₦airaland Forum

Bluezy13:
No matter what; never raise you hand on a woman.
If she hits you, walk away...

If she blatantly berates you and there is no room to walk away, be quite and think about something else better.
You can always discuss it later...depending on you.

Always be in control...




of yourself!

bro i guess you are not yet into a serious relationship, talkless of marriage,that is why u are bringing this suggestion, i was like u untill i get serious with a girl, who i intended to take to altar, i already know that she nags alot, but i tink i can cope with her as a gentle guy., not untill the day we had a little misunderstanding, and this gal nag for hours l left the house that morning and came back around 10pm only for her to start again, out of anger i gave her a resounding slap that shock her to the bone, she neva expected i can do dat, although i later apologise bt one tin i observe is that her rude behaviour have reduce alot after the incident

falconey:


guilty , mama I love you!.

dont type it here bro,she wont see it send it as a test message and show her u mean it, she is far better than any girl you are after now.

most of we guys are more focus on our girlfriends (or sexual partners' as i term it), to our true love ones who are our family members.we are so focus in wooing that girl,nd giving her all the attention that we forget to show love to the once who truly love us which is our family.some folks will say "the love we show to our family, is different from the emotional love we show to our girls". But love is all about making the other person happy,.. you dont just tell a person you love them, for saying sake, what practical approach ve u taken to show them that love? let me ask u: how many times have u taken ur sisters to hotels and motels for fun or buy that brazilian hair for them? hw many times have you send love messages to your mum appreciating her for all what she have done for you? how many times ve u hug nd appreciate all the effort ur old man have put in training you? am sure only few can answer "yes" to this questions, but yet we do all this for our girl friends who can dump us at anytime.it is a pity

halfricanadian:
For a guy be with who u love

For a lady b with who loves u


*an advice i wont follow sha cos i stay with who i love*

if ladies learn to love those who love them life wud b better

babe u hit it on the head, our ladies are blind to these

ZeeAfrica:
B patient

my dear i ve run at of patient already, none of the girls i ve truly loved ve ever given me that same attention, so also with some of the people i ve talk to, the once that will love you with everything are those you dont ve feelings for

KashyBaby:
Then juz quit...not everything in this world can be explained

even the things that our everyday activities revolves around it?

my question is why is it that those we love hardly love us back? most attention we get are from those we dont even love.some times i wonder how those who claim to found true lovet even come about it....

dolphinheart:
So it's the devil that sends one to evalasting Tor ture?
its the devil that devours there?, thought he too will be burning and in pain?
Who created this Tor ture chamber ?

dnt surpport your views that you will be purnished for 10 billion years and more for something you did in 80 years or much less.

you know nothing before God gave you that life, if you misuse it, he will take it back, you will go back to the former state of no life, knowing nothing!

LOL ANOTHER JEHOVA WITNESSES

biazarre:
OK.... let's b straight here, so if a bobo is avin like 400k in naija it means he is as broke as a church rat?.... iz dat wat u mean MR OP??...... hmmmm..... dis escape from Naija guyz, u will Neva cease to amaze person....

dont mind the idiat, the guy is too arrogance

minasota:
Is mercy going to play?

yes even cynthia too will play

daniska3yaro:
seriously even willams shakepere and casanova can't express ur true beauty in words,gaskiya ur very beautiful.

Ur admirable, alluring, angelic, appealing,beauteous, bewitching, charming, classy, comely,cute, dazzling, delicate, delightful, divine,elegant, enticing, excellent, exquisite, fair,fascinating, fine, foxy*, good-looking, gorgeous,graceful, grand, handsome, ideal, lovely,magnificent, marvelous, nice, pleasing, pretty,pulchritudinous, radiant, ravishing, refined,resplendent, shapely, sightly, splendid,statuesque, stunning, sublime, superb,symmetrical, taking, well-formed, wonderful,omo e don do me.

and you think all dis will make her love u? when re we going to start respecting ourselves among female folks guys?!!

What matters is the income once make, talking about self employment, their re some of our igbo brothers who dont even ve upto 50k goods in their shop, is some one earning as little as 40k nt better than him,? What matters is wat gives u more income nd ignite ur passion, been it employment or self employment

keyman0007:
Why dont you start a small business, like recharge card or something else.
forget this white collar and earn something to save you this embarrassment.
I know how you feel, but knw this is us temporary.
dont give up.

and were is the money to strt the bussiness huh

AltarBoy1:
@bolded

@red color, I dont know what you mean by okin biscuits. My counter part in Lagos makes well over 200k/month from same biscuits. Well, that was before the fall of naira. Just that am in a small mkt compared to his.

that is y we re advicing u to continue the biscuit business na, if ur counter part makes upto two hundred thousand a month, it shows that it jst a matter of time and u will strt making the same wats then is the essence of applying for a bank job:/

very,very on point

Favolly:
Any girl that wants to keep her virginity should do it for her own sake or in obedience to God. I grew up hearing that 'keep your virginity for your husband' crap and it's just a silly thing to say especially in these modern times. It was a bit hard to unlearn most of those toxic things I internalized while growing up but I thank God for wisdom sha.

Is it the same husband that would have slept with half of the girls in town that I will be keeping virginity for? Mba o! I definitely would not be telling that to my girl-child. Instead, tell the ladies to do it for themselves and/or in obedience to God. If they keep their virginity for husband and the husband still cheats on them, what will they now do? Commit suicide?

i guess u are nt a virgin that is why u are writing this crap. U need to knw that men are different frm women, certain laws that favour the men does nt favour the women and certain laws that favour the women does nt favour the women,wat am saying is that many will frown at a man who beat a woman even if she is at fault bt wen it comes to issue of virginity women are expected to keep and maintain it more than the women;the truth is dat most men value virgins:even the waywards,i will be the happiest man on earth if am fortunate to ve a woman that comprises of good character nd is a virgin too

Panzerfaust:
Jesu!
This is what I keep telling ppl, your talents are going to take you places. Can evn a PROFESSOR earn that in 5 yrs? Once am done with UNI, I'm going into my business full time. Me no get time to dey waka up and down carrying CV begging to be a servant to one dumb expatriate.
Find your talents and key into it. #90 million? WTF!

u can drop out now and strt the bussiness why waste money on something u wont use?:/

Liberty90:
Black people have no shame at all. Imagine a president of a country traveling to another country for check up. Imagine Obama traveling to Russia for medical check up...lol. What's stopping him from fitting a world-class, state of the art medical facility at Villa, with his doctors in London on-call to fly in when needed to attend to him. I cannot understand black people. There is something wrong with the brain of a black man.

lol wat of u?

Venzal:
Nice list; quite comprehensive.

There's lots of cash to be made from farming, especially livestock farming. But people don't want to do ''dirty'' work.

My dad (at 67) is planning on rearing grasscutters. And knowing how sharp his business acumen is, I am 100% sure he is going to crush it.

what of u?:/

ourchoice:
Ladies be careful with all these job miracle testifiers because u maybe their target for sharing their imaginary job testimony.

Like someone said, someone will just fly down from nowhere to give one kind job testimony without any clue of how he got the job, what the company is into....what his job position and role is to deserve the big big package they claim they got.

Pls dear job seekers, in as much as miracle is real and are bound to happen, let's also be wise and not feel abandoned by God because of others' big testimonies.

God will perfect everything in our lives at the set time....but don't let some of these imaginary job testimonies sway you away or make u feel like God abandoned u.

Some are not real....some are designed to catch some gullible female preys....theres nothing some desperate guys can't do to get a girl, let's all be watchful.

@op, if truly u got the kind of job u shared here, may God be praised and may God who did it for u do for other hopeful job seekers reading

in as much as u make sense u still sound like a chronic pessimist

wheredemdey:
Lmfao

Ignorance is indeed bliss

For your info..there are tens of small small investment companies on awolowo road ikoyi that pay mad money.....same with some law firms that pay crazy money as end of year profit sharing......go to awolowo road. ...just before the Oando fuel station...by sweet sensation...you will see like 8different Mercedes g63 always parked outside ...same colour and all serially numbered.....its one firm that bought it for their staff....a firm of 13 staff...their head and assistant head uses rolls Royce.......leave this list jare...people dey earn mad money for this country man.

lol mad money

aimuan:
Raw talent.i keep telling people that having certificate does not mean u re educated, how many engineer with cert can do this?though I m not saying having certificate is bad,but having it is not a prerequisite for success.i think what's more important is to discover ur talent first,and den further ur education inline with what u re gud at(talent).if at 40 u get admission at 45,56,u re a graduate,why the rush?

drinking panadol for another person hedeach

Pls my fellow graduates: lern a skill and strt feeding frm it impending on wen u get a better job

Kikero112:
Good morning.

I think that the problem all of you have in common is that you think that education=university degree.

I am here to tell you it does not.

Fact is....we have too many university graduates and too few skilled technicians. And the thing is....for Nigeria to have a prosperous economy, we need lots of techincal school graduates.

One of my favourite countries is Germany. At the age of 14....their school system sorts you out into two groups.One group goes into apprenticeships, the other to their version of senior secondary school and university. And it is because Germany has a lot of technicians, not because of its university graduates, that Germany is a prosperous nation.....and an industrial superpower. Same goes for many industrial powers....like China, UK, USA, and so on.

You Nigerians have got to stop thinking that a university degree is the pinnacle.I won't pretend....I am a graduate, I wanted to be one, and yes...if it was not possible for me to be one, I would be upset and miserable.

But when all is said and done....assuming I became a technician instead of a graduate...and a highly trained one at that...I could get marketable skills that would earn me lots of money. Like one Igbo guy who ten years ago went to Europe to ''go to university'' and ended up in technical school instead. Today...he is back in Nigeria,he is rich and his skills are in demand.Or one Yoruba gent my parents knew who was a technician who could fix anything....and who did not need to go to mechanic if the car broke down because he knew what was wrong and how to fix it.

University education is over-rated.

u people dnt get our point,who said a graduate can not learn any of the above skills u mention? Success is not all abt money my brother,the fact is that u people are over rating entrepreneurship also,u people makes it look like it is an investment that once u make u will be into millions, everytin have its challenges in life nt evrybody will be like dangote we all have our specific calling in this world: pls i beg u stop discouraging people from their dreams, the advice u should giv is that people should do anytin that will enable them earn in two ways

Lol nairalanders will soon advice u to drop out of school and become an entrepreneur

Op nairalnders dnt believe in dreams,they advice evrybody to become entrepreneurs what is ur say on this?:/

raayah:
Its cold but its the truth. He needs between to be told. It's going to be very difficult for him especially looking at his story. He will need at the very least 100,000 a year to study ( including his needs).
Why not wait it out till your'e at least financially ok. His whole family is dependent on him. He's paying debt off, sisters education, rent and all that. Where will he get the money to school?
Even a part time job in the university is not easy to get.

He can work a few more years and save up and go to university comfortably.
He can beg for money now and use faith to continue his university.

I like to pick the more realistic option.

Secondly, university is not the only. A lot of Nigerians are millionaires from their handwork - painting, electrician, business owners, etc.

you type like ur senses are not correct pls if u wont help the guy then stop discouraging peoples dream, you are too pessimistic

obailala:
Can you kindly shut up and use your brain for once!

I wasn't talking politics, I wasnt talking tribe. That your brain is skewed to see everything anyone says as a tribal matter is not in any way my fault or business. That you hold a silly prejudice against me is not a reason why you should wake up one morning and start vomitting your inaginations and ascribing them to me.

What kind of early morning foolishness is this?... Can you kindly tell me how I threw stones at my fathers compound?... That I said Igbos travel because they are traders, how did your brain interpret that to mean an insult to Igbos?... What is even wrong with the heads of these Ipob sect people?... or is it my mockery of ipob sect that you interpret as antagonism to igbo cause?... How dare you equate IPOB sadists and misguided miscreants with the Igbo cause?... are you okay?

Kindly point out to me where I said the traders should buy shops at 3million?... are you BLIND or cant you read?.... You are the one who needs to check himself and I suggest you start from the head and then move down to your eyes. You need urgent help.

::ochineke! Bro did u study insultology in school?

philanthropist1:
Good for him...... school is not everything

rather is bussiness evrything, u neva see some of our igbo brothers wey dey into bussiness for 20yr and yet nothing to show for it?:/

moscobabs:
Bill gate is a dropout out too.....no big deal Being a graduate doesn't make u a successful person in life what u need is idea.

is not a lucky is just a determination . People have been making more than that before the word "Education" came to existence .


may God bless everybody hustle

and who say graduates can not do the bussiness?

stardragon:
Don't under-estimate ur father's business, go back and start doing it from scratch, don't mind what people ll say. Humble urself and God ll exalt you. Raise a capital from it, and start real business that can felch you a nice income..

NO KNOWLEDGE IS A WASTE

do you even care to knw what the bussiness is all abt?