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nkemdi89:
That is it, human beings are generally humble when they are depending on you for something, it goes both way , I use to have a boyfriend, whenever he was broke, he will be to close to me , because he knows I will lend him money and feed him , but the moment he gets a big contract he will distribute his money to friends while abandoning even his own mother.

lolz, you re right thou.... i remember one mad guy that needed help from me badly that he has to place a call 6am to me... he promised me some cash after the help but reversed was the case..... hahahaha, human beings.... Well, i pity OP bcus with the way he wrote that write-up, Op is in mess.

nkemdi89:
You are a good man, I just wish you can handle her financial burdens, there is hardship everywhere, I pray you marry her at the completion of her studies.

thats where d problem lies... after her study she will tag him as a low class dry cleaner and hop over those big niggas ridding benz around.. She will 4get the help, girls are ungrateful.

so as i no get gf so am saving my ass from shit.....Relationship of now adays no need i love you again, small visiting and greeting, table don turn.
Bro, carry ur burden, help her if u can nd tell her to look 4 a little stuff to do. everyone is in shit.

ikoroduarea:
Hi all,

I will really appreciate if moderator can help push this to front page.

Firstly, insults are welcome. I reside in Europe. Two of my friends they are biological brothers, they've been sucking me. I have been sending them money regularly for years, yes years, but I now realised that these people are not ready to work or learn any skill. Even their own biological brother in abroad reported them to me and doesn't take them serious anymore except their mum. Infarct, i used to send money to their mum too. But they just keep asking me for money everytime. Imagine I just sent you money when you said you are sick, two days after you sent me voice record asking me for money to rent a shop. Then the younger one who's chat bellow asking me for 100k for three of them as if I am picking money on the floor here. To some people in Nigeria who always think all nigerians in diaspora think we always think you're begging for money whenever you say hi just to hear from us, it is not the case. How about this too?

I am really tired. My wife who always agree I should help them have started complaining too. These two friends suddenly changed because I used to send them money even before they ask. It's like every week one problem must happen to them that require money. They will just send account number and the deadline time. They keep coming, coming, coming back again after giving. I have paid hundreds of thousands of naira for visa processing for one of them maybe at least they will stop asking me for money and one will be able to help his brother, but the visa was unsuccessful.

Few days ago one of them ask me to give him my sister's number that he just want to greet her since it's been years he saw her last. Behold, the next day my sister called to ask when did I hear from my friend last and did he mention about financial problem to me, I told my sister that he called me two days ago and asked of her number which I gave him. My sister said he requested for money to support his house rent and she sent him some money. I was shocked. Can you imagine guys? My friend. I am not saying it's a crime for him to ask my sister money but why lie to me that you just want to greet her when you asked me for her number? Whereas I just sent him money too not even up to a week.

See another demand again, see my reply, see his reply.

I know one or the two of them will start gossiping me around that I am proud, but they won't tell them about the good I have done for them, I have been doing. They won't. Some friends are not worth it anymore. I am very upset now that it's affecting me mentally and with my wife. Even my children were asking me last night "dad are you alright, you're not happy".

You know what again, one of them sent messages to my wife asking for mobile phone. I saw it but my wife didn't know that I saw it not until I responded to him myself and told my wife to never bother. My wife later sent the phone to him. Since then he's been using that opportunity to demand from her. Though he eventually stopped it but continue asking me only.

I have sent so much money but they just never stop asking. And I am not the time that take pictures and flaunt them on social media. I live my life on low-key.

I need your honest opinion.

Insults are welcome I promise I won't react to any insult.

I wanted to block them on my social media especially on WhatsApp but I had a rethink so they won't feel like I am proud because I am in abroad.

A wise man once said you are the cause of your problem... continue giving them money until you bcom church rat and then we shall know what the future holds for you.

Na where headquarter for village people dey bdat o...... RESPECT.

BrownCookie:
It is lipgloss

lol, ok... just kidding

girls are foolish in that aspect.... they will tell u dey have a bf nd later beg u for aims..... me no dey kuku send them.... who life no tire..

Mavinsoladele:
I need help.....i'm a young guy in my teens but i really want beards even if just little. I know it may be considered unimportant but my mates are having. I am even thinking it might be hereditary cos my dad doesn't have. Any advice? How do i get it soon?

go find goat own use super glue attach am your face.

Dotherightthing:
21. Please spell words correctly when you post, and try to use perfect grammar and punctuation.

thank you @ officer of the englisn language... i hail u. smich.

BrownCookie:
Ok &

at First i thought u wore lipstick mask... lol

Zzor:
are you different too mtcheww

i tire o, see English..... notin musa no go see 4 gate

realonecrilar:
I met this girl around march and we started dating,though she's a moslem but not a practicing one and I told her my do and don't.
I hate been treaed as a fool,been disrespected and she said she already knows me for that.
So as we continue the relationship i told her if she really want me ,she has to be religious.
All these days we always meet at a friend's place very close to her house, I told her to be coming to my place not to always see at a friend's place , she said her parents won't allow her to go out.
I told her relationship is about commitments she has to show it .
Though we only had sex twice and she told me she can't trade me with any woman after those actions, she calls at times and i always recharge her simcard when i have something with me and doing some neccesary things a guy should be doing for her girl.
She always call in the morning and night and I always do that too,we planned our life together and to get married lately next year.
Her sisters and her friends knows me already and we always do things together.
But it happened three weeks ago, whenever we had an agreement to meet at weekend she always turn me down but during the week days she always call and express her emotions , we can't see during the week days,we were both busy with our works about the relationship but don't always sees during the weekend again and I noticed something was wrong and she promised she will always be faithful but now opposite .
She like staying around me.
Last saturday she called like 4times and I did like 6times too , we gisted talks alot on phone and we promised to see on sunday but on sunday she didn't pick my calls to know how to meet, till night she didn't pick my calls,it was around 10pm that she called back when she knows I couldn't make it to come again and was already late,she told me she was charging her phone since morning somewhere, and I told her how can that happen at this period of civilization when people always have their phones at hand,lies..
She has been doing that since three week now,won't pick when we are to see , avoiding sex..
I noticed she has been avoiding me because of sex or probably she's cheating on me.
So on that faithful sunday I told her how I felt that she shouldn't be too smart to someone who loves her and cares for her and I hang up the call.she called back I didn't pick her calls,she called back on monday too thrice and once on tuesday and I didn't pick it cos i was angry with her , and she stopped calling since tuesday, till yesterday, Friday ,I guess this was a SHIT TEST i didn't bother to call too since then,so on friday when sheb didn't call , i tried to call her to forgive her by 10pm to take her apologies cos she always apologize when she call back at night, and what she said on picking my call was "what happened" and I told her "are you telling me what happened" the statement was worrisome and I hand up my call, she didn't call back and i didn't too.
Around 12:30am I sent her a break up message and I told her about her attitudes .
Too disrespectful.
Not religious.
Sending call me back despite having call card on phone.
Not considering my emotions.
So she received the message immediately and she didnt call or text back and I lockedup, life continues..
I guess someone is lecturing her on me to have me strongly becausr she always tell me to be faithful with her and promise to mary two wifes or she's alredy moving out with another guy which i'vent confirmed.
I need your advice , i love this girl, though she's not up to my standard academically,religiously,understanding issues,and how to talk to me. so i'm working on it and she's improving..

she isn't up to ur standard religiously...funny.... but you Bleep her twice and you are claiming you are more religious than her..... Guy, you two are on the same shit.. don't try to bring in religious matter into this ok....

Lisaint:
I need a used bicycle at a cheaper price

IF anyone knows where I can get at Alaba
Or
If you have anyone for sale

Kindly comment without ignoring

haaa,Alaba.....thou i have a new mountain bike with 7gears. it was bought brand new with receipt at 50k. but you can chat me up lets talk and negotiate.... 0 7 0 eight 8 8 9 two seven one seven

is just like jumping in to a moving car.... if you knw you knw.

make dem go buy cement and concrete come use patch am back na.... at least 900k bag of cement go go far small

Firstandonly:
guy i have friends that beat their girlfriends and i don't want to go to them for advice that y i brought it here...if u have ever stayed in uyo and Calabar (am not from this places) to beat woman na their tradition so i have seen it a lot even from my next door neighbor that is an akwa Ibom man (that one the beat him wife once every week). so i had to rule out that beating part because have seen a lot... and for the record have been in more than 5 relationship and have never beating my ex... funny enough my babe came to the house today and saw my topic on nairaland when i was in the bathroom, she said she never new she hurt me so much and that she is sorry...so guy beating a girl is out of my equation

so Akwa ibom and calabar na same same

Firstandonly:
lol...I made it clear "without beating her" because beating na African thing but since ur big head no gree u read well u ran into conclusion thereby embarrassing urself and ur family

dont ever post such a tin again, it's bad.... you too jst imagine wat u posted na

Firstandonly:
lol... advice if am to beat her? guy ur head no correct i just realized that am talking to a mad man. but i no blame u foolishness runs in ur FAMILY...COW!!!

E pain am o...... family awon werey. woman beater.

Memberclub:
ole. Provide the link to where we can buy it for 170k na. Thief

Next time you see my thread don't ever comment.
Bastard broke thief lol

ole,no body go buy ur trash laptop

Firstandonly:
I swear u be mumu. go back and read again and tell me where i said i want to beat her. u just showed me how foolish ur parent are. u just the embarrassed ur foolish family. cow!!!

Ode, bt u want an advise if u re to beat her bah... you re a big fool.... go ask ur mom hw she manage to survive frm d hands of ur dad....
dumb ass asking 4 an advice to beat a girl... i pity ur future wife.... you already said it that she supports you financially.....Oga stand up and hustle so that they won't invite you next month as d MC on her wedding day.

Memberclub:
Bastard! stop talking sh!t & tell us where we can get the laptop for this amount

na ur papa b bastard na.... thief

Memberclub:
Can you show me where I can buy this laptop for 170k? Genuine question
Also show us a picture of your laptop with the price let's debate

Oga,the laptop u re selling isn't new, not even fairly used.... you too think abt it... 1050ti for 340k when i can get above 1050ti with good grahics for 300k..... Nawa o, as i talk b4 enh, God go gv u buyer

Firstandonly:
runs in my family? guy i swear u know well

na u no well, u need physiological help..... imagine d rubbish u are saying that you want to beat someone else daughter that owes you nothing... infact u are mad.... Well if say u try dat rubbish with my relative enh, walia Ogun for kill u....... werey..

I repeat again, beating of women runs in ur family... perhaps ur dad did the same to ur mom..... Idiot

Kogbagidii:
The lappy see no get sad o . Spending more than 220k for a 1050ti lappy with the normal baseline spec is a big waste of money

you dey mind op ni.... mayb op wan buy range rover

392k, heeey 1&half plot of land

Memberclub:
Bought it brand new
Super clean no scratch
Selling with receipt

HP omen 16gb ram gtx 1050ti
Intel core i7 7th gen
2TB

For quick sale
Whatsapp me for more detailed pictures 0807 8487 873
Price 340k

Don't bother pricing or I'll have to block you.

see this big thief o... 1050ti for 340k.... haba, fear God o.... laptop of 170k...... with dat 340k, i go buy beast of a gaming laptop...... you go sell o

Firstandonly:
I started dating my girl around February. she was in a relationship with someone else which she told me about and that the guy always cheat on her with another girl. last month she told me that the ex called her to come to his shop that he what to see her, I told her not to go but she said he only want to apologise and that she deserves an apology from him, ever since then they have been talking.yesterday was her ex birthday i told her not to go she went ahead and visited the ex i was very angry she later apologise that yesterday night.
note: I was the one that dis virgin this girl the only thing her ex got from her was just pre-intimacy and they dated for 2 years.... there was a time after we finish having sex she said something that this was what her ex wanted for so many years but she did not give him, i just behaved as if i no hear...
she is coming to my house today and I don't want to beat her, is there any other way i can correct her and don't tell me to leave the girl i open eye for to another man...
#pls ignore my typing error

All i can see is that beating of women runs in ur family bro.... imagine with ur coconut head all u care abt is to beat her when she isn't married to you..... wise up bro, you got what you wanted and i believe you would cheat on her 10x than she does........SET AWON WOMAN BEATERS