Iamdbull: Being a loner and a complete introvert that I am, one of my biggest frustration is not being able to connect with the world I live in, I feel completely shut out and totally alone! So due to this I started fantasizing and imagining about that beautiful woman that will come to my world and act like a bridge between me and the outside world!!! Still looking for her.
Do you think I will find her?
It's a beautiful musical rendition of afrobeat with proper rhythm and rhymes properly blended with some soulful touch.
Highlandgee: Tributes from family and friends have poured in for a Nigerian, Patrick Ohanta, 45, who was hit and killed by a car driven by a drunk driver while standing by the side of a kerb in Pineville, Louisiana.
According to friends who knew him, Patrick Ohanta popularly called “Pato” had arrive America only 6 weeks ago. He was an alumnus of the University of Ibadan and a keen footballer.
He had his promising life cut short in the auto accident while walking home from a job interview at about 5.20 PM.
Louisiana State Police Troop E and the Alexandria Police Department responded the accident that killed Patrick. APD believes impairment was a factor in one of the accidents.
Police say, Patrick was attempting to cross the Curtis-Coleman Bridge when he was struck by a vehicle driven by a 29 year-old man from Pineville. A preliminary investigation conducted by the APD shows the man drove onto the shoulder hitting Ohanta who was pronounced dead at the scene.
The driver was taken into custody at the scene. He was booked into RPSO Jail and charged with driving while intoxicated – 4th offense, operating a vehicle while under suspension, reckless operation of a vehicle, and vehicular homicide.
A GoFundMe to support Patrick’s wife and family for the funeral has been opened.
APD is looking for witnesses who may have information about this incident. Call the Alexandria Police Department Traffic Division at (318) 441-6408.
Routine toxicology tests are pending. The crash remains under investigation.
Serving of breakfast is trending. OP, but the guy shouldn't have led you on. Sometimes, I behave like that guy too. Whenever I realize that some girls are getting serious with me, I get scared and want out.
If you had feelings for him why not try to help him with whatever is stressing him? Why not talk to him to find out if he just needs some time and some space and if he would like you to wait for him to re-emerge? People don't really care about each other anymore, we're all just looking for where we can benefit and never how someone else can benefit from us.
We'll keep moving until we become old and tired [/quote]
Don't mind them, everything na benefit. Baba wan comot country tell me say em no want lead me on, use stress dey cover up. Em use code serve me breakfast joor. Process of wetin abeg? Or you want make she dey desperate to get him back,he is mentally stressed out and need a break though the guy man use am as excuse maybe oo,still on still nothing there to help him about again. I no go advise any lady/guy to try revive relationship wey don die.[/quote]
Met a gentleman and we got talking and everything going well. He just woke up one day and said he was mentally stressed and wanted to recall to his shell. Just like that. You can't come into someone's life, stare up feelings and just back of. Really not nice but we move.
henryjos: Before a guy decides whether he wants to ask you out on a date or not, the first thing that comes into play is attraction. It makes perfect sense that you have to get the guy's attention first, right? Well, grabbing his attention is not the end of the story because he has to be interested in you too. Sure you get those glances from men whenever you walk into a bar or coffeehouse but does someone actually come up to you and ask you for your number? Are there ways on how to get him to ask me out? The answer is YES.
Keep in mind that different guys have different preferences. Some strategies may seem foolproof for some men but others will make you work harder. It also boils down to the kind of woman you are vs the kind of woman he is looking for. Sometimes the earlier you accept that you are not his type, the better off everyone will be. Don't force it if the guy you want does not seem to be comfortable with a woman like you. Yes, it has a lot to do with compatibility so don't stress out about it too much. If a guy doesn't like you then there's not much you can do so pull yourself up and keep looking.
If you want a guy to notice you, you have to please him visually. Wear clothes that flatter your body shape and hug your curves. This does not mean however that you have to wear skimpy shorts or tight-fitting tops that leave nothing to the imagination. Dressing attractively does not always mean that you have to show more skin. Dress appropriately for the occasion and make sure you look polished all the time. Wear makeup that will enhance your natural beauty. Forget about orange and neon green eyeshadows unless you want to date a man who works in the circus. Men always notice women who look "put together".
It will also help you score a date with a guy if you smell nice. Wear a perfume that's not overpowering or appalling. Your scent is what is going to linger in his head so make sure you pick the right one. Men are not a big fan of scents that remind them of food so try to stay away from something that smells like chocolate or cinnamon. Vanilla is an exemption as men seem to be turned on with this aroma. Go for fresh, clean, fun, sexy and lightly floral scents.
So you got the looks department all figured out, what's next? Like what I said earlier, looking attractive will make men turn their heads on you but it's not enough to score a date. Multiple surveys confirm that men are most likely to come up with someone who looks friendly and approachable than a pretty chick who acts patronizing. What do you have to do? It's simple, smile and make eye contact. Your gorgeous smile is your best weapon! Guys are drawn to women who seem to have a sunny disposition. Nobody wants to come near a woman who looks crabby. Making eye contact is equally important. When you survey a room and you see a guy you like, wait for an opportunity to lock eyes with him. Be very careful though because you don't want to stare at him for too long. Patti Stanger (Millionaire Matchmaker) stands by her 5-second rule. Make eye contact, smile, but only for 5 seconds and then look away. Several women have tried this strategy (including me) and it works like a charm!
Once the guy finally comes up to you, it's obvious that he wants to start a conversation. How do I get him to ask me out? You can do this by engaging him in a small positive talk. Give out a positive, fun vibe so he'll know that going out with you will be fun too.
FaAbokiWithSuit: Well I don't like to be proud or talk about my adventures. I have always been a super star and always had my shows on TV, Radio, Facebook, YouTube and different social media platforms.
Late last year, some nairalanders wanted to meet me but I kinda shelved the get-together due to my busy schedule. I don't get to stay in one place because I am always on aeroplane first class business flight.
So Yesterday, I was visited by many nairalanders and this nairalander, an igbo girl was crying and trying to hug me. At first I thought someone beat her but I realised it was the joy of meeting me and my aura that is making her cry.
My security details, on 6th floor, wanted to throw her out of the window but I told them to chill and let the Igbo girl come closer... She hugged me with tears of joy in her eyes.
The other nairalander, a Yoruba boy, kept prostrating and thanking me as if I helped his father impregnate his mum with twins ..The Hausa guy who was also a nairalander knelt down and was shouting, "nagin-sheyka, nagin-sheyka ... He offered me 7 bags of dates and breadfruit. Then he also offered me his sister's hand as a gift/wife and also promised to build a statue for me when he gets back to Northern Nigeria.
He promised to build 6 statues in 6 different northern states for me. Thank you nairalanders for the love, thank you for believing in me.
definitelyME: Once upon a time, I organised a house opening party for my newly built duplex somewhere in Lagos to cut the long story short, I told my dad and mom to invite lots of their friends and colleagues to the party(majority of them I knew where really big business men) that I would love for prominent people to attend so that I can make new friends and possibly, really influential business partners ( but only me knows what was in my mind sha )..so fast forward to the D-day.. Men and women in all shapes and colours, trooped in..cars in all sizes also trooped in..I was really surprised. Me that was forming big boy with my range rover evoque, I was really humbled that day.. So as the party went on, prayers and well wishes coming from all corners people eating and drinking.. Like a fighter jet that locks on its target before firing, my eyes locked on this particular beautiful, gorgeous and magnificent creation sitting so focused on her phone.. She didn't even act like she was interested in all what was going on..just so light skinned, quiet and gentle looking( my spec)..without wasting much time I went to where she was sitting, asked if any one was sitting close to her(because there was an empty chair space)and she said yes, her mother.. I was like OK, I wouldn't take much of your time. I would love to just sit and have a brief discussion with you. And she agreed... I introduced my self as Cyril, the celebrant and she introduced herself..as the conversation went on, I got to know she was the daughter of one of my dad's close friends, very rich man like this.. For sometime, we laughed and joked with each other and I noticed my mom one side just gallivanting about for no reason looking at us with one eye and with one kind yeye smile on her face( that woman can be very funny at times. Love you mom)..
We both talked and laughed till It got dark and most people were beginning to head home..so after some time, we exchanged contacts and she bid me farewell with a very charming smile on her face as her and family got into their car and zoomed off..I could remember later that night, my mama refused to sleep and leave me alone ohh..asking me silly questions about my conversation with her ..
We dated for almost two years and I was really happy knowing that our relationship was endorsed by both my parents and hers...we had lots of fun together prior to marriage and by Gods grace we are blessed with two wonderful kids..
And that is how I met my wife...feel free to share yours.
iLegendd: Sadly, I only drank half of the exotic juice and ate half of the fried yam and I'm already filled. Thank God I didn't buy the suya I wanted buy. No space for more. Na to baff and watch football preview remain.
You see eh, happiness is not by money, food or sex but by good health and contentment. Money, food, and sex are just bonuses.
By the way, which is the sweetest?
1. Money 2. Food 3. Sex 4. Degree 5. God
Don't be a hypocrite — choose as if no one is watching. Choose only two and give reasons. The person with the best reason wins 10 USDT.
An ICT company in Lagos is looking for a Customer Service Representative who will act as a liaison, provide product/services information, answer questions, and resolve any emerging problems that our customer accounts might face with accuracy and efficiency.
Responsibilities Customer Service Responsibilities list: 1. Manage large amounts of incoming phone calls 2. Generate sales leads 3. Identify and assess customers’ needs to achieve satisfaction 4. Build sustainable relationships and trust with customer accounts through open and interactive communication 5. Provide accurate, valid and complete information by using the right methods/tools 6. Meet personal/customer service team sales targets and call handling quotas 7. Handle customer complaints, provide appropriate solutions and alternatives within the time limits; follow up to ensure resolution 8. Keep records of customer interactions, process customer accounts and file documents 9. Follow communication procedures, guidelines and policies 10. Take the extra mile to engage customers
Requirements 1. Proven customer support experience or experience as a Client Service Representative 2. Track record of over-achieving quota 3. Strong phone contact handling skills and active listening 4. Familiarity with CRM systems and practices 5. Customer orientation and ability to adapt/respond to different types of characters 6. Excellent communication and presentation skills 7. Ability to multi-task, prioritize, and manage time effectively
MODE OF APPLICATION Interested applicant should forward their names, qualification, post applying for and their CV/resume to (sleekcareers.ng@gmail.com).
koyeni: Online sales representatives are needed. If you are interested just msg me on WhatsApp 09064555100. This is a legit side hustle for extra income. It can be done by anyone without special skills.
P. S: This is not a get-rich-quick scheme but through patience and consistency you can build wealth
assisttohire: A cake store is looking to recruit an experienced social media manager and front desk officer to represent the company by helping our brands establish a social media presence.
The hired social media manager will execute advertising campaigns and generate interaction by developing high-quality and unique material.
You'll also be responsible for engaging influencers, managing our community by reacting to comments and overseeing our customer service across all platforms.
In addition, the applicant will deliver excellent customer service and support to our clients.
Furthermore, you need to have relevant marketing experience to be a great social media manager.
Finally, a great social media manager should demonstrate their knowledge by developing and distributing all required technical papers.
Location
Ikota, Ajah, Lagos.
Key Responsibilities
Greet visitors and give them excellent service.
Ensure the front desk is clean.
Respond to any incoming calls and client questions.
Handle social media accounts.
Run company social media advertising campaigns.
Ability to take good pictures and videos of cakes and add captions on social media pages.
Respond to comments on each of our accounts.
Build a social media presence by maintaining a solid online presence.
Monitor the company's brand on social media.
Keep track of office supplies and equipment.
Organize your files and records.
Key Requirement
Previous experience in a similar role.
Soft Skills
Exceptional interpersonal communication skills.
Agile.
Problem-solving skills.
Creative skills.
Attention to detail.
Result oriented.
Multi-tasking skills.
Adaptability skills.
Ability to work with little supervision.
Technical Skills
Excellent writing skills.
Understanding of business analysis.
Analytical skills.
Computer savvy.
Ability to handle social media applications.
Qualification
Possess a B.Sc or H.N.D in Marketing or related field.
Explorers: An eight-month-old baby girl, Kassidy Smith was killed after falling from the backseat of her mother's car onto the road and being run over by another car.
Police said the infant and her three older siblings were unrestrained before the incident around 10.30am, Monday on North MacArthur Drive in Irving, Texas.
The Irving Police Department identified the deceased child as Kassidy Smith during a press conference Monday afternoon.
They said the baby's mother, who has not been named, is not facing charges at the moment, but investigators said that could change.
Your suggestion doesn't sit well with me. How can a full fledged woman be reminded to flush her shit and you are saying that op SHOULD KEEP ON CORRECTING HER. Is it because she's your fellow woman?
Well he loves her and cannot leave her like he said, she can't be spanked as a mode of correction as she is not a kid, getting angry and yelling at her makes her angry and she yells back..as Mr lover lover he should keep correcting and flushing shit if that's what he wants. I don't see myself dating anyone like that and don't want to sound mean by saying he should leave her which it's obviously what he should do, but people in love don't take advice.. my reason for saying he should keep correcting her.
Daniel7543: Good day nairalanders. I'll be brief. Please pardon my typo errors, I'm not a good writer.
I live in a 2 bedroom flat apartment here in Benin city. I live alone, I'm a very neat guy inside out. Infact you can eat comfortably in my toilet . I wash my toilet almost everyday.
My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now. She's from Uromi, Edo state. She's so kind, caring and beautiful. Infact, I want my unborn kids to look exactly like her. She also live here in Benin city with her parents and they're well to do. Most times we spend the weekend together.
But the issue I'm having with her is that whenever she make use of the toilet (especially poo) she don't flush, there's always water running in my flat 24/7. I have talked to her severally but she will always say..."she's sorry, that she forgot". Since we've been dating for almost 2 years now I have flushed 90% of her poo, she's not willing to change. The last time we quarreled seriously about this issue was last month, Infact I ended up apologizing just because I tried to correct her.
She came over to my house after her grandfather's funeral, same thing happened again and i was like..."is this how you went to disgrace yourself at your family's house in Uromi?“... She got angry and started yelling at me. I just have to apologize.
What happened today really got me angry. Please note. I don't really make use of the visitor's toilet because the master's room has it own toilet/bathroom which is my room. But i do wash the visitor's toilet once in a while even when nobody is using it.
So my friends came over to my house, we were all drinking, gisting and watching a football match, one of my friend wanted to urinate in the visitors toilet, the moment he entered the toilet, he rushed out immediately shouting...."Danny na wa for you o, u nor Sabi flush".... When I saw it mehn.. It was irritating. I knew my girlfriend did it when she came over last weekend. I was so ashamed. I just had to lie it was my little cousins that must have mess up the toilet when they came to visit during the week. My friends respect her so much and I don't want them to loose that respect for her.
Please nairalanders, how can I talk to her to stop this habit??. I'm really down and I've tried but my best is not enough. I love this girl so much. Please Help.
Lala
Keep telling her the way you have been doing until it sinks in and get stuck.
Endsars007: There is this lady I met about two months ago, she doesn't live in the state I resides but her grandma is from my town. She was introduced to me by her aunt. I am very close with the aunt but more closer with the aunt's mother. We got along very fast through WhatsApp call because there is no dull moment between us.
I have gone to visit her in her aunt's place and she has come to see me and stayed for some days where I live. She was accepted by everybody close to me, in fact she was given money by everyone of them.
I'm a professional, age 32, within two years I started on my own, I have my own car, and a house but remaining finishing touches. A lot of people have been disturbing me to settle down, which I seriously want to settle but things are not just working out.
Being boss of my own I decided to travel two weeks ago to see my lady with the hope of knowing her better, we agreed to stay in my friend's house. She studied abroad and she's currently doing her IT. She normally stays with her friend from Monday till Wednesday or Thursday depending on her schedule and she will go back to her aunt. When I told her I will be coming over to spend two weeks with her, she was very happy, and also worried because I will be leaving my work.
We both agreed that the first week, her aunt won't know, and the second week, we shall inform her aunt about my presence because I will be attending a wedding of my friend in that state and she will follow me.
We both enjoyed each other presence, but one thing I have observed about her even before I left my town, there might be sometime like 2 hours, she could be incommunicado, if I asked her, she will give one excuse or the other.
When we started our relationship, I had asked her whether she's in any relationship, she said no but some guys are disturbing her which she has said she cannot date them.
I observed something about her while we were together, she normally delete all her chats with people, she deleted all the pictures we snapped together, we both saved our numbers with lovely names, she will change mine anytime she leaves my presence, I noticed that about three times before confronting her. She apologized and I told her to use my name if she's not comfortable with it again but will also change her number to her name since she's the person that suggested we save each other's name with lovely names. She said she will use the lovely name.
Just last week, we were together, when a number called her different from the people she has been saying have been disturbing her, that number has called her once while she was beside me, she didn't pick the number then. Immediately I saw the name, I told her to pick the phone and put it on speaker, she picked and told the person she will call back later. Immediately, I showed facial anger, immediately she said should we end the relationship and I said if she likes. She left my friend's place. Note she normally pick people's calls and put it on speaker particularly those who are disturbing her.
That very night, she sent voice note thanking me for everything I have done for her including money.
The following day I went to her work place, she attended to me very well and told me to go to my friend's place, that she will come over to see me there by 5pm. I waited but didn't see her.
I narrated the incident to some of my friends, they advice I see her the following day before leaving for the wedding, I got to her work place, I was told she's not on duty. I made effort to located where she stays because I have not gone there before. I was lucky to get there but was told by her friend that she left the house than usual. Her friend called because she wasn't picking my calls. She lambasted me on phone. Later that night I called the friend who told me she didn't come home that night.
I was forced to inform the aunt about the misunderstanding who doesn't want to inter fare in the matter.
I later begged her, she said it's over between us that she cannot live with someone that have bad attitude or anger issues.
My question have I really shown any bad attitude or anger issue?
As hurt as you might feel, just forget about her and move on.
Ochason: I will just go straight to the point because I don’t know how to write long stories. I am 33 years old, I work in a multinational company. I was in a relationship with a coworker three years ago and we were truly both in love. I thought we were going to get married really. However, after two years of dating, this guy dumped me because he messed up with another lady at work, someone higher than both of us, a manager. He felt he had better chances with the woman cos the woman was giving him money and her car to use most times. I felt really betrayed and ashamed cos people at work knew about us and were feeling sorry for me. However, I tried to put all of that in the past. In less than a year, he and this lady got married. Not up to a year, they were having issues. They were always fighting and it became an issue of separation which they did. Now, this guy is separated and moved out of their home. He is now trying to get back to me. I do not know if his intentions are genuine or he is trying to make his soon to be ex wife jealous. He comes to tell me how he feels the woman used jazz on him cos he cannot see what he found in her now that they are married. He complains that the s*x is bad, she has bad attitude and she is lazy. When this guy started coming back for me early this year, I of course pushed him away. I was not going to be his second choice. He then got transferred to our Abeokuta branch in March. It was around that time he filed for divorce. That was when I heard from someone that the marriage was doomed from day one cos the man was always comparing me to his wife. The wife feels the husband is still in love with me cos nothing she does can match what I was to the man. They are divorced now. The marriage did not last up to a year. Few days ago, I got a very long message from the man. He was basically begging me to forget his crimes against me and that I should consider him once more . He said he will move on if I do not respond to him after this last time. I am torn and do not know what to do. There is somewhere in my heart that still has feelings for him..do you think I should give him a chance? Will the ex wife not think I had something to do with her marriage breaking up. Will it also make me look desperate …like I am going back to my vomit? What should I do?
You will get over it, don't be a 2nd choice, you deserve better.
VickyELEFAN: On Friday, me and my boyfriend and his sister planned a vacation and on our trip, we decided to branch an eatry in EKPOMA.
I was sitting at the back and his sister was sitting in the front seat. I didn't have any reason to complain since the car isn't mine and she's his sister.
When we got to LEO Restaurant & Bar, EKPOMA. We had to alight and get some food. Here in lies the drama. The sister came out and gave me her laptop bag to carry, while she walks empty handed with a high should. A shoulder as high as olumo rock.
As a humble lady, I didn't want to complain so I carried the bag. At the same time, I was trying to carry my own purse too, then the laptop bag fell down.
She insulted in the presence of many people and my boyfriend did not complain or caution her. Instead he frowned at me. When we got into the eatry again, he bought his food with big meat but me I only got a rice with fish.
I didn't complain but I was hurt. The next I heard was the brother saying, "Vicky is your ATM with you, you will have to pay for the meal". Even though I don't have money, the bill is not an issues but my own mother and father are starving. My mother has been drinking gari and cold water for over 3 months now. Why will I be paying for a rude girl and boyfriend who doesn't understand me. I am going to dumb this guy.
Don't worry fish is better than meat and you might be seen as a maid for them..so when you are ready use your legs and Waka and leave the relationship. Tienk yew
Romance / Re: Am I the only introvert looking for this kind of girl? (pics) by VanillaIyce(f): 8:43pm On Jun 05, 2022 
. I wash my toilet almost everyday. 
What about abacha
