₦airaland Forum

Good for you. it's obvious your wife doesn't know how much you earn. Some guys be hiding their income like it's the tomb of Queen of sheba. How will somebody even ask for half of her husbands salary to give her parents for Christmas sef. Maybe they have a family project. Anyway even if you don't give her all, give her more than half. And let peace reign.

Hmmmmn... someone visited me one time like that and used my toothbrush. Hmmmmn. Since that day, Hmmmmn I start to look am with side eyes. What nonsense!!!




Of cos I trowey the brush.

Please what does she do for a living?




My God! What misplaced priority. Have you noticed ever since all these demon possessed people started tromping into Nigeria, the rate of rape and child molestation has seriously increased. That's how we'll be using our money to invite evil spirits into our country .

Why not invite a woman known for her good morals and positive impact to younger women...





Anyway what do I know, I probably am not trendy maybe....


Oh Chim!!!
SMH

Stretching my neck... checking my name...

You envy him?


Ahem! Look closely and you see there's something missing in his life that he's trying so hard to buy with money.


All I see when I look at him is just a little child seeking for happiness and acceptance. It's just sad he's looking in the wrong places.



God help him.

The only person I see is Asa

amicable09:
I'm not a professional CV writer but I know a thing or two about CVs and they have always successfully passed screening stages to getting shortlisted. You can send me your CV let me look at it if you don't mind and Lero I'm sure will still offer the needed help from wherever I stop.

Nne I'm sending mine too. Thanks in advance.

amicable09:
Ok but it's not as comprehensive as the hard copy. How do I send it across to you?

Thanks honey. I got it.
Blessings!!!

Please I need a good job in Abuja. ....






can anyone post any Abuja job link for me to apply?
Thanks.

I do not. But I wish you good luck and hope you are safe. It would end well...

amicable09:
Ok but it's not as comprehensive as the hard copy. How do I send it across to you?

Would take it down in 10mins

amicable09:
But I've been doing all that "constant practising" You want to make me look like an unserious job seeker

I have two different editions of GMAT text in hard copy, I have 1 in soft copy. I have other materials too in soft copy. I am hustling as I should na, what more should I do?

Please send me your soft copy na

Onegai:
Your eyes have not cleared. You sound like this guy's wife.Because you are rushing blindly into something that will overwhelm you and like most Nigerians, are expecting positive outcome from lack of planning.

Sorry for insulting you it was this comment you made that made me angry. oya let me explain

Your baby needs to be weaned so you bring out formula and a bottle. Your child starts to scream because the affordable FrisoGold (N2500 per can) and made-in-china bottle you bought him and only wants Aptamil (N5500 per can) and Tommy Tippee bottle (N1190 per bottle). Until you buy the right formula and bottle, he insists you breastfeed him and so you find yourself awake every 2 hours (12am, 2am,3.45am...and by the way, he has to be held asleep pr he wakes himself up) like so until you get him what he is satisfied with. He finishes that can every month and poops through N10,000 monthly of disposable diapers happily. But guess what, most Nigerian men will not lie down beside you and help you carry the baby at night, they will sleep in the parlour and leave you to do it all by yourself and still go to work the next day, after having slept 4 hours in a 24 hour cycle. And the toll such behaviour and that baby will take on your marriage, your husband (a typical Naija man) will start hanging out at the viewing centre on weekends to avoid a screaming baby and you will one day cry yourself to sleep because you are so tired YOU CANNOT EVEN SLEEP. And we have not called Immunization money, doctor money, creche money, clothing money...

And that is the behaviour of a NORMAL baby. And you want this so badly because "your mates dey dia".

Nigerian people are not honest, they will never paint a clear picture because Misery loves Company.

This man's wife is a slowpoke. Two came together as One and made a plan as a team, he probably took his time to explain everything: maybe they need a cheap plot of land to build a block of flats to rent out and increase their income, maybe start a business, maybe get to know each other better in marriage (because children are the most dividing thing in marriage). Yet this idiotic wife of his went to listen to MiL and SiL (who will conveniently disappear when she needs someons to help her carry baby so she can go to market or will start grumbling that she should back the baby and go to market herself)decided to take their advice and deceitfully pull this stunt on her husband.

What next, they will plan another thing and the landlord's wife and the pepper-seller she calls "auntie" will convince her to go behind his back??

She screwed up royally and he is deliberately punishing her. She should go and beg, yes beg, and swear to never break any agreement they both come to. And delete all numbers till she is sure her stvpidity will not allow one friend from Primary School and that Uncle that never talks to her unless he wants something to sway her once she has taken a decision involving her marriage.

Madam.... you calling me a slow poke.... I see you really want trouble. I'm in a very good mood this season. God has been extra good to me... I give today for you and any other person as dash

Ewuro4:
Veave , as presva articulately explained , people delay childbirth for many reasons. Once those precious ones start rolling, you barely have time to execute other important plans on time. I understand some people see it lightly but a big deal to vast majority of people nowadays.

So, when couples make plans, the onus is on both party to stick with it. It's not a joke. Bringing a child to the world is a decision made by BOTH not one.

She made the wrong decision. He went overboard. They should sit down and talk about the next plan, how to raise that child.

Happy Sunday.

I understand what you saying ma. However, I'd not agree to get married and wait. I see children everywhere and I just want to grab one like it's mine... can't wait to start a family honestly. I hear it's not easy but na my mates dey dia. Make I join them make we do the experience together...

Why do people marry then want to wait for a period of time before giving birth. Eh op?...



Both you and your husband should have as well stayed apart until you are both financially okay before getting married.

Why Marry then start waiting?



Two of una sef no serious....





Mei kunu!!! Mei kunu!!!!....


Kawo mun kwalba daya zem sha...

CaroLyner:
is that her brother with her?
they look alike

Her husband.

queebeediva:
I love her pair of shoe wishing she could dash me!

I love people like you who see only good things. I see only good things too....

This is real life. Not some people I know that looked like ojuju after using all the mud in the clay factory close to my house as makeup for their wedding.
















What do I know.... I prooooly am talking cus I'm broke and boo less.

I'm not Lindale Ikeji but who wants to marry me

Chai!!!

Please oh. Is the bill and melinda gates foundation still for ajebo. My God!!! What happened to the poor kids who actually needs all the attention and help they can get. Why go to a school where kids pay as much as a million naira per term?








MY FATHER MY FATHER. I REFUSE TO BE POOR!!!!

I thought you are supposed to teach your students so they become better than you? Well, they're making their money and I'm not
Soooo... I pass by quietly

Something needs to be done about her necklines.... not so fine. She should loose some weight I guess. Plus her make up doesn't match her facial structure most especially her lipline

ojehtoju:
Na wa for Nigerians o. We beef and hate for no reason. A blogger buying a house in the most expensive area in Nigeria...thats worth the fuss. She dropped a modelling career to be a blogger, something no Nigerian has done; bold step. Now she is made and celebrating her success, instead of us to learn a lesson from it, some of us are here castigating her. Wetin concern u if she marry or not? Na marriage give her the life she get so? When the time comes and she is celebrating her marriage na una go first say why she dey show off her marriage if na she b d first. She is an inspiration for us all to take bold strides in life. I'm happy for her and I think y'all should be too and stop hating.

God bless you. This is just to show you the amount of bitter, envious and jealous people we have in this country. And you say our problem is corruption? Hell no! Our problem is the black heart.

adeaks:
Dunno why she is publicizing so much the fact that she bought a "mansion" in Banana Island. The Dangotes and Adenugas whom she has been so proud to claim as neighbors did not create so much fuss when they moved to Banana Island.

Dangote's house. His choice.
Adenuga's house. His choice.








Linda's house... Her choice.







Where is your own. Stop hating so God can help you m

I'd be richer in few years to come



Love them both...

Congrats... wonder where Mr man is. You better come and wife me now oh. I'd be richer than Linda and I no want where is your husband oh. Mummy folorunsho is not being asked that. So you better come let's start now oh..

Don't know why. But I'm not too cool with his songs. His voice, lyrics, beat and tone.... I don't even understand the genre of music he does... what should he be winning awards for?...





If you say he's one beautiful man I'll agree. But songs?..... kai!

Maybe it's just me tho

goldenruby:
I am the only Daughter with 2 soldiers. not been easy, no one to share my Outfits with, no one to share Gossips with, my mum has been my All. One reason I want my first child to be a Beautiful Girl

I have two sisters(younger). Their wahala no be here. I can beat my chest and tell you I have no privacy. I'm not allowed to own any property. Desired clothes, shoes and bags are coveted at will without permission. All in all, I love them to bits. The only problem I have is that fear of failing them and not living up to expectations. Or not setting a good standard for them to follow. That has just been my driving force and encouragement. I know I cannot misbehave because I have people watching with keen interest looking up to me. It's been a good ride so far. I love my sisters like ogini? Not even Parting with a brand new dress I have not worn can make me wish otherwise

ebyjoyken:
Ok thank you. But I have been waking her up. For like six months now, she doesn't still wake up herself to wee.

You started late...
Anyway now is still good time. Don't worry she would adjust. For the rest kids start from 22months

Oga story teller. Tell us the whole truth. I refuse to sympathise with you until I hear everything.





A man cannot just come to take his daughter without trying to settle fight just like that.
Your mother engaging in physical fights with them leaves a loophole in this story. Besides, she cannot be sitting down quietly and looking at them as they carry their daughter and he will just come and bite her. Is he a dog?

Kai!. Stop there!


Lai Muhammed