Christianity Etc › Re: Can U Marry An Atheist??? by urheme: 8:01pm On Jun 14, 2015 |
plaetton: Yes, but customs and traditions are amenable to education and englightenment. Customs and traditions are dynamic.
But religion, especially in Nigeria, seem almost impervious to education, our educational system . Custom and traditions are static they can only be controlled or manipulated by statute or judicial pronouncement, education does not change a particular custom, people just discard them because they have falling below the standard of a way of life. It cannot be a way of life for me any way because it is prejudicial to my gender. As regard marriage, i detaste customary marriage, it is polygamous and oppressive to the female folks |
Christianity Etc › Re: Can U Marry An Atheist??? by urheme: 6:09pm On Jun 14, 2015 |
plaetton: lol.
I am an example that all the above is false.
The perceived problems that you talk about are all in your head. That itself, is the problem.
No wonder, though, that we cannot build a nation that everyone can be safe and proud of , simply because of our perceived differences in tribe and religion.
Can you see why we think religion is a disease of the mind ? Some customs and traditions are worse than religion, Religion, i can handle, some established customs are just so stupid that they make religion credible. My opinion sir. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Can U Marry An Atheist??? by urheme: 5:43pm On Jun 14, 2015 |
chommyAngela: A man in my area is an atheist,and he wants to marry now and no woman wants to accept him because he is an atheist and he said he will not do church wedding.does that mean we dont have women who are atheist? But personal me as a girl will not marry an atheist because i love God. Share ur view. Love the one that is unreligious but kind and Godly macof: Off topic - what's it with women and white wedding? I still don't understand [quote Sir macof, is just stupidity, White wedding is actually a borrowed culture, if a woman want a proper marriage, she should head to the marriage registry in the local govt secretariat, and you can wear any thing, even a jeans skirt or pant is fine. Beside, it is the cheapest there is. Every other marriage is nonsense including our so call traditional marriage |
Christianity Etc › Re: Where Does The Devil Get His Power From? by urheme: 6:52pm On Jun 13, 2015 |
menesheh: Devil is a police man (policing arm of God's government) that punish human that refuse to obey his totalitarian regime (north Korea regime).  |
Christianity Etc › Re: If Gossip Magazines Existed In Biblical Times by urheme: 6:47pm On Jun 13, 2015 |
 Comic relief |
Christianity Etc › Re: Africa, Foreign Religions And Cultural Genocide. by urheme: 8:53am On Jun 07, 2015*. Modified: 2:30pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
plaetton: No no no plaetton: No no no The truth is the black man has a gullable mind, 95 percent of nigerians have replace their culture with religion, the intention of the white man was not to come and exterminate our culture but to help us develop economically and otherwise. There was no strategic plans and conspiracy whatsoever in the first place to erradicat our tradition, it was difficult for them to manage a people with a barbaric belief system, and in a bid to help us develop they gave us schools, hospital, mechanise farming, industries etc. Orchestrated by religion. We against all odd saw the benefit of civilization abandon our culture of our own free will, and it died a natural death. What you called cultural genocide was just a developmental revolution at the expense of our customs and traditions. We still have a choice to preserve or do away with them. Thank you |
Christianity Etc › Re: Africa, Foreign Religions And Cultural Genocide. by urheme: 4:42pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
ROSSIKE: You reason like a dunce. Why don't you just go and kill your self when you know you are depressed. Stuupppiidd, Must you insult |
Christianity Etc › Re: Learn To Say "Am Sorry" Even When You Are Right by urheme: 4:34pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Kay17: And God in his infinite wisdom decided to place this "sucking child" over the full woman. I can only guess the results. Nightmare!!!! Do we still call it marriage, Kay17, i trust you will give us a good definition of marriage as it stand in this thread.  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Africa, Foreign Religions And Cultural Genocide. by urheme: 4:06pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
sonmvayina: they are 3 things that define you as a man..your culture, traditions and your religion..if anybody can take these away from you, that person will control you for the rest of your lives. the white men know these things..
let me see if i can go to the very beginning as make a few point..there primary purpose of coming to africa and the new world was to colonise new teritory for their kings with the backing of the pope..these where the portuguese and the spanish kings..
before they came we had our system of government..the ibos as i heard where mainly republicans, the edos had the oba and the yoruba the same thing..had the oba and maintain peace. then in acient edo if your orange cost 5 cowries, all u had to do was put 5 stones and when u come back in the evening your money go correct.
they had a chief preist who lead the community in all the spiritual ceremonies...and was present in coronations..we had a good society and developing at our own pace, we had some not too good practices which i know with time we would have down away with.
enter the white man:..he came seeking land and resources..what better way to pacify the locals then to use religion..those locals who resisted where killed cos they had a better fire power..well they where also enticed with gifts, for the kids..what do you expect with time people started to for get their culture and heritage and then the demonizing of our gods and goddess started and we lost our way..
if they wanted the best for us, why did they not use economics, teach us how to make and invent things so we can also proper economically. now we just watch them develope and grow, all we do is to pray earnestly. they have really done more harm than good.
while they plunder our resources...one by one..ogun and sango go fire them. They saw that we needed something to belief in, our delusion was an insane one, the white man could'nt just reason with us, our reasoning was below the iq of a nomal human being, eg, kill the twins, touture and abuse the widow pray and bow down for peice of metals clay and wood, pollute the environment with decayed food which the gods refuse to eat etc. What more better way than to substitute our gods with their own fabricated one.  Atleast it prohibited evil and promised eternal life, but now that it has bin hijacked by business minded individual what else do we do? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Africa, Foreign Religions And Cultural Genocide. by urheme: 7:12pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
plaetton: Thanks again. But let repeat that cultural assimilation is common, and even quite natural. Cultural genocide is quite different. It would involve a plan, a conspiracy. And who is conspiring with who? Am not getting u well |
Christianity Etc › Re: Africa, Foreign Religions And Cultural Genocide. by urheme: 5:44pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
plaetton: We know meaning of genocide. Genocides are hardly accidental.
Is there such a thing as cultural genocide?
Have we been culturally genocided?
If so, are we now cultural zombies (walking dead)? If so, how does cultural zombification affect our current worldviews, attitudes and realities?
How do we come to terms with this, address and redress it? I would'nt use the word genocide for a culture that have outlived its usefulness and almost non existence. Culture as we know is been given new meaning as they can nolonger be exalted above statute, culture actually play less role in our land these days because people no longer submit to it, people are more civilise now and have done away with certain traditions which they term barbaric. Eg, the position of the traditional ruler as an arbiter in a matter has died a natural death with the emergence of the customary and area courts, customary disolution of marriages and custody are now done there, this is to ensure equity, justice and good conscience and i believe this is inline with best international practices, that a custom must pass a repungnancy test. Or die a natural death. So my dear, i believe our culture and tradition is being quickly faced out. My two kobo contribution  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Learn To Say "Am Sorry" Even When You Are Right by urheme: 4:27pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
buchibrand: Good cheap talks. Please take a trip to the Counseling department of your church (if you are a christian) and see what is happening there. Most men are suffering in marriage, they practically have had to apologise almost all the time to their wife, just for the marriage to succeed. Liar!!!!! It is the women that actually suffers most. Abeg. Op you are on a contradictory lane. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Learn To Say "Am Sorry" Even When You Are Right by urheme: 4:22pm On Jun 04, 2015 |
buchibrand: I was only defining Peace in context. The spirit of this post is very clear. Its a SUGGESTION and you must get that clear. Kay17 has given you a precise and perfect definition of peace within the context of your post. The only peace available for a man who feed on apologies from his own wrong is "peace of the grave yard" Your suggestion will put men on the wrong track |
Christianity Etc › Re: Africa, Foreign Religions And Cultural Genocide. by urheme: 9:05pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Oga pleatton, we no understand your story. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Is It Not Prudent To Do Away With Doctrins That Are In Conflict With Bible ? by urheme: 3:46pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Ubenedictus: they certainly were the "true religion" at the time with the manifest presence of God.
In the wildest sense posible I may define Christian as one who attained salvation through Christ or whose sins were passed over in view of Christ sacrifice. So yeah, in that sense they were the true religion and the sacrifice of Christ did spill over both forward into history and backward into the past. Justifying the old testament saints and bringing salvation to us in the new t.
That is why I am not suprised that even the early Christian practiced exactly the same thing moses did. When a christians was killed in persecution, the early Christians made a point of translating the remains from where ever the pagan put it and reverent bury that temple where the holyspirit was dwelt in hope of the resurrection, but unfortunately d so called modern christians are not taught Church history. Boring  truthislight: Where is my bull let me go carry out animal sacrifice. It is biblical! ASAP. Aaahhhhh!  Animal sacrifice is nolonger appealing to the christian god. You need to grab Jesus but unfortunately you can,t btoks: . E.g. is the consecrated bread and wine really the body & blood of Jesus or not. Good question |
Christianity Etc › Re: Learn To Say "Am Sorry" Even When You Are Right by urheme: 10:17am On Jun 03, 2015 |
buchibrand: Let me use GoodLuck Jonathan to define the Peace am referring to here...even when its obvious there were lots of irregularities, the power still with him to order the arm forces and plunge Nigeria into Chaos, he conceded defeat just for Peace to reign(some said he had no choice, but I tell you, just one negative word from him would have been enough to set Nigeria ablaze). The truth remains that Nigeria has not EXPLODED and will not IMPLODE later rather we are good for it. There is no nexus between this post and the topic you created, infact they are at log head. Op abeg try and understand your self. Jonathan is far from being arrongant. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Learn To Say "Am Sorry" Even When You Are Right by urheme: 9:56am On Jun 03, 2015 |
EnlightenedSoul: The OP actually refers to them as "exalted babies", which I find interesting among other things. I see  Babies should't go into relationships that are meant for adult, be they exalted or glorified or in whatever description.... Op should go and get a nanny. Wondering which nanny will work for an arrogant baby  Useless men!!! |
Christianity Etc › Re: Learn To Say "Am Sorry" Even When You Are Right by urheme: 9:47am On Jun 03, 2015*. Modified: 10:25am On Jun 03, 2015 |
buchibrand: You are wise on your own opinion. Oppressive? Come alive bro, a man is always a man including you. A woman must learn to be cool when the man is hot... If you marry an arrogant man you must adapt to live with him Till Death Do You Part Hot you said!!. Sorry to let you down bro, an arrogant man is not respected in our land, i am actually trained to address a wrong: not uphold it. A man can only be a man if he can stand challenges and take responsibility for his action. Sometimes i wonder, why will a man bully a woman to apologise for all his wrong  Touture, mental slavery |
Christianity Etc › Re: Learn To Say "Am Sorry" Even When You Are Right by urheme: 5:22pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
EnlightenedSoul: Erm, how about utilizing those phrases properly/accordingly? 
"I'm sorry" implies that you've erred in some way/shape/form. It is not the domain of the presumably 'wronged' to apologize. If you're wrong you're wrong. Own up and learn from your mistakes. Grow as a person. I totally agree with you, the op actually make me feel men are bad people and are less human. The man who feeds on sorry even when he is wrong is just a stupppiid dog. Kay17: Wouldn't that be dishonest? You place a thread about furthering dishonesty in the Religion section. What religion do you think endorses this sort of dishonesty? No religion justify's a wrong, @ op Your post is very oppressive, is yet another caculated attempt to enslave and touture a woman in a relationship, we should take responsibility for our action, men should not be too big to say sorry when they are wrong, to evade a wrong is actually a crime. Conceeding to a wrong in the name of peace is bondage because you have just raised the fence of ego and pride, no relationship will sustain on this, i do not see how. |
Christianity Etc › Re: I Refuse To Believe That Only 'Christians' Are Saved by urheme: 3:24pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
plaetton: If you read the precepts of Ptah-hotep, you would be marveled at the very deep levels of commitment to moral and ethical justice enshrined in Egyptian religious philosophy thousands of years before moses's 10 commandments, and Jesus's injunction to love thy neighbor as thyself.
In fact, the 10 commandments itself is copied and plagerized verbatim from the laws of Maat, the Egyptian God of truth and equity.
The religions of today cannot uphold any genuinely high moral and ethical standards, because they are fake, and contrived on selfish ambitions. You can imagine  They said moses collected the ten commandment direct from God "hand to hand" now there is serious problem in the land and we need more laws from the same source to regulate them and no body has been able to go to God and collect more. We have been scamed |
Christianity Etc › Re: I Refuse To Believe That Only 'Christians' Are Saved by urheme: 3:07pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
malvisguy212: first, it was Sarah that encourage Abraham to commit the acts, secondly solomon was obedient to God until pride and riches make him to sin, the time solomon was having affairs with women, by then he was worshipping other gods.
Roman 10:13-21 13 for, “EVERYONE who calls on the name of the LORD WILL BE SAVED .”[ f] 14 How, then, can they call on the one they have not believed in? And how can they believe in the one of whom they have not heard? And how can they hear without someone preaching to them? 15 And how can anyone preach unless they are sent? As it is written: “How beautiful are the feet of those who bring good news!”[ g] 16 But not all the Israelites accepted the good news. For Isaiah says, “Lord, who has believed our message?”[ h] 17 Consequently, faith comes from hearing the message, and the message is heard through the word about Christ. 18 But I ask: Did they not hear? Of course they did: “Their voice has gone out into all the earth, their words to the ends of the world.”[i] 19 Again I ask: Did Israel not understand? First, Moses says, “I will make you envious by those who are not a nation; I will make you angry by a nation that has no understanding.”[ j] 20 And Isaiah boldly says, “I was found by those who did not seek me; I revealed myself to those who did not ask for me.”[ k] 21 But concerning Israel he says, “All day long I have held out my hands to a disobedient and obstinate people.”[l]
I believe this book of roman answer your question, verse 13 say everyone who called on the LORD will be saved. Blame the woman  ?? Nonsense!!! Don't even quote me again |
Christianity Etc › Re: I Refuse To Believe That Only 'Christians' Are Saved by urheme: 2:53pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
plaetton: Ehhm, correction sir. Solomon didn't author anything. The entire book of proverbs was plagerized, no, stolen from an ancient Egyptian book called The Precepts Of Ptah-Hotep, the high priest of Ptah, that predates King Solomon by thousands of years.
Ptah was the father of Egyptian gods, The Heavenly father, Their supreme god.
Quite insightful sir,
You are a good reader, some cultures are worse than religion, if anything does not support equity justice and good conscience, i don't support it.
Whether a religion is stolen or not, its practices must be fair for all, but it seems religion has failed us from all ramification
Ptah is likely the root word for Ju-piter, the formost of the heavens, and also from whence we get the name Peter, a name of a disciple who is believed to have founded the church of the Roman fathers, priests of the heavenly father, whose headquarters was built, and today still standing atop the ancient temple of Ju-Piter. All roads lead back to Egypt.
The ancient hebrew scribes were master plagerists who copied and plagerized every ancient scriptures from every culture they came into contact with. They just simply substituted their tribal deity, Yahweh, in place of the deities of their cultural and religious benefactors. |
Christianity Etc › Re: I Refuse To Believe That Only 'Christians' Are Saved by urheme: 10:21pm On Jun 01, 2015 |
malvisguy212: read the book of Hebrew, they were saved by FAITH. What faith does abraham have  One who pregnated his maid and could not take responsibility for it. And solomon found faith in wemen,s lap  ashawo kobo kobo. The only wisdon he has was to write his folishness down to teach us a lesson, so, i give him that. Faith is evidence of things not seen but hoped for. In those days they saw physical evidence of God as they claimed, so what faith are you refering |
Christianity Etc › Re: I Refuse To Believe That Only 'Christians' Are Saved by urheme: 9:54pm On Jun 01, 2015 |
tpiadotcom: No other way except through Christ Jesus. Abraham, elijah, moses, noah, david, solomon and many more did not have jesus the christ,  I ges there are many more ways  |
Politics › Re: Oby Ezekwesili Reacts To Oshiomhole's Wedding by urheme: 5:59pm On May 15, 2015 |
I see ojukwu and biaca  I still dey wonder how much osho baba pay the native wizard wey help am tie this girl  Only money cannot do this job.... Speechless sha.... |
Politics › Re: Who Has The Constitutional Power To Slash The Salaries Of Senators by urheme: 11:05pm On May 04, 2015 |
barcanista: @OP: The Revenue Mobilisation Allocation and Fiscal Commission determines the remuneration of Public office holders. However, the commission is guided by law of the Parliament (NAsS). The allocation cannot be modified or reviewed by the President except the law establishing it is amended by members of National Assembly. In other words, they still have the key. The best a President can do is to persuade members of NASS to amend the law guiding RMAFC. Otherwise, he can only make empty rant. He can't even change what his VP, Ministers, SAs, SSAs or even himself earn. He can only decide to forfeit a percentage of his income. As for the NASS, I bet you that any bill to amend the law guiding RMAFC will be killed upon arrival. The legislative arm of govt is really useless to this nation, during the military era there was no legislative arm it was rather fused with the executive, let the bill be propose and if salary is not reviewed downward then the supreme military council has to rear its ugly head and make them disappear.  How is that haa |
Business › Re: Few Nigerian Banks May Collapse In 2016 – Report by urheme: 10:28pm On May 04, 2015 |
coolcharm: If the banks like, let them enter oblivion for all I care 
They don't help small businesses and startups with loans; their corporate social responsibility is is almost zero; They don't assist in mortgage; Infact, they don't do nothing other than collect our monies and charge COT on our accounts.
They only give mega loans to the Dangote's and Adenuga's.
So if it becomes a bad debt, that's their fvucking business   Corporate social responsibility, when their directors behave like crooks. Oceanic bank was bad enough to be wound off for being a corporate thief yet another foolish corporate citizen bought a liability and a corporate criminal from death in the name of rescuing shareholders money and did they rescue shiiit? No!!!  And cicilia ibru a crook big time crook wrote of my hard earned money, she no go see better for her life. Banks are just too greedy so they will all suffer, especially those ones whos customers are govt agencies, So i agree with you they can melt down, sink or crash. |
Politics › Re: Emir Of Kano Sanusi Lamido To Rebuild Burnt Baptist Church In Kano. Pix by urheme: 8:57pm On May 01, 2015 |
ramdris: I love this Sanusi like..... I just wish he is not an emir. It would av been wonderful to have him in GMB government. But all the same, rankadede YRH. He would have been a better presidential candidate, infact he will make a very vibrant leader for nigeria, the man is just too intelligent. I don't know why we just can't project our best, Fools fools and thievies every where, is better we have one smart one that has brains. |
Politics › Re: Uduaghan Commissions New Modern Hospital In Delta State by urheme: 3:21pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
cnario: I can't say I'm impressed, looks like the regular hospitals we know. Below standard i must say compare to all the money he stole while he was commissioner of health, delta state, he left all the health facilities delapidated and he got the balls to declare the assets of 9 billion when he became governor. Carry over when he has failed. Who will appreciate it  |
Christianity Etc › Re: And God So Loved The World, That He... by urheme: 11:33am On Apr 19, 2015 |
DProDG: ...sent his boy boy to wreak havoc on earth ...drowned his children ...caused confusion and separated the human race ...revealed his existence to just a few illitrates in the desert 3k years ago ...murdered humself to appease himself ...gave us Patience Jonathan Liar liar  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Is It Not Prudent To Do Away With Doctrins That Are In Conflict With Bible ? by urheme: 7:05pm On Apr 17, 2015 |
Ubenedictus: hehehehe, we venerate(profundly respect) people and even the remains of Christians are treated with respect because they were once temples of the holyspirit, we do not "worship" them in the sense you mean.
The bible has examples of great men whose graves are dug and their remain translated to a different location, it is biblical.
Ex 13:19 And Moses took the bones of Joseph with him; for Joseph had solemnly sworn "God will visit you; then you must carry my bones from here"
here is an example of the biblical practice of translating the remains of the dead. Catholics sometimes translate the remains of the dead if necessary from their previous graves to consecrated grounds.
There is nothing sinful about translating the remains of the dead.
Have a nice day. So because moses took bones it becomes a doctrine to remove the dead from their resting place even when half decayed, does it make sense to you  The verse you cited did not say by extention that christians should vandalise graves, it is rather an act of disrespect to the dead. An act of crime soto say  I give up on you guys  Really  |
Politics › Re: In Buhari, The Spirit Of MKO Abiola May Find Rest- Leadership by urheme: 9:29pm On Apr 16, 2015 |
tobtap: june 12 was an injustice to MKO... buhari victory cant erase that  Do you reddress injustice by taking the law into your hands  Imagine 50 wivies and over 300 hundred children in aso rock, all entitled to bodyguards, servants.. In fact presidential services...and all the rest, the economy will be crippled in a year. The ghost of mko will not be confortable in Buhari, his lifestyle is a simple one  |