Romance › Re: Ladies Can You Change Your Guy To How U Want Him To Be And Guys Can U Too? by untainted: 2:32pm On May 15, 2009 |
ammamat: Lol @ sista_jay, u mean even if his , em, u know now please come out clean cus we don't know what |
Romance › Re: Ladies Can You Change Your Guy To How U Want Him To Be And Guys Can U Too? by untainted: 2:18pm On May 15, 2009 |
sorri, had to dash out for something. ammamat: prayers can't even change when the person is not willing to change yeah, yeah, that is why u don't take changing people for granted at times, u even consider relaxing the rules and blending if the person is worth it i am not saying u should lose ur personality though |
Romance › Re: Ladies Can You Change Your Guy To How U Want Him To Be And Guys Can U Too? by untainted: 1:37pm On May 15, 2009 |
ammamat: yeah @ JJyou, though is not easy, remember is an habit, each time he smoke or drink and my frined talks,he will go otu smoking again to clam down his anger. the description of ur friend shows a religious person. methinks prayer n fasting (tinged with loads of patience) will do the trick. but honestly, u can't change one who doesn't wanna change unless U r the ONE as pointed by jju |
Romance › Re: Would U Allow Your Girl Go For Koko Mansion. by untainted: 3:46pm On May 14, 2009 |
candylips: all Kokolets will always love to be in the Koko mansion   |
Romance › Re: Would U Allow Your Girl Go For Koko Mansion. by untainted: 3:22pm On May 14, 2009 |
ThoniaSlim: I like d banj's song but definitely not a fan. . .and i see such move as simply a waste of space, money and time! any girl that considers going for this so-called reality show needs prayers. . .there are better ways to get fame or make money without cheapening one's self. well said; Rchard the Tanzanian in Big Bro Africa is one good example of how not to trifle with the power of tempatation |
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Romance › Re: Are Nigerian Man Possessive? by untainted: 3:05pm On May 08, 2009 |
bluespice: some r, some arent yeah, just like all citizens of the world |
Culture › Re: Have You Ever Lied About Your Age? by untainted: 2:39pm On May 08, 2009 |
OneNaija: @ everyone Una don ever Insult una mama before or even slap am for the face? Na so Black spider Just do and Nur be today e dey do am. haba! koolu temper wetin e do? |
Career › Re: How Was The First Day Of Your Job? by untainted: 11:38am On May 08, 2009 |
first day at work was the first time I tucked in and wore a tie since secondary school. always was jeans and polo. need to see me that day; all looking so FORMAL  |
Romance › Re: Help Me! Same Guy Slept With Us by untainted: 7:06pm On May 06, 2009 |
@poster relax; take a long breath and state the problem again just maybe I will make sense out of it |
Family › Re: I Need Help Urgently by untainted: 1:45pm On May 04, 2009 |
Kentr0: I have a problem wit my dad, he doesnt trust my mum nor to give her some breathin space. Anywhere she goes even at work he complains she goes after men. Which i believe its nt true. Pls fellow members wat do i do to save my home. am not saying ur mum is a cheat but maybe u should take a dispassionate look at his claims. and no violence pls, they had been at it even b4 u were born (maybe) izeek: there something they are not telling u. this makes a lot of sense |
Family › Re: Pastor Loses Wife To Richer Pastor by untainted: 7:07pm On May 03, 2009 |
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Romance › Re: Married Woman/single Guy: Dont Judge, Way Forward? by untainted: 8:17pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
~Sauron~: Stop sounding like a sexually-frustrated Aztec. Learn to articulate clearly. tantrums  ha ha ha ha ha ha ha  |
Romance › Re: Married Woman/single Guy: Dont Judge, Way Forward? by untainted: 8:08pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
Czarskit: ~ Legendary ~ say what? |
Romance › Re: Married Woman/single Guy: Dont Judge, Way Forward? by untainted: 7:38pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
~Sauron~: Boring, tasteless, watery, bland, insipid, vapid. who let the dogs out, wow, wow, wow.wow bro, go easy on cramming the Thesaurus makes u blind to what is really important. any, just don't go paranoid on me  |
Romance › Re: Married Woman/single Guy: Dont Judge, Way Forward? by untainted: 7:25pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
~Sauron~: U were not making any sense in that statement. Read it yourself. ~Sauron~: Just because they don't flaunt it like Jamaicans, Western Women etc does not mean it should be overlooked. ok, lets take it Kindergarten style a la a, b, c, d, just go through ur statement above and just maybe you will make a lower credit in logic |
Romance › Re: Married Woman/single Guy: Dont Judge, Way Forward? by untainted: 6:55pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
~Sauron~: Go and arrest them then since you give a hoot. testy, eh? look who is getting personal. was talking about ur perception and not the action u should take ~Sauron~: I don't understand this. . . . .Come again. learn to read between the lines |
Romance › Re: Married Woman/single Guy: Dont Judge, Way Forward? by untainted: 6:45pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
~Sauron~: There are more adulterous women in Naija than anywhere in the planet. Just because they don't flaunt it like Jamaicans, Western Women etc does not mean it should be overlooked. P.S. I am more Nigerian than you can ever be. pls lets not derail; leave jamaicans and the west out of this note that we are not discussing adulterous women, we are talking about perception of observers. u say u don't give a hoot; now, that is what i call, unnigerian [s]Just because they don't flaunt it like Jamaicans, Western Women etc [/s] does not mean it should be overlooked.how can u not overlook something that doesn't bother u? |
Romance › Re: Married Woman/single Guy: Dont Judge, Way Forward? by untainted: 6:32pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
tope2000: hehehe. . . . .lemme give u a pointer neva argue with sauron. . . . u cant win  thanks dearie i must say i am relearning the true meaning of "sticking to my gun" |
Romance › Re: Married Woman/single Guy: Dont Judge, Way Forward? by untainted: 6:23pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
~Sauron~: Day of reckoning?? I laugh in Wollof.  i see, wollof is Gambia or senegal? wouldn't have same mindset if u were nigerian |
Romance › Re: Married Woman/single Guy: Dont Judge, Way Forward? by untainted: 6:07pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
@sauron honestly, I give up on u to the adulterers, well, nothing new under the sun but a day of reckoning is  |
Romance › Re: Married Woman/single Guy: Dont Judge, Way Forward? by untainted: 5:56pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
~Sauron~: I wouldn't know about it now, would i?? no disrespect intended, would u still feel aloof if it was ur brother and u know he is being cuckolded or ur stepmum for instance. |
Romance › Re: Married Woman/single Guy: Dont Judge, Way Forward? by untainted: 5:40pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
~Sauron~: There's nothing new under the sun. They are consenting adults. Let em fire on. WTF; would u say that about ur wife? |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Employers Or Slave Drivers? by untainted: 12:21pm On Apr 02, 2009 |
its a time bomb waiting to blow up meanwhile, we've started feeling the vibrations |
Romance › Re: Guys Online! Ladies Don't Say A Word by untainted: 10:43am On Mar 26, 2009 |
sistawoman: Ok now i see. She is just a little me at that age.
Her pride and dislike for being wrong are blinding her. She is trying to turn the tables on you because you pointed out a flaw.
She has a need, actually it is a compulsive desire to always be right and never ever make a mistake.
People like her and me know that perfection is something we can never have but is something that we need none the less.
The guys are right:
Ignore her. Dont pick her calls Leave your house today because her next step will be to come to your house. The text message you sent is driving her crazy because she did not get the desired result. Send her a text message and let her know that you will be going over a male friends house to clear your head and that your cell will be off. Then dont pick her calls and leave the house. Dont respond to any text messages again. Let her stew. Let her stew. Let her stew.
Tomorrow Send her a text message that says:
Goodmorning my love I know that you seek perfection but it is something that is unattainable. I know that you dont like to be wrong, but being wrong and admitting it is sexy to me. I love you despite your flaws. I love you because your not perfect. Let us put this matter behind us and move forward.
This will calm her And this should be done when she starts to act like this again.
Please dont give up on her Please dont throw her away because of this Please work with her and you will have a diamond that will be able to properly handle when she is wrong.
I am proof that it can be done. Quintessential sistawoman, I envy ur ability to hit the nail right in the middle  |
Politics › Re: Obasanjo Pelted With Eggs, Tomatoes In London by untainted: 8:05pm On Mar 22, 2009 |
Jakumo: May I suggest, good sir, that you quickly put those scuffed knee-pads back on, to assume your natural position gobbling Obasanjo's smelly gonads, before your absence from duty is noticed ?
That vile old fart might begin to miss your attentions, if you spend so much as a moment more of your precious time getting highly appalled at those who correctly identify your cock-daddy Obasanjo as being far more criminally inclined than Al Capone, and SOLELY responsible for there being NO grid electricity in his fatherland of 200 million victims.
Oh, and do remember to swallow and thank the donor, like the good patriot that you are. more fibre to your medulla oblongata people like that arsehole make me weep for this country. talk about hatchet men. so disgusting  : |
Romance › Re: What Do U Do If Ur Biological Clock Stops Ticking by untainted: 5:53pm On Mar 14, 2009 |
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Romance › Re: What Do Men Really Want In Relationships? by untainted: 5:48pm On Mar 14, 2009 |
luvbooks: Men DO know what they want. But their strategy is not to tell us, rather they leave it to us to figure it out. And while we are trying to do that, they assess us to make sure that we fit all their standards, Can u imagine.  deeply insightful but fucking hilarious as well. |
Romance › Re: Would You Marry A Person Who Doesn't Have College Education? by untainted: 5:35pm On Mar 14, 2009 |
no degree, no marriage. Simple! |
Business › Re: Eleven Lessons From Warren Buffet by untainted: 7:20pm On Mar 09, 2009 |
watch out for the next warren buffet, ME |