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KanuSE:
What's wrong with dating a guy for a year or more?

I never said its wrong. I mentioned she try .

While for me I can't do such!

Different Strokes for different folks!

Be calm , then try and Read Slowly and Understand every word I typed up there.

Simple.

She try.

I can't even date a guy for one year, I must have a ring on it with Pastor's blessing before one year elapse.
Or lemme be jeje before two weeks of knowing ourselves, I can't shout.

Naijaguy12345:
Who give a fuuuck with this kind of news ?

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Hahahahahaahahah

Mizwisdom:
You self go protest against politicians make these ones protest against rape, na 200 million we be for this country, make people chose the ones wey dem won protest, Oya you go protest against RUGA

Just listen to yourself!

Smhhhhh

If I were pastor Fatoyinbo, I wil just bring in army, throw tear gas everywhere and shoot sporadically. Whosoever bullet touch, that's his or her blessing for that day.

Useless people.

Your country and teenage girls raped kidnapped daily by Boko Haram , you won't fight for. They are still kidnapping til today.

But when it's about Pastor u guys think , u can get away with it.

Any woman can wake up one day and say one pastor raped her 50years ago, and senseless people like yourself will go and victimise the pastor, without evidence.

Jealous over the pastor wil kill all of Una. Enemies of progress!

Awon rada rada!

You are all deceiving yourselves. Cowards!

biGDhAp:
.. shet


and my dad is diabetic


i'm done for

Don't fret

Buy guava fresh leaves, boil and give to your dad to drink.

He wil be fine

Na dem

Na pastor their body strong for

Our government has been killing this country for years, nobody can even protest about it. They shy away as cowards
Nigerians bloody hypocrites
Chibok girls, no one came out
Other girls been kidnapped, raped And impregnated daily by Boko Haram , no one came out.
Politicians stealing in broad daylight giving us stories. Nobody protest.
But because they know the pastor will not take any drastic action against them, the bloody fools whom they gave 1k each are Now protesting with placards.

Bloody fools and whosoever wey quote me again , God and thunder will strike that person down. Miserable people!
Ode!

biGDhAp:
... does diabetes cause regular peeing?

Not regular peeing, because u have to pee.

But if one pees like 7 times during the day and it's not like you drank lots of water, then something is wrong.
If one cannot hold pee, for like some.minutes , something is wrong.

It's a sign of diabetes creeping up on one's body.

DeeMain:
Sorry about your traumatic experiences. You are indeed a super woman. I want you to treat others victims with empathy too. People are created and wired differently. Don't judge the world through your own lenses alone.

There is something called the fight and flight response in every human.

In the face of immense fear the fight-freeze-flight response kicks in for everyone. Some people will instinctively fight, some will flee and some will freeze -go numb, become paralysed to move, speak or act.

You belong to the fight response category. It even shows in how you engage people in this NL.

Some rape victims never fight their predators or even raise their voice. They belong to the freeze response category. They are too afraid or shocked to act or move or run. It's not their fault, it's in their wiring.

Empathize with them. Don't lose your humanity.

Hmmmm.

You are right I have a fighting spirit in the midst of adversity.

Thanks for understanding I went through alot myself.

But It's well.


OK.

If it's true she was raped, let God judge accordingly and deal with the culprit ruthlessly, amen. I'm on my way to church.
Do have a blessed day. Thank you.

ImaIma1:
How was she supposed to behave with the pastor?

You are using your own experiences to qualify hers

She can behave whichever way she likes.

I have my own issues.

Lemme sleep, tomorrow is church service. I need to go early.

Moreover you are invited to my church Charis covenant church ( a Pentecostal church) have a good night rest.

I'm done with this topic. Goodnight

[quote author=Softkelvin post=79793230][/quote]Be dissapointed at your self not at me.

Because he's well known, she should just allow him take her repeatedly like a log of wood. Smhhhhh

Honestly ehn? Lemme not call you names tonihht. I'm done with insults all day.

All I need is to sleep, wake tomorrow and worship God in church.

I have alot to be thankful for at these recent times.

If you all are so pained, go to pastor Fatoyinbo church in Abuja, then crucify him the jingle Justice way. Smhhhhh. And see if the members wil not beat u all to a pulp!

Na online Una get power, talking without thinking.

Abeg I'm done here. Goodnight!

ImaIma1:
Because you left unscathed does not mean that those that were eventually raped had a fault in it.

One would expect that being an "almost" victim would have made you more empathetic.

I was emotionally distraugted even though my pussy wasn't tampered with.


I don't feel. Any empathy for Busola. She didn't behave like a rape victim with the pastor

Take it or leave it

I'm Less concerned . She is not a rape victim.. Simply put.

visita:
Jeez! Only you went through all of this? Must have been quite some experience and I hope you've healed now. Not all ladies are as strong/determined as you though.

visita:
Jeez! Only you went through all of this? Must have been quite some experience and I hope you've healed now. Not all ladies are as strong/determined as you though.

Unfortunately I did.

The thieves were caught, we wanted to take them to court, we've already arrested them with Help of police and then confessed. But in the process of filing the case in court, they threatened me and bf. That the thieves friends and gang wil kill us, if we don't close the case. We hadn't choice but to let those criminals go Scot free. That's life.

It took me 6 years to heal . I became scared of men. I broke up with my bf back then. I didn't trust him enough to be able to protect me anymore. I hated him , I hated all men. He hated what happened, he hated Nigerians, cos it was his best friend wife that scheme the whole thieves thing. He left Nigeria for good.

I inreturn didn't date Or have sex with any man for 6years! I shut down my body, mind and soul.

It was an elderly pastor whom I always gist with, that called my attention one day, and said Vicky how long will you continue like this? I said like how? Looking at him calmly. He said u are alone. You don't even have a man at your age. But why? It seems u hate men, with way u talk at times.

I smiled. He kept on with his words I need to be in a relationship, I need to get married and have kids, I can't be single forever. I need to forgive and release all the hurt and resentment I felt. I need deliverance. I wanted to get angry at him and snap back but looking at his old face and eyes, he truly cared about me, Eeyah.
I shook my head, hold on back to tears forming in my eyes, my heart was beating hard.

At that moment, my spirit was broken and I was just crying, crying uncontrollably, he hugged me and said keep crying, just let it out. You need it. Free yourself and let the hate go away. Sighs

So After that counsel I went for deliverance and after some weeks, then started becoming friendly to guys again. The Pastor was happy, he helped me sha for another year or so before he passed on.

So that's about it!

Trust me I had series Of hell in experience years back . But I had to let go.


I look at my fingers, I always remember but I said well I think I will Keep seeing this crooked fingers for the rest of my life.

But it's all good. God knows why I went through all I went through. So I know the kind of world I'm born into. It's life. But we have to keep moving.

I became stronger emotionally. I'm a stronger lady today. Nothing in life faze me anymore. Absolutely nothing. Not even death.

lefulefu:
it might be he has immense control on those ladies or they had stockholm syndrome or whatever and dat could explain why they didnt report him.look ehn religious leaders have very strong control on their followers and especially dhier female members both married and single.hope u stiil remember d reverend king issue? wat of david koresh who was a pastor in the branch davidians church in waco texas in the early 90s and claimed he was sent by God and has been annointed by God and dat God instructed him for every member of his church to hand their wives to him to impregnate so as to produce a special seed.

Wow! @ David Koresh.

Other pastors, yea it could be Stockholm syndrome. Maybe I can't say.

But me o! I won't seat back and wait for rapist to finish raping. Or Pastor to coerce me into sex! We die here!

Na them sabi jare.

Generalyemi:
please what is d natural remedy for diabetes,,

Guava leaves, the fresh ones

Boil and drink twice every week for a month. Diabetes will run!

After a month!

Continue with once in two months. Your bladder will feel better and no more unnecessary peeing

lefulefu:
that he is a womaniser i no get problem with that oo.. cos many nigerian pastors have mistresses all over so its not a new thing.the thing i find wrong is his reckless womanising.its like any woman he sees he wants to get down with her. and as for looking good i didnt say he should look unkempt but d guy overdresses and looks like a dandy and most dandys are womanisers.the guy has looks and his rich and im nigeria if a man is rich and handsome at d same time women will be all over him. a more sensible man in his position will be disciplined and if he must have a mistress or sidechick then he should go for a foreign sidechick instead or a mistress far out of their church dormain.haviny sex with ur church member can affect ur pastor position.apostle sule sule why u think say im sidechicks are non members of his church.

For me, I feel if it's true, why seat back and allow him access?

Why not arrest him immediately he was done with penetration, cos she knows him.

Why wait til 20years before saying all these?

What's her motive?

She claimed she was raped several times by him on different occasions, he didn't hold a gun on her head while raping her, he didn't tell men to hold her down. Just you and him on several times and she wil still go to his house and church afterwards!

Cmon? Who does that!

For crying out loud! Which woman, man rape, the woman go still Dey around him

That's not rape but affair goes south.

He's randy, it's clear and I hope this episode wil make him suppress the urge of seducing women and cut off from any woman coming around him in a suggestive way.

femi4:
Why always him.......look at it from that perspective

If i invite you to meet me in a hotel, will you come? Its easier for you to sit behind the keyboard and type gibberish

Read my reply to imaima1.


I'm not just typing because I'm behind the keyboard. I know what I'm saying.

I have experienced attempted rape before not once! But four times!!!

And I didn't seat still!

I fought a bloody fight, not caring if my head will be blown off by mistake or not!

But it was a fight of death! So don't even start on me.

ImaIma1:
Ok, If that is how you see it.

I pray you never get raped.

I was almost raped three times!

On different occasions by different men.

And trust me I didn't seat still while they tried.

First rape attempt I was 6years old, I screamed , jumped down and ran off

Second rape attempt I was 26years old right in my office, I struggled furiously , bite his palm, and screamed. My security guard downstairs ran up, knocked and rushed in.

Third attempt rape : I was 30 years old at my home, I pretended I want him too when I realised he was very strong with his fist. I calmed down, smiled and told him lemme go pull off and wear something sexy Na. I even kissed him for him to believe, he released his grip, as I stood up, I pushed him so hard and ran out of my apartment with great speed! Then shouted from outside, leave my apartment now!


Those three incidents I never got once kept in touch with anyone of them and I warned the last two never in their life should they contact me again orelse I will get them arrested. And they didn't. They kept off!


That's attempted rape! I hate them with every cell in my body!

So dear I know what it means and how it feels when one is about to be raped, it's very ugly experience. How much more been raped.


Yes I remember the last one, thieves came to my ex house , stole stuffs and about to rape. Thank God it was only two who came into the building. The one who wanted to rape he held a gun, while the second one held a short cutlass facing my ex.
As he came close tome, I grabbed his hand with gun with my two hands, we were struggling, there and then I was determined to die! Than to be raped. He was shocked. We were struggling with the gun. He then punched my eyes, I saw stars but I didn't let go. My ex saw me struggling WIth the rapist, he stood up and fought the second guy. The rapist was boxing my face I still held on to the gun. Until he screamed to the third thief outside, that one came in threw another short cutlass to him and he cut off my fingers holding the gun, I screamed I let go of the gun. They all ran way, with my cut fingers oozing out blood, then I passed out ,saw myself been rushed to the theater for immediate surgery.

That night was bloody!

So my sister I have been to hell and back!

No be today.

I can take a pic of my fingers for u to see how it looked now. It's not straight but at least I have fingers.

I will rather die, and fight to death! Than to be raped!

truthsayer009:
Hahahaha she say na Ritualist.

Okay, so if proven it is safe, would you be inclined to go? Also don't forget, this will open more & more business opportunities as you'll be constantly styling highly rated church members who major in Fed govt projects etc.

Ritualist! Leave me alone!

Go look for your victims elsewhere!


Must u use my blood?

Na WA o

lefulefu:
victorian the guy must be guilty for dis number of women to dey accuse am nau.iyam not saying he is rapist oo but looking at him he looks like a womaniser nau. ehn see im gucci swag and all. women like d guy cos he's handsome and rich and im dey advantage of dem by chopping and cleanin mouth.wen u are in a sensitive position as a man its risky for u to jus be nacking every woman u see and i will say iyam quite disappointed in him cos as good looking as he is just look at d type of woman he was hitting on.

Lefulefu pls stop.

So because he's a pastor, he shouldnt dress well and wear designers again!?
Is it his fault some women can't keep my pussy in check when they see fine rich dressed pastor?
Is it a crime to enjoy ones wealth and look good?

Abeg don't be like a typical Nigerian who loves to see people suffering, and pastors looking hungry and unkempt. It's not good.

The women coming saying he raped or abiut to rape them. Don't they have evidence? Rape is a serious allegation. U can't just wake up after 20 years saying a man raped me. It's madness! Especially when she still goes back to the rapist to get laid! Haba!!!

Even if we hate the word rape! Let's not crucify immediately because he's a pastor!

Make we Dey use our brain at all times.

truthsayer009:
I am saying i am his PA and i want to book you to come to Transcorp Hilton in Abuja on Monday.

So get yourself ready. Understood?

When you are done ranting all night

You can carry yourself to Abuja.

Na only you waka come, na only you waka go.


No only be only his PA.


You think I don't know you are a ritualist!

You can't fool me!

I dodge you pass!!!! Holy Ghost fire!!!!!

lefulefu:
na waoh

Na real WA ooo


Rape victims by Pastor Fatoyinbo is everywhere with no evidence!

truthsayer009:
It doesnt matter. Prick comes to you whether requested or not. When will you be available, i am booking your first flight by Monday morning with Arik to Abuja @transcorp Hilton.

Get your honey pot ready for the juice.

What's this one saying?

Toks2008:
Vicky inasmuch as I won't use the word ugly for God's creation I will be sincere to say If this lady is saying the truth then Fatoyinbo has a big problem from the village cos it means anything in skirt goes.

I remember when clinton was under fire for sexual recklessness one regberegbe lady also came out to accuse him and Bill impressed me when he said "he may be Randy but he has his taste and he has eyes for only busty women..."..that is taste

Even common me have my taste of women and there are some ladies I will never make the mistake of wooing.

Haba! What are we saying!!

Just look at the frigging ugly thing!

Saying she had terrible experience with the Pastor!

Haba! Habaaaaaa!!!!!! People should take it easy with this : he raped me, he raped me and Raped me too! Even at the tipnof raping me oo!

Make them bring out ladies wey fine and fresh at least with evidence of audio conversation or video chats even pics to show he was on a towel wrapped round his waist, with a pics of themselves in the same room.

Not all this he raped, he wants to rape me, he almost raped me

The victims without evidence no Dey end??


My belle oooo, lol


Naija I hail Una o!

ImaIma1:
You are beginning to think like the men on this forum.

Nairaland is really telling on you. Abeg lemme scarce myself before I am bitten by the same bug

My dear, I won't seat back while gullible dumb women ladies and guys insult me. Hell no!

I won't!

Neither will I accept anything a lady just spew out that she's raped without any evidence to back it up. I hate injustice!

If she's raped like she claimed why still go back to the rapist! Who on earth does that!

Abeg! I'm not that gullible. I can think with my brain.

truthsayer009:
I have his phone number oh. I can give you

You can make Fashion design trends for him, then he'll pay you in kind with his anointed marvelous rolling & dazzling prick.

Thanks


I didn't request for it.

Bbbwings:
You have a low iq bordering on an idiot if you cannot read and comprehend that simple write up
She didn't claim to be raped.
Your pastor needs his dick clipped

Go and clip his dick in Abuja and watch Millions of his followers plummel you to death!

Na here , your body and hands to type Dey strong! Smhhhhh

Ezeego1:
I like intelligent ladies like you most especially the ones that ask questions.

Thanks dear

I'm not the gullible ones who wil just believe anything hook line and sinker.

Rekhina:
Am so cool ,just finish doing some exercise

That's nice, smiles

Chi59:
Shame on you.

Shame on you too!

Goat!

Toboye:
She looks like HIV patient to me... I'm sure God will save this Pastor. I don't even know why I'm behind this Man, I'm sure he's clean

As in ehn, very ugly lady!

He is clean.

Just watch how church will full up tomorrow!

Offering, tithes, seeds times 5!

Everyone is going to his church tomorrow, there will be no space sef!

Then prayers and curses upon Timi and his wife? Only God knows how many times they will pray and curse that couple. I pity Timi

She looks 18years, not even up to 20.
And she looks she has been to hell and back! Those eyes look haunted. Only God knows what the husband has been doing to her. I believe it's self defence. And she doesn't know better.
If she has known the gravity of killing a human being. She would have ran away from home and seek for divorce in the court , then pick the pieces of her life and move on.
The husband abused and maltreated her, it's glaring.
Men if u suddenly hate the teenage girl or woman , u marry with quarrel and boxing today, same thing tomorrow , Biko send her back to her family, before stabbing , then death takes place.

Say no to violence

Rekhina:
U don't take bullshit ..hmmmmmmmmmm


I hope we aren't twins victoriana

You too as well?

That's awesome!

But I doubt if we are twins, my momma would have mentioned it longtime ago.

But you are cool. How are you doing?