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Crime / Re: Have You Every Failed So Much In Life That You Doubt Your Ability To Succeed? by vheckthor1: 12:28pm On Aug 21
Rickbronz:
hello
hi
Crime / Re: Have You Every Failed So Much In Life That You Doubt Your Ability To Succeed? by vheckthor1: 12:45pm On Aug 06
Glory to God things are changing bit by bit, income is getting steady, I have my own rented place and a small car.
Thank God all the way, Better days ahead.
Please guys don't turn to crime or scamming, Keep up the faith, we can make legit income without crime.

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Programming / Re: Laptop Powerbank For Programmers, 12hrs To 18hrs Runtime by vheckthor1: 10:20pm On Jul 01
Can you sell pack 3 for 50k?
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How Lucrative Is Decagon Software Engineering Training Program? by vheckthor1: 10:05pm On Jul 01
The Decagon program is a rip-off, you basically gonna learn things yourself. If you have 3.8-4M (including interest on loan) to dash people then go for the program, else Get a good laptop, a nice Internet connection and pick a programming language and follow the path, you will be better off
Travel / Re: Nigerians At Ukraine by vheckthor1: 11:18am On Jun 28
Can one get the visa without paying for Visa Assurance fee? Anyone done that before?

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Travel / Re: Nigerians At Ukraine by vheckthor1: 11:17am On Jun 03
[quote author=Genevach post=102321015][/quote]

Hello, I have responded to your email please check your email
Travel / Re: Nigerians At Ukraine by vheckthor1: 11:06am On Jun 02
Genevach:
HEY GUYS,
ANYONE GOING IN SEPTEMBER LET'S CONNECT. MY DESTINATION IS KHARKIV/KHARKOV.


Bro please I need your help on this Kharkiv university

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Travel / Re: Nigerians At Ukraine by vheckthor1: 11:00am On Jun 02
pesdanny:


Hello I also applied to Kharkiv National Technical University

How did you apply and how much is the total cost
Because someone is telling me to pay $600 for an invitation to National Technical University Kharkiv
Programming / Re: Who's You Role Model(programmer) by vheckthor1: 9:34pm On Mar 06
Scott Handlseman
Romance / Re: How Do I Escape This Ravaging After-blast Effect by vheckthor1: 7:00pm On Mar 05
RavagedHeart:
I had to create a new account for this thread. Please try to read everything, so you would know what to say

It's been more than a year now, but I still hurt badly. I entered a relationship with this girl when I was in my 200L and she was still a jambite. She was beautiful, but it didn't show because she was suffering at that time. I was equally a handsome campus guy. Everything was fine between us and the journey was so sweet. In her, I found all the important things I needed in a relationship, and the love blossomed. Though she's got her bad sides, which is pride and stubbornness. I overlooked this believing love conquers all. At some point, I began to give her a third of my upkeep every month.
Fast forward to early last year, she was already in her final year. One thing led to another and we had to cohabit, and this required me to move to the state she schools. I quit my job in my state and focused on getting something better in the Internet space, and it worked for me. The whole arrangement felt like it was made in heaven. We lived happily like in the movies and more money was starting to flow in.
All this while, everything I earned was channeled to seeing her through the university, as she's got almost no financial support from her home. I'll say I was her provider 85% of the time all through her school days.
When I got the big job online that paid roughly $1,500 per month, money became surplus. I began to polish and furnish her with everything she needs to look good. She responded well to the spending and within months she dressed and looked like the daughter of a politician. During all this time, I never thought to invest or even polish myself to look better. I was only focused on her happiness.
Before we began to cohabit, I had some girls I do with, because of the distance between my state of residence and her school. Besides, she is not the type that fancies sex. Because she knows she's not giving me enough shots (like once in 4months), she doesn't make serious quarrel when she finds out I am doing other girls.
Within a few weeks of staying together, she asked me to stop sleeping around, that she's not comfortable with that anymore. She said I should leave all my girls that she would give me anything I want from a girl. I was convinced and that was what I even wanted all along. Cheating has never been my ideal. So, I left all my girls and clung to her. We both agreed to marry and everything was good, at least for a while.
After two months of this faithful arrangement, and about 3months into my dream job. Something happened.
Out of curiosity, she went searching through my phone and reading all my chats with other girls. She did this for weeks especially when I'm asleep after some shots.
What she found in her search made her believe I was still dating one of the girls.
One morning, she broke up with me saying that I still cheat on her. She broke up a 5years relationship. I tried to explain and make her understand her assumptions are wrong. I even called the accused girl in her presence with the phone on speaker and asked her to tell my girlfriend my position in her life. The accused girl confirm it to her that we are now just casual friends and nothing more than that. But my girlfriend didn't believe that. She changed overnight. She began to disrespect me she stopped doing anything with me and even left the house and stayed where I believe is her girlfriend's place (though not sure). I took her as my everything and when she left, my whole life crumbled before my eyes. I turned from a vibrant intelligent and happy lad, into a depressed, unproductive, and confused person.
The emotional blast caused me to lose concentration and I began to make mistakes with my job. I woke up one morning to see a sack email sitting in my inbox. This was the second blast and at that moment I wished I could die. Everything that made me happy was no more with me, and I cried most of the time.
When she comes home to take clean clothes and drop dirty ones, she'll just walk in and out of the rain like I wasn't there. Even when it's written all over me that I was dying for the heartbreak, she seemed very happy unconcerned seeing me in that state.
This went on for like 5months. During this time. She still comes home only to eat the food I cooked and to change her clothes, after that she's gone again. At some point I noticed a little remorse in her as she began to come home more frequently, but her pride won't allow her talk to me, not to talk of apologise.
One day I thought I should apologize for doing nothing. I called her to come home. She came home that evening and I asked her to forgive anything I did to annoy her and come back to me. She reluctantly accepted with the clause of no more sex and no extreme romance. I objected to this because I can't stay without doing something once in a while. She said that I'm not yet serious, packed some clothes and left the house. She never talked to me except she needs money which I still gave, thinking it would bring her back. But I thought wrong.
This was how it went on till I went bankrupt and completely broken.
I continued trying to get her back as that seemed to be the only thing that can restore life to the creature I have become. But the more I tried, the more I was burnt.
Because she's now polished and looking the path, she began rolling with very rich men as some used to drop her off with exotic cars when she comes to pick clean clothes. When I try asking she'd tell me he's just asked her out but nothing is happening.
After one year of suffering from heartbreak induced depression. I decided to help my self. I began to pick up girls again, I tried having a lot of sex, but it only helped for a moment. No matter how good my new girls are, and how well they do the do. No one seemed to fill that hole in me. I still hurt and I'm still depressed.

Fast forward to this day. She's gone, my money and dream job also gone. But the hurt and emotional damage remain. I had to go back to my family house as my finance doesn't permit me paying rent, and my new business is not receiving the best of efforts.

Now the problem is. How do I move on? How do I get to heal? How do I find the vibrant and happy me that once was? How do I erase her memory so I can find love again? How do I become a man again because time is no longer surplus like that for me?
It's been more than a year but I still feel betrayed and broken, as if it all happened yesterday. cry cry


Mods please. Let this get the maximum exposure

Lies from the pit of hell
Programming / Re: Thread For International Remote Tech Jobs - US, UK, Canada, Germany, UAE... by vheckthor1: 11:11am On Feb 13
getting a foreign remote gig no b joke o
Crime / Re: Have You Every Failed So Much In Life That You Doubt Your Ability To Succeed? by vheckthor1: 12:29am On Feb 06
We are still in the game, we won't give up
Travel / Re: GENERAL Irish (student)visa & Work Permit-New THREAD*** by vheckthor1: 12:41am On Jan 20
how do I go about a work visa, I am into IT and I am officially fed up with Nigeria

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Programming / Re: How Do i Create An App Without Coding by vheckthor1: 12:10am On Jan 20
pay a Developer to build for you, you won't write any code like that

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Programming / Re: Need Good Advices, Precisely From Those With Remote Jobs by vheckthor1: 12:06am On Jan 20
cixak95211:
@gimakon
Going through your post. I can authoritatively deduce that you've been a developer for "12 days" and NOT "12 years" as you claimed.
1 day of professional coding == 1 year of "on the couch" coding.
Nobody with even 2 years of professional coding experience will ask these kinda questions you just asked.
Feel free to refute my claim with evidence and I'll hook you up to a remote job, guaranteed !!!
Boss I beg I need that remote job link
Programming / Re: Programmer Needed In Abuja For Part Time Job by vheckthor1: 12:01am On Jan 20
1 person fluent in all that for that pay? you must be joking
Programming / Re: Funny Programming Memes. Just For Laughs by vheckthor1: 11:41pm On Dec 08, 2020
Dizzyrascal:
grin as a technical guy yourself what is the feeling like under that kind of scenerio? It must be very awkward.

I will be like "kuku kill me"

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Programming / Re: Funny Programming Memes. Just For Laughs by vheckthor1: 1:44pm On Dec 07, 2020
somewhere now

Programming / Re: Why Nigerian Apps Are ALWAYS Buggy by vheckthor1: 10:47pm On Nov 21, 2020
the OP is just a noise maker, let him show us his app and we will point out a hundred bugs in it.
Romance / Re: Why Are Unattractive People Treated Badly? by vheckthor1: 1:14am On Nov 08, 2020
reasonable topics like this won't be on the front page.

From experience,I know what it feels like to be an outcast and a rejected fellow, it's not please, anyone that is different from what is expected is termed abnormal. Left handed users (of which I am) suffer the same discrimination, we are treated like inepts some are even forced to Change to right hand.
Business / Re: Can I Get A 10k Loan With Only My Bvn Details? by vheckthor1: 10:54pm On Nov 04, 2020
try ocash
Family / Re: Before I Take This Sniper... by vheckthor1: 10:51pm On Nov 04, 2020
the OP is no longer commenting, how can we reachout to him
Crime / Re: Police Kill Suspected Armed Robber In Katsina (Graphic Photo) by vheckthor1: 2:12pm On Nov 04, 2020
wait did I just read, a gun duel and the criminal weapon recovered is a locally made toy gun?

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Romance / Re: God is good by vheckthor1: 1:49pm On Nov 03, 2020
Anyiiii:
We are in the month of November. I'm still not married. A close female friend of mine will be getting married in December. Two of my close friends got married this year too. I'm feeling depressed right now. Nothing interests me. My decoder is subscribed and I can't watch TV. I have food but I'm not hungry. I have money but I'm not happy. Who says money is happiness? Some men are coming my way but they are not my spec. I'm very beautiful and look so younger than my age. So stop imagining the looks of an old Lady. Why can't I find the man of my dreams? Please you people should pray for me. Is there any good luck herb that you can recommend for me to get my husband? Thanks
the question is what is your spec?

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Programming / Re: Co Founder Needed For A Dating Application by vheckthor1: 2:06am On Nov 02, 2020
9jawear:


i meant i have access to the source code of badoo, so i can improve on it and do something different but having some of it's features.
source code of the app or the web or the backend? grin learn to code yourself and improve the code
Programming / Re: If You're Good In Coding, I Have A Job For You by vheckthor1: 1:41am On Nov 02, 2020
check your dm
Programming / Re: Contribute What You Know About Artificial Intelligence by vheckthor1: 1:38am On Nov 02, 2020
AI is interesting, I will delve in soon
Travel / Re: Best Country To Relocate With My Family Apart From Canada by vheckthor1: 12:26am On Oct 31, 2020
pandabet:
new Zealand is d best
I got a sure contact for u she go run everything for u need nothing from u just want to help
Baba you fit run am for me?
Romance / Re: I Need A Female Fuckmate by vheckthor1: 11:03pm On Oct 25, 2020
You need Jesus in your life, and you need self-control.

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