₦airaland Forum

thebranch:
@red oil, contesting the truth publicly shows a persons foolishness before all. it takes a great degree of wisdom for a fool to restrain himself from talking to safe his face.
@Urheme, a healthy group is a product of a healthy units. as an individual forge to become healthy and play your role in the group. a surgeon would always spare healthy cells but excise cancerous ones.

There is no healthy group as it stand, your healthy role has become a barrier to the survival of another, most time you are booted out of the group into six feet in a wooden box just because you played your role.

Good job OP

Very encouraging, only if mankind can be harmonized, we will not be talking about world peace today,

Religion is indeed a barrier to the harmony of mankind and world peace.

The big question is taking the status quo of our earth, what do we do

johnydon22:
Nawa ooo did i ask you to cherry pick any verse and quote sir? I asked you to tell me the song of solomon is the inspired word of god or not.. simple question!!!

How do you think God inspire that phuckphuck man to write that sh..it?

Na the things wey him dey think na im he write.

Na so so women he dey think, and he suround himself with plenty ashawo

Na weything him go write before'''' shuuu

Pr0ton:
Sir John. Let's check it out

"How beautiful are thy feet with shoes O prince's daughter! the joints of thy thighs are like jewels, the work of the hands of a cunning workman Thy navel is like a round goblet, which wanteth not liquor:thy belly is like an heap of wheat set about with lilies. Thy two breasts are like two young roes that are twins. Thy neck is as a tower of ivory; thine eye like the fishonds in Heshbon, by the gate of Bathrabbim: thy nose is as the tower of Lebanon which looketh toward Damascus. Thine head upon thee is like Carmel, and the hair of thine head like purple; the king is held in the galleries. How fair and how pleasant are thou, O love, for delights! This thy stature is like to a palm tree, and thy breasts to clusters of grapes. I said, I will go up to the palm tree, I WILL TAKE HOLD OF THE BOUGHS THEREOF: now also thy breasts shall be as clusters of the vine, and the smell of thy nose like apples." SOS 7:1-8
In short, I dedicate it to dammyg319 & Bhuumhite

This book only show evidence of lust and not love. Comming from a man that f..k 1000 women or more in a very short period of time b4 he realized the vanity of it all

Op don,t mind them, solomon was inspired by lust when he wrote, can't be from God

johnydon22:
Am still wondering why people still subject themselves to this mental fear of the scare of something as abstract as hell...... chai myths scare these folks alot

Is called guilty conscience.
They are in hell already, mental torture is worst than the physical one.

Op has erred. let the members come and prove why a poor man cannot afford winners schools when they are in reality charitable institutions

Op thanks for sharing

onetrack:
Any rational person must be willing to believe anything, no matter how absurd, if it can be proven using scientific and/or logical principles. However extraordinary claims (such as claiming your god exists) requires extraordinary proof.

Nature gives u firsthand information that there is God, you are not spiritually inclined and ready for the extraordinary prove that you are asking for.

manmustwac:
NO!!! God has to make a public appearance like tonight which is new years eve at times square in the USA or in at London at the London Eye where millions of people will be present and millions more watching the events on TV taking place tonight

You think so small,
God is in you, a spirit within you, you can make publice appearance and announce Him


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MzNelly:
Atheists, in my opinion, are people who have been "hurt by God."
They prayed for a thing, it never happened; and they cancelled the element of God out of their lives.

I don,t believe you.
You are just making a claim for them

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Misogynist2014:
Non existence has no proof

Escape route

killjoy:
not entirely to my surprise, that is exactly wot the society thinks of unmarried guys. but i am not one to live my life based on the dictates of society. i am mentally strong enough to handle societal pressures.


btw wen i make my billions i wont need to send d kids of married men on errands attendants will show up at the snap of my fingers... dats the kind of man i will be sooner than later

I hear you

Baba usman is not even a thousanaire but has 24 hours attendants even without snapping a finger.

Money does'nt neccessarily buy you slaves, can pay for good and bad services but you don,t need billions to command respect and have a good life,

Funny, all the billionaire i know are married even the most rascal ones still have family.

To stay single is a choice. I wish you luck in your bachelorhood.

Misogynist2014:
Can you prove that what happened btw them was rape?

People get away with rape because of lack of corroborative evidence, but this is not the case.

In this case rape is proved, the mere fact that they want to settle out of it is an admission

Killjoy is better you experience the whole nine yards of relationship and marriage and see that it actually failed you before you decide to stay single forever,

Yes and i agree, marriage does sucks but those who have never been married said lonliness is worse and i wonder why becase marriage does not neccessarily take care of loneliness.

Would'nt u rather be single and lonely than to be married and be lonely.

But in all, is good to marry, you will never be a man if you don't, it is a higher responsibility.

I will never respect and trust an unmarried man, no matter how old and rich he is.

I was taught in my jurisprudence class on one hand that the law is an as...s and an idi.o...t, and a bachelor
You see say na the same mama born them.

I cannot predict a bachelor, i cannot stand surety for them, can't recommend a senior bachelor, can,t do biz with them and cannot allow my kids to run errands for them.

Killjoy no blame me oh, na the society attach so much value to marriage, no be me, i don gengenly marry con born children and no senior bachelor go send them msg the way him like

Alcohol
I drank a lot of hot drink during my second pregnancy
Drank all my mum's mini sach in her shop, i probabaly drank her out of that line of business when i went to visit, she willingly started buying me palmy everyday so i don't touch hot drinks

There was a day i drank one bottle of moet and a bottle of wine all in one day, and at about 9pm that same day hubby came back from his wanderring and i fought him badly.


Funny enough the drinking continued till i delivered
The boy is two years plus now and very healthy
He was very handsome at birth

italo:
Rev5:8 Now when He had taken the scroll, the four living creatures and the twenty-four elders fell down before the Lamb, each having a harp, and golden bowls full of incense, which are the prayers of the saints.

Incense is used in heaven. Is heaven also pagan?

Give up!

Which heaven
Where you there
So we even have bowls in heaven

Revelation is just a nightmare or a bad dream that will never happen, that is why it is called revelation.

dharmmyajishako:
Tarot Reading is both a science and an art. It could be learnt and with practice you could be very good but in my case, I can say I have been gifted. Tarot Reading has really been castigated by some religious Sects, Christians are actually spearhead this antagonism many of them claiming it is "Demonic".

I am a Christian and i belong to one of the fire praying churches in Nigeria but I think I can't hide in the closet any more. I am not trying to go commercial so please reduce your castigation if you really want to do that at all.

Should you have questions concerning Tarot reading both from scientific and religious perspective, you could comment and if you have real life issues you would want us to tackle with the tarot, I am stretching my hand to help.

what can tarot reading do for mankind
do they solve problems or create problems

doesn't look like a Christian or muslim. looks like a beautiful prostitute

mumumugu:
It takes one with faith and hope to get married.

Its best to marry an experienced girl; a widower or divorcee

Have you married one yet?

killjoy:
I just had a fyt with a gal after I replied her with "k" and begged her nt to reply with "kk". its no news dat, as s guy, if u ain't ready to bring new topics n steer d chat, den expect "kkk's" and "aiitsss" as responses. y r gals so intellectually lazy or shud I say passive? once a guy is involved, dey back off, weda in chatting, picking a venue for a date etc. ladies. I knw many of u nw have atrophied brains, but u can from somewhere to reboot ur brains. start by being active during chats. u can thank me later.

You hate women and i wonder why you make them your problem , women are a neccessary evil. Lets just say God made them that way, you have no option but to love them

FlirtyKaren:
see the child's pic. The nanny was sentenced to just 3 years in prison

http://www.lailasblog.com/2014/11/have-you-seen-this-heartbreaking-nanny.html

Now am a bit relief.
Been sick since i watched the video.

Thank God the witch did not kill the child

waternogetemeny:
Wars come and go but my soldiers remain eternal

what is going on here, being prosecuted for what.
I don't know this story, pls brief us, or are they soldiers?

sonOfLucifer:
Hmmm.... This one is strong.

sonoflucifer, pls beg your father to tell its agents to leave lastchild alone, the guy want to live a good life for goodness sake.
he is not getting bless, no one to luv him, no good sleep at night, bad luck in everything, for fu...ck sake all he gets is grief's.

so if you know your father very well, tell him to leave this man alone.

happy birthday to our president, wish you peace, joy, happiness, long life, good health and a successful 2015 presidential election.
you are a complete gentleman and deserve the best of luck, you were destine to be great and you are indeed great. may God continue to see you through. Amen

MadCow1:
Lol..




Jealousy can spark different reactions..

No harm in trying.

be serious joor

MadCow1:
Erm...

I did not encourage her to.. I suggested it to her.

All na option.




Maybe if her husband sees her bank statement with plenty hotel bills inside and transfers to one Johnbull... ;d EHN go reset to factory mode.

are you serious

madcow1 pls be honest, will this work or it may likely work

answer sharper...ly
I may be transferring all my effects to madcow1

MadCow1:
Yes!

I have been in a situation like that and I did forgive her and it has never been talked about nor referenced ever again until today.. (Over 3 years ago).

no wonder you encouraged op to have a side boo.

pickabeau1:
we all wish for improvement but the rants against naija gets too much
what i see here are things which happen in other places

its not unique here..

The exposed ones should know better

in fact my sister, the Nigeria man is the only man I see that can keep a very hateful woman for a wife once he gets happiness outside, don,t sleep with him, don't cook, don,t wash his clothes, forget he exist, he will still keep you as a wife even when he has plenty of them

not all though, but is funny

MadCow1:
Erm..

First of all.. I am a Man and I dont consider myself a Bad man.. (That dosent mean say 'Na me holy pass' o).

Secondly.. Men bad, men Bad.. Na Man dey fhuck these bad men, abi no be woman again?!

Like HighChief said.. She should find out the class her husband belongs to.. Serial, occasional or one-off cheater and make her decision based on that.

I love sex.. But i doubt a VB| a diildo or| that artificial Vargina can replace a human being.

I think she should start with a conversation and then work her way forward. This paranoid state of mind that she is currently having is worse than the actual cheating and does not serve to fix anything.. SO she might as well just walk away from the marriage now.

let us say you are the one that is been cheated on and as an African man, you think you can forgive and love her like before?

MadCow1:
My reliable Sources informed me that Suen has been made an offer he couldnt possibly refuse to isolate the Muslim section from the rest of Nairaland..


So basically, you are free to enter any part of Nairaland except the area that houses the potentia Terrorists and Mujahadeens..



The Isolation of the Muslim section of Nairaland should be a cause for National Security concerns..

so on point,

is a breach of our fundamental right actually. made this comment before on a thread and the thread disappeared

MadCow1:
A VB will only shake your kpekus vigorously and that's it.. Men are more than just 'live diicks'..

The OP's matter is not peculiar to her alone. Many women are in this boat.

really?

do you think op will worry if he doesn't have a diick?

the earlier we stop worrying the better for us, men are getting worst by the day, women have to think of other things that gives them joy.

MadCow1:
Delete that part and leave only the Vi-brators..



Or hells.. She should find herself a side boo.. Afterall, Whats good for the Greece, is good for Uganda.


The one thing I know is that a Cheating woman is harder to catch than a cheating Man.

let her hubby come and see the quality and size of my V-B he will know he is less than a man
cheating man, why should I worry my self with one when he is busy enjoying him self, rubbish,

do we really need these men?

Nekk:
Madam, I must say that we are in the same shoes, I read your stories over and over again to be sure I wasn't the one that typed it.
Am so following this story because it will help me heal, I feel myself dying slowly of pain. God men are mean.

my dear, don,t die because of man,
don,t kill any body because of man,
don,t let man kill you,

develop a hard shell to his infidelities that is if divorce is not an option for you, keep your self happy, live your life, concentrate on giving your kids a good life
he may go and take another wife, don,t care and don,t hurt especially if you have a well paying job to look after your self, get busy, go for higher degree as phd and other professional courses.

if you are so emotional about sex and love which I believe is just a relief from tension, you can use prayers to hold your self if you are a strong Christian, if not indulge in vibrators, it will not kill you slowly like your husband, my cheating husband is the least of my worries.

abeg reconstruct the English,

make it simple or use pidgin English, we go comment

nedu2000:
but we talking about a church's and not a country's constitution ain't they two different things?

even the church is subject to the laws of the land, we are talking about the discrimination against women from holding a particular post within a church establishment , any attempt in an organization to exclusively reserve some special post to men only is discrimination.

nedu2000:
The confusion started in 2002 with Gene Robinson an openly gay guy who was made bishop in the US,after a series of events the anglican communion in Africa severed ties with the church of canterbury as a direct result.
This week it was voted in the church of canterbury in favor of the appointments of female bishops

mobile.nytimes.com/2014/11/18/world/europe/church-of-england-approves-plan-allowing-female-bishops.html?_r=0&referrer=

In my opinion is see them both as purely unbiblical and what the church is using as its consitution,other than the bible because:
mal 3:6 "for I am the Lord I change not".
1 cort 14:34-35 "Let your women keep silence in the churches: for
it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they
are commanded to be under obedience, as also
saith the law. And if they will learn any thing, let
them ask their husbands at home: for it is a
shame for women to speak in the church".
Pro & anti-christian feminists what's your opinion

the laws of our land prohibit all form of discrimination against women , whether on the ground of sex, religion or otherwise. I guess when your bible is in conflict with the laws of the land, the law prevails.