Valenciabaddie:
So I'm single just because I told my boyfriend turned ex that I can't do his house chores for him .
He's a salary earner that works from 8-5
This guy expects that I go over to his house ,clean and cook before he comes back ??. when I'm not married to him ,and anytime I refused he flares up and starts making silly comments like "so what is now your use " imagine that annoying statement from someone I thought was literate and intelligent.. can you imagine that ?.. So I have to offer services before I can be useful? ..
I was frustrated and I told him I'm done and this guy did not even bother to show remorse, like he's okay with the break up ??

I'm really sorry but I find it appalling to be washing plates and sweeping a man's house when I'm not a slave , and even If I will do that then it has to be my own free will not you telling me to do it like it's my job..

if other women do that well I'm sorry I can't . atleast not while we are still dating

Happily dating now... And no I don't wash his plates...

BeautyO:


Keep ur 10k for your sister , I don't need it

Nice reply

Qatar2022:

Bitch these nothing like Deliverance , nothing will happen to him , know the truth and speak the truth and it shall set you free

Why are you crying more than the bereaved?... better don't get married cos you prolly gon end up with a hoe ...




btw Op u will never change and m here to add to your curses .. Jusi giya rimana su

This cannot be true

Lovethaa:
You're claiming alpha male yet you don't have atleast 500k In your account then you're not Alpha my brother you are a SIMP ..

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Imagine what a 28 yr old is posting... you're so childish and immature

So Friday at work me and the babes were discussing after work , our topic was centered around Nigerian men and thier weak game ,
Nigerian men are quick to show thier power when they are chatting or speaking to a lady with low standards but when it comes to classy babes they will immediately turn to Mumu.
Some men are even scared to walk up to a lady just because she is beautiful and classy , they feel ooh this one go get shakara but the truth is classy babes are lonely too yes we have standards and rules but then A rule can be broken , so that pushed me to write this post hopefully it will help someone.


(1) Be confident
This is the first thing that a woman watch out for in a Man,A man is the head of the house ,so we expect you to behave like a "Man" get your games right before you approach a woman ,don't get close and start fidgeting like a baby that is a serious turn off

(2) Dress well
Trust me not every one will look like chris brown but there should be effort , Dress clean and well.
Smell nice and Look Good ,

(3) Reduce the questions
Some men can ask questions for africa ,, what are you doing here ? so you live here ? what air do you breathe?...Relax man this is not an exam hall what men don't understand is question really tire women,I get bored easily when there are too many questions,why not tell me about yourself or just say something that will ignite the conversation..focus on making the person you're talking to relaxed and interested first ..


(4) Do away with Sexist remarks
You look hot , you have a banging body , I like your shape like WTF , we just met and you're already seeing me like that ? even if I have a banging body keep that to yourself .


((5) Be patient
some men want everything to happen in a day., if you text me and I replied late even when am online , chances are that I did that intentionally, Don't rush love , just be calm , even if she acts uninterested like we women do still keep cool , she will come around.

(6) Be matured

Lovethaa:




she's someone I know personally and trust me she's a lazy leech who only care about what she's getting from men . Las las they might use her

you know iv been avoiding you for a while now but since you have refused to grow up I'll put you in your place ..

1. I might be lazy but at least I'm not a ritualist who's thinks of nothing but fetish ways to make money and then come online to flaunt it.local scammer 2. You know pretty well that I'm from a very comfortable family so what do men really have to offer plus I have a good job unlike you who depend on your mommy to survive . you come online forming philanthropist from the money your mommy sends you .
3. Reply me again and the whole of Nairaland will see you naked

IvarDboneless:
When another girl comes doing all this shit you won't do now, na una go still say she don charm am. Every man wants to marry a woman who is submissive cus that's the only thing that will make him feel like a man. And it's starts from your relationship.

Why not marry an househelp then or a slave .
That's why career woman ar single . y'all men ar too backwards mentally

ThiagoKid:
Cc; Valenciabaddie, good evening. Whats up with you?

I'm great you ?

Pass11:
I won't marry your type I will only Bleep and kick you out.

I'm definitely beyond the type of girl you can bleep .. above you in all means

LeeSantos:
not doing the chores is pretty okay and not okay.. we all have sister and we don't want them been slaves to a guy, but sometimes you just have to tidy the house when ever you're around, and not him telling you to go home and do it. This is a simple thing that requires the use of sense.

don't Zzor like Zzor. cus you will lead yourself astray

Thank you

So I'm single just because I told my boyfriend turned ex that I can't do his house chores for him .
He's a salary earner that works from 8-5
This guy expects that I go over to his house ,clean and cook before he comes back ??. when I'm not married to him ,and anytime I refused he flares up and starts making silly comments like "so what is now your use " imagine that annoying statement from someone I thought was literate and intelligent.. can you imagine that ?.. So I have to offer services before I can be useful? ..
I was frustrated and I told him I'm done and this guy did not even bother to show remorse, like he's okay with the break up ??

I'm really sorry but I find it appalling to be washing plates and sweeping a man's house when I'm not a slave , and even If I will do that then it has to be my own free will not you telling me to do it like it's my job..

if other women do that well I'm sorry I can't . atleast not while we are still dating

Nice one . touches the soul

Immaturity "spits"

Ikillbrokehoes:
You with your fake profile picture calling someone ugly.

Don't take out your personal problems on me . find sth to eat okay. it is well..

antiediots:

f.o.o.l!...that's why dat Ur yahoo boyfriend wanted to swallow your destiny
u talk as if u can create anything
if not for carowhite,and those buckets of paints you apply on your face,who go look your way

I'm guessing you're ugly too...

Feddytune:
you look broke and poverty stricken... plus ugly and ugliness is contagious, guess that's why they blocked the diesese

really contagious..... broke is still manageable but that disease called"ugliness" cannot be tolerated

Takeit2017:
Wahala be like bicycle
All my niggas are into yahoo business I got all the skills ... and also a computer guru
But I wanna make my money clean I dnt wanna brag with fake money so help me God
Brokenness thy make me reason yahoo But I dnt wanna go into it
Imagine Say I go toast babe my nigga go use money enter the same babe
Yahoo boys don show me pepper sha
God is watching sha
Back to the topic Smile Allow the boy to enjoy himself Time go tell when everywhere don red Survey champion guru

you were toasting the wrong babes

Past few days have been so depressing.but so many people reched out to me here on Nairaland.and made me happy

I honestly feel like I have a family here ..so thank you for the the positive/negative comments ,
I have replied some mails and I promise to reply others .
Thank you, I have decided to move on and let True love find me
Pls reach out to me on Twitter too @shescrystals ..

N.B profile picture is from today's date with a female nairander .

:I created an harmless thread yesterday seeking advice without mentioning names or tagging any moniker, I didnt even think it could make front page .only for @ Lovethaa to drive to my house,harass my sister and forced me to delete the post when I couldn't delete or modify it he took my phone threw it away,i left him to go after my phone, he came after me saying I walked out on him and as we were arguing he gave me a slap ,
Just because people were commenting that person must be a ritualist for using black soap , I don't know why it would affect you when your name or picture is not attached to the post but I guess Guilty conscience will not let you be
Even before you told me our relationship is over I have made up my mind already about you because God knows I tried my best
you're a fake and woman beater , coming on Nairaland creating threads to make you look like a responsible person.
I regret the day I met you and I won't curse you but you will definitely regret your actions ... And I have already reported you to the police, even though I know u can buy your way through but you won't buy your way through the bad things that will follow cos I have also gone naked and curse you..

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Fmghewzy:




Moreover don't mind those stupid comments, many mad people on this forum,only 40%of us are mentally stable.
Sensitive topics like this shouldn't be discussed here.
Were po ni bi.

Thank you very much

anochuko01:

Lol
You that went to school but still asking if you should remain with your fetish bf nko? You even claim to be "Pentecostal" but still follow him to his white garment church. Can you see how learned and wise you are?


Maybe you should table this before your church pastor and parents to hear what they're gonna say

Okay.. thanks

anochuko01:
Find a hardworking guy who you can build your life with, na lie. You don see rich in-laws for your mind.

Guy doesn't work but you can stick around because his parents are rich.
Your case be like fowl wey the owner dey give slice bread chop, na inside pot of soup you go end las las

When I met him he's jobless Not that he's jobless ATM.....
. It's obvious you did not go to school...
If I had said he's got a good job when I met him ,. You would still day I stiuck with him because he got a good job...bitter people..

Omihanifa:
Instead of you to run away before he will use you to do ogwu ego (money ritual )

He's jobless and yet you are with him because he's from a rich family
you are nothing but a Gold digger

I just hope your pants are intact and he doesn't cum inside

Pls Its clearly stated that I want "Matured" comments .... Not comments from bitter people ... If anyone is a gold digger then the guy is The gold digger because my parents are richer ...

Zzor:
Are you living with him? Just quit if you ain't comfortable with what he does.

I'm not but I do spend some weekends.

Modified.
Pls he saw this post on front page, came to my house and was harassing my sister I came out and he gave me a slap,saying he will do something bad If i don't delete this post,. he's on Nairaland too. I tried to delete the post or at least modify it but I can't .. help me tag a mod to help me delete this post .. pls .. and if anything bad happens to me @ Lovethaa is responsible

Cc Seun

Hi Guys ..
I need serious matured advice . I have been dating this guy for about a year now ,
When I met him he was jobless but living comfortable due to his parents wealth ,.
I'm 25 and he's 3 years older than me , my problem is that he's too spiritual , he always have bad dreams and because of this he is always going to a celestial church and this makes him bring fetish things home like candles and substances in white container ..

I go to a Pentecostal church but I still continue the relationship and also follow him to his church sometimes.. but lately he brought this black soap home which smells bad and to make matters worse he always wake up at a specific time at night .To have the bath ..

M feeling uncomfortable with him and im beginning to lose interest in him due to these because I don't believe in all this fetish things .What do u guys think ? I'm I overreacting?

olisaEze:
Rushed into the thread looking to see pics of Wizkid in a red colored garment and a funny wool cap, standing inside a small shrine communing with d’gods!

Both the Op and dis unfortunate 'no business brained artist' are covid19 crazy!

You're a big fool...when you don't have a life not to talk of a career to protect..

techmo:
Wizkid schooled in Ijebu ode, he is a known cultist who doesn't hide his allegiance

Why humiliate him for practising what he believes in? Must everyone worship You Middle Eastern Colonial Masters religion

And you're proud to write this?

Let's gist