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Firstandonly:
lol...I made it clear "without beating her" because beating na African thing but since ur big head no gree u read well u ran into conclusion thereby embarrassing urself and ur family

dont ever post such a tin again, it's bad.... you too jst imagine wat u posted na

Firstandonly:
lol... advice if am to beat her? guy ur head no correct i just realized that am talking to a mad man. but i no blame u foolishness runs in ur FAMILY...COW!!!

E pain am o...... family awon werey. woman beater.

Memberclub:
ole. Provide the link to where we can buy it for 170k na. Thief

Next time you see my thread don't ever comment.
Bastard broke thief lol

ole,no body go buy ur trash laptop

Firstandonly:
I swear u be mumu. go back and read again and tell me where i said i want to beat her. u just showed me how foolish ur parent are. u just the embarrassed ur foolish family. cow!!!

Ode, bt u want an advise if u re to beat her bah... you re a big fool.... go ask ur mom hw she manage to survive frm d hands of ur dad....
dumb ass asking 4 an advice to beat a girl... i pity ur future wife.... you already said it that she supports you financially.....Oga stand up and hustle so that they won't invite you next month as d MC on her wedding day.

Memberclub:
Bastard! stop talking sh!t & tell us where we can get the laptop for this amount

na ur papa b bastard na.... thief

Memberclub:
Can you show me where I can buy this laptop for 170k? Genuine question
Also show us a picture of your laptop with the price let's debate

Oga,the laptop u re selling isn't new, not even fairly used.... you too think abt it... 1050ti for 340k when i can get above 1050ti with good grahics for 300k..... Nawa o, as i talk b4 enh, God go gv u buyer

Firstandonly:
runs in my family? guy i swear u know well

na u no well, u need physiological help..... imagine d rubbish u are saying that you want to beat someone else daughter that owes you nothing... infact u are mad.... Well if say u try dat rubbish with my relative enh, walia Ogun for kill u....... werey..

I repeat again, beating of women runs in ur family... perhaps ur dad did the same to ur mom..... Idiot

Kogbagidii:
The lappy see no get sad o . Spending more than 220k for a 1050ti lappy with the normal baseline spec is a big waste of money

you dey mind op ni.... mayb op wan buy range rover

392k, heeey 1&half plot of land

Memberclub:
Bought it brand new
Super clean no scratch
Selling with receipt

HP omen 16gb ram gtx 1050ti
Intel core i7 7th gen
2TB

For quick sale
Whatsapp me for more detailed pictures 0807 8487 873
Price 340k

Don't bother pricing or I'll have to block you.

see this big thief o... 1050ti for 340k.... haba, fear God o.... laptop of 170k...... with dat 340k, i go buy beast of a gaming laptop...... you go sell o

Firstandonly:
I started dating my girl around February. she was in a relationship with someone else which she told me about and that the guy always cheat on her with another girl. last month she told me that the ex called her to come to his shop that he what to see her, I told her not to go but she said he only want to apologise and that she deserves an apology from him, ever since then they have been talking.yesterday was her ex birthday i told her not to go she went ahead and visited the ex i was very angry she later apologise that yesterday night.
note: I was the one that dis virgin this girl the only thing her ex got from her was just pre-intimacy and they dated for 2 years.... there was a time after we finish having sex she said something that this was what her ex wanted for so many years but she did not give him, i just behaved as if i no hear...
she is coming to my house today and I don't want to beat her, is there any other way i can correct her and don't tell me to leave the girl i open eye for to another man...
#pls ignore my typing error

All i can see is that beating of women runs in ur family bro.... imagine with ur coconut head all u care abt is to beat her when she isn't married to you..... wise up bro, you got what you wanted and i believe you would cheat on her 10x than she does........SET AWON WOMAN BEATERS

iLegendd:
...

Bro noted.. but the fact there is that fear is something we can't deal with, it's in our blood. unless you are ghost.

even with the life jacket.....indeed life depends on God and nothing else

SavageResponse:
Not every untimely death has something to do with village people

you are right sha but 70% deaths are through village people

Olamila:
Let me not bore you guys with my relationship history but this girl is my first love, i met her while i was in school 300l. Ever since then i have always been there for her despite even having a low budget as student because I'm not from a wealthy home, even her parents has times10 more than my family. But despite that i try all i could to maintain my role in the relationship because i don't fancy myself asking anything from my girlfriend.

Before anything else i need to tell little about my girlfriend, she is beautiful and nice. Almost every guy wants to woo her and all of that. Aside of that my girlfriend is very stingy to me, she can never allow her anything be in my possession, she doesn't have this idea that we could end up one day though she will always say something close to it only during fun time. But when she is at her leisures she will say how she fancy how husband to be and all of that which i no I'm not the person she could had been referring to. That not even my major issue.

She always been cruel when she asks me for anything and i refuse to give her maybe i don't have or just don't see needs to do so.
I also discovered that most of our fun times comes immediately money enters my hand. Because i remember when i was in school my first 800k i made was finished and squandered with her, i haven't dated anyother or even have another girl since i met her. Because i try to make her feel comfortable because i no how many guys wish her to be with her. So secondly i made another 1m i squandered it with her too. But when this money just finish guyz i always see hell in her. This was the ups an downs i was experiencing till i finished my school with her. It was a shame for me upon the money i made in school i graduated with zero account looking for money for my law school. I wasn't fortunate to get any help so i sat back to Hustle. Then i was begging looking for helper to assist me when i saw one big opportunity that i need to take but it the opportunity required money as my account was bleeding zero. I begged everyone including my girlfriend but she told me she doesn't have even if she happened to get money for me i will pay her interest. This words alone made me cry, did you no instead of helping me out she told me I'm not the only one that needs help she also need to invest on her self which she was right i believe her. She later invested her money in one fraudulent sheme which she lost the money.

FastTrack to what is happening now, i later got help from someone who offered me 50k and my mum 20k making it 70k i picked myself up and started my Hustle again. Within three months i made 800k again. All this times i was giving her update about my business and earnings. Could you imagine she had the gut to ask for money despite her behaviors. Because of my nature i don't believe someone's bad nature should change my own nature so i still sent her some money because i also no she is broke.

Since then i just forgot about what she did and all of those stuffs because my money kept coming and i don't keep grudges i keep taking care of her. Now i had issue with my business i want to fix something up i was also telling her. this girl went ahead to start asking me to send her money. I was really disappointed i protested because i noticed when i have money i become very careless. It seems money covers so many things.
I just need advice because i think it is time to let her go coz with her nature and type of girl it might end in tears for me. All she do is stay on social media, snap and post and look for who will send her money. No skills, i have begged her several times to look for something to be doing she refused and tells me how her dad won't allow her. She doesn't listen to me, always feel like boss when little money enter her hand. Guys i really love her but i think it is time to seek help because i will regret if this continues.

you need spiritual help asap

fineboynl:
if you think so than come back. naija prick will cure your brain.

be wise for once nd stop being a dullard bro

Juju dey every where sha

DXNNigeria:
Really, am really furious right now and I see it as her intruding into my personal space. My babe just took my phone and uploaded her pictures with different captions like my love, my babe, my heart etc.
I saw them on my status and deleted them and she is angry.
Really, I see it as her intruding into my personal life. Really am very furious at her and she doesn't see anything bad in what she did instead she is giving me attitude.
Really? Am I wrong?

OP, i understand your situation..... You don't want others chicks to know who have a girlfriend.... set awon am single.

Championxxx:
I am 23 years old guy I ave been staying with my brother in Abuja for the past 8 years , I help him with his shop and his house , everything was fine till he got married his wife carry his two sisters to the house 24 and 19 years old , he said I should leave my room for them I didn’t argue I let them have the room while I am sleeping in the parlour , during lockdown this girl will wake and come to the parlour to watch tv to disturb my sleep , I complained to my brother he said I should keep calm he will speak to his wife which he never does and these girls kept disturbing me meanwhile the older girl stopped but the younger one carry on and I told her to stop disturbing me she has a phone she can press her phone in their room , she insulted me and told me to go and marry I got angry and ask her to leave she said I should do my worst and I landed a thunder slap in her face she held me by my neck screaming when my bro and wife came his wife started hitting me on my back I had to leave the house and went outside to cool down , my brother followed me and said I didn’t do well by hitting his wife sister he said I should go and apologise to his wife and sister , I refuse and asked him why he didn’t stop them when I was complaining bitterly about them but he waited for me to take matter to my own hand now he blamed me he said I should apologise which I did to his wife but not to the girl but that small girl was expecting me to knelt down and beg her , I told her she will wait for eternity.

Since the incidence his wife stopped talking to me , she ordered her sister’s to stop giving me food , the older girl used to dish food for me sometimes when she is not around but I told her to stop because I don’t want her to be in trouble with her sister and I didn’t report to my brother, it’s not a big deal for me I buy foods and eat at work and I only go home to sleep , 2 weeks ago I came home to see my mattress outside in the rain soaking wet , I was confused because it was supposed to be inside the girl room that’s where I keep it and they always bring it for me when is time for me to sleep so how come it was outside in the rain , I asked them they both denied they didn’t take it out and I suspected my brother wife or her youngest sister were the one who did it because they didn’t want me in the house anymore , I told my brother he said I should sleep on the sofa and in the morning I will get a new mattress in his shop but the wife get angry that I will damaged her sofa she wanted me to sleep on the floor with a wrapper but my brother refuse and I slept on the sofa , the next day I spoke with my brother I told him because I am not wanted in his house I don’t have peace of mind there , I want him to rent a self cont for me closer to the shop so It will be easier for me to get to work he refuse saying when he has a bigger house why would I go and leave alone , he said he provide all my needs and the rest the way his wife and sisters are treating me it doesn’t matter that he will never allow me and I told him I want to go back to the village , he said if I leave his house he will disown me and I will not longer be his brother , for 3 days now he stopped talking to me even if I greet him he won’t reply I feel hurt. I love my brother I want to serve him but I don’t want to stay in his house . I don’t know if I did something wrong by asking him to rent a room for me to be living alone? Am confuse please advice me

Dear OP, You wish to serve your brother.... imagine how a typical Nigerian man is speaking...... Serve your brother and remain slave for the rest of your life.... I can't blame your brother's wife, she has an upper hand in that house than you and can even decide to throw you out any time any day.... Just hustle up and find a better way of living, move out, seek attention else where and stop all the serving my brother of a thing.... Soon your brother's wife and her sisters will accuse you of trying to rape them and that will be the end...... Don't start a war with a woman, you will live to regret it for the days of your life.... be warned bro.

Na so Norwich city nd Aston villa do.... now dem dey road

[b][/b]However, a top army commander, who himself, has remained in the
North East theatre for over four years now, dismissed the retiring troops
as cowards and failures.
The Colonel, who did not want his name mentioned, wondered how these
soldiers were enlisted into the army, saying that they never had interest
in the service from the beginning.
He claimed that the lack of jobs in the country must have propelled their
enlisting in the army, stressing that their interests were the welfare
packages, salaries and allowances they could get.
The Colonel insisted to our Correspondent that no true soldier would take
the steps these disengaging ones were taking, knowing full well the kind
of profession they were called into.
He said a true soldier, no matter what, even unto death, would stay at his
post, forward ever, backward never.
“To resign from the army is cowardice. No matter the challenges, as they
are presently, a true soldier will stoop to conquer.
“I have been in the North East for four years now, and I am still here. I
love the army and I am doing the job happily, no matter the challenges
ahead.
“As many cowards that have also lost interests are free to go, so that
there can be space for true soldiers to be enlisted.”[b]However, a top army commander, who himself, has remained in the
North East theatre for over four years now, dismissed the retiring troops
as cowards and failures.
The Colonel, who did not want his name mentioned, wondered how these
soldiers were enlisted into the army, saying that they never had interest
in the service from the beginning.
He claimed that the lack of jobs in the country must have propelled their
enlisting in the army, stressing that their interests were the welfare
packages, salaries and allowances they could get.
The Colonel insisted to our Correspondent that no true soldier would take
the steps these disengaging ones were taking, knowing full well the kind
of profession they were called into.
He said a true soldier, no matter what, even unto death, would stay at his
post, forward ever, backward never.
“To resign from the army is cowardice. No matter the challenges, as they
are presently, a true soldier will stoop to conquer.
“I have been in the North East for four years now, and I am still here. I
love the army and I am doing the job happily, no matter the challenges
ahead.
“As many cowards that have also lost interests are free to go, so that
there can be space for true soldiers to be enlisted.”[/b]However, a top army commander, who himself, has remained in the
North East theatre for over four years now, dismissed the retiring troops
as cowards and failures.
The Colonel, who did not want his name mentioned, wondered how these
soldiers were enlisted into the army, saying that they never had interest
in the service from the beginning.
He claimed that the lack of jobs in the country must have propelled their
enlisting in the army, stressing that their interests were the welfare
packages, salaries and allowances they could get.
The Colonel insisted to our Correspondent that no true soldier would take
the steps these disengaging ones were taking, knowing full well the kind
of profession they were called into.
He said a true soldier, no matter what, even unto death, would stay at his
post, forward ever, backward never.
“To resign from the army is cowardice. No matter the challenges, as they
are presently, a true soldier will stoop to conquer.
“I have been in the North East for four years now, and I am still here. I
love the army and I am doing the job happily, no matter the challenges
ahead.
“As many cowards that have also lost interests are free to go, so that
there can be space for true soldiers to be enlisted.”

Imagine what this crazy man is saying.... who wants to die for a lame country where no one cares abt ur well being... The madman is seeking attention so he could be promoted....The Nigeria army is using this young boys life for a game of death... How can someone be in the north for 2yrs fighting a war that only the top people knows the end to and at d later end killed like a goat..... Our military just have to wake up fom their sleep less they will fall in to the bottomless pit.


Nigeria Army my ass, just got pity for the life of the young ones there. Werey colonel

Evidence1000:
My name is David. I'm a 24 year old young man. I'm in my final year in one of the universities in the south west.
I'm addicted to gambling. Like, I can't just help it.

The craze for this thing started sometime last year. It has eaten deep into me that it now dictates my mood. The only time I can be genuinely happy is when I win money from bet9ja virtual. If I should loose, it makes me very sad to the extent that I see myself as a useless person.

I've gone to the extent of using my school fees to play virtual and that of my course mate that trusted me so much. Though, I was able to pay my course mate's fees without her knowing the truth, I'm unable to pay mine till now. I always have this mentality that I will win.

Whenever money enters my hand like this, no matter how little, it is to head straight to Bet9ja shop or online. The urge is usually very strong. Sometimes, it seems like there's a force pushing me to do it.
Before this lock down, I accumulated a debt of over a hundred thousand naira in a Bet9ja shop in my school environment which I'm unable to pay till now.
I know the owner of the shop would be waiting to pick me up with police when I resume. I don't know what to do.

I need help badly. I've prayed to God severally but it's as if nothing is happening. I've even promised God not to play Bet9ja again but I keep on seeing myself still playing it.

Right now as I'm typing this, I just came from a Bet9ja shop where I lost money. Money that is not even my own. Sometimes, I feel like taking my life so that everything will just end but if I remember the pain it would cause my mother, I'll just hold back.

Please for the people that were once addicted to gambling, how did you stop it? Is there any remedy for it because I'm in need of it badly?

I can't sleep at night anymore because I'm always thinking of debts that I've accumulated which has run into over 300,000. All thanks to Bet9ja virtual.

Someone advised me to get a job that would keep me busy so that I won't have time to play virtual but there are no jobs. I don't mind doing any, even if it is a menial job till school resumes.

Please I need your advice. Feel free to bash me because I deserve more than that even.

Please I'd appreciate if you can move this to front page.

you can chat me up on 070 One Eight 8 Nine Two 7 One seven .....all the best bro.

later dem go say no be village people... imagine Flying Officer Arotile died on 14 July 2020 at the age of 24, when she was inadvertently hit by the reversing vehicle of an excited former Air Force Secondary School classmate while trying to greet her.
greeting gone wrong..... mtcheew, e no go beta 4 our enemies Allah

Aflix:
This is not up to $50 million

Na u help am build d company ni.... Nawa o, u 4 kuku say na 1millon naira him use na

realstars:
Flying In The Sky No Accedent, Comming Down The Road She Died From Injories Sustain From Road Accedent, And This Is Painful To Her Family, May She RIP.

person wey village people don get her password..... village people no wan see person make am 4 life.... they prefer one useless than to make it in life...... Was it her time to die at age 23....i don't tink so...... May God help us all so we don't die young wen we are abt to be heard by the world.

Idonije8:
can you even imagine? E put the lady life in danger! You should have kept it well and act matured you should kept the lady secret she could have told you more

Exactly my point bro... But instead OP went gaga

Ochason:
I wanted to post my story for advise and opinions on this matter.

My wife and I have been married for 8 years and we really have not had any issues until now. The whole situation started about 5 months ago. I think it was early January. We just launched our second business branch and my wife threw a party for us.I am into real estate and other strings of businesses. Last year was a good year for us. Our business grew and we expanded by opening one more branch office here in Port Harcourt (not real location). My wife,who is our Business development strategist came up with an office opening party so we can invite dignitaries and celebrities to come and even invest more in our businesses. My wife decided to engage her friend that is a top event planner to handle the event. The event was successful no doubt,everything was just glamorous. Then,there was another part of the event that moved to the club that night. We were all having fun. And then,my wife’s friend who planned the earlier event showed up looking really well dressed..more like very s*xy outfit. Of course,lot of people were dressed to kill at the party. In a lit party like this,one should expect some serious drinking and some inappropriate behaviors. It was clear,my wife’s friend was getting a little more than tipsy. She was doing a little too much and my wife was concerned. I tried to call my Driver to come take her home but the foolish guy was drinking somewhere and didnt pick my call. My wife agreed that I escort her friend to go sleep in our SUV until the Driver shows up. I guided her friend to our car and tried to get her inside to sleep but things took a different turn. She was drunk and started to pull me to kiss her. she was rubbing on me and telling me she wants me. I knew it was the alcohol talking but she kept on and on. Begging me to kiss her so she can sleep. No one was looking and I gave her a small kiss just to let her feel she got what she wanted. Of course she wanted more but I didn’t oblige her. I put on the AC for her and pulled the seat back for her to rest. As I walked away,I finally got through the Driver and he came to take her home. I thought that was the last I would hear of what just happened but I was wrong. Two days later,this lady starts to chat me and saying she wants to see me. I thought it was a joke. She said things like she knows I want her too cos I kissed her at the club 2 days ago. She kept confessing her love for me and how she cannot control herself. To be honest,this is not the first time women would throw themselves at me but this is the first time,a friend of my wife would do such a thing. I asked her what if my wife finds out and she replied me with a bomb: she said..she does not care because my wife is also not a saint. What?!!!!..what did she mean by that? I asked her to explain and she said she cannot tell me because she swore never to tell anyone but that my wife has definitely been with someone else but me.At this time,I was getting really worked up. I told her she was bluffing and she said I was being naive. I told her I would ask my wife…she said she would deny but that does not mean its not true. She would deny because she swore to keep my wife’s secret.
So,in order to play her game,I told her I would sleep with her if she told me who my wife was cheating with. She agreed. She sent me lots dirty messages and told me to meet her at a hotel that night. And then,I asked her: how do I know you are not trying to set me up and walking into a trap? My wife’s friend then gave details. She said my wife and I were having issues just a few months before our wedding,I said yes!…she said because of the issues…my wife was doubting my loyalty and she went back to her ex and slept with him. And that they were seeing each other even after we got married until like 4 months after marriage.
I knew this woman is desperate but this information she just released scattered my brain. I drove straight to see my wife and straight up told her what her friend just told me. My wife began to act shocked and pretend that her friend was lying so I told her, I have recorded conversations (which I really didn’t have)and if she pushed me to release these conversations, it would be over between us.
At that point,my wife broke down and started crying. She then confessed to having gone back to her ex when we were having issues weeks before our wedding. But she swore on her children’s’ lives that it did not continue after we got married.
However,her ex went to tell her friend that they were seeing each other which was a lie. That her ex wanted her back by all means and was telling lies that I was not treating her well and that she misses her ex and wants to come back but she is stuck in the marriage.
All these revelation was too much for me to bear. I told my wife to leave our home but she refused so I took a my things and went to the company guest house where I have been. I have been so angry and betrayed that I do not know what to do.
I never planned to be a divorcee. I love my wife. She is very instrumental to the success of my business …but how do we work through this when she has betrayed me like this? And she is insisting the affair ended when we got married….the affair before marriage is hurtful because we were still engaged even at that time but if it continued after…I cannot live like this.

How then,do I believe she may be telling the truth? Trust has been thrown out of the window. Our families have been trying to reconcile us but as a man,I have never been so hurt and emotional in all my life. I trusted my wife with all my life.

I finally agreed for us to see our Pastor last week to counsel us but it ended up in a disaster. I recognize I was still angry and I was shouting and my wife was crying uncontrollably saying I do not believe her but I believe a woman who is trying to ruin our marriage.

Well,if her friend is trying to ruin our marriage…she caused it..she allowed it. We both left distraught and later that night,the friend showed up in my guest house. She told me that she came to beg for me to forgive her friend. But you should have seen what she wore. The most see through outfit and as soon as I allowed her to sit down,she came hard on me.
Pushing her away was my first thought. But I felt so angry that I also wanted to revenge my wife and I started responding to her. I was ready to make love to this woman but I stopped and told her to leave. Since then,she has been determined to make me sleep with her.

I felt I needed space but the more space I need,the more s*xual temptations are coming my way. And yes,I would be justified if I give in right? After all…my wife did it first? Maybe if I did…I would feel better and maybe be able to forgive her after we are even.

I miss my wife but how do I trust her….I feel tempted to sleep with someone else. Its not that hard for men…I do not know how much more I can resist the temptation. How can I be sure that my wife is telling the truth? How do I know the affair ended after our marriage?

Will I be able to trust her again? Is there any hope for our marriage?

As a matter of fact, you are a madman OP.... So u went straight to ur wife and told her that her friend told u all dis dirty secret.... you just put d poor lady's life in danger...... you could av handled the matter as a man and not jst confront ur wife then revealing the identity of d lady. Mtcheew nawa o. I believe if hadn't been d said lady brought in d picture of ur wife in, you would av slept with her........ Well i blame d useless lady....... Ladies with fish brain

see dis kind belle kind coco own... nawa o