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Earthquake2:
You want a guy who will triple your amount

U no go MMM?

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I can't help it ooooo lol ;

DJ cuppy you will jare afterall nobody knows you more than you ..

AnalQueenluci:
Admin is d most boring boring,,Am a redcross ,firstaid n snipe specialist ,so i av seen war

chaiii correct babe see am tripping already , my love for snipers is second to none, seeing them in mostly American movies eg shooter season 1-3, wakes a spine in me ....just picturing it in my head how can somebody shoot from such a distance and aim at his/her Target, and you being a snipe specialist is enough for me and all I could ever asked for....... Awesome.

I tuale for you ....I would love to ask a different thing though i would love you to teach me how to snipe at your liesure.

I just want to have that feeling that I know how to snipe and by extension am a sniper although not practicing .


Plzzzzzzzzzzz

He/she who commits more in the relationship tend to loose more, and this commitment ranges from time sacrificed, emotions, and majorly finances. Major reason most ladies don't give guys money cos they tend to be committed cos they will feel they have invested.

You want to make a lady stuck with you make her commit more finances into the relationship.

Be that as it may, on the sex angle both enjoyed it equally ,if & only if both also committed equal sexual attention to it. But if one tend to attend to the other sexual needs more than the other, then we can safely say that, that one ( the less committed) enjoyed it more than the other (the more committed).

sane93:
I might sound weird but it's no biggie to me. A guy might not fit me but fit my friend. It's all about who you're compatible with. I don't even mind my ex dating my sister because all I wish for my sister is happiness and if she has found it in my ex then both should enjoy. Though I will tell her all your weaknesses o, to avoid heartbreak that I could have prevented. Same applies to my friends. As long as your ex and her bestie don't mind then feel free. The trouble I see here is the bestie being able to trust that you two are done for real. Most people find it difficult to believe that ex lovers can remain friends with no strings attached. All the best.

I was typing a message for u but I had issues so i quickly cooked up this, I had to go but am ashamed a lady wrote this..A guy can fvck u and then go to you sister and you see nothing wrong with it...chaiii cos you think you don't fit, I dont want to call you names but the last time I checked women who posses such attitudes are not far from hoes....Am just angry with u now seriously ...shift jare.

Op pls discard this advice.

Even your profile speaks volume .

olawaleseun:
Good evening fellow romancelanders, I'm really troubled as per the level of societal acceptability regarding me going into a serious relationship with the bestie of my immediate sex. This is the summary of the whole story

I and my Ex parted ways last year December, though on a peaceful and a mutual ground. We dated for 3 years and 3 months but we had to break up Cox of the irreconcilable differences in our school of thought. That been iterated, I realized that all of a sudden I started having feelings for my Ex's bestie. I informed my ex about it and due to the TRUST we were able to build BTW us while together, she was able to understand that my reasons are real and genuine, and thats actually true. She approved that it ain't a biggie thus giving me the go ahead.I and my Ex actually practiced a celibate relationship Cox of our mutual blv in the NO SEX B4 MARRIAGE IDEOLOGY(Relogious reason though)

Now my question is, What's ur personal sincere view on approaching the Bestie of ur Ex for a relationship meant toead to marriage, though the odds of her accepting is Very High...
P. S I am a masters student while they're both final year students (Same school)

seriously, who do you think you are decieving, of course you can decieve the young gullible ones here, but am going to give it to you hot bro, you've been eyeing this babe ( you ex friend ) while you were dating you ex, you have had your eyes on her for a longtime, God knows if both of you have not been hitting on each other behind you ex then ( the things humans do in secret will amaze you), don't come and play the celibate card with me here like you are supposed to be fvcking b4 marriage . You are threading on a dangerous ground bro and from what I can deduce from your write up, you have been waiting for the relationship to hit the rock or you ended it yourself so that you can carry on with your plans whaaaaaaaaat you relationship ended just last year December 2018 and by almost mid Feb 2019, you are already looking for validation to date her bestie, who does that?

And you think cos "ex" approved or you claimed you sought for approval from your ex to carry on with her bestie 3 months after you broke up with her is a wise decision and las las everybody will be alright,clap for yourself, Mr approval seeker, No my dear you sitting on a time bomb, I dont want to insult you but you may be doing masters whatever ( never liked Nigerian theoretical, non realistic,non practicable education ) mtcheeeeeeeeeew, I swear your behavior depicts that of a child. The truth, deep down that woman's (ur ex) heart she is never never never happy, we can all Fake smiles and laughter and all sort of outward apperances but we can't fake how we feel inside. OK let me ask you, what do you think 90% of the time when both babes are together gisting will be the topic : BOYFRIEND, and who is the subject of formular here you,..

Seriously I don't like guys like you even as distant friend, to me you are a schemer, a backstabber, and unreliable individual ( am not sorry about this)..well na you know carry you cross . bro am spoilt, I like babes a lot, esp big ass babes but I also understand the place of principle.

This is me
- I don't date my close par ex (es) is a NO for me

- don't do Married women don't care no matter how gorgeous you are, to me you are somebody's property, and taken already.

- don't date my close friends sister's ...is a No for me ..I cherish my rls with my friend,and I see his sisters as mine too..I swear your friend knowing who you are and you escapades may not just go down well with him..

- I don't do ( cos I won't even date them) teenagers, and kids.

- I will never date my blood brother's ex..

- And lastly will not date my Ex girl bestie ....NO NO NO , I will give her that respect irrespective of how we broke up .

with this you are sure of having less enemies,and not dying early am talking from depth of knowledge, understanding and experience. On a friendly advise go hustle for other babes ok ..

No hating. My 2 cents contribution. God bless u.

but were is Akpabio

E Neva chill somechin

Rest in peace APC Neva again Buhari

Chaii anybody bearing Buhari will be think of swearing Affidavit for a complete change of name

Who wan fail

Oooooh I see

MissRaine69:
Why are most women averse to men using condoms? Yet risk the same women regularly risk their lives, by repeatedly having back street abortions. The same women who will kneel in churches years later and cry about their childlessness state. If you don’t want to have children why not use condoms?

Babe is very correct seriously, I just wonder how people risk thier lives for some minutes or whatever hours of pleasure, is unheard of, some 12 or more years ago I went with my babe to one hospital, in Ekpoma, Edo State, (dont want to call name ) popularly known for D & C, I swear that Man make money for the matter then, I think one month was 1k or 1.5k then can't remember , omon my babe say come and look at babes , I say parlour full, na so all of dem naked hold tissue for hand, she say d man go first rub bobby as e like if the babe fresh b4 operation , I just tell myself say Neva again dem come tell me say make I come fill one form chaii i wan die say in case anything sup I go carry for head, my head big I begin pray begin tell God make e nu vex I nu fvck again after today .

My point why pass thru those hassles when you can easily prevent it by using a condom, fast forward to today, every hidden area in my house you will find condom my wallet is the headquarter of condom ..
I don't what to Hear STD matter, or I missed my period slogan, No condom am off, no matter how beautiful you are (e nu dey show for face), na who you wan kill you dey find.

Play safe....use a condom

InfernoNig:
So she be olosho for there...

my dear you are very correct her job is just to test dick .chaiii women sef, women will sit down and be discussing almost 98% of thier discussion is about DICKSON ..

I weak for her..she is checking divk around forgetting that in the process expansion is being carried out on her borehole

uboma:
You are same with EdoBozz, another child who prefers to rant. When you get tired, go get some sleep.

look at this slowpoke reason why many ladies see men as weakling cos they can't hold thier own worship women as if is thier god

These are the guyz back then we were in campus many years back don't have the confident and swag to approach ladies but will be beefing smart sharp guys that know thier value.

Back then in school, a lady friend of mine siphoned one guy using emotional blackmail to the extent the guy had to withdraw that year to come continue the other year cos the babe finish am to even his school fees.. and she was laughing about it in front of her friends, if the guy sight the babe wen he come back he go bend chaiii I just shake head, nice guyz will never learn.

See it amazes me how women think someone choose to be nice, caring, loving and you end up dumping him sighting he is too boring and easily predictable and opt for a bad guy, you go carry wetin you see , cos as hoes are not loyal so also bad guys ain't loyal..

See u go quote me tire I don't want to gist about my escapades this one na Edobozz crip and concindentally I be EDO boy too we attract anywhere..

What's the time pls check loverboy , madam go soon come u know say na you dey cook and wash plate or else

uboma:
@EdoBozz, you and your friend acted childishly.


If you had to lie to make her accept you, then you have inferiority complex.

guy abeg shift which one be inferiority complex, its people like you that make girls cheat on men and see it as normal laughing among her peers that she caught a mugu and when it comes disposing lies of course we know which gender be expert put.

There is no moral justification here for that olosho corporate babe, they hide behind feminism but sneak their way into hotels fvckin rich men for money and if that cheque was actually legit she would disturbed us on social media saying how God Just blessed her...saying Oluwa is involve as her other colleague in nollywood usually do, sorry sister bad market spits**

And this one will have a serious boyfriend who profess love to her everyday, perhaps she might even be engaged yet they can't say NO or turned blind eye to flashy cars and money.

Indeed the saying is true that there is a hoe in every woman it just the opportunity that has not presented itself to many.

I swear she will get home and for her to feel guilty in front of her boyfriend she will transfer the aggression on him using thier normal motto " men are scum" , den don catch and chop many like this for nairaland but forming nu go let them talk truth .

I just pity for boys that fall in love .....women call them loverboys , guys open eye women fuvk at random they dont care. Imagine they picked u up took you to thier room and bleeped the hell out of you chaiii just like that ...she is cheaper than street olosho.


Edoboss well done for a job well done, if my own sister behave in like manner still chop her

I will really like to pay you a visit one day in Abuja so we can hunt for more and chop clean mouth

Hoes everywhere .

gforce5:
You say that but your likes still end up trying to date and marry them. You know this to be true. If the likes of Otedola's son or any of Adenuga's sons woo you will you say no? Reality check.

Don't mind this one jare, they will be telling their boyfriend to stick with teaching job only God knows how much they pay now and be running after boys with G wagon.
Same girls will still label those hustling guys broke.
Follow a woman 's mouth at your own detriment, they are neva stable . people who dont know what they want now you wan take wetin commot for thier mouth serious.

Ask her will she be proud among her friends to introduce her BF as a private school teacher. no disrespect to them tho...

She said she also consider those rich men children who don't work as broke haha story for the gods, I pray,my father Dangote and I will be killing myself with work, dem take am swear for me . my dear those guys are big boys flying from country to country fvckin all kinds of pussy and you know what I envy them who nu like better thing

A beg make that babe suave jare make I see front .

gloria34:
They love to date them cause they spend recklessly but not to marry them. 1st, its kinda irritating to have a man stay at home all day (not that he is on leave o) 2ndly, their mothers decide everything that goes on in Ur home. From d kind of house u stay to Ur baby's names to Ur choice of baby food. In fact, d husband makes no decision without the interferance of his mother. Who wants that stress?

you are right to some extent though, but let me make this clear, everybody must not go out to make money everyday, I don't want to talk about myself, but I have countless number of friends who have resigned from some private establishment, especially private peanut paying schools and have found internet business ( not G) that keep them busy from morning till night, not just one internet job, the money that comes to their hand monthly can be used to pay 5 private school teachers their monthly salary ....ooooo you don't know.

The advantages inherent in legit internet business cannot be overemphasized, pls just say the things you know , must everybody go out.

I know of a close friend whose job is 9jabet, yes you heard me 9jabet, and has so grown it that he plays it everyday with his laptop, he told me and he said if I don't earn money monthly minimum profit is 100k . That's his business and he does it on large scale, has AC ( has shining skin) ,uses generator steady, even a govt worker can't try that under this regime.

My dear, people are making cool money with just a phone and data dey there dey shout u must go out ...na by go out abeggi...those days of everybody must go out in the morning don pass we dey computer age and people dey make good use of it wella...for house

All those sir, sir, sir, work for peanut don tire person

This is deep from Reno and taking a cusory look at it I will say he saying the truth.


Check it no girl wants to bleep you without collecting money ...and what do ashi collect before sex nu be money.

I have said it several times that if at anytime you have refused your boyfriend sex becos he didn't give you money or after sex you collected money one way or the other am sorry but at that point in time you are a prostitute.

There is a hoe in every woman. Since they say there is no free sex then we are at liberty to call them olosho..cos you can't eat your cake and have it.

MJBOLT:

any man who thinks he can use money or flashy things to get a woman's love is a big fool,only men with low self esteem,inferiority complex do such.the foolish guy is a potential rapist,kudos to the lady

its good for them, bite them well well, bite their dick those pussy niggas... Den nu dey try ...e brother &,sister go don beg am money tire, e g say e nu get,carry am give pussy, na pussycat bite am for neck Awon werey...

Pls also bite those big pot belle men who will leave their wives and children to run after small small universities girls who is almost same age as their daughter...they will deny sharp 2:1 male graduate job and give to a layback Big ass lady with pass or 3rd class who all through her time in school Neva entered class ones but her department is in Abuja with politicians.

God will punish all of you who have succeeded in frustrating young hardworking men with dreams pushing them into social ills/vices.

Me I wanted to fast and pray but one mind told me to wait till 2:30am tomorrow to confirm that the election will hold then I will fast and pray cos we are all Articulating tomorrow



We are reforcing a major change tomorrow and taking what belongs to us the masses by force .


Buhari we are sorry but your time has expired ...you will have to log out cos Atiku is logging in.......

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gratiaeo:
What I see here is APC plan B in hatching since there first plan have failed woefully
Now they want to use security agents to intimidate passived opposition

see the plans weather A-Z will fail cos the people have decided. Buhari hear me today you will never retain that seat. This is when you will know that Nigeria belongs to every body. Your days are numbered in that office start counting .

This election should should just come and go it has generated enough heat already....

flyca:
Then he shouldn't ask for a loan! He should ask for money that he will use for the “betterment of the family”, so that the wife knows it's family money that she is not getting it back.

That said, why do you assume that the man will use it for betterment of the family? Haven't you seen men who borrow from their wives to make their sidechicks happy? Or man who borrow from their wiges to buy drinks for the boys?

You are always very shallow!

be that as it may, the woman lack sense for coming to social media imagine #10,000, if it was 500k she would have gone to 5 TV stations..women with possession mentality.

And who told you the man might have not tried collecting money from her telling her it was meant for family usage before and you know how women normally say it " Are you not the man/head of the house "..hence the reason for using the "borrowing" method.

You women who love to do the "my my own" thing, here is my advice don't get married cos you don't need it and you don't understand the meaning, just stay single or perhaps be a baby mama like most of your lots. ...mtweeeeeeew.

Marriage is sharing and if you can't share remain single and marry your self ...am outta here.

[quote author=Suzette911 post=74065111][/quote]lady I understand you totally, happiness is bae, when you are happy your whole being is happy, your spirit, soul and body feel excited, these things don't come easily. If you ask me I will tell you to go for what your heart want, life itself is a risk and it applies to all areas of life including emotions.

He is happy man going by what you wrote up there the truth is the best of every man comes out when he is
Super happy always try in your little way to make the environment a happy one and you will enjoy your man and in turn your happiness will know no boundary.


Let me give you one secret some sensible ladies use in getting the attention of thier man 24/7 and increase the love he has for them and that is RESPECT. African men loves respect especially bini men using words such as SIR, DADDY to address him sometimes , sounds respectful to them.....try this and thank me later.

NB: Am a bini man too

Best of luck and merry Christmas.

Well your points may seem necessary but not sufficient enough.....guyz just know you can never I mean never please a woman..don't even start what you can't finish just be yourself and please yourself only you will feel fulfilled and satisfied.

You can carry all the seven above point on your head attending to it as there is no tomorrow, if she wants to leave you she will leave you. Women generally don't really know what they want. They are the highest variable you can ever think of, they can have a list of what they want from a man today but tomorrow ask them same thing and another list will pop up.

Guyz attend less to women needs and more to your needs, careless about them and care more for your yourself.for example when you paid a salary on your scale of preference let her issue be the least (if it will be there at all, except the ones who also share her income with you) cos if it was her I bet your need (s) may not even be found on that scale at all.

Most men don't know they are god here on earth and we are secretly worshipped and admired by ladies but most prefer to die than let it out..they talk about us morning till night than we do. Oooh you don't know, if one lady is misbehaving forget her and go for others, I swear many will kill for you.

What am trying to say is be confident in yourself, stop being timid in front of women weather you are broke or not always remember I am a man. It should sink into your head not in a proud way but for your self ego and esteem.

victorian:
She should run and not look back!

Edo guy? Red flag!

I don't usually comment but this comment got to me...really "Edo guy ? Red Flag" hmm really you mean every Edo guy is red flag right that was a poor from you coming from a woman. In your earlier post you said you have no heart that they will break anymore, so they broken your heart overtime and I will say am not surprised if you can make a comment like this then your reasoning is below par and guyz these days ain't have time for ladies like that so they have to move on....so the earlier you start checking yourself the better for you and stop generalizing .


Back to topic, as for the op I think he loves you but he is caught inbetween the Web of circumstances ( I maybe right or wrong ), but one thing is sure and that is your happiness, babe life is too short and we only live once, your happiness cannot be traded for anything, if am lying try sadness, think about the other side of the coin if I let him go will I still be happy, will I be happy with the next guy I will meet, how sure am I that the next guy will be "totally free" of any holds back, just enjoy every minute and moment.

For me I think you shouldn't rush things but don't quit yet ( that is if you are going to quit at all), just go with the flow for now and more importantly after sometime try and see if your kids will find him interesting cos it matters.

Nevertheless, women like you are rare to comeby., from your post I deduce that when you love you love and this statement made me conclude that you really like this guy and you are happy here :

"But when i am with him I am young at heart and feel like a giddy school girl. Priceless." That's strong

Wish you the best