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thesicilian:
Congrats

Thanks

Sonnobax15:

Good.....

Now that you've quitted your only source of enjoyment,so what else are you planning to do?

Any ways, congrats

This is not enjoyment bro, l quitted my sorrow

Firstly if you are convince that masturbation is normal and healthy for you l will advice you skip this thread.
Sometime last year l created a thread with my former account "Vick4rill" were l complain bitterly on how masturbation is ruining my life and l got alot of advice and help from nairalanders, but the irony is that l ended up masturbating three times that night . l gave up and continue since then.
Now before l continue l will like to point out something regarding masturbation about the health practitioners and doctors that l dont like or understand. is either most health practitioners does not have an indept knowledge about the havoc that comes with masturbation or they are not been sincere about the negative effect of masturbation, Try googling the negative effect of masturbation and most articles will end up encouraging you to continue rather than stopping it.
l am 26yrs now and l started masturbating far back in 2005 when l was just 10yrs ,l started masturbating once or twice a week before it excalated to 4 to 5 times a day, there is nothing that is addictive as masturbation.
Since 2005 l had masturbated for a minimum of three times everyday, my life was a complete mess.
It seems as if my productive life ended at 9yrs because from the time l started this habit l did not understand myself again.
l experience the following during this years

1) Depression: Anger for no just reason,

2) Anxiety: despite been an extrovert and a lively person l find it hard to to maintain my confidence, l can't look people inside the eyes and sometimes feel tense for no just reason.

3) laziness: l become very lazy without even knowing, after masturbating l just want to lie on the bed all day and do nothing,

4) weak erection: After spending money to get a girl for sex l find it hard to sustain an erection , it got to a time l start using viagra just to maintain an erection.

5) poor memory loss.. my retentive memory becomes very poor, l find it hard to retain or do anything with my brain.

6) Rejection: l was constantly rejected by the female folks, no woman feel attracted to me,is either l am friendzone or cut off,

These and many more was what l experience. But l gave all the reasons in the world to believe that masturbation has nothing to do with this.
April this year l took a decision to end this and with all the will in me l set a 2 week target not to masturbate, the two weeks was the worst two weeks of my life because l was more into depression. my whole body wanted to do it, but after two weeks l added another two weeks again l don't know were the strength came from,after a month l started noticing changes in my body,

1) l became less depressed, l smile more and interract more,

2) l became more productive: initially all l do with my phone is watch porn and watch online videos, now l know more about fiver, upwork, crpto and online business that will fetch me more money, l exercise and accomplish task far easier.

3) Attraction increase: were l am serving now the attraction from the female is alarming, l begin to wonder if l was not the same guy last year who will not mind having a handicap as a girlfriend due to rejection.

For the first time in my life last two weeks l was able to sustain an erection and ejaculate inside a woman, l never know sex can be this sweet,, in fact it seems as if l just started living for this period of months. as a corper my finances has increase even with the small allawee, l now have more money in my account than when l was doing 40k job .
Many people will give u reasons to continue with this habit but l will encourage you to quit and sincerely observe yourself, l am not religious but l have this feeling that masturbation is demonic, most times it have nothing to do with your libido is more of a compulsion. start with one a day and it becomes a part of your life. quit masturbation ,quit porn forget about any benefit you read on the internet.

MisfitHPG:
seems you are the foolish, someone who has been playing international football for 19 years and 184 appearances with 111 goals,is that a spectacular achievement?go and check Lukaku and Kane's starts,you will see European players who will beat that record,the only thing he has going is his longevity and fitness,nothing special in scoring 111 goals in 184 matches

you really dont have sense, if it is that easy what stop the others who started playing with him from reaching that goal mark

MisfitHPG:
anybody can catch Ronaldo is he plays Andorra and Malta every week

is ronaldo the only European player that plays malta and andora wat sort of foolish talk is this?

Ofadaman:
Again dropping out all the lines to make yourself better, most guys get all these pecks and sex too, you're missing the point simp. Dominance and control is what is needed and clearly you lack that sh"t. You delegated your manly role, a man would spend on the woman, make her protected, seize control in bed as she'd do all to please him,he'd not even worry about manly stuff, but here you are trying to make out excuses why you think you're in control, pathetic , the more excuses and lie you come up with the more of a simp I see .. be done with u simp

she finally let me in dumb head, imagine if l had follow this useless advice, l was even thinking of ditching a good woman because of unknow internet star.

Drsnives:
She doesn't want her real guy back home to notice any slackness in her vj.. i was once in your shoes bro. It will end in tears oo, you better run for your life

it is well bro

Ofadaman:
And you getting your dick sucked, so time to close this shitty ass thread now.since you got your answer, instead of looking for validation that you're a champ or something,instead of admitting you're being used

the problem with people like you is that u are lions online but doves in the real world, if cooking for me, helping me clean my room and constantly sucking my dick is been used, l like that type of been used, so have a nice day

Frankicent:
Gimme her number

lol

Ofadaman:
Safer to shag your own shaft that subjected to such dehumanization. Keep getting your dick sucked while another dude with balls is bending her over

silly talk better l keep getting my dick suck than masturbating myself to stupor, let the guy keep bending her over

Ofadaman:
Lol, sorry SIMPS, you're getting it wrong!.
You don't have to spend and what da fvk you compare dick sucking and love. Such a SIMP, she's wasting your time man, she's committed to someone either cause she's a virgin or she's made an oath. You're just helping her pass the time, and just so you know only few ladies get off from penetrative sex, fingering, Pussy sucking (which u have been doing) is all they need. Stop being a SIMP, you're getting the short end. Don't come on nairaland looking for validation that you're the main deal.

most of you guys that claim red pills are just small boys that don't know anything about a woman, if a woman dont love u, your touch alone irritates her, no girl will kiss or romance a guy she dont have feelings for, for a woman to go down and put ur dick in her mouth is either u are giving her money or she have feelings for u, u talk about me been the only simp available, just hear yourself? are there not other male corpers available that she can go down with instead of wasting time with a person she dont have feelings for,,l already got my answer up there, l did not persist enough, we will go again on Saturday and l will clear your doubt.

Ofadaman:
Lol, sorry SIMPS, you're getting it wrong!.
You don't have to spend and what da fvk you compare dick sucking and love. Such a SIMP, she's wasting your time man, she's committed to someone either cause she's a virgin or she's made an oath. You're just helping her pass the time, and just so you know only few ladies get off from penetrative sex, fingering, Pussy sucking (which u have been doing) is all they need. Stop being a SIMP, you're getting the short end. Don't come on nairaland looking for validation that you're the main deal.

lol let us help each other pass time then, red pill master , how u wish all girls that rejected u at least suck ur dick? u wont be a chronic mastubator by now.

Rickmann:
Only time will tell.

yes true

Rickmann:
You are lucky she has the above mentioned qualities..thats hard to find these days, u know?
If you really love her like you claim , sex would be the last of ur worries, trust me; except you are just deceiving urself.
It's a good thing she loves you too and For me, i'd suggest you respect her decision, love, care for her and be that gentle man she never had in her life and perhaps one day she will begin to feel safe with you.

honestly her character is superb, bro, l know she feel something for me, the penetration is just an assurance to me since she is not a virgin

Ofadaman:
Lol, it's because she's dating someone who knows she's a virgin, so kolework, I once had a romance fling with someone like that, her real guy knows she's a virgin, and they planning on settling down, there's nothing you'd do to make her give it out, and the sad thing is if u manage to even penetrate her, you'd ruin everything you both share, in you case, if it's a resolution she had, why would you want her to break it, and become miserable or a slut. At some point she may not really feel much for u,you may just be the only simps available who won't use physical force to get it (did I mention that some ladies will only yield if you apply some level of persistent and force)

she is not a virgin bro, l dont spend a dime on her, if she dont feel much for me will she be sucking my dick?

dairykidd:
Since she hasn't given u a reason to not trust her actions then just give her the benefit of a doubt. Play by her rules just this once but keep all ur senses highly open because these girls can be very tricky man. I just hope she aint gbenshing another stronger dick but just give her the benefit of doubt. But I wonder why she dey allow u finger without dicking? Anyways good luck

thanks bro, am not even eager to have sex with her, the girl character alone is enough, is just that l want to be sure not allowing me to penetrate her is not an out of not having feelings for me,

ibtommy:
You are very stup'd!!! You're not even ashamed of yourself for posting such rubbish. Go and penetrate if you like. Oniskekushe. Marry if you wan marry... and stop all those dirty things you and the lady are doing. You sound dirty!!! You suck!!!

calm down l did not cause your frustrations in life,,,

romunu:
Beg her tell her, say only the cap, use the cap rub am then just slide in,when you are inside begin de beg her, tell her how much you love her,make small tears commot your eyes, you understand abi? Ok, oya go try ya luck,

lol l will try that, but why do u think she is doing that , sonce she is not even a virgin?

MikeMicheal:
Tell her to close her eyes while you are fingerig her, then quickly put your penis.

l need serious advice pls,

There is this girl l am presently dating now ,she have all the qualities l need in a woman, respectful , intelligent , industrious and have a good character, she seems to love me too, from her actions, The major problem l am having with this girl is that she allows me romance, finge her and give me the best blow jobs of my life, but to penetrate her for full sex is a big problem, she wont let me penetrate her, l have gotten angry and try to avoid her severalltime to observe if she is meeting with any man and there is no evidence, she have given me the password to her phones and social media, and weschool) is lack of penetration enough reason for me to conclude that this girl is not inlove with me,? is she playing any games with me , please my seniors help me abeg.

Onyi22:
This man na woman wrapper, real men don't talk too much

This is the statement women will use to manipulate and kill u before your time, when u dare stand against their manpulative nature and cheating, statement like this will always arise to intimidate u.