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Like one guy said that his problem is with massagers, sincerly speaking I cannot allow my woman to go for massage been done by a dude never

There is nothing you will say that will change my mind , that is free access to romance , unhindered romance.

The babe must react and those guys got the perfect skills to do the needful

Abeg if woman nu do am oya bia nkechi enter house las las u go dey alright ....tufiakwa

Jayslicky:
Some women will be like I don't like men wearing condoms.

jayslicky want to kill somebody with laughter ooooo am still holding my stomach cos of

CreepyBlackpool:
Any and everything ladies mention here as turn-offs would turn them on soon as they see the guy has fat pockets and account

Op this is a common feature in lagos na...dem full mainland sef tire na you go run. Just go get money and I tell you na you go put off your phone

evil1:
women are smart but i tell u even d smart ones hv some fish brain alongside their other brain
trust me i hv read similar chats on my babes phone like someone sending her 'my runaway pussy@ i was pissed at first but what did i do? i marked that mssg as unread.

if u want to marry her the best thing for u is to test her in every area even if u think shes a good and morally right person. these days no good girls again. but if its just for fucking sake do those things i just said

yea bro are right if for bleeping sake I don't care,she can turn her head upside down thats not my problem but for wifey ....this one na serious matter,cos we are talking about the mother of my kids. Have you noticed most ladies at their early stage ( teenage stage and early youth stage ) tend to behave like their mom cos they see her as thier role model. Most retired Ashawo , thier daughters go just take on with the trade with ease.

And old habits sometimes hardly die...op am not saying you should not go back to her am only saying shine your eyes well well 2x....

evil1:
Nigga, i feel ur insecure...
rules when dating a girl:
dont go through her phone
never act insecure in front of her
and act like u dont care even if she bleeps outside that way she can trace her senses back if shes ready, serious and morally fit to be in a relationship that will lead to marriage.

thank me later

guy I don't think this advise is worth it, this is not about insecurity bullshit but shinning of your eyes in rls or else you will be taken for a fool, those rules you gave up there is what is making most men to train another man's child in their home thinking is their child. Yes I quite agree that everybody need space and that nobody can totally 100% watch his babe movement but guys do the best you can and police the best you Can or else you go just marry common ashawo who is still in the game God forbid.

Op listen to me, babes are very smart, infact smarter than guys, yes they are, good at covering tracks, lies looking at your eyes while saying it, their only undoing is their emotions ...I once had a babe who could swear with a bible, one faithful evening I was holding her phone and playing with it while she relaxed her head on my chest and a text message just came in I couldn't help but open it and it read thus " babe chaii this your Toto sweet ooo", am saying the truth from a number not stored and we both were looking at each other, she was dumbfounded, I later found at the individual was a matured man, she had cool hot sex that afternoon but was relaxed as if nothing even happen that day ....chaii I HATED her for that ..

See op dont be fooled by most comment on nairaland, I often tell my friends before marriage it is not bad to do off camera investigation on your babe ( meaning go and check on her when she does not know you are there looking at her, in statistics is called primary observation), babes can do likewise on guys too.

The world is wicked, and as it is we are already facing too much stress ,adding a promiscuous girlfriend/wife is a NO NO for me.

op if you don't have sense, buy one, borrow one or pray for one , by any means get SENSE women are VERY smart . most women are ....... .

DaySpringer:
Don't let these guys and girls up there deceive you poster.

Girls will always defend one of their own. But they will be the first to pretend they don't do things like this.

You are there thinking that you guys are friends and there is nothing she is keeping from you but she is there denying calls in your presence. Why should she have the married man's number? Know who he is and hasn't blocked him yet when she is supposed to be serious with you?
Those Numbskulls up there supporting the girl don't think deep.


I want you to keep something in mind Poster. Girls never tell you everything.
Read that bolded part again.

Your fiancee did not tell you everything about what happened with that married man.
You might even be surprised that she has slept with more married men than that before.

Girls are masters of confessing parts of the full story and making it look like a full confession. They will say that small part with so much reluctance that you will be convinced when they finally say it, that it is the fulll story. But believe you me, it is not.

She might even still have something to do with that married man right now. If the past is the past, why is the past calling her in the present when she is with her future? Why is the past making her reluctant to come clean with someone she wants in her future?

I know you Love her.
But you have to carefully consider everything I have said above and ask yourself whether you are ready to deal with the very high likelihood and possibility that they are true. You can't trust her anymore and you should not go into a marriage with someone you cannot trust before you end up raising another man's child for 20 years.

If you ever take her back, put her under serious surveillance until you are satisfied that she is truly clean.

Don't let someone play soccer on your head.

op respect to you, am a man and a grown up one at that and I have seen life ...pls pls and pls read this write up I quoted over and over again and follow his advise religiously . Try not to think with your emotions go somewhere quiet you alone and read this writeup again and again and digest, he has given you the answer.

I laugh married man when dey your past you still get him number wella,... ...some guyz here commenting are truly kids abeg make Una grow up.


Op abeg I like u use ur head ooo or you go bite your finger later...choi

The judiciary is in shambles

This Reno and his mouth eeeeeeh

ImaIma1:
What bandwagon? Buy gifts... get wet. You must have quoted the wrong person because a person with a sound mind and who should be mature would not have so much assumptions in one post.

Una too like unnecessary argument for nairaland sef, the moniker Oluromantic was trying to say if men can go out of thier way sometimes by petting ladies, buying dem stuff, taking dem out so that the atmosphere (emotionally and psychologically) can be conducive for sex, it is not also bad if the op wife replicate same w.r.t what the op said and I quote " But if I don't make a move 3 days in a row, she would start quarreling with me and everything. She won't ask for it but start fighting me unnecessarily. "

That is he may not be in the mood cos of stuff he stated above the wife should also learn and practice the ideal of putting him in the mood by doing the stuff Oluromantic listed that men do for women so that the pussy can be all wet and ready ( in this case the dick ) .. and I dont think that is bad ideal instead of putting up a fight unnecessarily.

Women and thier entitlement mentality even in sex sef...and pls dont preach the I will start to look outside if am not getting it at home for ordinary 2weeks for me ,abeg na outside dey those women eyes before just looking for justification to showcase their whoreism.

raphretle:
Have mercy on her please...

op mercy for who this one ...I don't think she even believe in that word mercy the way she always spew trash from that her mouth. So picking ...na all dis wan dey jam men when dey use thier dirty pants for money ritual.

The lady with the moniker generationz can't you see her level of reasoning so mature, top notch,all encompassing, and welcoming ...infact I don begin like her finish sincerely ...she just turned me on

But freshfish561 abi na wetin she call herself na to dey reason with pussy everyday mtecheeeeeeew such girls are boring . .

Wizzy will always be wizzy.

Preshy561:
Lifeless man.
You will soon lose that job and go back to square one.
Ungrateful gold digger, you have seen a lady outside and you think the one you have isn't slaying enough for you.

I will continue to say this, don't ever date a broke guy, you don't know what they will become once they start seeing money.
Then, trying to help him financially is the worst mistake you will ever make Because, when the money starts coming, you will look outdated to him and he will then think that he needs slay queens in his life.
This is one of the reasons some of you will forever die poor, especially the gold digging idiots supporting him.


Ndi eriri eri.

, I have been carefully following most of your comments and like someone said why so much hatred in your heart, why are you so bitter, indeed you really need JESUS cos in no distance time this thing will consume you mark my words. Everyday of your life you can't rest cos of broke guys as if they choose the family background they came from or they purposely choose poverty, men are in sizes but life is in phases, many have triumphed over poverty and today they are well to do cos God is the giver of wealth ..I pity u woman, I pity u, I mean I pity your existence and I feel sorry for the man who is going wife u, your reasoning is poor, infact apart from being a broke girl you are suffering mental poverty, and it may suffice you to know that this type of skewed reasoning is common among the poor ones in the society, I have seen rich babes.

The scenario will are dealing with here is a common case in naija and we all know the individuals who are major culprits of this act, i particularly dont support the op but this is common more to the women folks but cos u can't see beyond your nose and reason properly cos of bitterness you choose to display your foolishness always in public. So it is only good to take a broke girl and brush her up but a big NO for guyz.

You are woman and you are not getting any younger is high time you start your using your head (that is if you have one as it is) to reason properly so that desperation and love for money will not be your undoing and had I known and bitting of the finger will not be far from you .


A word is enough for the wise.

I have marked this moniker and I will always have your time...come on get out and go get a life.

chiommy123:
I think you still love her. why not give her another chance but be more careful this time and believe me she will love you more this time

trash trash trash


Op pls for your own interest and your mum so that she will not have Bp ...pls don't follow this lady's advice they are birds of same feather ...

My question is as a nation were are we going to?

LordIsaac:
For a genuine relationship assessment, the list is perfect.

bro don't be a sissy there is no perfect list ...relationship in naija is just one person feeding on the other (host )..

Get sense before is too late .

My dear you don't get these type of women again they are nowhere to be found ...even new born babies (babes) come out from thier mother's wombs stretching thier hands signifying give me money

All they know now is everytime wire me money, helo baby have you sent it.

I always advice most of my rich friends always TEST you babe to know if you are dating a HOE or WIFEY, pretend to be broke for 6months and don't give her money or at best reduce the cash giving to the bearest minimum as well as don't give her sex or be poor at it and watch carefully, cos in marriage in when the chips are down ( which can sometimes happen cos its life) you eye will clear..

One of the best way to know a good woman is through giving, and by giving I dont mean giving of time (cos a woman can pretend for ever),or giving of sex, ( this is even the cheapest now cos at the snap of your finger you Can get it anywhere anyhow) but giving of MONEY, see women are naturally selfish by default and for a woman to part with her cash I mean real cash, yea she try she loves u..

Guyz make Una get sense ooo na OLOSHo full everywhere disguising as house wives :

Am outta here.

victorian:
Lol, OK 48mins




But no sucking or eating of pussy! I hate that shiiiit! I wonder how guys cope doing it .

Yuck!!!

Nyama !

finally I met another apart from my ex who ain't cool with sucking of the pussy , don't like it either sometimes I force myself to do it when the lady continue to insist with a little face towel handy cos the that shit irritates me and by extension not all ladies shave to the skin, cos anything hair in pubic region even armpit just immediately turns me off no matter how gorgeous the lady is. Sometimes that shit makes me looks dirty after it....just my thinking tho

And also am not freak with dick sucking thing, some girls will want to prove thier sexual prowess to me by telling me they will suck and I will cum I just laugh,cos you are wasting your time, they end up with frustration . if you want to get me as a babe go to my chest (the nipple) just suck profusely and bite it a little gosh I go mad maybe cos am well built and just love my chest size.

Nevertheless, am the banger type , all style, any position you want babe, loves giving ladies orgasm/squirting through banging makes me feel manly ...best position Doggy and its variations .....

Margy:
Serves him right!

look at this devlish woman, by their fruits we shall know them as if that your smelling borehole of a pussy has only been dug by one man all your life. Look at what somebody did to another human being,if you cant stay walk away is part of life .If Almighty God decides to hit/punish us for all our wrong doing who will be a life today, justifies the saying "if men were God".


You are just a bitter soul, sadist, I just pity your man he is dining with a DEVIL ...get out she devil.

Wiziman:
I won't generalize her act of emotional expression, to be honest, she went far; I still respect her for punishing him with hot water only; some will go as far in talking people's lives (Stabing/poison) Good women still exists.

What are you saying can you even hear yourself and your signature depicts "God rules" and you never saw in the bible that vegeance belongs to God, you said you respect her for punishing him with with hot water, put yourself in the shoe of someone who did this to brother or sisters of yours and you will still respect her ba.

See no one said cheating is good but is his life and he can live it the way he deem fit and be ready to face the consequences. That woman is a possesive, jealous, devlish woman. I once had a lady like that her level of possessiveness and jealousy is top notch to the extent that anytime we have misunderstanding concerning some lady she always goes straight to hit my joystick always saying she will cut it off someday. What nonsense.


Guys never marry an over jealous, possessive, na only me get this man woman or even date them they are evil.

Hey guyz, I actually bought an expired domain from namesilo, OK, so I decided to create a sales page or landing page before contacting the end user with my domain letter.

Here comes my questions

1) I did start building the sales page but got confused so I couldn't finish using namesilo, senior men in the house how do I create a landing page knowing fully well I bought it from namesilo.

2) I was also adviced that "But if you're finding it complicated, list at undeveloped and change the name servers to undeveloped....
2(a) how do I list at undeveloped although I bought the domain name from namesilo.
2(b) and if succeeed in listing at undeveloped how do i create a page landing or sales page from here.

Pls seniors in the industry, I would appreciate a step by step process to the above .

Na beg I dey beg ooo I nu know book like that and make boys begin make something before Xmas set ooo thanks .

Saltoflife:
MY Dad told me not to argue. But how old would you may be to term me young boys. (I find that so disturbing ) let me be clear. You would have to be 45 years old to be older.

Now Africa is majorly messed up by leadership.
You said my point isn't in 100. What number would bad leadership be? If only you could step back and reason my point, ditch the old ways of thinking you would be more clear.

Lastly, the advent of ladies sexualizing themselves has made any point said to be termed to sexuality. Haba. I'm talking about the charisma and consistency plus care that a lady leader/president can bring to the table you wey old dey talk about woman giving birth to another man. Please Oldman remember if I need you're logical and educated you guys brought us all into this mess.

na waoooo still finding sense from this post, seriously bro no disrespect, that's not a point that will hold water during any argument on why Africa is backward. See guyz women are smart and they are getting it more Now than before hitting on gender discrimination as an excuse.

Meanwhile men face gender discrimination and are marginalized everyday yet they keep quiet. who cares about the widower but they always talk about the widow ( all widows should wait after service what about widowers ).. Is no longer a man's world but a woman now ....check banks, and other companies positions/strength, almost 80 percent are women, even in manufacturing industries men dominate in the unskilled low income section while women take the higher positions , my friend do the research on your own .

Soon men will be the ones doing all the domestic chores, bathing babies, washing thier (ladies)undies and other seemily lady duties then it will dawn on you that men are really honouring women. Guy I dey vex for u I swear, wait how many women they SUBMIT to thier husband these days, they only submit to money .

Saltoflife:
Today was the first day I reasoned it while arguing with the other guy...Now you have confirmed it...God bless you.

am just laughing at your write up in combination with the other moniker guy...well I cant blame you, you guyz may be young and as a result that is the much you know.

No doubt women should be treated well but respect is earned and is reciprocal, so of all the things you could think is the way men treat women in Africa, major reason Africa is backward economically, politically and otherwise. Hmm very immature, illogical & baseless conclusion , what about how women treat men, marrying a man and having kids for another man and still gives it to the man to carter for..the list is endless and there so many factors responsible for Africa backwardness, and your point is not even in the first 100.


Grow up guys this thinking is so shallow I,wasn't expecting that from you guys.

ikp120:
Tell her "Thanks!" if you like her and want to continue fvcking her, or reply her with "K" if you no wan fvck her again.

op this guy is your man he knows the game very very well sincerely, also he said at the rate you are going fvckboy will turn lover boy in his later comment it happens bro


Ikp20 I site you u baaaaaad.

Let me contribute my quota to this: I have stayed in the eastern part of Nigeria and I must say I love Enugu and imo (owerri), chaiii thier babes na die especially IMO babes ( Nekede polytechnic), who dey yellow just dey yellow finish and who dey black just get shining ebony black with their sexy shape. Dem sweet I must confess
But when I come lag omon come see Yoruba babes, and me na big fan of big ASS.. after some time I had to tell mysef If i continue with these ASSES na die wan day oooo ...i couldn't just help it almost everyday . too inviting ; ,too tempting to behold,well position round homonogous Asssssssss everywhere.

I had no choice than to pitch my tent in Lagos city

My guy ubunja, you attention is need here to solve this emotional and gender difference all mighty formula

APC and violence have the same mother.

The guy with the moniker 'zombicmodz' have already given you an answer and a good one at that but I just want to emphasis more on it by clearing your ignorance, and you dont have to make your point by ridiculing other people's business or at least do it without mentioning names.

And I like to let you know there are certain cream, herbal soap as well as pump that truely enlarges the joystick, yes you heard me right they truly exist, the challenge here is knowing the good ones. Be that as it may, there is little or no patience exercise by individuals seeking for joystick enlargement as they are always in a hurry to get result forgetting that the joystick grows in inches overtime and it has no bone less we would worked it out at the gym to get bigger.

Nevertheless, what the dick exercise pump, herbal soap, cream etc does is to enable the inflow of blood into the joystick, it is the degree of blood inflow from the iorta/heart into the joystick and how long it can be retained that determine erection as well as joystick enlargement both in width (circumference ) and the length, infact the overall effective functionality of the dick lies in the continuous ( unhindered) inflow of blood OVER A PERIOD OF TIME into the dick, this greatly determines how big it will be.

Futhermore the body of the penis is cylindrical in shape and consists of three circular shaped chambers. These chambers are made up of special, sponge-like tissue. This tissue contains thousands of large spaces that fill with blood when the man is sexually aroused. As the penis fills with blood, it becomes rigid and erect, which allows for penetration during sexual intercourse. The skin of the penis is loose and elastic to accommodate changes in penis size during an erection.

In closing I like to let you know that guys can only posses two types of dick the SHOWER type dick or the GROWER, yours might be shower, always remaining big even during, before or after sex and most times maintain same length/width during intercourse or at most little additiion . unlike the shower the grower is a special type of dick that looks so small sometimes (always responding very well to temperature change ) but when it comes to digging they come out thier shell like a tortoise to cause havoc expanding most times more than the shower dick, most guys know and posses it.

Its a deceptive type of DIcK

Stop showing yourself bro we know your type

If Atiku refuse/yield to what some paid individuals are saying by not going to court to challenge the presidential election of feb 23, I swear he will be hated by true Nigerians for life after all thier effort.

Sir, I urge you to go to court you may never know even buhari went to court, oshio baba also did likewise, so dont allow him or anybody deprive you of that the evidence are so overwhelming,and by extension this will once again turn the eyes of the world to what really happened that day as proceedings in court continue to go on.


Nigeria have never had it this bad since Democracy, even military regime. We can safely say that even the dreaded Abacha's govt is far better than this ..

God bless Nigeria.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
The witty Sadist is here. Do we have good men to call husbands? Imagine a MAN Snapchatting with shitty flower effect on his head, like wtf!

There is nothing wrong with that if thats what makes him happy, you people loves the likes of flavour and Paul (square _rude boy), but they do plait thier hair like a woman but you babes choose to overlook it cos of money shame


If it was done by a broke guy or here in narialand you people will crucify him ...hmm double standard will not kill some people , imagine ladies can confidently put on any male outfit and nobody will raise an eye brow about it but do the reverse and come and see social media and this same feminist, yet still cry fowl on Gender equality.

All yea women clamouring that a man should have at least #5m before considering marriage ok fine, but they should also have at least half the stated amount for men as your hands are not tied marriage is not poverty alleviation programme as a large percentage of Nigerian women think.

Both of us dey marriage each other mtcheeeeeeew

freemanbubble:
Hmmmmmmm
Am not loving this lady because she is a virgin
But because she is slim

My love for slim ladies knows no bound



They are clean down there without odour because their thigh is slim enough not to choke their vagina
When they are on leggings menn
Their camel toe becomes to sexcy and conspicuous
But they are very deep down there. They can accommodate anything that comes in.
If you want to make them happy tell them to sit on you


I love them slim
Shout out to all the slim ladies

hmmmm your choice though but we don't do bones.

#SayNoTobonestobones

ebymy:
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Amount Sold: $999
Sale type: inbound
Broker: Afternic

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