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Temisia:
No easy path. Just be patient and devote time to it.
HTML
CSS
JavaScript

Then frontend
REACT
NextJS

Backend
NodeJs

Time is the biggest challenge if you can devote time to it you'll be amazed at how fast you can learn. Then as I tell my students. Practice practice practice until it becomes your second nature

Or Python
Or Laravel

Laravel is cool, but you need some php background. Node is the easiest route to full stack since it is just a runtime for js. Django for those switching from data science.

XX-chromosome privilege. if na XY now, dem go just de manhandle him anyhow.

leetylee:
Modified:

PS. At this point I noticed this is where men take advantage of women and demand whatever lord knows from them (she gave me assurance they she's going to do anything for me, anything I can think of but I let it slide) well the female specie are not to be trusted wholeheartedly. I still have other test subject I'm trying this trp psychology on and with time I'll share my tales.

i dont think anybody should be trusted "wholeheartedly". Humans are fallible.

otis3:
Bible admonished that men should love their wives...REASON because God knows women are not capable of loving anyone genuinely....
But rather he admonished they should be submissive.
Hence if a woman is not submissive to your order on a reasonable term, don't get MARRY to her. a girlfriend that is stubborn and have always want things to play out the way she wanted is a capital NO.
And please, don't marry an ingrate...an ingrate will never remember nor consider your past good contribution to her life.

Don't simp play by the rule.

By design, women are generally ingrates. For them, it is always about now and the future. What you did for them in the past is history.

heartofcity12:
Another bluepiller . The parasitic h0es would sure like this post. Later he’ll be crying online about how he got heartbroken and ripped off.

Just as there are "fake" redpillers, there are "fake" bluepillers. Like feminist men, they say what women want to hear, to get laid.

adambeatz:
Here's a scenerio:
In Siberia, there's a man who did selective breeding on foxes. He got some foxes together and trained them to become domesticated and the ones who showed more traits of domestication he allowed them to mate and the once that didnt he didnt allow them to mate. He repeated the same process for over 70years and got foxes who showed very desirable traits of being domesticated.

Now this is applicable to humans in the sense of our forefathers. Here we have a man who lets say was a hunter and a warrior, for generations has being killing. He goes to consult the gods and ends up making a pact with them which then gets engraved into his subconscious brain. He believes what he had gone through wholeheartedly and as such get written in his DNA which then gets passed down to his offsprings. Now come present day and one sees his offsprings venturing into the same line as their forefathers and the ones who aren't lucky to find a place in society become a burden to others. Use this scenerio for other people and one who come to understand that the sperm is actually a highly concentrated DNA containing our chromosomes which are instructions passed down from generation to generation. A parent who is abusive to his son would on a high probability have the same trait passed down to the next child.


Now these Nigerian gothic, sperm truckload consuming, drugs taking girls would receive all the sperm from Mr A, down to Mr Z. With the way sperms have being designed by God to carry generational instructions down to offsprings, you expect a woman whose womb walls have being drowned in other mens sperm to behave normally. Why do you think one comes across women with multiple personalities, one minute their fine and the next she's a whole new breed then they look for who would accept them as they are.
#Mad people#

With all due respect, scientifically speaking, this is not how genetic and epigenetic changes work.

Women, naturally show more elevated mood swings than men , in part, because of their hormonal makeup. Of course sleeping with many men, especially very toxic and abusive ones could leave indelible marks on a woman, which are likely to affect how she interacts with people, particularly other men.

Also, if a child grows in an abusive environment, he/she may likely become abusive not because it was a trait genetically passed on to him/her but because it was learned.

Unless you have a couple of papers (including peer reviewed) on this topic, i say bullshit.

Rexwalters1:
Humbugs like you no get your own papa that can make your life more blissful? Charity they say begins @ home.

Who be this unwholesome species?
Modafucker do you think everyone is as miserably fücked as you and your household?

dumb fooll...Make you de look moniker well well before you talk rubbish.

BeeBeeOoh:


Going by this man's assertions, Buhari Also Have No Reason To Be Visiting UK Hospital's To Always Charge His Battery After Budgeting Billions Of Nigeria For Aso Villa Clinic.

The level of hypocrisy deposited in this alone can cover half of Nigeria

Same with importing refined petroleum products. All talk, no action.

Germany is not where the highest paid software guys are, but 56k gross (Brutto), about 33k net(Netto) per annum is not bad at all.

Club manager is not waht i would be doing with tech skills and experience.

I would say, move to Germany.

Herzlich willkommen im voraus.

Welcome to the thick-skinned community. Street smartness is a must, especially for Naija. Happy you overcame the depression.

One thing though: What the media say do effect you, may not be immediately or directly but they do. Media have enormous influence on government policies.

Nonetheless, you still have focus and run your race.

Lightway:
Mentholated

Your points are top notch.

Love is a social construct

Men don't fall in love

Don't deceive yourself.

You can never love a woman

Almost everything in this world is societally constructed. You tend to speak in absolutism. That's hardly how things work.

People do love, why and how they do it vary. It could be for resources, companionship ...it could be ignorantly or "scripted" (kinda like partnership) or deceitfully.

"You can never love a woman", is not how i would say anything. After all, redpill teaches how to get what you want from a woman without "falling in love" or simping.

Albeit belated. Happy International Men's day...while it is still a thing.

Motto: You come first.

slimjohn2k5:
Bro, u are not alone. I beg my wife all the time for sex.

Sometimes she said I always ask at the wrong always, she is tired, etc

I have accepted my faith but what I do to get her now is doing somethings she is supposed to do like washing the toilet, I take professional exams, show her result I passed, when she is happy I asked for sex as the reward.

I buy very cheap things that make her happy and ask for sex as reward. I said cheap things like bolé and groundnut, corn, watermelon etc

Just find a spicing point, I feel they need a little tickle

Some of us are unmarried n do not understand what happens there. This is the reason marriages are crashing. Some see women as sexual tool, so when they see these resistance they say the woman is bad.

At least op was having sex before it stopped, y not ask him what changed. When he was enjoying it we did not know till the place lock

Chai! This is beyond pathetic.

flokii:
You will take over GTBank and then use the money in people's account to do business.. I no blame you sha, na GTBank wey loose guard
To make matters worse, they appointed an Igbo woman married to a Yoruba man, on the verge of divorce as MD. Innoson know wetin dey give am liver and na the Igbo woman wey GTBank appoint as MD go help am

"Use people's money to do business? Are you that stupid? What do you think banks do with everyone's money?

bigjackass:
This idea of what favor who... mostly irresponsible people think this way. Marriage is good as long you marry the right person. Even the whites we want to copy, most of them don't stay single. Instead they jump from one marriage to the other and divorce up and down because they enjoy being married but they haven't found the right person.

Have you checked the current marriage rate in the west?

Raalsalghul:
Hormones, biology, oxytocin, dopamine, serotonin; something about man being a social being and all that.

It's quite hard to transcend these things and a lot of folks on this thread have to come to the understanding that women are not the enemy.

Nature is!!!

That's just the way I see it.

All those things can happen without marriage though.

Smartb0y:
Marriage is a death warrant for men, you're literally signing up for slavery.

he gives his wife, about 62% of his salary, yet he gets no food. smh

Ekakamba:
Omo, e be like say na Nigerian boys/men/husbands dey suffer pass oooo...

It is so unfortunate how some men have been reduced to mere house helps. Pathetic!

That man is in marriage purgatory.

TheUndercover:
Self-control or abstinence should be focused more on instead because many men have fallen from spinning the wrong plate. Make your decision wisely.

What would you term "spinning wrong plates"?

NNtv:
My state is even building its first flyover, and they won't allow someone to hear word.

I pray for God to give me the financial strength to travel out of this country, at least to see the real world.

if no bi say people no go gree go back, Nigerians suppose de go Germany, Japan, South Korea, France etc for excursion.

May, just maybe they would demand for better governance.

FanOfMyself:
It's hardcoded.
I used VueJs, but I can also use React.

Ok. It is good to have some flexibility.

budaatum:
Tell them, though I bet some will come and tell you its not rape in Nigeria.

this na for poor people or husbands wey de craze. When women many for outside.

Amotolongbo:
Why not.

I don’t live in the past.
Old things have passed away.

The man also has his past

This has nothing to do with this situation. Of course the man didnt meet her as a virgin...the past is not the issue here but that his brother used to nail her. Quite different

FanOfMyself:
Okay sir, thanks so much for the feedback. I appreciate it. The background issue is visible on the smaller screen but perfect on lager screen.
I will do the needful.

anytime!

Are you using nodejs in the back...or the front is hardcoded?

FanOfMyself:
On point

About you portfolio. You may want to put your name and title under the picture, before the about me section. One can hardly read them, given the white background and white text.

FanOfMyself:
He is software developer.
I'm also a software developer and I have two jobs which are both remote. Both companies are in Lagos while I am in Abuja trying to secure another one with a company in the USA through their Nigerian partner who are training us. Though one of the two companies are kinda shaking but I am still their employee.
Bottom line is for you to learn any IT related skills as it's the new gold mine.

IT has always been a gold mine. However, some technological advancements have accelerated online engagements (shopping, teaching and learning, trading etc) and the possibility of working remotely. Thus, more jobs.

Datboredberry:
Who spends money on me? As you daft?

Do you think those shameless criminals wouldn't commit these crime if there were no women? With the unemployment, poverty rate in Nigeria, you think we're on the forefront of their minds when they perform rituals and scam unsuspecting foreigners? They want to live large. Because they lack values... Don't black women for their greed and desire to like like e-money and the rest lowlifes...

Black men who do these have no right to shame black women... You can atleast comprehend this?

You mentioned my relationship first...

Lastly, I'm broke, frustrated but you wouldn't see me fccking a 60yr old...

I'll rather take it out on your dumb self.

You are broke and turn tricks to survive. The age of your customers is irrelevant.

Datboredberry:
Horseshit? I call them mental slaves because of the hate they have for their reflections...

Did we send them? Don't blame women for your greed...
The same yahoo boys use Nigerian girls for rituals, etc. They are simply entitled low-lifes... They spend the money because they have zero personalities...and sexually frustrated incels... Not my business.

How does this relate? My point is simple...

Most Nigerian men are broke...yet they diss Nigerian women though they actually have nothing to offer as individuals.

Most Nigerian men are entitled, even scamming foreigners... yet they complain about how Nigerian women are criminals because of the meagre change they ask for...

Most Nigerian men are mental slaves who worship white women, they haven't even met... because they hate themselves... They can stoop low to any extent just to please their superior queens because the detest their blackness...

If you date someone of a different race, there's no need to disgrace yourself by bringing women of your race down... It makes you nothing but a white-pleasing sellout.

Tracking some guy? If you read my posts, you would notice how ever story revolves around love... Not sex... Not money... But your sick mind can not appreciate romance... So I date out of my race, means I have no right to complain that black men don't respect women of their race while their tongues are deep up the asses of white women?


yeah... Cos I'm an intersexual...

if you couldn't care less about the fact that crime monies are spent on you, why would you care what black men say about black women? what image is there to preserve anyway?

Most Nigerian women are broke too, and would engage in yahoo if they had a brain capable of thinking beyond spreading their legs.

Nobody cares about your romance bullcrap

I think you are broke and frustrated.

Crystyano:
Honestly,
I don't understand

You are a SIMPle guy.

Datboredberry:
I won't write anything bad about black men... I definitely will of mental slaves...

White women appropriate black culture... So what are you you taking about? Asian women are the largest consumers of bleaching creams, Arab women are known for rhinoplasty, and white women are popular for black-fishing...

And black men are worse... Aren't you the ones getting married to 60 yrs olds because you're mostly entitled, criminally minded, degenerates who prefer to be leeches living off the pension of a grandmother?

Not to mention the brood of scammers, ritualists.. if the crime of black women is wanting a man who's financially stable...can afford to feed her also... Then I'm proud of my gender...

1. You do realize that you could term anyone a "mental slave" just so you could write some horseshit about the person?

2. Much as i strongly detest criminals (esp. Yahoo and co), they do spend the ill-gotten monies on you females.

3. Get your own Money and you would attract someone on your level.

4. Dont be a broke-ass, tracking some guy in South America, while at the same time going berserk about black men not respecting black women (no relevant data to back this shitt up)

Anyway, i have written all this with a reservation about your gender.

Crystyano:
Little wonder you are the first person to have a house

Take the L and move on.

omoadeleye:
Same format they all have...

And for the owner of Whales Kingdom Capital,

I pray that where he is right now, he will either be killed by a stray bullet or by a hit and run driver.

And his parents shall be in pains and sorrow, they shall no know peace.

Cause, they participated in the scheme, he used his parents account to launder the money.

I wish guns were legally permitted to be used in Nigeria, if not, that Daniel Tobiloba would have been an history.


But all the same, i wish him nothing but bad luck in his endeavours.

Dude, you could have gotten a gun if you wanted. Or you needed permission from the government to send him upstairs?

Stop giving criminals your money in the name of "investment".