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DateMynd44:
I sure say u don pm the guy

Lol for your mind


I have a new man, I'm madly in love with. In fact a public figure, like moi.
And his fame In the entertainment industry bad gaann pass my own.

So shut it! I'm not interested in the op

Island01:
You don't want to share how you're making your money but want advice... you're not just stingy but wicked.. the business you're doing now didn't someone put you through.... get the fuckkk out of here
Ewu

Why must he share his business to anyone.?

So y'all can over saturate it , overflood the market and kill it abi?

Nah! Kolewerk!

Op, behindethasmile don't reveal bagga! To no one! I repeat don't reveal Nada! As in don't reveal tweenn! To anyone if you dont want to kiss that marriage plans and successful future goodbye.

Instead of people to use their brains and think outside the box, una wan drown his biz.

Typical of Nigerians. Always overflooding any new business skill.

Have said my own.

Goodnight!

carter009:
Good to hear,, my weekend is going really fine ...

That's cool

OK dear, enjoy the night ahead.

Sweet Dreams. Make I go sleep.

Goodnight.

carter009:
Morning dear, hope your night was okay?

Night was great yesterday and tonight is going perfectly well.

Getting my stuffs ready for church tingz tomorrow.

I love worship and praise sessions.

How's the weekend going

carter009:
Lol, I don't have any woman for now, but there's no way I will be monitoring my girlfriend, that's childish, even when I was dating my ex, she was the one monitoring me,
she has trust issues and it pisses me off.

Oh okay.
So u can see it's childish. For me it's insane monitoring ones man or woman.
I don't subscribe to such obsessive attitude one bit.
I love my mind to be free in anything I do or in any relationship I'm into.

Good morning.

carter009:
OK dear, hope your guy is not cheating on you.

Nigerians sef.

So. I should quit my job or closed down my business and start following my man everywhere he goes. I'm not that jobless o.

Moreover I'm not a monitoring spirit that follows him everywhere he goes to monitor if he cheats on me?

My dear I have a life and career that needs my attention. I can't place all my life round the neck of my man to know if he's cheating or not.

My life does not revolve round my man.


Lemme ask you, hope your woman is not cheating on you?
Seems u have all day and night monitoring her.

Babe! Even me as a lady, na 100 mila! Sure pass o!

With such money I can have as much beauties as I want.

No need to marry sef.

carter009:
Lolz, are you confused....

I'm not confused, anglojosite7 is chatting like he knows my man which I doubt.

So I want him to clear the air, if my man has confessed to him he doesn't want me and prefers another lady. Cause I know our communication is on point

It's simple.

Anglojosite7:
Because u cannot be singing his song, while he is singing that of another lady.

Interesting.


Do you per chance know the guy wooing me, personally?

Anglojosite7:
The question is, has he chosen you?

Why do u ask?

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Rubyventures:
so many parents are taking out their frustrations on their innocent kids. If you are not ready to have kids both emotionally and financially, please don't. it is not a must to have kids these days.

I wonder o! Copy copy

They listen to people who will tell them, why not have a baby? Time is going.

Time kee the person there. Fucvk time! And leave the person to solve his or her inner demons and struggles first. That's number one priority.

The father must die as well.

I always tell my friends, if you are not ready to be a parent, forget about impregnating a lady or having sex without protection. And ladies u can't just open your legs so wide fucvk without protection, thinking u can cage the man to marry you and when he doesn't, it's either u dump the child with him or some kill the child due to frustration. Why not use common sense and use protection.

That child u are maltreating didn't beg to come to this world but your foolish desires brought that child here, so why not be human enough to take responsibility and show the child love. To take care of a child or children is not easy, then use your brains for God sakes and close up! Anyone saying u should go get pregnant cos time is going is your enemy, not your friend. Have a baby when u know u can love and cater for that child unconditionally. It's that simple!

I wish that father a painful death. He will never have peace in his life as long as he lives. He will beg death to take him but death won't show up, he's a living corpse now and forever more amen.

Op sorry about what u are going through. Your mum no try at all.

Learn from her mistakes and don't fall for any man who says I love you and at the same time trying to control your money or career. Such kind of men u run far from.

Just be careful. Of men.. Too many wolves out there, waiting to destroy and devour. Be careful, please be careful.

This situation will. Make you stronger and wise.

goodman41:
I checked i didn't see the masage

OK what's your number, type it here.


I will call.

WarriFirstBorn:
Area!!!
What part of delta state are you from?

Scatter?

Lol

I'm partly Urhobo

[quote author=MILLERMannn post=81448682][/quote]Oh you are from delta too



That's great.



Nice one! One love Bro!

MILLERMannn:
The blood truly flows. If I should tell you that worries will end for humans, I will be lying for you because we not only act outwardly but also by inner necessity (food) to survive. Just drop the weight of worries and move up with life. One's time will also come, don't just give up. sometimes I think the reason why challenges exist for us is to have value for one another. Both man and woman at some certain age need to know that life is not bed of roses.
As regard to your look, I erroneously think you are a Yoruba girl.

So true blood flows.
And pertaining to worries. I have learnt to try my best and the leave the rest to God. I cant come and kee myself.

Then looking like a Yoruba girl? Some people say I look Yoruba, some say Benin cos of my pidgin, some say Igbo cos of my fair looks, some say Philippines , while some say Japan.

So whichever one I look like, I'm simply a delta lady


Confirmed delta.

I fought with an armed robber too. I had swollen eyes, two fingers cut off everywhere bloody and it was crazy shii.it..i thought have lost my eyes and fingers sef but I was quickly rushed to the theatre for emergency surgery. Anyways that's story for another day.


You are from which state?

MILLERMannn:
I never know you are also from Delta.

Im from delta but I don't look like one. I know i look different even my extended family feel i look different lol. That's there problem and I don't care .

But deep down, delta blood flows within me. I remember when i was little like 8years or so, I was a chubby tomboy wearing all my brother's shirt and trousers with his cap.

I use to fight martial arts with the boys playing with me in the compound. I always beat them hands down , after rushing them with my big frame

but there was one boy who has a soft spot for me and he's way stronger than me but will still allow me beat him Lol

It was fun! I will watch Chinese film and practise it after I'm back from school with the boys in the compound

Whenever I remember I will just chuckle @ myself.

Sighs those years of no worries.




So which tribe do I look like?

Delta women are strong, resilient, focused, and we have a follow come defense mechanism to fight back immediately when attacked.

It's an inbuilt thing.

I cant work so hard for my money and one thief will then take my sweat just like that. We swiftly head straight to the gun in a split second while the robber punch, we sef dey punch, blow and kick. U ain't taking no money!

We die here!

No try us o!

ogumbapufi1:
that young boy

And so?

It's her choice. Not every matured lady must date an old man.


Congrats Ronke, enjoy!

goodman41:
U didn't see my masage?

Sorry, just checked my mail nw.

I have replied.


Please check.

PUSSYWHORE:
I guess you and iamgrey5 haven't seen successful arranged marriages

Nope personally I haven't.

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Iamgrey5:
No guy that is not in love with you would want to marry you in first place.

The exception is if the guy is a gold digger and you have the gold .i.e you are rich or from a wealthy background.

In that case, you should prepare your mind for a lifetime of torture.

Correct!


No rich man will marry a woman he's not in love with.


Only gold diggers marry a woman who has gold locked up somewhere.


So op stop dreaming what's impossible to achieve.

Lol

ericsmith:
am jus gonna blush for the rest of the week ..

Lol


You no serious


Keep blushing! Lol

ericsmith:
so you are feelin tew proud to use d rite word "handsome" abi, please gimme back my pix

Haba! Take am easy na


Is good looking and handsome not the same thing?

Hmmm na WA o


OK Mr Handsome., hope u are feeling fine nw?

ericsmith:
i can also see you are lookin pretty today ....

Thanks


You are good looking yourself.


Nice!

ericsmith:
Like seriously ! sista victoria no be fight naw

I ain't fighting with anyone dude.

I'm calm and focused today.

CeterisXVIII:
Do not despise the days of small beginnings. From that wheelbarrow, she can expand her business to a food cart or a food caravan/truck.

In my area, I have seen two couples selling food from a mobile kitchen or caravan/truck. They bring in their vehicles before 9a.m. and finish selling breakfast by 11a.m. From 12 noon to 4 p.m they sell lunch packs to workers, traders and other interested parties.

You need to see the queue of people who rush in, to buy their food.

There are some areas in Victoria Island, Ikoyi and Lagos Island with huge offices and posh restaurants. Middle level to junior workers in such establishments, cannot patronise the expensive food outlets. So their saving grace is just these food truck owners who sell good quality affordable meals, at reasonable prices.

On weekends, they take their food truck to different locations and exhibition areas, to sell food. They are planning to launch an online food catering business by end of this year. Everybody's vision is different.

We cannot all have the same approach to business. Do what works for you, and let the next person do what works for him.

What kills small businesses, is that most times the owners do not start small and learn all the intricacies of the business very well, before expanding it or taking on additional staff.

This lady selling food from a wheelbarrow will have more experience or success, running a cafeteria or restaurant, if she decides to scale up.

I bet, she already knows how many plates of cooked rice, she can get from one mudu or De Rica cup of raw rice. She knows how to source her ingredients faster, fresher and more economically than one big Madam who just opens a fancy restaurant with many cooks & waiters, because her husband funded it, in order to give her something to her name.

I respect this woman with the wheelbarrow, and I pray God changes her story to glory, one day!

You are right.

It's well.

ericsmith:
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I know that i don't av a problem with whatever choices or decision you've made, what is my gain even if you start avin sex, abeg lock am n throwaway d key
All that epistle may benefit someone else reading, we live we learn

Better

goodman41:
Baby i like ur understanding can we talk?

Thanks dear


Yes we can

Click on my pm, I will reply.

Good morning