₦airaland Forum

paulsibility:
I don't know how people find it so easy to go back to their ex. If you know you can' let go why leave him/her in the 1st place. I will rather remain single than date a girl twice. That same thing that separated us in the 1st place will always be around. We can best be friends . In your case op, since it is a genotype issue, make him understand that the future is more important than any romantic feeling he is having now. Pray for him to get someone he likes, . Perhaps he will free you..... let ex remain ex...

I get your point and all but you should also consider the fact that reasons for separations vary and are often complicated sometimes,it could be distance and then they move closer later,it could be immaturity on your part that led to the break up,it is however advisable to make sure one door is properly closed before opening another,some people just jump into a new relationship after a breakup without totally closing the previous chapter.

Alero3Arubi:
i am not expecting too much.
infact i dont ask for much, not to talk of 'too'...

Expecting too much from someone does not have to do with money or gifts alone.

Alwaysking:
You are a fool for thinking she like him, now that he's done with her, he have pushed her aside. this goes to all those cheap girls that can't abstain from sex till marriage, to those ones that would open their punny for suya and youghurt, May God never make me encounter such girls. I'm not in support of what my pal did either and I have told him to delete the pictures and videos.

You and your friend are bigger fools to think every girl sleeps with you cos of what you buy for her,are you also abstaining from sex till marriage?,if them bill una now,na una go still come here come shout "why are all ladies gold diggers", maybe she slept with him cos of what he bought,maybe not,but don't come here making noise as if you just discovered one big secret.

Alwaysking:
Mehn I couldn't believe some girls can be this cheap, imagine giving out your punny just for tantalizer meatpie and coke, when my friend told me this I just thought he was joking. or bragging foolishly I never knew he was saying the truth until he showed me her pictures and short clips of their sexcapades, I was gobsmacked because I thought she's responsible and won't be easily laid the first time my friend introduced me to her. I actually don't understand what girls of this generation are turning into, infact I pray never to have a female child because this is getting out of hand.

You are a disgrace to manhood,the girl probably slept with him cos she liked him....ODE!!!.

Mrbolt555:
olosho i ask u for any advise? Ugly nonsense

Lol....diaris God oooo.....you carry the girl for mind before now?

Wallade:
I think that agreement of once/month is fine for now, pray your husband does not catch you.

Make a ridiculous demand of money from the client and arrange another beautiful officer of the bank to manage the account at the bank. If he starts seeing a more beautiful officer who is ready to play the game, he will be persuaded to let you go.

If you knew men like this you would understand getting him another girl will hardly do the trick,I am sure he has more beautiful girls than her,his joy comes from a sense of dominance,conquest of another mans wife,ordinarily knowing she had gotten married should have been enough to let her go.

waywardpikin:
Why do you say back in 2016 like it was 10 years ago? Nigga that was last year meaning that you are 19 this year. That's all I have to contribute to this thread. Carry on.

Lol...why you wicked like this na .

NoMoreTrolling:
okay if banky w made wizkid, why can't he make another wizkid then

I'm not saying wizzy should be ungrateful, no, but, how long will you carry a favor you did for someone?

wasn't it even a business? or did banky allow wizzy to keep 100% of all the money made between them?

But banky is not complaining now,its just hustling blogers trying to survive by making an issue out of nothing .

Profwriter:
Please I am also interested

You can call me too.

Eddodoh:
Great Nlander,
Pls, I need suggestions on business That can be started with d above amount without a shop in Kaduna.

Preferably supply or distribution business.

I did not get your email,you can reach me on 08081246412.

winnar:
Gbam. this is one biz i have been looking at to do.

I call it Agroprenue. Lol.

Supplies to eatery, hotels, hostels etc.

But, it also requires space where one can be storing or packing the products.

True....but depends on who your supplying to and how often they need your produce,I supply to a major agro produce company with branches all over Nigeria,I buy and supply directly to the company,no need for storage,make supplies as many times as possible weekly,requires your full attention though.

historyworld030:
Let me make this clear to you: Edo state is part of the ancient Benin Kingdom. The capital of Benin Kingdom is Benin City.
OK, I hope you will no longer confuse Benin City and Benin Kingdom. Contrary to what most of you non Edos think, The Oba of Benin is actually the Oba of Benin Kingdom, not just Benin City. The actual Title is Omo n'Oba N'Edo. Now how do you want us to accept the crowning of a "king" over a part of our Kingdom ? Look, this is not normal. If the ijaws want to crown themselves then they should do that in their ancestral land Bayelsa, not in our Kingdom. Please learn about our history before making funny comments. Being an indigene of Edo state is being a subject of the Oba of Benin! Edo state is not like those your artificial states which were created out of thin air. We Edo actually had an advanced country before the creation of nigeria to which we were included after losing a war to the british. Learn our history, I have the same advise to the ijaw migrants who think they can make false claims and seize our land.

It's a good thing your so proud of your heritage,Benin kingdom is the greatest kingdom in Nigeria!!,and very advanced,other tribes and kingdoms are artificial!!,point noted ....oya shift.

historyworld030:
You don't seem to understand that they were crowning a king over a part of an other kinding !
Imagine if the Obi of Onitcha were to go and crown a king over the towns in kano which are mostly inhabitated by the Igbo.
Imagine if the president of israel were coming to england to crown a king over the towns mostly inhabitated by jews.
What the hell is wrong with you guys ?

They did not claim the kingship of the benin kingdom,or Edo as a whole,just king over their own people, those guys have Edo as their state of origin,they just happen to be ijaw,have you not seen different tribes in a state before?,its just like telling the delta Igbo person that he is not from delta state and so can not be a king to his own people in his village because he is igbo,
What the hell is wrong with you?.

historyworld030:
You don't seem to understand that they were crowning a king over a part of an other kinding !
Imagine if the Obi of Onitcha were to go and crown a king over the towns in kano which are mostly inhabitated by the Igbo.
Imagine if the president of israel were coming to england to crown a king over the towns mostly inhabitated by jews.
What the hell is wrong with you guys ?

They did not claim to be king of the benin kingdom,or Edo,just king over their own people, those guys have Edo as their state of origin,they just happen to be ijaw,have you not seen different tribes in a state before,its just like telling the delta Igbo person that he is not from delta state and so can not be a king to his own people in his village.

historyworld030:
Can the chinese in china-town elect a chinese president over themselves or carve out "their land" to be part of china ?
So please speak sense. Don't you see any problem with ijaw chiefs from bayelsa coming to the Benin Kingdom (of which the entire Edo state is a part) to crown a so called king over a part of the Benin Kingdom ?

You just had to be insultive,it is you who should be sensible,what has a people choosing their tribal chief got to do with this your example,abeg shift.

YOLO1:
Tell me more about the business please

Basically, there are big companies that require most of these agro products,grains especially as raw materials for their products,and their demands are hardly ever met,you buy from farmers and supply to them,you can supply as much as you can get and you will be paid,you can even supply more than once a week if you have the capacity to,ur supply deal has to be with a good company and you have to have a good understanding of the markets,as prices varies in different markets,depends on the product you want to supply.Working with the right people is key.

jackpot:
What if Daniel later disappoints you?

What if Joe turns out to be a monster??,life is about taking risks,there are no guarantees,either of her choices may turn out good or bad,Daniel has been a great partner with vision according to her,she bately knows joe,marraige is no joke,she should look deep within and pray about it.I would go with Daniel though.

Mariinee:
Ahh..bless you. This is the one thing I have been trying to explain but civilized and exposed people keep twisting the argument. SMH.

As in ehn....you try explaining to our sophisticated people here and they call you a surpoter of rape.Its frustrating.

WrathOfHadez:
Simple logic. Even western laws frown at indecent exposure and nudity.

These girls don’t just know what the sight of a nakèd firm female flesh does to a healthy male.

The same point I have been trying to make some dude here understand but he is more interested in winning an argument than see reason.You don't go walking about half naked in the name of freedom to wear what I wish.

raumdeuter:
Do you also have a list of what you wear, Do you also apply this common sense and not wear body hugs, shorts or even go bare chested for fear of getting raped

I give up man,whatever rocks your boat.

Daeylar:
Maybe you should try and be smart?

Your discussion started with your refusal or inability to read and comprehend. Or your decision to just be obtuse. Your pick.

I wonder how " Even if a woman is nàked does not give anyone the right to rape her. " equates to "someone encouraging girls to go unclad."


I will say it a 1001 times, even If a woman is nàked it does not give any fuçking body the right to rape her.

OK.

raumdeuter:
Like you have a right to wear whatever you like and that doesnt give any psycho the right to touch or assault you, so does a girl

If you are saying there is no way you dress that is an excuse for a psycho to attack you then the same should be extended to any female

if you can wear body hugs, tight jeans, boxers or anything you want, so should a girl be free to wear what she wants and not excuse any attack on her person

Yes she should be free to wear what ever she wants but she should be wise too,you can wear a bikini in a pool or beach but can't in a rough street with criminal elements,it is just common sense.

raumdeuter:
That is why I am asking you what are the precautions you take so you dont get attacked and raped by a Gay rapist, a psycho or someone physically stronger than you

Maybe women who are victims of rape can learn from the wisdom too and avoid those circumstances like you do

Lol...I take precautions related to circumstances and problems I face,and the precautionary measures I talked about was in life generally so I don't understand what you plan on achieving by trying to narrow things down to me being raped and what i would do to prevent it,sometimes bad things just happens to good people irrespective of what precautions they take,but take precautions the must as it reduces certain risks,and don't forget this whole discussion started with someone encouraging girls to go unclad.Stop trying to be mischievious.

raumdeuter:
That is why I am asking you what are the precautions you take so you dont get attacked and raped by a Gay rapist, a psycho or someone physically stronger than you

Maybe women who are victims of rape can learn from the wisdom too and avoid those circumstances like you do

Lol...I take precautions related to circumstances and problems I face,and the precautionary measures I talked about was in life generally so I don't understand what your driving at,sometimes bad things just happens to good people irrespective of what precautions they take,but take precautions the must as it reduces certain risks,and don't forget this whole discussion started with someone encouraging girls to go unclad.Stop trying to be a smartass.

raumdeuter:
Do gays have a motel or do men who rape women have a motel where they stay? Girls who get raped I doubt they went to a motel called rapist motel

If you are wearing boxers in your compound or on your street, and a gay man in your compound or street grabs you and rapes you. How do you prevent that? Should we also blame you for tempting the rapist

You went to play ball and you removed your shirt showing your bare chest, you wear a body hugging top and tight jeans if this tempts a gay guy on the field and he rapes you can we say you were the one who tempted him?

Oga please stop misinterpreting my comments,I condemn rape in every form and this is the third time I am stating it,I am all for prevention,do what you will as an individual but be careful as not everyone is normal,some people are just psychos,that's the way the world is,so one has to be careful and be guided by circumstances around,some things you can do in certain places but can't in some other places not because it is not your right to do those things but because doing it might put you in danger,its called wisdom. Don't know why you are finding it hard to understand my point.

raumdeuter:
If you walk naked, or if you wear boxers and no shirt or if you wear a body hugging top and tight jeans

Does that give a gay man or anyone the right to grab you and rape you?

Like I earlier stated,rape in any form or for any reason is wrong and I condemn it,but I doubt I will wear a boxers and enter a gay motel,its common sense,not everybody is normal,why not prevent certain situations from even arising.

Daeylar:
They love presenting this argument but don't see where it shows men as weak or unable to control themselves,

But the moment women use it against them and call them weak, they rise up in arms

Even if a woman is nàked does not give anyone the right to rape her.

I am not too happy when I see things like even if a lady is naked the man has no right,we must never encourage indecency,true I condemn rape in every form but for Christ sake the world is not a perfect place and we must always be guided by circumstances around us in all our dealings,it is very wrong for anybody to enter your house and rob you but you still have to lock your doors because not everyone is normal,its just like walking in a dangerous area at night in a skimpy dress in the name of this ur argument,thay will be very dumb,you can report and have a rapist locked up but you will remain scarred.Let's please be wise.

Tobiegal:
Am sorry man, bt i think u need 2 get a life!

U want a gal to fill d vaccum in ur life wen u ave not fully discovered wot u realy want,

femland, i think u shd take tyme out n discover urself, den woman can come in. The woman aint ur problem, ur problem is U.

My thoughts exactly.

ladycomfort:
Guys sha. That was how one idiot wasted 6 yrs of his life not mine.

Well...if the guy was comfortable enough to take care of a family fine,if not I see no reason you should be angry with him,na sand una go chop?.

TheTrueApostle:
I can never have 2 mother's, but I can have multiples wives as I choose.

The wife u see today, would NEVER have accepted you, if u weren't made to be who you are by your mother. Guys should stop this foolishness.

A girl can always be replaced, but a mother cannot.


It is only insanity that will make me(or anyother man) love his wife more.
The day any woman starts that contest is the day any rubbish we are having comes to an end.

Nonsense...

Your right in a sense but ur assertion to me seems too harsh,this I blame on the OP for making it seem like wife and mother are competing for your love,there is no basis for comparison,a man who would treat the mother bad after everything she has contributed to make him who he is,is not yet a man but a child,likewise a wife is surposed to be someone you have "CHOSEN" and comimited to build your life with,to nurture her growth as she nurtures yours as you both journey through life,it is not you,ur wife and then others,your wife and you should be one,at least for the christians thats what the bible says,it is like having to choose between urself and your mother,there should never be any basis for that.Many people do not understand the enormity of what they are doing when they decide to get married,many more do not even understand what love really is,they do not ask and seek answers to the most important questions like the meaning of life and all.There is non and must never beba comparison between ur wife and mother,the kind of attention and love your wife needs is different from the one your mother needs.

nextstep:
But the great one lived a very fulfilled life. What joy is there to live till 100 if you don't spend it really living and enjoying all what life has to offer?

Lol.....and the best way to live and enjoy life is to keep having baby mamas Abi...OK o.

faithoni:
pls am interested.can I av ur contact

I would advice you invest in tangible things will moderately good returns with a certainty you will not loose your money,rather than invest in massive return investment with a high risk of loosing your money,agro products supply would be best I think,been doing it and its been good so far.