, but for political, tribal and religious bigotry, we have chosen not to fix them.

almusay:
The Jagaban of Nigeria

Jagaban of Nigeria my chocolate balls. The purported leader of SW politics since 1999 but him no fit build one better hospital. The foool don relocate to London for medicals and e no de bother you.

You guys are cerebrally handicapped.

Wiseandtrue:
Everyone's fighting for themselves

Not that it's healthy but anyone will do better than Buhari!

Until we stop any but...na dead woods go de occupy political positions.

pinkyruledworld:

The South is a slave to the North, but one day it will be history
This I know.

So Help Me God

funnily enough, the south always claim to be the clever one. The irony!

thesicilian:
But they're not wrong, as long as it hasn't been established that he actually committed a crime on US soil, the US can not just demand the federal government to produce anyone they want, we are not their member state. However despicable that person might be. It's called independence.

This is the only time una de remember say una de independent.

Common tyre una no fit produce.

Independence ko, indecency ni

purples25:
Why would you deliberately add big stomach to your title? To achieve what?

All these low key spiteful articles about celebrities sha. Is it a crime to get older? She has a good body especially when you compare to most of her mates. And, some young pretty ladies are even so fat. So that's no excuse for the hate.

She looks good.

You take the praise with the criticism or dont post the damn pictures.

"Succulent" dey there...you like that one abi

YES

There is a reason, since its establishment, all EFCC bosses have come from the North.

The current security challenges are nothing but racketeering. Top Northern politicians are heavily monitizing the deaths and sorrows of their countrymen.

Truly saddening.