them tell u say them get any job? graduate embrace business ,,, go to the street u will make money fvckk this people

The desperation and pressure parents are mounting on their girls child for marriage will soon lead them to early grave..
It is the right time society should start normalizing women marrying in their thirties ,, a lot of men in their 30s cant even feed themselves talk more of those in their twenties,, Men in their 40s are already married,, so who will marry all this girls littered around? is it unemployed youths earning below 50k?
O. p dont pay a dime until their desperation is clip off,, their daughter is not a commodity and shouldn't be.

BenuePolitician:
Meanwhile the previous administration Led by President Buhari, banned the importation of rice in order to develop Local rice production. Why in God's name is the present administration making a mockery of Governmental powers when we have states with proven agricultural prowess (Benue ) capable of producing all the rice necessary to feed all Nigerians and also export

why didn't they do it in the past 9yrs?

Yankee101:
And kill the business of all those that invested locally in rice production

To think someone will be worse than buhari in leading Nigeria is unimaginable

let those business die,, greedy fellows,, for almost 10yrs Nigerians starve and suffer to let local farmers grow and feed the nation , what did we get in return? exploitation with silly excuses,, if the so called business investors can not handle competition they should fold up.

TruthinAction:
Nigeria is a joke. The more we keep importing virtually everything, the more our Naira looses its value.

Go and sit down abeg,, all this while we have not been importing how have the so called naira skyrocketed in value,, that you did not see anything wrong with buhari scam of local rice production shows how some of you sound intelligent but knows nothing in real life

deniguy05:


I see why you don't have 25k. you are just a rude nitwit. you should work on yourself man. your family business should be your decisions. if your dad kpoof. who go handle am. try get sense

Give birth to children u can't fend for and expect that when u kpoof they will take care of them,, God will punish u even in ur grave,,
l dont have 25k and that is why l didn't bring children into this world..
my fathers children are his responsibility and not mine ,u should also raise ur lazy azz and accept this truth so that u wont end up as a burden to the children that didn't ask u to bring them in to this world

advanceDNA:


First let me ask you......how will u know she has no connection with the ex again?? What I mean is what' steps are you going to take to know that will make u conclude she is 10/10 with you

l want to install a tracker on her phone,,, her WhatsApp, Facebook and calls,, this alone will give the answer l need since the ex of a guy is not in Abuja

advanceDNA:


Don't marry any woman thats is still emotionally attached to her ex....it almost doesn't end

...they are usually not happy and not totally connected with their husband in marriage

..the "what if" clause always remain in their mind....because to them, u are just an available person to marry .....not the real person their heart wants.....

thanks man,, but if l find out she have successfully disconnect herself from this so called ex should l give her another chance?

SIMPonPatrol:


You have no business with the guy, your business is with the lady you're dating and if you cannot get her to focus on only you then you should call it quits

Thank u sir,, l have told her and l will be watching her..

eventainment:
So your babe should not talk guys anymore she is dating you. So she should put all her eggs in one basket. If she is loyal to you but got guys as friends I don't think that is wrong. If she keeps just friends with her ex I don't see anything wrong. What is you fck up she should now start from stage 0 again. Common man, you can get married at 40 comfortably she can't. If you ain't married or engaged to her don't be wicked to block every option she might have if you fck up

bro this is no excuse,,, there are girls too throwing themselves at me that l keeps avoiding,, l can hit 40 too and find out l have chase out all the good women away in my life because of her ,, if she want to remain loyal let her do it,, l have ex's too and l thank God l told her this yesterday..
she called the guy to cut off any conversation with him,, and she block his number,, l will make innate and thorough investigation ,if l find out she is directly or indirectly talking with that guy l will end this relationship without bitting and eye lid,, there are many girls who kept their option open by dating 10 guys and are still not married today

SIMPonPatrol:
It's not easy to let go of a girl you fukced for 6 years straight

what should l do about the guy then?

malcom1X:



Try to get other options.
You need other options.
Never stop trying.

You are talking like a man with no options.

yeah you are right sha,, l should get another girl and still keep her right?

Bliztzer:


If u listen to everybody, then you won't have a reasonable stand on this matter.

Seat her down and let her know you re not joking around.

Thanks bro,, l was very brutal with my words yesterday l told her to make a choice and she called the guy right in my presence telling him to stop calling her,, my anger is why she didn't tell me after the guy started calling her..
Apart from this issue she have honestly been very loving and supportive,, but like what some of my colleagues up there are suggesting l dont want to trust her and get burn at the end,, starting another relationship all over again doesn't guarantee much,most of this girls are worse.

Itiskdg121:
If you yourself dated a girl for 6 years, won't you still have feelings for her?
Think about how many times they've had sex like at least 5 times a month, that is 5x12x6 = 360 sexual sessions, with probability of 2 abortions in all.

Bro, open your eyes wide. Marriage is not a joke Sir. Leave that girl and consider finding a virgin or a fairly used girl for a relationship.

Truth is bitter, but it's better than lies.

Thanks bro,, honestly l fvcked her as much too,, all this girls are not just loyal,, finding another girl naa that will soon come with her wahala is demoralizing honestly..
But dont u think she is genuinely sorry for her to call the guy and ask him to end all conversation with her,, the guy is in Lagos and we are in Abuja ,, l am sure nothing have go down yet,, please l need ur input on this bro

malcom1X:


Bro the Ex want to give her a goodbye sex before she gets married to you. (First child won't be yours)

The Ex after many years of dating her has soul tied with her that he knows when you guys were having sex that was why he was calling.

You are playing a loosing game because if anything happens to your finances (because a man's value is measured by his finances) she will go back to that Ex.

You'll still marry her no doubt but 5 years from now you'll come back and search for this thread and read all the advice that was given to you on this topic and you'll wish you had taken at least one of it.


You an only an option because the Ex isn't ready for marriage yet. If he was she wouldn't date you.

thanks for ur input bro,, but l am not even that financially ok ,, she started with me two years ago when l literally had nothing

hello dear Nairalanders,, have been dating this girl for two years now and l am thinking of tieing the knot next year,, she has all the quality l want in a woman and l really love this girl...
When we meet she told me she dated a guy for six years in which her parents did not accept her relationship with him when he came for introduction,, l told her to make sure she have gotten over the guy before dragging me into something l dont know..
just yesterday night when she came to my place during love making a number was constantly calling her,, when l enquired she told me it was her ex calling l got mad and surprise she is still in communication with him..
l told her she have to make the decision between me and that guy now ,, long story cut short ,, she was begging that the guy was the one disturbing her and she called him in my present to tell him to stop calling her ...
seriously my trust for this girl is almost gone and l am seriously thinking on ending this relationship,, l need ur input my lovely Nairalanders.

Zonefree:
At 20-26 years, she had numerous men coming at her but she neglected them cos she was busy exploring and whoring her flower age.

At 27-33 years, she flooded religious houses, praying and fasting for same men she rejected and neglected during her flower age.

At 39, she's now blaming innocent spirit husband for her mistakes.
She didn't remember spirit husband when she was flying from dick to dick like a butterfly during her flower age.

Women should learn to take responsibility for their actions!

This is a foolish comment,, you and those that like this comment are inherently stupid,, do you know there are a lot of your age mate that are wey richer and wealthier than you?
when they were making money u were busy smoking and lazying around stealing people things,, now how does this sound,?.
you are a very stvpid boy and l am sure you are not more than 25yrs,, for the fact that women rejected ur broke azz doesn't mean you turn enemy and comes to public forum to spill nonsense..
How many of u bashing women like this can hold a wife? if they carry woman give u now u fit feed am? swear to God u have money for marriage even if an angel will be sent to u now?
You have sisters,, if you dont have, u will get daughters mind what u fight,, ur turn fit come earlier than u think..

All this small small boys with upside down mentality...
If an under 25yrs old girl is not bringing virginity to my house what am l gaining from marrying her? it is only an inexperience man that thinks a woman body count has anything to do with her age,,,
Most of this under 25yrs are not virgin's, majority are not psychologically mature for marriage,, 90 percent of them are broke and have no asset except their phone,,
Just what exactly is my gain,,? wont they still hit 30 and 40 when l marry them?
the tightest pvssy l fvked this year is even that of 28yrs old lady,, why should l marry a girl of 22yrs with no money,no experience and no virginity?😒😒

federal9:
Once in the Navy, they will post you to another place. It's not Mandatory you will reside in the place you do your business. My friend in the navy was posted to Kaduna.

He was assigned in Porthacourt, from Ph, he is now in Kaduna. He was formally residing in Lagos.

All I want you to know is that you might be posted where you ain't or didn't expect.

my fears exactly,, l love Abuja honestly and will like to start my family here

jaeyking:
If you get the navy job(federal govt ) with allowances

U no fit put person to continue the street job unless na illegal

bro l have tried different boys most of them are not reliable

Good day dear Nairalanders,, November this year makes it exactly 2yrs l rounded up with my Nysc, and since then l have been involved in a street business that is quite lucrative,,
On a good day l makes over 10k on a minimum l make 6k,, no day l am not sure of 6k- 7k irrespective of how bad the business is..
My uncle have been making serious arrangements to help me get a Navy job through his friend ,,but l dont have passion for uniform work and l dont even know anything about how lucrative their pay,, please help advise me,, which career part is better

Jeezuzpick:


E don see her finish without commitment.

After wedding, na de same tin wey dey before, maybe plus attitude and entitlement wey been no dey before.

I fit bet anytin say de guy no love her, but as e don dey chop her, e stay dey chop while having other girls outside.

bro na lack of discipline nothing more if u don see woman finish because u dated her 10yrs what will u now say for those who married earlier and leave 30-50yrs under the same roof?

Jeezuzpick:


She be first-class mumu.

He was gbolarizing her for 11 good years, that's the true picture.

Dating, indeed!

Ode of a woman.

what different does it make, if he had married her after 2 months of dating he will still knack her for 11yrs

Emmanuel909090:




Hahahaha, e pain you?
Hahahaha.

Firstly, I'm a proactive person, so if 100 persons quote me I will respond to all. I multi take, my emails means a lot to me, this is just to tell you the kind of job I do.

Funny enough I already have more than enough to take care of myself and family, even if I decide not to work from today.

But you must have to work everyday to buy you parents beans and plantain.
You are a proud illegitimate fool.

You are already crying, because of beans and plantain I wonder how you will complain the day a useless antelope like you gifts your father ordinary 200k.

On behalf of your father you are are a useless thing.

This shows you only read to reply you don't digest anything just spitting out nonsense to make your self feel Good check the person you are quoting before talking about plantain abd beans..
You are just a retarded fool,, and why are u so eager to show how wealthy you are? empty drum like u,
Dont just father children u can't take care of and heap all the responsibility on ur child , God will punish if u dare that,, see how u spend all ur life on Nairaland tomorrow u emotionally blackmail ur innocent child to start carrying ur problem work now u wont go and find something keep blabbing and keep lying to yourself on Nairaland,, idiot

Emmanuel909090:



You just made it obvious that your father raised a miserable tout for a son.

Him calling his father names because he asked for his support is normal.

I said it earlier your father raised a useless thing, you are proud to tell me that all you have done to appreciate your dads effort in buying him beans and plantain.

God forbid having an animal like you as a son.

Fool go and make a transfer to your dad, show him you can be useful.

Even otedola will appreciate it even much more than all he has when his child gifts him money.

Anyways you are not different from the OP, I guess you can proudly call your father names, used rusted idiot.

Yes His hustle is useless, he is complaining that his father is always complaining, yet he has started complaining like his father and you call what he is doing a good hustle.

You are a negative fool.

please and please we should all ignore this bastard,,
Go and father the children u can't take care of and expect your child to carter for them na untimely death go visit you..
Lazy mofo like you,,,see how you are passionately supporting nonsense,, even after talking to my father today he sees more than enough reason to brazen up but u olodo,, beg beg fool thinks it is a normal thing. . God will punish your useless life the day u start mounting pressure on your son to feed your lazy ass, Dont go and look for something doing be here on Nairaland 24/ 7 replying every message that comes to you.. for the fact that you think the word Irresponsible is an insult shows How daft of a fool you are.. useless stupid ugly mofo

Godsongang:
Boss start eating unripe plantain and egg for two week, that penis go rise back and stronger, No need for herb that will damage your kidney.

cook or fresh egg bro?

Emmanuel909090:



It's now so obvious that you inherited your level of stupidity from your parents.

You are blaming the man, because he is not financially capable enough, and you feel the government messing the whole system is doing enough.

Devil punish you scrupture, because you don't pass for a living thing as you are a certified dead beat bastard goat.

You just dont have sense l can bet u are not more than 25yrs,,

Emmanuel909090:



Lol, look at a cheap agent bragging, I expected you to mention reasonable amounts, all you keep mentioning is amounts a cheap fool like you feel is worth the world, 65k, you should be ashamed of yourself and hide your useless face in shame.

Your mates use 65k to fuel vehicles, young fool if POS business is your dream, you will fail much more than your father did.

Some POS agents richer than who?
I'm sorry but did you study POS in school?
What I make in a month, can take good care of you, your father, mother and siblings, and I won't even notice I spent money, because you guys are so cheap, 65k and 25k you are ranting like a mad man.

l am done with u,, Audio billionaire,, Nairaland Dangote,, all of u are always rich on Nairaland u, have this and this who are we going to call to confirm? who we go ask,,
Use some of your wealth to get common sense because u skip it,, you don't badge into a post u have no common experience with and start attacking the poster with insult,, it shows how low of a fool u are...
Did u train yourself in the university? can u in your miserable life have the gut to train and found yourself in school from the age of 19yrs till u graduate? can u build a business with 50k to 700k within a space of 2yrs despite the heavy financial demand coming from a family of six? can u ?
one thing with fools like u who had their foundation perfectly laid down for them is that u think u are better than everyone,, the little change u are bragging about here is still someone peanut money so shut the fvck up...
l can bet my whole life u are exaggerating things here to make urself look richer

Emmanuel909090:



If your family responsibility is too much for you, then you have not single right to call your father irresponsible, you are a big. Fool from all I have seen. Coming here to complain about a 25k bill shows how useless you are as a man.

I hate you already, but I will still advice you idiot.
Stop the unproductive POS business and learn a tech skill, you should be ashamed of yourself, complaining about a bill less than 25 dollars, God will not punish you.

u keep sounding like a fool? The 25k is not my responsibility u slowpoke!! many Pos agent are ten times richer than u can ever be with your mirage of a skill, did l remind u l sent 65k last month from the said Pos business u are barking ur mouth around here? Have l come here to beg u or anyone on this forum for anything before ,, if u handle the kind of responsibility l handle u will fold up within a week... useless he- goat like u

didymario7:

Dear victooman
I will send you the 10k to complete her registration. Kindly let me know how I can reach you. Thanks

Thank u sir, l will send u a dm

deniguy05:


you finished university and you used the words (with no any job) in a sentence smh

God punish u!!! is this the topic or bone of contention now? you should know l was not in good frame of mind when typing this,
The fact that this is the only thing u can pick from this post says a lot about u..