₦airaland Forum

muriitijan:
I applied through a visa agent for US non immigrant visa in 2003,unfortunately I was denied .This year I applied again using the same name ,date of birth with the hope that they didn't have my informations but I was shocked when the consular asked me what happened to my sister that I wanted to go and visit in 2003 .In my application I claimed that I had not applied before.I was denied again .Now, my problem is I didn't know the details of the sister the agent claimed I wanted to go and visit then because he did it all for me.This second time I claimed I wanted to go for business.IS THERE ANY HOPE FOR ME FOR FUTURE APPLICATION? I NEED YOUR CANDID ADVICE ON HOW I CAN GO ABOUT MY NEXT APPLICATION.THANKS

boy steve:
I need someone who can help me with invitation from any part of Europe.I heard its the easiest way of getting visa.i can always pay if you want me to and if you re willing to help also i will appreciate it.Thanks to all ya

valacious:
Hi House,
Being positive shouldnt become the end of the road for you friend. It becomes an hurdle when you let discrimination choke you.
You could still experience a godly and "positive" relationship, both with same postive or negatives whichever you prefer.
I match-make Hiv-positive people still desirable of a positive r/ship that could probably lead to marriage if the couple wants it to. Advice would also be available on the compatibility of the partner you desire.
Send your profile to kvalacious@yahoo.com

Teejay07:
@VicJustice,

I am not sure the poster ran away. I wonder if she was not scared away by the ferocious,and often negative comments posted herein. I have read some other postings somewhere on nairaland by her - some sort of poem and motivational stuff on the site for new members.

We are all aware of the stigma her condition carries, and I don't blame her for being scarce.

Please, everyone, HIV+ people are humans just like the rest of us. And, with positive living they can live quality life for many more years to come. As I say this, I wonder if we have ever considered that it could be someone close to us - even you the individual reading this post. Moreso, at times when people become aware of their status the question they ask is, "Why me?". Like everything else, we just got to manage the hand of cards life deals each and everyone of us the best way we can. SO WE SHOULD COMMEND HER FOR BEEN OPEN AND ACCEPTING OF HER CONDITION. RATHER, THAN MOPING IN ONE CORNER AND WAITING FOR DEATH TO COME.

Being HIV+ is like having any other ailment like heart conditions, cancer, leukemia, hepatitis, renal problems, prostate problem and others too countless to mention. Such ailments can be managed and the patients still manage to live long and quality lives.

HIV+ individuals need our support!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sorry, fellas, I did not mean to harrangue anyone or lecture. I was just surprised by the baseness of some of the comments here as well as the levity with which some individuals treated the matter.

Like I said earlier,  IT COULD HAVE BEEN YOU.

Vicjustice:
[b] First of all, i must express my disappointment at the response you guys gave to the quote above, none of you could investigate and find out why she needs an HIV partner for a relationship and then give advice, rather you're so fast in saying "wishing you all the best".
Many HIV positive people usually have this idea in their minds, they intend to find HIV positive partners for sexual relationship (even unprotected) until i adviced them of the consequences.
Now, let me give you some professional advice : It's worthwhile to understand that the HIV virus comes in different dimensions or forms which occasionally change in shape and behaviours, so one HIV carrier does not necessarily have the same or similar form of the virus with another HIV carrier: therefore, if a HIV positive person has unprotected sexual intercourse with another HIV carrier, it is very, very likely that there will be some virus reactions that would change the original shapes of their viruses into unusual ones which may become resistant to medications and difficult for Doctors to identify; and that would most likely produce a quick result of the dreaded AIDS.
You may get yourself any partner of your choice, but please, avoid unprotected sex for your own good.
FACT:[/b] While someone who is HIV positive can live a normal life with treatments, it's however advisable for the person to stay away from unprotected sex the rest of his/her life time to avoid complicated cases.

Tonim:
You can't possibly believe this. 70% ! Come on, give me a break.

admin2008:
Hence the reason this thread should be used as a platform to warn people of what to expect in case they want to visit this countries.

darren20:
Hi,
I've noticed a trend among Nigerian living in ireland that a large percentage of them now drive cabs,and i often wonder why?I've had to discuss with a lot of them lately,and i discover that many are quite educated (degree holders) and are entitled to work and live in ireland.some used to be bankers in Nigeria while some used to be lecturers,I think Ireland had make it very easy for anyone determined to get on professionally provided they have necessary skills.I still don't know or I've not been able to come to the conclusion why almost all Nigerians want to drive taxi,Please enlighten me.

gbolalekan:
thanks for this educative advice. it makes a lot of meaning.

vc:
@ Vicjustice and all,

Thanks for your comments. Its really not about where I live because I have moved to different part of the counrty and still experience it. Warm water does help, though, and I have recently noticed that if I mop my body with towel as against scrubbing the towel on my skin, it tends to itch less.

But generally so far warm water/no sponge have solved the problem somewhat. Am a bit worried though if constant hot bath does not have any adverse effect on one's health.

Thanks all

jennykadry:
@vic
now you're talking,yes if i still have other breads on my plates ,then i will leave that one,but if that is d only surviving bread,then im going to pick it and eat it wtout wasting time,as long as there are no traces of sperms on d table,and it might not be at d exact spot the bread fell,that the people had sex,and for crying out loud,as long the table is neat and clean y wont i pick it up

if i go visit some friends,and im eating on d table,wenever anything that has to do wt meat falls on d table,i pick it up,not minding d fact that my friend and her husband would have had a quickie right there on d table,before i came

jennykadry:
ok but how will i be aware was i present when they had d sex

wendymanda:
Maybe because am a germaphobe I think it is nasty to have sex where people eat. Wouldn't you be disgusted if you knew you were eating where people had sex?

jennykadry:
no i wouldnt,as long as d place is clean and no traces of sperm,then no problem,mind u , even if d lovers have had sex on dining table or kitchen sink,do u think they will tell u

kemofash20:
a babe said she is 5 weeks pregnant for a guy and she also said d guy slept with her exactly 4 weeks with her and exactly 3 days after seeing her period . now 2 questions
1. could she really be pregnant. i thought four days after her period is safe.
2. if she is could it be fot the guy considering the one week difference in the lab result she claimed she did and the actual time of intercourse.

please respond thank you

Phinie:
Hello, I'm a HIV+ Female needing a Male of the same status for  friendship, love and trust. any one whose interested can get me at phinie007@hotmail.com or 07035578524.

Adexatom:
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Anderline:
any nice and loving guy in the house between d ages of 25 - 30 from d eastern part of Nigeria, christian must be a catholic for a serious relationship and must be based in lagos, please mail me on anne4real86@yahoo.com

Oskilala:
HELP I NEED SOMEBODY TO CALL MINE

Phinie:
Hello, I'm a HIV+ Female needing a Male of the same status for  friendship, love and trust. any one whose interested can get me at phinie007@hotmail.com or 07035578524.

babalase:
Londoncool,thanks a lot for your concern but are you telling me not to reapply? or what do you think i should do and honestly i have nothing doing in u.k rather than visiting.my boss told me that he has asked his lawyer to write the british embassy on y i was refused when he was the one sponsoring me and he provided all needed documents,all i need is what to do because i don't want my passport to be stamped the second time.
waiting to hear from you soon.