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Raalsalghul:
RedMac, don't let anyone guilt trip you into settling for what you don't want.

Stick to your standards.

If it was the other way round, a lady will unabashedly and unrestrainedly state her desires/specs and everyone sort of rolls with it: nobody will bat an eyelid.

So why can't you?

Good character and peace of mind are overrated. You deserve more!

Build yourself while you're at it too.

from this comment l can bet you are not upto 25yrs, good character and peace of mind is overrated abi? dont worry life and maturity will teach you otherwise.

mastermaestro:
Shut up, slow man. Do you know the op at all? Don’t be stupid! Go through his posts and topics before coming here to sound stupid.

you sound stupid, why all this emotions,? the question is the post you feel obembet makes against messi are they fact or lies? Has messi not been a poor Signing for PSG as it stands? did they pay him huge amount of money to score 1 goal in over half a season now?

mastermaestro:
Op, I have noticed you are negatively on Messi’s matter morning, afternoon and evening. Don’t go and kill yourself over someone who has made name, fame and wealth for himself and family for many many years to come. This is negative obsession. You need to re-evaluate your purpose in life.
Messi is living his dreams! Find yours and live it before you waste away your life chasing stupidity. It’s disgusting already what you are doing. I seriously question your sanity. This is very abnormal.

oga calm down joor is messi the only name on that list? you writing this trash have u make name for yourself,

emmykk:
If you are dating a woman older than you please desist from it.if you love her enough to marry her you do yourself.

1. She will get old faster than you especially after giving birth and the love you have for her will beginning to dwindle.

2. When you later see lady of your age that you were supposed to married you will either be cheating on your old cargo or will be forming attitude to divorce her.

3. But if you marry a lady your are older than like 10years she will always be intoxicating you even after child birth because she will always be younger and shiny

Listen to wisdom nothing in 21 century that is new. in the book of Solomon it is written there is nothing new under the sun.
Technology may be new but love and marriage are ancient things

you know nothing about love and relationship, in fact you have no knowledge about human generic growth, haven't you meet women who will grow older than their age? how can u marry a woman u are 10years older than , do u even value your peace of mind? what makes u believe all women grow ugly with wrinkles when they get older, have u seen Genevieve, regina askia, kate henshaw rita Dominic etc? so you are advising this guy to forfeit a woman who loves and cherish him over a girl who is just younger,,if you like marry a woman who is 20yrs younger than you, keep her in hunger and fail to take care of her, she will soon start to look like your grand mum.

ominilongest:
she no fine but them go slay me because I talk true clowns

you post ur picture make we see

ObaKlaz:
OK, bye.

No! come and talk naa you think u are the only one that can spill gibberish,, clown.

Vipro:
So what you posted on your page on that glorious day was deceit to cover your pains.

You should have expressed this on that day.Well,express or not,the deed has been done,work hard to get a balondor so Leo won't get 8.

be careful with what you give your support, just pray you have not work so hard for something and someone will take it right in your eyes I swear you will understand how painful it is.

rollywise:
I hope you not a man coz your daft brain will be get another daft brain. I asked a simple question but you rushed down as assistant Jesus who's brain is in his anus to spill evidences of your low IQ and improper home training. Do you know from my question a member that needs help and has not gotten it has spoken up? You think I'm your mate in this life and beyond. Ozuooooor

lame excuses,,,fools like you should learn to give once in a while,so as to understand gratitude,, out of all the pastors who will not release a dime to help others, it is this one that is giving life and hope u choose to criticize, if any member in his church complain to u about not getting help from the pastor you should help him yourself,, the pastor is just one person he alone can't do it all.

rollywise:
It's an advice. I'll not be a fool. But mine to you is a judgement. You'll be a bastard

people like you are not just poor but witches at the same time, must u criticize in everything? you been bastard is enough l wont join u to it, just pray u dont end miserable with ur hatred

rollywise:
Are there no poor members who need financial aid in this man's church??

dont be a fool, are there not poor people in your neighborhood? what have u done for them?

iTearHerToto:
If they love Messi then why didn't they give it all to him all these years but shared with Ronaldo and Modric? Wailer

that by now would have make the award useless,, so you u are better and smarter than the millions of people criticizing this award this year?

BluntCrazeMan:
Apart from the number of goals,, what else??

what else do u expect from a striker m.o.r.o.n?

TundeWX:
University degree....its until u leave the shores of this country u realise how worthless it is.....lest I forget,the average gala hawker earns more than the average degree holder in the present clime

can you give us a lay out statistics or numbers of gala sellers making money than degree holders? give us your research? speak with fact dont blab like a fool.

comtem2011:
I am not the one giving the job o. By the way, I am a female.

so pls how do l get to the person and were can l send my c.v

comtem2011:
Graduate/OND pls. It's just 2 people needed.

brother l just send a message to u, l speak hausa very well and l have a bsc.
Although l am a guy, pls try and consider me boss, thanks , here is my contact,,09030708548 , l already sent an email too.

stronglink:
please anyone with info about this question should help me out.

yes a room is available for 50k, but u pay 5k initial for agent fee and 50k as in subsequent years, if interested chat me up for my contact.

hybrid11:
Offload ronaldo and get your team back
Goat my yansh

you are a fool

EkehPraise:
Yes my chairman

detach yourself emotionally from this girl,, agree say she no be ur own, try get another babe,, dont spend a dime for her again, mute her WhatsApp status and go to Facebook and limit what you can see from her, l can bet with my life that the girl mind is somewhere else,and that is because you are too nice to her, that is how women are,, when she ever calls or try to get back dont get excited and lose guard focus on fvcking her, anytime u spend a dime on her make sure u collect first,, fvck her like a LovePeddler or else this girl emotionally drain u.

EkehPraise:
Honestly I am not trying to sound like a broken record though I'm hurting badly because I don't know how to feel, but this my babe that I've been dating for the past 2 years hardly calls me. Times without number we have talked about it and she promised to improve but that has not been the case.

We have discussed marriage plans and also introduced each other to our families hoping to give it a go ahead come 2022 by God's grace which I know she will be happy to settle with me but two days ago during my break time from work I checked my phone and as usual was about calling her then it occurred to me that this is what I do everyday from good morning to goodnight no calls from her except I call or chat first so I decided not to call or chat yet till now nothing from her.
She has been online on whatsapp, I am sure she calls other people. I have made up my mind not to call or write to her first and if she doesn't reach out to me then I will just bone and move on gently.

you don fvck am before self?

Davash222:
So, what's wrong in selling spaghetti?

It's more noble to sell spaghetti and pay your bills than to be doing nothing and beg for urgent 2k every time.

it is noble doesn't make it right my brother,, why will someone go to school and end up selling spaghetti,?why not continue with the spaghetti after secondary school? the position our leaders put this country into has make mediocrity a normal thing.

ikay00406:
Respectfully sir, this is Trash. Say no to monarchy or nepotism.

Nepotism in what aspect? is all his sons serving in government? what if this one he appointed have the qualifications and what it takes to carry out that project? pls let not be poor and be witches at the same time.

Cee0nne:
I read series of comments under this post already and I found most of them senseless.
Comments like, "girls below so so age aren't this, aren't that," ,"be ready for so-so" blah blah..all these are trash..
Age doesn't determine how how intelligent,decent and experienced a girl is,OP,you don't have to come here to seek advice from people with failed relationships and broken heart here,cuz most people on this forum are broken hearted already,and that has changed their mentality that all Nigerian girls are useless,not worthy or wareva..
Decide for yourself,if the girl really worth it,GO for her..
Me writing this is an 18 years old girl dating a 30 year old boy,and I never intend to break his heart or hurt him..we both love each other,I can't leave him and I trust he loves me so much also,so please keep your relationship decisions off this forum...most people on this forum are bittered

if you like the op be kind enough to tell him the truth, that you are different doesn't make those words untrue, you are not a man and you dont know about our experiences and observations, most girls in their teenage age and early twenties are not just ready for marriage simple! so also the boys, "Age is just a number is one of the world most myopic post" in as much as some people decide to remain foolish even as adults doesn't mean maturity does not come with age, most girls in their teen and early twenties are myopic, emotionally unstable and lack the psychological strength to handle a relationship talk more of marriage,, sit with girls of ur age grade and sit with women in their late twenties and thirty and tell me the content of their discussion and aspirations.that u are different doesn't change the truth.

Brunicekid:
Age discriminator spotted... Age is just a number... So, over 23 will not drain your energy?

guy like or hate it ,most girls in under 23 will drain ur energy, dont dare compare with mature women.

Nwaotu10:
All right.

Would you mind to help me get a pc, sir?
I want to learn video-editing. Mehnn! Joblessness is pummeling me unmercifully.

the fool will run away now

temitope27:
ur are also talking about running a POS business, there are so many non- graduate that do that shit ur are Happy about, thou good luck to you, my job gives me btw 80k-120k monthly and am still just 25,so stop hating

That is the point . the business and skills non graduate are bragging with most graduate are already learning and taking over it and at the end they still have their certificate,, 80 to 90 percent of the students in University and colleges already have handwork,, so when they come out they end up sharing that skill with you and you mr non graduate will have nothing else to compete with so who will lose at the long end? Remember l started attacking you when a guy beg u for money to feed here and u end up mocking him because he is a graduate,,this is why l am giving u sound reasons why most graduate despite the unemployment rate are still far better than non graduate... just like education, skills and handwork is becoming saturated too,, everyone must not do business and skills or else hunger will finish the so called people with the handwork,, graduate should not be mock and disrespected,, when most of them are gainfully employed that is when those with skills and crafts also make their money, so guy humble yourself ,you keep shouting u are 25yrs as if u are still a kid, at 26 l make over a 100k and yet l dont feel as if l have even started,, l wish u good luck in ur endeavors, if u dont like university it is understandable but dont ever think u are better than graduates because u have a skill that millions of people will join very soon. have a nice day.

temitope27:
ur are also talking about running a POS business, there are so many non- graduate that do that shit ur are Happy about, thou good luck to you, my job gives me btw 80k-120k monthly and am still just 25,so stop hating

5k multiply by 30 is 150k l even make more than that and yet l am still thinking big on how to expand , am 26 and yet after going to school l still makes better than you, if any contract or government work wey go pay well come l go still collect am and still maintain my business, if government program like N.power and the rest come l go still collect am and maintain my business,, so how are u better than me? guy it is more easier for a person to end up poor in this country if they are not educated,, now u are seeing this cash try and register in any institution even if ot is N.o.un so u dont end up limiting your chances,, you are still young ,forget all this unemployment bullshit,, get online skills too ,, develop yourself.

90 percent of the people that commented on this Thread confirm that they recover more than their school fees and spending after graduation,, like it or not many graduate are succeeding and doing well after school,, if you think the 4yrs u will use getting an education and the certificate will give u billions ,then good luck in your quest,, Living in a third world country like Nigeria with little or no exposure and yet not educated is very dangerous,, who in the world taught us that you must be employed or work for government as a graduate? Going to school have benefited me enough in this country, the enlightenment, exposure, confidence l got through out my stay in the university and during my service year is enough to make me succeed in any endeavors l put my hands into,

temitope27:
so y av u nt make it? Y hasn't my secondary School teacher never make it at 60

see this mumu, go and take the statistics of illiterate and graduate and see who dey suffer pass for this country,, the fact that graduate are unemployed, is giving much attention is because they are special, there are millions of unemployed and broke school drop out like you and nobody gives a fvck, l just finish service last year, and l run a p.o.s stand that gives me not less than 5-6k a day, this is just the starting, by God grace by the end of next year l will sweep all the earning wey dey full your head, no go register ur self for school keep looking for graduate u will downgrade, check all the big enteprenuer in this country from obi cubana down to otedola and co, how many of them no go school? the major disadvantage of not been a graduate is what u are displaying here, insecurities,, that is why most of u non graduate will stick inside one shop, one business and one idea, meeting just ur basic needs and thinking you are wealthy,, l repeat unless na graduate wey no know waiting him go do for school go dey think say schooling na waste.

temitope27:
are you ok, Mr graduate

see envy,, so as you no go school graduate are now ur rival, forget say u get now, that guy go still make am pass you,, unless him no know wetin him go do for school.

complexBoss12:


If I had the information that I do today, I wouldn't have wasted 4 years of life for nothing.

If you're about to enter a Nigerian University, and you don't have connection, don't waste your time reading a non professional course!! when I say professional course I am not talking Psychology or Mass Comm. they are still useless in Nigeria.

calm down bro, u talk as if 4yrs will still not pass if u did not attend the school,, now put this in your head majority of the people who did not go to the high institution still did not make it,,