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am so sorry op. I understand what you have been through cause I have been there too. By God grace, our ear will hear in perfection as it was meant to be in Jesus name Amen

Ojiniman:
Hi

First things first. I am a nairalander of old standing but chose to open a new email to make this post knowing fully well how terrible people can be particularly here on nairaland.

You see, my problem is rather odd. too odd but the solution seems so simple and yet so impossible as well.

I have suffered from a strange hearing ailment nearly 22 years. This thing destroyed my life and still won't let me be. It hit me while I was about to travel overseas for university education and life has been a daily struggle since then. I'm 37 now and still hopeless but i refuse to give up and so in addition to trying all other things, here I am setting up a thread with an anonymous identity which will shield me from the insults of insensitivity Nigerians and yet offer me the rare opportunity of finding that solution to my problem.

My problem is this... I have a wealthy uncle who has sworn that my father's family will not prosper. Unfortunately, i am the first son and so was a prime target of so many spiritual attacks right from a young age. And this eventually led to my situation.

When my parents were alive, i was taken to all kinds of hospitals and churches to kind a solution to my hearing problem which by the way is partial not total. But it is enough to make make it difficult for me to hear normal conversation and so though I hear things like a shout or car horns or even spoken words in raised voices now and then, I can hear normally.

With the death of my parents six years ago, I find myself alone and under so much pressure that suicide seem a blissful escape. But i refuse to choose that path for 3 reasons.

1. My uncle who deafest my father must not defeat me even with all the charms in this world at his service.
2. Everywhere I go, prophets keep telling me that my destiny is very bright, far greater than that of my uncle and God says it must be found.
3. I'm a fighter not a quitter

With the death of my parents, I now live alone in a one room apartment in Lagos and I barely manage to pay the rent because as you may guess, getting a good job is so hard for me it is impossible. I can't even get a laborer's job cos of this hearing issue. When my father died 5 years ago, i was lost and without help (I lost my mother at very young ago). I visited a church where I was asked to sleep over night that God would give me a talent to help me live and earn an income. I did and in a short time I discovered this talent and found that it had the ability to shoot me to fame on a world wide basis. In fact it is doing so now but too slowly as it requires which investment in capital which i do not have at all.

Now two different prophets have told me that if i want to see the end of my problem i should get married to a God fearing woman who will help me. Incidentally, both prophets come from the same church where God gave me my talent in one night. One of those prophets is a women.... member with the gift of prophecy.

But do I need a prophet to tell me to get married? I'm 37 and I feel the loneliness everyday. Even in my current business, I need the help of a woman who has my interest at heart you know .. help me take phone calls and meet people on my behalf... things i cannot do due to this hearing problem. She can even do more for me in this business where a second opinion is always required. Because of the absence of even little capital and a helper I'm making peanuts instead of good money.

But there something even bigger!

This talent I am talking about is just a small part of the main one which is connected to my destiny, my mind and my unusual intelligence. I can hit peak in a year but i can't do it alone. I've tried and failed. I said to myself ... i will make the money and marry the most beautiful woman there is but in over ten years of trying i failed. The loneliness, the frustration, bitterness of life... its just much a combination and then the pressure form my home.

I have set up this thread here on Religion section because of the nature of the solution to my problem.

I have been told directly by the prophets to try my best and marry but only to a God fearing woman who will boost my faith and fortify me to attack my problem correctly. The same voice that told me God would give me a talent 5 years ago told me now that if i get married, i will start seeing changes in 3 month and life will never be the same again.

How I need your help
Those churches and those mosques you attend, that's where the God fearing women are both those brought up correctly and those seeking God's help but more importantly, the number of single ladies who go church are so many now. In my condition and in the little corner of Laos I live in, i cannot just start storming every church and mosque in search of women! But it doesn't just end there... you see quite a few times over the years I've seen a woman and my inability to communicate spoils things for me. The last time this happened was four years ago... auniversty graduate from UNI-IMO. It was a disaster that put me off wooing women for good.

The woman I marry must have to be approached careful on my behalf and the foundations laid for me... I have come to realize this only too well. I have quite a few relatives but they do me more harm than good so I'm all alone and If i don't get help soon, I'm finished.. there is no hope or streetlight in my heart anymore and it is by that frustration that i have come here.

Are you the overseer of a church or just a member? Are you aware of the high number of women looking for husbands now? Funnily enough that is the solution to my problem but she must be truly God fearing and not a pretender.

If you will help me in some way, good heart that you are, then please contact me via the email below..

omegastar293@gmail.com

My main means of communication si whatsapps but i cannot drop my number here since i want to remain anonymous.

They say one man's meat is another man's poison, how true. But then beggars can't really be choosers. My only requirements in a women is that she be above average build and somewhat independent.

Thank you.

Oh my God. I never knew there someone like me out there. I thought am the only one with this shameful condition. is like am reading my story written by another person. Jesus!!!!

studM:
Uwc ms..r u on WhatsApp..

yes

studM:
Very well ms..hope ur enjoying ur hols

very much. thanks

the OP is right. l can relate with number 2

Manofvalor1:
Am joe.33yrs,tall,handsome & working.4rm delta sta.te,a minister. I need a well behaved,christian working/self employed preety lady 20-30yrs & based in benincity for marriage.08060561844

hello.

humblemikel:
all these prayer warriors in the house

prayers change a lot of things. am a living witness to this . am not the daddy GO, Bishop or apostle type. am my own prophet. and it works for me. try it.

ChiChilolo:
I've tried to stop having sex with him but whenever we're together. I don't know how I just fall for him and before you know it we're pulling the sheets.

I don't really know how to end it then I resent him afterwards.

I understand you. I feel like that too.
it's caused by the fear of God in u.
I kept getting off and on with my bf then. until I told him that if we can't be without pulling the sheets we should as well off the light. I know it was not easy but I overcame by the grace of God. I have since stay off relationships but am very much happy now. no more feelings of guilt and the fear of breaking God's word. may God help you out.

studM:
Hello ms

How do you do sir

3,4&5 is missing here

I will advice you to pray about it. some people are just so wicked. they will never remember you when you are in the pot of poverty but they will start shouting your name the moment you hammered. when next they come with their troubles, make it clear to them that you are just respecting them as elders n in-laws. but since they don't want respect , you are ready to handle them the best way they deserved. this will make them to think twice. above all pray. pray and pray. may God change their minds towards you in Jesus name Amen

vuc1:
Still asking myself why some people especially some females feel the whole world and the essence of life all revolves round breasts and buttocks.

very bemusing n irritating

what exactly is wrong with this government

following. nice one

Simbels:
That's the spirit, if you can conceive it, believe in it, then you can achieve it

Now, answering your questions:

1. I have said it before and i will repeat it again, You don't need to know how to make dress patterns, I promised i will tell you where to get tonnes of beautiful design patterns for all garment types free of charge; all you just need, is to be able to spot beautiful designs and send to us then they will be made no matter the complexity, at affordable cost.

2. The duration of production from the date of order depends on the quantity of your order, but we can deliver up to 50 pieces in days.

Thanks for your questions, If you have further questions do not hesitate to inquire.

Regards.

thank you sir for the quick response. l look forward to birthing this dream. God bless you

I must confess that you are a blessing. am no longer the same ever since I read your post. the only thing stopping me now is fund. but it will be sort out soon.

but I have two questions that needs immediate answer
1. how do I make a dress pattern

2. how long is the duration of the production from the date of order (days?, weeks or months?)
thanks for your quick response sir

the shame this APC government has bought on Nigerian can't be wash off in a life time. spit

sorry for the loss dear. those relatives are just too lazy n wicked. wanting to reap where they didn't sow

Brokenangel2:
How do you know if there's anything you did, when he insist you've done nothing? Pity from public? Public that don't even know me in real life? No I don't seek that. I just felt like lifting the pains off my chest a little. For the records, what I wrote here is a tip of the iceberg. I'm not saying I'm an angel.. . But if God decides to judge I and him, he'll die before the end of today because he has done abominable things to me.

I believe you. my sister passed through this same route. until the idiot lost his job before he came to release the value of what he has at home. don't give up dear. God will fight for you. may peace return to your home. in Jesus name Amen

Oblang:
Wailers never see anything. They will all develop heart attack when buhari win again in 2019. Must everything be abt Jonathan. This man don comout office more than 2yrs ago...

yet the only achievement of your president for the past two years now, is to" quote and misquotes" the same man at every given opportunity .shame.

least I forgot, how far with the war in aso rock between the president and the heroics rats

l remembered that even Jonathan himself told us that ""Nigerians will miss him when he is gone. "" how true this has turned out to be. l love Jona, so humble, meek and calm. Above all he was a man of peace. God bless GEJ

see them. confused set of people

Greenthumb:
In case you've forgotten, let me refresh your memory. He took an oath to defend and protect the unity of Nigeria. So if you think he'll just sit and watch a section of the country decide to be outlaw, then you mistaking.

BSS or whatever they're called are a rogue group and can't be allowed to fester.

yes He took an oath to protect the unity of the country. But have you ever ask your self why buhari is saying and doing things that can destroy the unity of the nation. If you want peace, you must follow the rules of peace. you can never developed a nation using war. peace!!!

I hope when this war starts buhari and his family will not jet out of aso rock.

richeazy:
See the Monitor lizard I caught today (pics attached)


Oh mehn lunch is settled

Pepper soup loading

Nairalanders come and join me celebrate

cc lalasticlala

no be me and you o

NwaAmaikpe:


Before nko?
Only a foolish woman will expect her husband who has relocated to the US to still think of her.

Imagine a man that has probably lived his whole life in Nteje,
A man who is used to seeing women in wrapper and chewing sticks now all he sees are pretty girls on the street of Beverly Hills and bikini-clad ladies in Miami.

You can't visit Rodeo drive, Melrose, South Beach or Santa Monica and still get an erection at the thought of one local woman in Nigeria.


The woman should count her loss and forget the wise man.

when will you be sensitive and serious for once?

Open is on point . Mtn is very wicked. I almost wept when I did covered that my 1k data plan didn't get to two weeks. Despite the fact that am very careful while surfing. Am thinking of switching to glo

vladoz:
Now someone is asking for help nobody wants to help... God should please touch someone's heart to bless this lady with bright future mbok!

Amen. thank you sir

SalamRushdie:
I have given out more than that fool ..you think everyone is poor like your family members shei . I don't dash people brand new TEAR RUBBER cars and money ..I am not or toke mate in anything so face your front mumu ..You think I am a God forsaken idiot like you shei ..please stop fooling yourself

oga abeg no vex. can you please help me with a little cash to add to my capital for my fashion designer business.

have been wondering what the world could look like if God decided to delete sex from our memories.


I feel 80% of the world problems will disappear.
feel free to share your thoughts

hahahahahaha i know it. this pretender called OBJ has no shame . well i have already polished my voter's card. just waiting for the hour to come