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nullboss:
People need to start thinking objectively without allowing their emotions overide their thinking.

According to story The pastor came to your house early morning your siblings were at home, then he raped you left the house came back and gave you crest to drink. You were still there o.
During that time you didn't shout scream or alert your siblings. Can you imagine

Meanwhile this said girl remained a chior mistress in that church for years and her family even after knowing allowed her. Who does that. There are many loopholes in this story.
Then she started fvking the choir master who was Tim Dakolo and got pregnant twice. With Tim Dakolo denying the pregnancy. But the COZA pastor had to force them to marry to save the face of the church. And later got them dismissed sef.
That's why Tim is always attacking the pastor though.
Tim and his wife are both moraly bankrupt people and we shouldn't kill a man based on mere words from them.

Let's be guided and allow Due Justice to prevail..
Some ladies are out to ruin men with this rape sh!!t.

Tim is after this pastor because he felt they were both fviking the girl and he was left to carry the load.because he was forced by the pastor to marry the girl after impregnating her.
You guys should think pls. Don't let emotion and hate overide your reasoning.
The pastor might be bad but don't slander him yet by the mere words of morally bankrupt people.
Let's be objective pls and remain neutral

Phew! What a day

Benekruku:

You cancel from now til tomorrow, more dirty stories about Busola is trendy online.



Phew! What a day!

salford1:
Is it ya money

It's not but dirty details are popping up about Timi wife online .

Someone said Timi and the pastor were both fucvking Busola at that time, and Busola got pregnant, the pastor had to force Timi to marry Busola even though Timi denied he's responsible.

Stories is now opening up with twists here and there.


A supposedly innocent 17 years old girl my foot!

Trust some of these teenage girls version of rape at your own peril.


Timi fall hand sha!

Sighs


What a shame!

I didn't know it was this bad for them. Sighs

Timi is indeed broke!

Oya Timi and wife loyalists start sending money to his Gofundme account.

So he can rise again.. At least Una go get share! It's by percentage. Then Una should pray and fast, his wife wins.. Lol

thesicilian:
Not interested in media trial but that's exactly what you have started. It's not the number of people that come out to say he did it, it's how much evidence you have.

You got it!

Nigeria wey poverty don deal ruthlessly with most people!

What do expect before? 50 women will come. Out and say he raped them.

They are ready to play dirty.

Money to be shared amongst them. Smhhhhh

Timi is truly broke! Now I can see. Chai!

Anyways They had better bring along evidence, no be by number, Na by evidence!

Then I will believe.

studentofTruth:
The issue wasn't whether she enjoyed herself with the man then. (She may have even initiated it herself). The real question (and that's what will nail the man) is how old was she when they started enjoying themselves. If truly she's 17 years when it all started, then it's a case of statutory rape, and that's what the lady is banking on.

That's means she and Timi are in, on this charade for the money!

Smhhhhh


How much they will reel out of the court case if it favoured them
No wonder she said the Pastor can sue her if she's lying!!!

Wow!

Mehn Timi and his wife are even worse than I thought sef!

If it's true, then shame on all of them!

Shame!

Because of money, they are ready to soil their names publicly. Especially Timi wife!

Divay22:
I gave you just two lines . Instead of you to use your big head, you came back spilling trash as usual.
Come o, is this your big head for fancy?
Can't you use it ?

See ehn, I didn't read it . Just stop giving people your useless epistle when you're suppose to go straight to the point.
My last reply to you. Court rise!

I don't have your time.

You can wail all night, the floor is yours.

Bye!

234GT:
God bless you. Na only you get sense for this thread
What happened was not rape.

Of course it wasn't rape!

She fell inlove with him, they had sex, she was even in awe he's fucvking her that's why she lay calm and quiet. He did the first one in her house, second sex again at the back of his car!
For God sakes! Are people blind!
She had better accept reality, he won't marry her even after three kids to her husband to the singer.
So she should stop dreaming and claiming victim here.


There was one day, I saw a chat between a 16years old girl and a 30years old guy on romance section. Come and see how this girl was assuring the guy, how skilful she is on bed and she wil even bring her friend along for three some.. I was like WTF!

16 years old! Ha! All these teenagers cannot be trusted! They wan become madam overnight with sex!

Well Pastor has replied them through his lawyers, the case is in court now!

millhouse:
I crossed examined busola's Testimony...it has an agenda. All she kept saying was she did not do anything at every point painting herself in as a naive 16 years old. She told nobody even tho she and her mum was close. No one noticed her sudden change in behavior to probe what was happening to her. She mentioned at a point that they always host all this infinity guys in their house. From her story I could relate she has this flare for celebrities. I would not be shocked if she made the first advance to the pastor in quote. No wonder she ended up marrying another celeb. I think she just like to play the innocent. She even mentioned she was quite outspoken and not an introvert? how come she is not talking like a naive child still in the interview after how many children? So she still went back to that church after all that? So many things are not corresponding. The only thing I can infact bring out is that there was indeed a sexual relationship. She is probably aiming for revenge for how she was treated by him. From my analysis of her, she was actually tripping for him at that time being an handsome and influential dude. Every guys should know how ladies can change naratives to suit themeselves when they want. There is more to the story.

You too much!


U just too much with the correct analysis!

Shebi she wants him to sue her. Ode!

She can deceive Nigerians but she can't deceive you and i

Perfect!

Sue them to their last kobo, make them even borrow join to pay up!

Gullible husband and wife!

Divay22:
Mama, she was 17 years old
What the hell you saying

Grandma, even if she was 17years old, she can still scream to alert neighbors. She can still fight him off as long as he's not holding a gun to her head and she can definitely tell her family immediately, so they get him arrested. Instead of getting dressed to attend his church program on Sunday, just few days after the rape! Who does that as a rape victim? And carrying his new born baby for his wife!

Biko use your brain. You should have one sha, even though it's rusty, dusty and not in touch with reality anymore

If the family knew and it was settled amicably within them? Then why bring it up again nw!

At age 6! Just 6 years old I ran from a man who wanted to rape me. Yes I ran, I didn't seat there like a mute girl. I ran as my legs could take me , screamed and ran out of the house to go tell my mum.

So grandma, don't accept rubbish when u see it. Teach your daughters and grand daughters what it means to protect their privates. It's not that hard.

toprealman:
We can only wish them the best tho.

True
I wish them the best.

toprealman:
Confusing himself with dates already......#OnlyTime
Tonto Dike did more than this for the then Mr X......I guess.

Don't mind the men talking.

Tamar is doing all those washing and all, to get remarried again.


Men love to be fooled.

Anyways I don't see anything wrong in cleaning your man's house but doing it just for the sake of getting a ring, it's wrong but that's what men love to see their babes doing.

And babes ready to do am wella! To the teeth.

You go bow for submissiveness.

Let them marry, I give them few months! Just few months, not even up to a year sef, Adefeso will start wailing women are scums. Lol

Simple logic!

sentiments aside .


Anyways anything to destroy pastors reputation Nigerians are ready, heads on.

Rosay15:
There’s something I don’t understand oh, people asking for evidence.
Shey dem Dey ready for rape or what cus Nigerians are so gullible.

Abi naija be like America wey cctv Dey everywhere
This pastor shd just respond to this cus this isn’t the first time and he is not the only pastor that we have in naija.

If one does not want to be raped, there will be struggles and most times scratches and manhandling from the rapist, trying to pin down the prey. Also the victim is meant to fight or struggle with him, either by scratching his eyes or face.
All those are part of the evidence to show the lady who is the prey do not want sex or any sexual acts from the predator whom this time is the pastor.
Assuming the pastor held a gun on her head, then she can't struggle or scratch. He does not even need to hold her down with iron fists.
But in this case, there is no gun.

She claimed she struggled feeble for a while and that's not a good sign.

U can't be weak towards an unharmed man, who wants to rape, even if he's a beloved pastor. You need to be alert to protect your body no matter what.

Immediately one is raped if there is no gun pointing at the person's head. The rapee should have marks of print of his hands holding her wrists that was held tight! So she won't move, then at the clitoris, or vagina region, there should be marks at the entrance to show forceful penetration. And possibly his pubic strand of hair should be found there, also a drop of his sperm around the vagina region. Also there should be drops of his sperm around the area he raped her.
All these are evidence,if the rapee reports ontime and get the rapist arrested!

Try as much as possible to scratch out the face of the rapist! That scratch will give him away! Don't be passive and allow him in so easy, then later after some years, u scream he raped me! That's total bullshit!
Report while the evidence is still hot!

His grip on the lady's wrist is a sure mark! With scratches as well.


So my dear, Biko report immediately if u are raped.

CosmicPhoenix:

to be honest,without concrete evidence nothing will come out of this issue

As in nothing!!!!

The story wil die a natural death after a week or so.

And the implication of Nigerians going forth to condemn the Pastor without having evidence to claim he's a rapist, can make other women follow suit to destroy the names of other pastors who they feel like smearing his name.

So any woman who is raped or girl who is raped, cry out immediately! And report the case to the appropriate authorities, if not your case is as good as dead on arrival.

You can't just wake up how many years down the lane and come up with a story without evidence.

[quote author=CosmicPhoenix post=79750534][/quote]Hahahahahahahaha


Yes!

GrabHisBalls:
There's no proof of rape apart from her words against his. What is she to use in court? Regardless, don't assume she's lying. The pastor is still human.

I know the pastor is human.

But do you know with what you are saying? Any woman can just come up online and says Pastor so so so raped her, cook up a story and almost everyone wil start attacking the pastor.

She could be saying the truth but she can as well be partially lying .

Why castigate this Pastor and throw him to wolves when he has not been proven guilty.

All we have is her words against his personality.

Nobody knew what really happened between both of them. But they are demonising the pastor already.
It's bad!

How I wish she can arrest and charge him to court, so he pays for his Sins. If hes guilty as charged.
If not? People wil still keep tripping to his church for salvation and more wil say because he didn't marry her that's why she wants to destroy his name, at the peak of his career. On Sunday, u wil see how people will troop and worship there.

Well have said so much online about this tape allegations brewing today.
But my stance is this: To be raped is a Terrible thing to go through and I expect Busola to arrest and charge Pastor Biodun to court, if she was truly raped.
Going online with video tapes talking about what might have happend 15years ago, simply shows u only want to destroy his reputation , assuming it lies . It would have held a lot of weight and better if he was arrested!
Arrest this Pastor with evidence and bring along witnesses whom u must have Confided in and let the law takes its course.
Or else in a sane country this Pastor can sue you and your husband to your last kobo with nothing remaining.
And who for God sakes tell her rapist to come Sue her if she's lying?
Seriously?
Who does that?
You claim you were raped and you say your rapist should sue you?
Sighs, I rest my case.
That's my take on it!

If you throw in insults, I won't even waste my. Time to reply you.
Let's behave like civilised human beings.
Thank you.

AmazonHippolyta:
I could not help but quote her I was shocked that a woman typed such. I am not taking sides but being insensitive and stupid at the same time is a disaster
Anyway na victorian a known Nl clown.
I won't reply her again. I am allergic to brainless people.

You and thoniameek, should give yourselves brains.

Internet is buzzing of rape allegations, u are talking of Nairaland Clown

Maybe you made yourself a clown, that's between u and Nairaland.

Dumb village goats !

Keep getting raped and go online to tell the rapists to sue Una..

Ode! No single grain of sense.

Ekpa!

AmazonHippolyta:
Get an active brain woman
Such a nincompoop
Now I realise your brain is faulty get well soon.

You didn't even read what I typed. You were just rushing to type yours back


Village goat, keep ranting all day and night.

AmazonHippolyta:
Na you mumu pass to be a mumu a mugu and an idiot at the same time is a disaster.
Very insensitive being.
*spits*

Ordinary common sense you don't have!

What am I even saying sense is not even common!

You notice a pastor always on your case, won't you flee? Will u still be there waiting to be seduced or raped?

No need to answer. You are Useless sef!

I'm even wasting my time on a dunce like you.

If you like keep spitting everywhere like a village diseased cobra, I'm less concerned!

Drink sniper if my word taya you


Useless animal.

Shut up!

Keep going to where u wil be raped! U hear?

Ode!

I'm done with you!

Wait first, yes you come! * 3 knocks on the head*!

Woman u are supporting is telling her so called rapist to come and sue her? Are both of you normal at all?

Instead of Una to bundle unaselves to arrest pastor, u here talking trash.

Person wey dem rape is waiting for rapist to sue! You all are mad! Una no well!

AmazonHippolyta:
Quiet jor it is never too late to speak out at 18 years would you be bold enough to tell your parents and file charges. People like you back then would even tell the victim to keep shut.

Mumu

And she's even saying sue me if you dare!

You wey Dem rape, no sue or arrest the so called rapist. But keeps ranting online she was raped.

So what should we call this one naw?

famzynet:
Nonsense. Why did you not shout or report him to police then. You enjoyed it. Just say you had expected him to marry you which he did not. You were 18 then and fully aware rape is crime. Not as if you were 11 yrs and scared to tell yr parents. I don't believe she was raped.

God bless you!

You will make heaven

18years old so dumb !she couldn't press charges!

It's not like he's a hired killer stalking her after the rape.

Women keep deceiving yourselves .i have said my own!

Dantedasz:
Your answers are all over the place.
Go back and watch the two videos again if you have the data.
She told her family members when she was raped but the Pastors from other churches reached out to her to settle it.
And even if she did not have a voice at that point in time,is it wrong for her to develop a voice right now and expose that charlatan called Pastor Biodun before he rapes someone else.
This guy is a serial sexual abuser of girls,ladies,mothers and wives in his COZA harem.
She has to speak out so that other abused women can speak out in order to save the next victim. If you as a woman(and I use this term very loosely)can't understand this then there is no point in me and you having this discussion.

I give her kudos for speaking up if she was truly raped but why didnt she press charges or speak up back then? Why wait for a whole 15years to speak? 15years whole years?
And if u watched her video, she didn't speak up. He banged her at the back seat of his car! Is this woman OK at all? Did he place a gun on her head? Honestly I'm irritated by what she's saying.
She's even telling her rapist to come sue her?

If she's really raped? Arrest the morrafucker! And sue him to court! Not the other way round!

Arresting him and charging him to court hold more weight than all these rumours online. Cause as for me o. If he's not arrested and charged? Then it's mere rumours to tarnish his image!

Why are some people so deliberately dumb in this country?

Dantedasz:
So because you were lucky to escape the ordeal and others were not as lucky as you,the victim should not talk.
The victim is justified to talk here because this so called Pastor Biodun has a history of being a serial sexual abuser of women in his church.
I recommend the book "N@ked"by Ese Walter to you. It is on the Okada books app for 900 Naira.
You might learn something if you are actually a woman.

I'm a woman . I'm not lucky. I just had proper home training with common sense!

My own is : Parents train your child to know what's wrong and what's right!

Train them to be outspoken! Let them confide in you. Don't beat them to be scared of everyone. Or else they will end up as a prey.

Let that child have a voice!

blank:
You sound so stupid and ignorant. What gives you the right to talk for raped women all over the world?

Using your logic, how do we know you never had sex with your pastor? After all, you left the church after 3 weeks. Is that not what raped women do?

By your stupid logic again, your mother must not have thought you to protect yourself that's why your uncle fingered you when you were 6.

Lol for your mind I was raped.. Ode!


Useless thing

If you like don't learn? Keep living in denial.


Anyways no need arguing with you. If you like train your kids to speak up for themselves if u like don't! That's your own problem.
Men wil keep fucvking them till all of Una get sense, for once in your life time.

DeeMain:
You are very naive!

She was still very young. She was too afraid to tell her parents or siblings about it. It was their family church, what excuse will she give for not going to church? Finally, the powers pastors have over members is hypnotic in quality if the pastor wants to use it for evil or to take advantage of a member.

Yes, a spiritual father/pastor/Imam/person that has authority over you can control you and abuse you repeatedly like that.

I will not respond to you again.

Shame on you.

Shame on you too

Don't train your girls to be outspoken u hear? Let them keep being afraid of you as a parent and afraid of people too

Spits!

Men wil just fucvk her anyhow ,then your eyes will clear.

Keep your children afraid o, bloody village goats!

Learn u people will not learn! Behaving like primitive goats. That's how the circle keeps on. Ode!

blank:
So, because you had the hots for your pastor means everyone else is same? Were you there when it happened? The Bible says you should not bear false witness. If you were not there, you can't categorically state that it didn't happen.

If he went further and had sex with her against her will, that's rape. No matter how you want to color it, it's rape and it's wrong.

Hots for my pastor ,yes but I didn't get laid or raped by the end. I took control of the situation and the hotness then withdrew. Nobody tied my legs there to keep going back like she did.

Also lemme tell you, before u start pretending as most women do.

Any woman who was truly raped, will have nothing again to do with the rapist. Even though he's a pastor and she hold him in high esteem. At that moment she has been penetrated. All the respect is gone! She meant to hate and make him pay!

Not keep going to where he is and he keeps taking advantage of her

When I was 6 years old. Or thereabout an uncle tried raping me in My parents house, when he noticed I was calm as he was fingering I ran away and screamed! Even though he threatened me.. I was like my mum must know!

I ran out of the house and hid somewhere till my mum came back and I told her everything.


This rubbish about her been 18 years old And raped is all wash!

18 years? And she cannot tell he wants her? Sighs

Are ladies this blind and dumb?


Then she must be so dumb! At such age! No wonder he slept with her several times!

At 6 years old! I know being close to a man is wrong!!!! Especially when he's touching the wrong places!!! I can run and scream for Africa. What we saying?


Abeg! Spare me the sermon. And teach your daughter how to Protect themselves from. Predators in human form! Oresle she will Learn the hard way!

Pretenders!

DeeMain:
You are just revealing your idiocy, woman! Your pastor as the Oracle of God and a representative of God to you holds incredible powers over you.

He, a former cultist, surprised her by bumping into his house early in the morning, pushes her to a chair, covers her mouth and threatens her to keep quiet for her own good and rapes her.

She, a young girl that was manipulated into trusting and accepting him as her spiritual father, is paralyzed by her spiritual father's action and threat and is defenceless against the beast and too frozen by fear to fight.

I have a lot to say to you but I'm getting angrier.

Bye.

If she was truly raped like you say.

Why did she go back to his church few days later on a Sunday to. Worship and still help his wife carry her baby?

Don't take sides blindly


Any woman who was truly raped, will have nothing again to do with the rapist. Even though he's a pastor and she hold him in high esteem. At that moment she has been penetrated. All the respect is gone! She meant to hate and make him pay!

Not keep going to where he is and he keeps taking advantage of her

Look lemme. Tell u when I was 6 years old. Or thereabout an uncle tried raping me in My parents house, when he noticed I was calm as he was fingering I ran away and screamed! Even though he threatened me.. I was like my mum must know!

I ran out of the house and hid somewhere till my mum came back and I told her everything.


So tell me, this rubbish abiut her been 18 years old.

18 years? And she cannot tell wants her? Sighs


Then she must be so dumb! At such age! No wonder he slept with her several times!

At 6 years old! I know being close to a man is wrong!!!! Especially when he's touching the wrong places!!! I can run and scream for Africa. What we saying?


Abeg!

ModelX:
Are you blind?! Read my post with your glasses.
I have always hated the useless pastor!

No need insulting me.

I'm not your problem

Goodbye