₦airaland Forum

Islandlady:
Seriously you did not do anything wrong Op, but if she insist on doing the Masters let her do it, since she told you it's her long time ambition and she don't need your money! I bet she has another source and support for money!!!

Continue and expand your own business! Just don't stand as an obstacle for her she is truly a lady of ambition to admire

But if you two don't share common goal or can't get alone with each other dreams then let her go!

Thank you

shege45:
are you scared of her having a degree more than yours? Cus I see no problem here. She said she no go ask u for money and u dey distrb am. Wait, wat if u guys break up tomorrow? So she lose u n masters. Uncle, say u just wan break up cause u don tire

scared of her having a second degree? what are you blabbing,, when has that become an achievement especially in this present Nigeria of ours, those ladies with master are they only dating or marrying men with masters, l am talking about a society were money rules, even if tomorrow we are not together l am teaching her to be self reliance and make money for herself instead of going back on the lies the society keep throwing at us about certificates, l am not tired of her, l am worried she isn't taking the right step, she is the woman l want to marry

Demonicus:
Comot here op

you no just want see reason to leave that banny yet.

Go and make a research on what female hypergamy is manny,

Ladies only date and sleep with guys they feel are superior to them bro.

you can be right shaa, but it still boils down to her perception, but l sincerely believe this in most cases applies in area of her having more finance than you,, having a master degrees with no money in the pocket wont really change much, back then in he university a lot university girls dated and slept with all this business men who didn't even finish O level, I am not giving any excuses, people can change, but l honestly dont think having a master over a degree increases any level.

Godoverevery:
Like every one said you shouldn't stop her from going on to do her masters but have it in back of your mind that you will be financially committed........If a woman tells you she doesn't need your money that a lie from the deepest pit of hell.

Running a Master program ain't cheap anymore even in a federal government university........it cost millions now.

My advise to you is stating it clearly to her you aren't financially buoyant to support this ambition hence she won't be able to blackmail you in the future.

Thank you very much, That is what l will emphasize on, some people are just myopic in nature, the degree she did no job came out of it, you happen to get a good location were business is booming ,you want to dump it after a year to go for a master degree, a girl that is in her late twenties already that should be thinking on settling down,,

HopeNeverDies:
Damnnnn!!! Bro... She can’t be controlling you and plus someone up there is right; if she does and comes back, she would definitely feel some kind higher than u and that sucks Honestly.

Girls these days are almost parasites.

l dont think so, na man dey marry Ngozi okonjo iweala , it depends on her mentality though,

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Demonicus:
6lack - Let her go comes to mind when reading this super story,

Op if she goes through with the Master degree and you're still with her, she will start feeling like she's way above your standard and that's a fact.

so having a master degree will make her feel she is above my standard? l no dey even think am that way abeg, no be 200 and 300lv students dey sleep with lecturers wey get phd?

Please help advice me,

We both finished our NYSC service last year, luckily enough we started a POS business and as God will have it, we are both doing well, we both make a minimum of 5k at least on daily basis.

The main problem is that of recent she is talking about applying for her masters degree, l told her what is the essence of going for masters degree when the degree we obtain has not been any useful to us, why not expand this particular business, be financially stable before you start talking about masters, beside we need to build our self financially well if we have to settle down.

She told me that is her long time ambition and she is not expecting any money from me, she left my house this morning with anger.

Please Nairalanders, did l do anything wrong? What is the best way to handle this issue?

oyatainer:
You are the Dillard here. He said Ronaldo presence destroyed the Chemistry of the team just like what Chelini said that they forget their identity immediately Ronaldo joined because of too much attention on him over others.
It's good to have Ronaldo but building team around him is bad.
Don't forget, United wọn their first few matches of the season emphatically before Ronaldo came. But the first matches he played, he scored two from three, where are the other scorers?

United and Juventus used to have at least three players that scored 12 - 15 goals per season until Ronaldo joined them. This is what kills a team better that u don't know.

The atmosphere in the locker room is the main issue that affect the on field games.

Cavani without being a regular player last season had 16 goals in 26 appearance for United. How is this different from what Ronaldo is doing this season?

Ole asked for Sancho and a creative midfielder because they were not convincing at the middle last season, United heard the possibility of City signing Ronaldo, they left coach priority and jump at Ronaldo.

You type rubbish, what is stopping Juventus from winning the league since he left? and how is the team build around him,,? Manchester United have been inconsistent and fans have been calling for ole to be sack prior to the coming of Ronaldo,, what chemistry is there in inconsistency? why can't u just put it plain as it is that the other players were simply jealous and could not contain the aura of Ronaldo, so if you are a coach you will miss the chance of signing Ronaldo and use injury prone and inconsistent cavani, for the past 3 seasons our top scorer have always been bruno, why dont he take the blame as Ronaldo is taking since the team was built around him, how can u watch maguire, man utd defense ,mactominay and fred and claim that Ronaldo kill their chemistry, what nonsense chemistry is there in a team that they were unable to win any trophies for five seasons now and only qualify for champion league once in 4yrs

Badgers14:
Recall, Maguire and Co weren't this bad last season.

so he made them bad, one player made all 11 players bad , that even when he is not on pitch twelve times they couldn't do anything

Don27tiky:
yes he played a vital role. A team that finished second last season is languishing in 6th position and many of you still think he improved Man U. His presence affected many players negatively. Man U use to be a team built around no one but today it is al about Ronaldo.

when l see this type of comment l sense the voice of foolishness, so finishing second last season is an assurance you will do better this season, how exactly is this team build around Ronaldo? take away bruno who are those players playing for Ronaldo? is it greenwood, rashford , wanbisaka or pogba? for the past five seasons what significant achievement did Manchester United made? it is only Ronaldo that get the blames for other players inadequacy, how come he did not destroy the chemistry in Portugal,, 12 matches Manchester United played this season without Ronaldo and end up not winning a single one and you dare type this nonsense, l never know been second is such a big achievement untill it involves Ronaldo now in Manchester United, very foolish set of football fans, l guess Watford sign Ronaldo that is why they are relegated this season, why didn't Chelsea win the champion league this season since they won it last season? just myopic set of opinions.

uthman2019:
Is osinbajo not part of the current stupid adminstration?

is tinubu an exception?

if no job is coming look for a capital and start any business , l finish last year and what l am doing now is giving me a minimum of 5k everyday wetin l wan use job do, l will expand it build a house and marry biko

oshiokpu:
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Is marketing not a Job?

what stop u from doing the marketing? instead of doing marketing why not go to street open something and do the marketing for yourself,,

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Ebenezer4141:
Your point is clearly invalid and clueless in this case.

So because there are no jobs waiting for them they should wallow their time within the four walls of the university??

The delay you experienced that triggered "the way of hustling in the street" is not palatable for some students. Hustling is acceptable for most students but not "on the street".

In that case, it is better they graduate timely to carry out various prospects they have planed out after their graduation. There are opportunities they may encounter that involves age thresholds that may severely affect their applications or approval.

This one you are writing is grammar,, l guess you are one of those students,, when you finish the reality will set on properly, l wont argue with you biko,,

When will graduate start avoiding this slavery og a work call companies?

Although buhari is one clueless leader and incompetent,,but one thing l like about this man is the alpha traits in him, a no nonsense man,,ASUU own is too much ,,so they even collect salaries for staying at home 5- 8 months every year,why wont they always want strike? please this decision must stand ,let them stay at home for 6 months without salaries and let see if strike is the only way to solve issues,, and please nobody should talk about any students future ,, is not as if they finish there is any job waiting for them,so why are they in a hurry to graduate? it is during this striking period self that l was able to learn the way of hustling in the street that is paying me now after graduation,,let them learn a business skill,is an advantage to them.

The major disadvantages of marrying early,, is obvious you did not enjoy your early age, u just jump into marriage,now you are bored.

FIRDAUS3:
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gaskiyamagana:
My brother, their sworn hatred for Christians, born to rule mentality couple with effects and fear of power shift will change everything to favour Atiku, if at all Buhari forced Osinbajo as APC Presidential candidate. Similar fate awaits Tinubu if he emerges as the presidential candidate.

mark my word bro this can only happened when Tinubu wins the primaries

should this guy retire so that you people can rest? why this so much propaganda and hatred against one person

Kizzygentle:
But for a truth I always imagine how this guys that marry this older ladies especially the public figures do this.. This celebrities at their prime are top oloshoes that's why they don't marry when they are suppose to.. I mean it's ridiculous how a vibrant and very successful oriented man like this will settle with such.. Well it's a good thing to settle regardless of whoever u settle with, who am I to say less.. I wish them the best in their marital union. May God bless us with our own ribs..

how many women are not oloshos? even those girls in secondary and universities,, girls in their twenties how many of them have less than 10 body counts? professional or domestic ,, olosho is olosho,, in fact domestic olosho is even worse in most cases.

Funflipper:
VP normally takes over from the president in which country? Certainly not Nigeria. Osinbajo made a mistake, he should have sacrificed his ambition for the sake of loyalty which we lack in Africa.

loyalty kill u there ,is Nigeria a commodity or tinubu personal property? dont he respect tinubu,? what loyalty are u talking about again?