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Op you are just too funny.

I can't stop laughing here.
You are just like most men out there, who do not want to spend a dime when dating, thinking your woman will never request a kobo from you even during marriage. You thank your stars, you've met such incredible woman who can hold her own and not bother u for feeding money and will even feed u on top. Lol

Men, will never cease to amaze me, lol.
Women who are desperate to marry will not request a kobo from u during dating, some will even spend on u sef, but marry her and see another colour of her u never imagined existed. As the saying goes, there are so many ways in catching a rat. Lol . Nija oooo
Just man up! Double your hustle! And take care of your home. I bet u won't mention she's the one paying rent o. Ordinary feeding for both of u and possibly visitors u are whining. Hahahahahahahahaaha.

O ga o!

Admin401:
Just kill everyone. Guys are just as guilty as girls. We created this cold-heartless people we now call Modern Women.

Thank God u are aware the modern women we have these recent times are products of some men evil deeds and actions. But no need killing everyone. People should just mend their ways and think about tomorrow. Cause tomorrow might either haunt or bless depends on the foundation.

Am not the writer, But when I stumbled on it on facebook. I just shook my head on how evil some men are

Life is cycle.. Think! Before u destroy that innocent girl out there, that's just starting life.

Do you remember the girl who asked for a job from You! and you brought forth "SEX! as a major condition? she became a Runs girl cos of You! She started believing she could get anything she wants in life just by spreading her legs..

Do you remember that girl who begged You! the lecturer, she cried and begged you to give her time to raise money for her fees, You offered to help on the condition that you Must Bleep her ? She probably bought your idea and started doing "school runs" just to see herself through school. She thought that was the easy way to get things done..

Do you remember that poor house help you Raped several times when your wife wasn't home? You threatened to kill her, if she said anything, she finally got used to sleeping with married men and started breaking homes. She didn't care who got hurt or not..

Do you also remember that little girl You violated? Always inserting your fingers and dangerous tools into her vagina just to pleasure your selfish and evil self, she grew up hating men, she couldn't stand loving any man and probably became a Lesbian .

Guy, do you remember that girl whom to her, you were her first Love, she trusted you, Suffered with You , she was even mocked by her friends just for your sake, You finally made it and she now became trash to you? You left her for a girl you claimed was better made by God for you. You left her broken and shattered .

Today she sleeps with married men, breaking homes , draining pockets all because she lost all hopes for love. And you come online spewing trash that all girls are hoes! Really?

You sit in bars and mock different girls not remembering the ones You destroyed.

Not all girls are as strong as others. Some of them moved on and focused on becoming strong women, some couldn't! And You think God will forgive You?

Even if He does, Karma will surely play its part. Why talk down of a girl you used your evil hands to destroy?

Thank God most of you have daughters, that's the only thing I always look out for in evil and destructive men.

I always pray their wives give them daughters who will taste the same fate their evil fathers put innocent girls through. Continue mocking! That girl will one day be strong enough, she will someday know her worth and quit her present lifestyle and I bet you she'll become a role model.

What will you be at old age? A cursed man with useless daughters . Then you'll start blaming God and your village witches. And young men marrying such women will keeping wailing online, why are their women and wives so inconsiderate ,loose and selfish. You get what you sow! Thunder will fire You that time !..............

And you will not die a peaceful death, if you don't change for good.

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Read,Think,meditate and amend your ways.






Written by Kelly A. on facebook.

Kudducini:
[color=#990000][/color] At first you need to put it in prayer buh i think looking for a fucture mate on the internet aint a good idea


It is very rare to find a man who possess those attributes you listed.

Honestly it's very rare to see such a guy these days.

I pray she will eventually meet her taste but it's gonna be hard. Very hard.

Best of luck Op. Cos u sure need it.

Of course u have to spend on a woman, there is no two ways about it. Whether she's rich or not. The idea is the thought behind it and the fact that u are the man in the relationship. If you don't spend as a man for your woman, she will simply see u as a fellow woman while she starts feeling like the man in the relationship, no matter how well u drill her pussyyy.
Any lady saying they don't need your money is big liar. The day another man spends on her with things she least expect, she will dump your stingy assz, and move on.

I like his honesty. He's true to himself.
The worst thing a human being can do to themselves is lie and deceive themselves of what they think and feel they are or should be.
Not everyone is destined to be married or be a marriage material
.the earlier people stay true to themselves, the better their lives will be.

Nice one.

White old ladies marrying young Nigerian boys knows the boys are wooing them to escape poverty in Nigeria.
These old white women, no oyibo man both old or young man is wooing them anymore or even looking their side. And they are still Hot looking for any boy or man who's good in romantic words and also good in bed to oil their rusty, rickety engine God forgive me lol

Honestly I wonder how an old woman will still have urge for strong dickkk. I think about it and I just wonder in dismay.. Oh Lord.

So the old women are ready and willing to be used for green card , they are willing to give the guy enough pounds or dollars to spend to an extent as long as the guy or boy makes them happy by telling them sweet lies and I bet sucking their grey white hairy pussyyy too..and banging it hard. Yuck!

O ga o!

Op you really get time.

The earlier u realise all these epistles is simply a waste of time and finger typing the better for you. Guys will still be guys, don't waste your time saying all these.

Experience is the best teacher.

She's 34.

Thick girls rock!

Happy Birthday bae #

Some guys on nairaland, do not want to believe or even imagined am married.

When I talk of my marriage, their brain go just explode, replying back with frenzy that am not married. It's impossible. No! She can't be married.. Really?

As if they are watching all my life events 24/7.

You people will just die of frustration . Keep disturbing your minds about whether am married or not. Donstan18 and his Cohorts will forever worry about my marital status..
My matter go give una brain drain. Frustrated guys.

donstan18:
Lol. I can't be curious to know what I already know.


And besides, you are a liar and a pretender, you've insulted me on this forum several times, but look at you pretending not to be frustrated. Hypocrite


I like the way you tried to play mind games to make me ponder if you are married or not.

Madam go and marry! You are not married

Well I don't keep names and tabs of people have insulted before.
Wow! It seems I struck some nerves in your tiny brain, when we exchanged insults some time ago.

Anyways that's your problem not mine.. Hate the game not the player.
Lol.

Keep wailing.. Lol.. U have the floor to yourself..

Frustrated thing..

Am done with you.. Cry all night.. In fact wail!
I need my beauty sleep, my hubby is waiting for me Eat your heart out in frustration


Keep on wailing o! Lol.

donstan18:
So you can reply me without insults? Smh! At 50, I'll still be fit for marriage, unlike you.

Remember this is social media, when you log out, reality will hit you

Am not going to satisfy your curiosity to confirm if am married or not..

So think whatever u like

In between why should I reply with insults, when am not frustrated. I don't have time stooping down to your level, trading insults.

So i don't care whatever your brain flashes to u.. It's my buisness if am married or not married.

And whenever I log out, my reality makes me happy and glowing

Exactly! Just lick your wounds and move on. There is always someone out there praying, even fasting on top sef and hoping to cross paths with the rejected guy or lady.
Such is life.

donstan18:
Go and marry.

Am content with what I have in my love life. Complete bliss.

But There is one thing, that tops the ladder above marriage, that am seeking and working tirelessly to possess..

So don't worry about me and marriage. Am very OK with my companion.



Wait, u sef dey forbid to marry?? Better refresh your number on your dating section post everyday, so that babes will contact u, and stick with u and Viola! Settle down. U are not getting younger o.. Let no one deceive u.
Lol

Anyways am the least of your concerns...

Busy body! and lastly I don't live with my parents.

Intrepid01:
so what has happened between you and your love this time?

Lol, we are still together.

Our love life is calm.. No drama, simple peace, cos he loves me more while I follow dutifully. Have outgrown falling in love like the way teenagers do. I'm more in control of my feelings and emotions. And it's better this way.

Ok

I knew the Op will open a thread like this someday after declaring his love for one lady, I can't even remember her handle sef. but I didn't expect it will be this quick!

Smiles... Na wa.

dancok:
will u marry me,

NO!













Lemme soft pedal small and rephrase.

Am sorry I can't.

When a male child is over pampered from day one, that's exactly what it results to.

He will feel he's entitled to everything in this world, and when u can't give him anything he requests for. He becomes enraged and beat up the mom. That's how one of my friend, her brother of 25years flogged his mum blue black one fateful afternoon when she was resting her own jeje. The mum fled screaming to neighbors her son wants to kill her. The father came back hurriedly home and arrested his son. He's still in jail as I type. My friend said her brother was the most pampered at home. I told her that's how it always starts, Over pampering cos he's the only male child in the home, the rest are girls. All the girls are married with kid only him remain, school he no complete, skill he doesn't have, he doesn't want to do anything.
Typical example of Spare the rod and spoil the child.

lefulefu:
if he really wants to know dat girl he has to know her siblings and her friends too and put his ears to the ground for news about her. This wont take donkey years to know na. Some guys go jus know only d church wey dhier girl dey attend and they will jus assume they know her in and out. Op said this girl he likes is very beautiful and it seems men dont approach her according to him oo.. Why is dat?? For a fact even butt ugly girls with k yansh..men still chase such girls upandan. If i come see a beautiful girl and no man dey pursue her...to me thats strange oo.

No wait o!

There are some beautiful girls men feel intimidated to chase or feel indifferent to woo or other men are also thinking , this lady is very beautiful, she must have bobo. If every man thinks like that towards her, who will then date her? Nobody. And if she says, she doesn't have a man? It may be true. Cos there are some very pretty ladies like that.

My own is just know her well. He should hear out siblings and friends but shouldn't take their verdict about her as final. Cos siblings or friends can lie about her and u will think they saying the truth. And what if she's an only child? Who will u then ask?
My dear, sometimes it's not good asking people around her and taking it to heart. Because some people sabi lie and frame someone. Daily Interaction with her for some years will give him a clear picture of who she is. He should just shine his eyes and test her with money.

lefulefu:
gbam! So on point.guys wey dey get plans to move out if dem wan marry here dem don already don dey bond with a girl in a spate of 4 to 5 yrs. To just see a girl today and u dey make plans to travel out and u wan still marry dat girl...omo dat one na risk ooo. She fit jus dey play along dey scam u...money wey u go dey send she go dey use am on her real boyfriend and b4 u know it... She don already marry d guy of her heart. And op is planning to leave his business with her.... Hehe this is nigeria we talking about were wonderful tinzs happen.

Lol@ wonderful things happen.
You are right.. Even within a year if he's smart, he's suppose to know her well enough by now and decide if she can be trusted with such huge responsibility. Times have really changed for the worst.

EazyMoh:
Eyyah, hope it works out this time around

My dear, I hope too..this is the first time in my life, am with someone who likes me more. Till date he's OK , trusting and loving. But since we've been together, av been working on my mindset and Behaviour , so I don't allow the horrors of my past relationships take hold of my mind and ruin this good relationship .
I regret the exs I fell in love with and dated in the past.. Worst mistakes ever in my life, is accepting a guy I like more in my life. It works for some people but not for me.

I have emotional demons, I struggle with everyday but thank God.. Am closer to God and Hes helping me to work on myself too..

I thank God for today. Tomorrow will sort itself. That's how I now live my life. Smiles

I can't believe this

She get mind o!

Mehn, no juju will make me travel out of Lagos because of a strange Guy Iiving outside Lagos ! God forbid! I don't dabble into long distance thingy.
She really get mind! What if she was killed and used for rituals? Hmm na wa o!

She had better stay there till next year...kikikikikiki.. Ode!

androidroot:
Douglas are you a Nigerian?

Lol

Your situation is dicey.

In this modern day Nigeria, no one can be trusted with taking care of buisness . Not even family sef. You know u would be travelling this year to China, u Should have started sourcing for a credible person since last year. Know the person very well, employ him or her in your buisness, know the family of your worker and create a bond. But in a space of two months? U need this lady, u dont even have marriage plans for, to handle it while u are away? Then u are in deep shit. Time is too short to create a bond with someone o even with that lady u like. While she manages your buisness while u are away. I suggest you lock up your shop. Settle yourself in China, then when u are back continue Your sales and from there on look for a credible person U can trust and employ to manage or employ her back, then take time to know her well, before u travel again. Assuming you are married with kids, your wife would have handled it well for u. Especially if u marry a working class woman who is wise, buisness savy with the love of God in her heart.
Anyways wish u best of luck in your final decision.

I choose the one that likes me more.

Have never been lucky with the ones I like more.. Heartbreak always end it.

So the one that likes me more, is the real deal for me.

If there is sincere communication between both parties, I dont think dating is a challenge. With sincere cut to the chase communication, one makes a better choice.
Alot of people are insincere and manipulative with what they truly want. That's why dating looks like a tough task to undertake.

Earthbound:
God bless you honey.

Your analysis though.

Amen dear


It's true nah.

Patosky4U:
it takes a lot of courage for a woman to voice such thing out

Am telling you and he's really gushingly fine for her to voice out this way.

But men sef! She loves him and want to marry him cos of his looks, u guys will still complain.

She wants to marry him cos he has money, u guys will call her olosho

She wants to marry cos he's gentle and kind.. You guys will still say, she wants to control him

What do people even want in this life sef?

It's not like men marry ugly women everyday. So what are we saying?

Anyways she had better call him and say her mind.. If he says no! He sees her as a client, she won't die.. She can just move on and forget about the whole episode. Than crying online

Can u imagine he's even a pastor

Committing fornication join. Smhhh.

If the girl knows what's good for her.. She better dump his assz! What rubbish!

Because of egg! Na so life hard am reach?

He's very stupid saying because she threw away the remaining eggs.
She threw the remaining eggs to send a clear message that eggs is nothing..
Well, he knows who he can slap and get away with it. Nonsense!

Eeyah So romantic and sweet..

The husband try.

If you don't believe in yourself, and stand up for yourself, u don't have your own mind and beliefs, irrespective of what parents or family or friends say, then you are finished.. They will play you , your relationship and marriage like ludo.. Until u are left empty and dry.

Last last at the end, they will blame u and say don't u have sense? Can't u think with your brain? So if I tell u to jump into fire, u will jump Abi? Abeg gerrout!
See Mumu.
Have heard such phrase before within my family.
For me! I follow my mind.