Smartb0y:
you just busy simping smh

the super-simp was insulted and he just loled.

sofiscatedmoron:

You no dey current ,village old man
Tiwa has a new song with brandy from usa,
I know u dont know about brandy,

Village Hunter like u
Wetin concern hunter and music

You still can't get it. Her music is not as chart-topping as before.

If someone blackmails you with your nude/sex video, you either pay or go to the police or something...not go yapping on a radio show

Lol. if only you know where i am.

sofiscatedmoron:

She still sings maybe u gey ear problems

na only you de listen to that one.

your village top chart

As song no gree her sing again.

She still wants to trend.

Chillext:
confused religion

of course. every religion is confused. However, 30k for praying is way better than blowing yourself up for some unseen virgins. At least you get to spend the money.

SenecaTheYonger:
You might want to proofread your post. Typos sending out the wrong message

Typos for pigin English?

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Shellsploit:
Same hair someone will barb for N300 in Aguileri junction anambra, another will barb it for N58,000 in USA



Is God not wonderful...?

hair wey dem carry tiger generator barb different o

GOFRONT:
Even Officers dont even know their CG

Hustle no de look your face. na your pocket.

Davash222:
You can't get married to an Olosho and expect her kpekus to be solely yours.


One girl wey boys dey use rest for street, one foolish boy for street come personalize the girl. Polish the girl, carry her go Kenya for vacation, bought her exotic wears and all that, come still get mind dey upload the photos for social media. Girl wey dem just give am make em taste o.

How do you expect such kpekus to be yours forever after marriage?

It's foolishness to personalize public property.

Don't re-decorate a hotel room. Check in and check out.

Tibimabln:
this girl na every man's dream to knack.

chaiiii people dey chop better thing for this world ehh

Speak for yourself. This is a very useless mindset.

No pussy is a must.

Smartb0y:
you make sense but your kids are gonna grow up with a divorce mentality

Do you really think the situation is gonna get any better? With social media and co, women are more hypergamous than ever.

Might as well prepare them kids.

FootNote: if a marriage doesn't work, get out. Make person no die put.

Martinez39s:
The thing is, we men can try our best in vetting, but harsh truth is that we can never tell the true personality of a woman... you just can never know except what she chooses to show you. Women have their game too, they actually know what men are looking for in committed relationships and they are very good at playing the long game where necessary. Some women are very smart and good at their game that they will pass all sorts of vetting with flying colours.

Nevertheless, I agree with you that it is important to test a woman's aggression. Her temper and anger are important to test. Also, her feminist disposition are important to test. If possible, test these things. Just note that the chameleon nature of women can hide a lot about her personality that your vetting won't reveal.

Simple formula is...if you must marry, you can unmarry. With this mindset, you would have a bullshit threshold.

Promzy99:
Dis ain't about ethnicity bro, else every tribe shud be guilty of fraud nd corruption. Be transpirent atleast, if u haue to be Thatfairguy.

he means fair...as in skin colour.

Tonnyray:

Same bitch.
Different dudes and mindsets.
Your choice.

Like they say: women make rules for betas and bend same rules for alphas.

manontree:
This guy called Kpokpogri or whatever his name is, is a disgrace to men. How a man would knowingly do this to a fellow man, even if the man's wife pushes for it, still baffles me. Women are everywhere and you see attraction in someone's wife. Abeg how does this work

That said, the fact that a married woman can open her legs to a strange man without a bother is amazing, disgusting, the highest of lows. So the vow you made in front of God is just mere words. To even bring the husband of your youth to such disrepute with badmouthing while with your adulterous boyfriend is the height of deceit and evil

Always remember, people do reap what they sow

You think say na only kpokpodikpokpo de mount the twerker? Some mehn like wahala. You marry twerker still allow her to de twerk...

i even hear say him de help her shoot her videos. chai

UndauntedYOCA:


Are you aware the genesis of the OP being this way stemmed from his experience with his mum? I have known his here for a while even before be became hardcore red Piller and if you had read and reflected on my comment you'd see where I also wrote gfs but I'm guessing you read hurriedly just so you can trash my comment but issokay.

To a very large extent female family members can go out of their way to help a male member of the family. This is a no-brainer... family. This is not the case for gfs and wives. are there some instances of course. I am not bashing you. i dont bash people who constructively air their opinions. I just highlighted some flaw in the "analogy" you used.

UndauntedYOCA:
Women don't do this, women don't do that, I am certain many men here on Nairaland were mostly raised by women who provided and sacrificed more than men.
Some of them are still being supported by their sisters, mothers etc.
The fact that some of you are products of bad mothers or dated ladies who used you doesn't mean others went through what you went through. In fact, the ego of some men here won't let them admit their gfs, wives, sugar mummies etc fend for them.
Let each man speak in an honest manner for himself.

False equivalent! Mothers, sisters and other female family members, while they sometimes may have their own problems, are not the same as girlfriends and wives.

stanley000:
reason I stopped visiting instagram. Some men make me cry as a man

man go Bleep one yansh...come see another yansh start to de para. Very disturbing.

Truvelisback:
It's not what u think bro. He had one time shared his bitter experience with women and his experience at home(which i wouldn't want to make mention of) which made him change his perspective abt women.

Thats ok. but even men without those issues but dont tolerate women bs are often asked who *broke your heart*.

I mean, thats not exactly a compliment to women.

UndauntedYOCA:

I do not subscribe to sex being the only thing that'd suffice for a woman to bring into the relationship, however, I must say you're right on the point about the pregnancy and childrearing thing.
Women clean
Women cook
Women have sex
The get pregnant, it distorts their bodies, some lose their teeth, some lose their hair, some have scars, some lose their shapes, some lactate from their armpits, some lose their shapes, some vaginas change colour blue/green, some have tears, some lose their skin colour etc. Different things happen to women during pregnancy, childbirth etc, some even lose their lives. Some lose their minds, some become traumatised
Women take care of the home.
Women support emotionally, mentally, physically and sometimes financially.
The effects of menstruation can never be exhausted.
Some women run the homes well and also work!
It's not easy being a woman, she's supposed to love herself, love her man, love her children, pray, do so many things to make a home run smoothly.
One of the most difficult things you can be in life is to be a woman.
As much as there are ladies who misbehave, there are many women out there running homes and working.

I will not support that sex should be enough for a woman to bring into the relationship neither should money be all a man has got to contribute as well.
Thank you for your input on pregnancy and childrearing though, some men think it's easy but it isn't easy in any way and it's underappreciated.

You do realize that pussy just like dick is a given? How/Why women equate pussy to money is beyond me. But then they are women.

Money has to be earned!

Pussy is everywhere, money is not.

Truvelisback:
Don't take his words too serious. My gee is heartbroken as a result of his previous experience with women. Those unhealed wounds are the reasonings he is reacting this way. I optimistic that he will get married someday. As For now, his heart needs this.

The fact that any man who doesn't hail women is tagged heartbroken goes to show how terrible women are.

UndauntedYOCA:
Women don't do this, women don't do that, I am certain many men here on Nairaland were mostly raised by women who provided and sacrificed more than men.
Some of them are still being supported by their sisters, mothers etc.
The fact that some of you are products of bad mothers or dated ladies who used you doesn't mean others went through what you went through. In fact, the ego of some men here won't let them admit their gfs, wives, sugar mummies etc fend for them.
Let each man speak in an honest manner for himself.

Victerica:



But, I no talk anything bad, bro.

Stop attacking only one gender.

Criticize constructively. It takes two to tangle.

lol. it also takes a scammer and a victim

lets constructively criticize both!

the guy eh. the first pic

Kobojunkie:
Because he has that hat on, you conclude he must be an aboki?

For crying out loud, what he said is no different from what many of the non-abokis here on nairaland recite each day as an anthem where women are concerned.

most men are not in support of hitting a woman (if she hits the man first, different situation). All we are saying is don't simp.

OssyMalik:
Women don suffer for nairaland

Simps don suffer for women hand

Godoverevery:

Relationship/marriage
Today in nigeria if you can not provide for your family u are useless man.....even in ordinary relationship a lady will expect you to provide things she needs..No money No love yet they still complain and play victim card.
They can't date broke guys but will expect well to do guys to date a lady who can't even do a 1k sub for herself......they only have the right to choose but not men......were is the marginalisation

In marriage you pay to marry her,you provide shelter, food,clothing etc...if the marriage crash you pay child support.....A full adult totally dependent on another and still feel she meant to be equal with him......were is the marginalisation

This one strong.

KiNg0G:
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This one off me.

simps should be rounded up and shipped to Mars or something.

AZControversial:


Ahh... how then does it work...
I'm only stating the obvious oo

if thats how it works, every other guy taking care of his girlfriend (many of them) go don log out.

frosy1:



Inasmuch as your money in your account cannot foot the bill of your unborn generation, you still be poverty manager. Once your level changes no mean say make your taste change immediately.
Baba I understand that the higher your income, the higer the probably of your spending.
But wisdom should be applicable in what ever you are doing. Set goal for your self, draw your budget, identify those unnecessary spending and deal with them.
But if there are no unnecessary expenses definitelyyou income have grown beyond your wants. Find an higher paying job. Have a nice day.

The talk is not for me. i am challenging the notion that somehow 100k/month is "big* money. To someone making 0-30k or living away from the major cities, likely. But if you already on 100k, you know say e no reach....The keyword here is Relative.

If you like argue. Your taste must change...how immediate may depends on other factors...Taste change no means say you go de troway money. But no be everything you go de manage again.

For instance, you would want to improve your accommodation...which usually takes a huge chunk of your salary.

Money to feed unborn gkids? that is outside the scope of this discussion.

AZControversial:

The girlfriend hasn't left him..... that wasn't hard to figure out.

Lol. this is not how it works.

frosy1:
Haaa you day receive above 100k and he no reach you. I understand say things high. As an unemployed graduate all I do is to ensure that I cut all my cost to the minimum level. Also I ignore people saying as a graduate leave your papa house where do they want me to go? I also avoid all girls wahala meaning I am strongly single
One major thing that sustain me is my act of giving, I notice people always tend to help me when a major need arise probably because I have assisted them in one way or the other.

100k/month, just like 2million or more is relative. If you no get money, you go be poverty manager, once your level change small, your taste go follow.