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Dinho20:
"HMMMM"

You are right as well

sirchrislatestn:
mumu

Ekpa!

Stevecovey:
Dts why the stupid girls keep sending videos na. Because so many celebrities (potential customers) have bn posting comments under the videos. Even wizkid commented wt glee under one of the videos. And olamide is friends wt many politicians, so they must be viewing his page too.

Lol

Stillthebest:
Also to grow his IG page and promote his music rapidly.

OK nah

Dinho20:
WIVES
5 WAYS TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND SUCCEED

1) PRAY WITH/FOR HIM
One of the things every real wife does for her husband is to pray for and with him
Pray for him to Succeed in the office,
Pray for him not to fall into Temptation
Pray for his safety
Pray for his Ministry
Pray for his Health
God honors the Prayer of a Wife over her Husband.
Don't allow him pray alone
Don't allow him carry the fire alone.
BURN WITH HIM � � � �
Hello, Dear Wify
Is not only to get pregnant and born children
You can see vision for your husband,
You can give him prophecies
Don't allow DSTV or Zee World kidnap you
Don't be spiritually complacent and leave the praying and fasting only for your husband,
As he's speaking in tongues, be replying in tongues, let the whole house be on fire..
God punish the Devil.
Let him see in you a spiritual companion.
And see how that improves your home and his spiritual life.

2) BLESS HIM
Proverbs 18:21 "Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof."
This is almost a similar as praying for him, but still different.
Instead of laying curses on him,
Instead of abusing him,
Heap blessings upon his head daily,
Draw him close to your bosom and bless him as a Parent blesses the Child.
Kiss his forehead and decree over him "because you Married Me, you will not fail, you will talk where your mates are talking, our children will be great Men and Women"

3) ENCOURAGE HIM
When things are rough, a Wife should never be amongst those to crucify, lambaste or talk discouragingly to her Husband.
Even if he messed up.
Remember what Lot told his wife "has thou become like the foolish Women"
Don't be like the foolish Woman
Give your Husband words of encouragement daily
Even if he's not meeting up, believe me, he's making effort, he knows he's falling short, he feels the pain, he may not talk, please encourage him.
Tell him you see his sacrifices daily,
Tell him you appreciate his efforts towards you and the kids.

4) MOTIVATE HIM
Be his cheer leader
Cheer him to success
Tell him you believe in him,
Tell him he can do it, even if you don't believe, never break his will to try,
Tell him he will make it in life
Tell him he will be a great Man,
Tell him you saw the great potentials, that's why you married him.
So he's secured a major achievement,
And he seems to be relaxing,
Fire him Up once more
Do not allow your husband become complacent
Tell him, "honey you can do even better"
Be his hunger to do more.
Let him take one look at you and receive motivation to go out there and conquer the World.
Let him leave the house feeling like nothing is impossible for him.

5) RUN WITH HIS VISION
A HELP MEET must understand that her duty involves helping her MATE actualize his vision.
You are there in his life to help him succeed, to work and walk with him,
Just as he is in yours to do same for you.
Don't become his competition
Don't become his contender

A lot of women today are fighting their husbands, fighting their husbands dreams.
When he says let's do THIS, you say let's do THAT
When he says YES, you say NO.
When you keep opposing him because you think he is dumb, or he offended you, or whatever
Are you his HELP MATE or HELL MATE?
Don't be used by the devil to bring down your Husband's Vision.
Some Women have pulled their husbands down from GRACE to GRASS,
Some Women have destroyed their husbands Ministry, chased his business friends away, even gone to His office to fight and make problem,
Some Men have lost their Jobs and helpers because of the Woman they married.
Don't be that Wife
When he brings ideas, when he brings plans, support him.
Even if it will inconvenience you temporarily even if it means you don't get the iPhone you asked for. Support Him.
Many Women agreed to plans that discomforted them, plans they didn't like, made sacrifices to make their Husbands who they are today.

Don't blame women alone o


When the men is all about boob's, assz and sex sex with more sex , what do u expect?

All their brains will be wired on is Wet pussy , Huge dick all night and fuckvin like their lives depend on it.
No joint prayer, no vision nothing. Just eat, fucvk and born.

ericsmith:
lemme guess a lil about vic, you like been in control in a subtle way tho, you don't like situation that wil make people see you as the problem .... ur best cover are hustling guys .. they are considered opportunist, people around u don bury dem b4 dey die sef, how can they be up to any gud dating a rich gurl ... so when breakup happens it easy to castigate those kind of guys even though some of ur attitude,utterances or actions might av caused it. keep blaming men 4 it all.

Anyways



And which u are doing already

ericsmith:
you didnt answer my question, how many of those guys you called bad luck to ur business are financially bouyant than you ? you fit call a rich guy bad luck? i now understand you we no go argue on r/ship matters.

None.

And that's the honest truth

I used to believe in helping a hustling guy grow in his career or biz. They were all struggling and trying to make it.

But I can't say of how they are now.

ericsmith:
these chick is so full of herself, among those EX you consider badluck how many of them are richer than you .... can you call the rich ones bad luck. i think its best you marry ur money, honestly marriage is not for you.

I'm not full of myself.

I'm simply realistic and yes I will marry a man who is celibate and have a good divine relationship with God. He's not broke, he's highly blessed and favoured by God almighty. He adores God and have a marvelous voice.

It's already in the works sef

So don't worry Im fine.

Nnaabros:
Very fierce! You must have real anger issues.

You know, you could still have made your point without all the vulgarities.

You sound like a broken girl trying to pick up the broken pieces of her life from several heartbreaks. If so, good luck.

But don't sound like guys are evil because they're not conservative about sex like most of you girls. Men are not ashamed to go for what they want and desire. They're not afraid to express their sexuality to the full. For guys, sex is fun and not a BIG DEAL.

Don't worry, keep your pussy for yourself and for God if you like. There are lots of women in the world. If they don't get it from you, there many girls out there who are not prudish about sex and ready to have fun and enjoy themselves.

Our body is not firewood like yours.

All well and good. I'm not broken, maybe angry? Yes u can say I'm angry. Cause a dumb toaster made me angry very early this morning, talking about spending a day and night on the island, then later lodge in a hotel. For Christ sakes! Must sex and sleeping over night always pop up? Can't he just zip up?

Anyways like you rightly say, there are lots of animashaun ladies and u guys can have as much fun as u deem it fit.

My pussy and body is meant for God and a particular man who's a good friend, not for every dick and Harry, that whispers I want to marry you. Nah!

And It's a huge relief he believes in celibacy, and being best of friends. thank heavens for that.

So I'm not that weird after all.

comtem2011:
God is there for u sis.

Thanks dear, amen!

The fact that a man wants sex from you before marriage doesnt justify he can't marry you, victorian is not a virgin so what the assurances you are not hiding something ..a woman with no womb can also trap a man into no sex till marriage, an infertile man can accept sex till no marriage bullshit ... every choice has its own risk & demerit, can you live with it ?

Ericsmith,
At your quotes, u feel one is hiding infertility issues ? No wonder baby mama and baby dads full everywhere like ants. No proper family unit. Guys giving all the promises They can't fulfil all because they want the pussy, And have disappeared. Leaving the girl to carry the baby alone. Some. Who can't afford to care of the baby, kills the child before term. Or after its born. Having murder in their hands. And that's life to you? You better change.

Anyways if my Christian husband is infertile, God is a miraculous God, and thank God for science, we will have babies in due course. So I don't believe in leaving my husband cos of such issues. Both science and our faith in God will pull us through.

And when I get married. It will be to a guy who believes in celibacy and sees sex as fornication and great sin against God.
A true born again Christian, not these cursed infested guys wey dey waka upandan looking for whom to destroy las las.

Like I said I rather remain single than to marry an unbeliever.
I dodge una pass!

Such guys will not pull my glory down again. Never!

[quote author=ericsmith post=81842416][/quote]Story for the gods



*yawns*

I don't need to elaborate on some guys who carry bad luck like a cloak! You could even be in such category. So swerve abeg.
Have had enough misfortunes sleeping with the wrong guys and it's not stamped on their foreheads.

Some guys dey carry curses dey waka. God forbid!


Anyways Is that all?

ericsmith:
why do i av these strong feelings few of these ladies opting for celibacy are doing it for a means to an end, not becos they are upright or even a saint.
i believe purpose defines as act/choice .... @michellekabod2, biglittlelois, victorian & others i believe the purpose of u been celibated is borne out of furstration i.e feeling used n dumped , is not as if any of you don't want or like sex but you its seems like the only way to trap a man for marriage.
its not a coincident that few of these ladies opting for celibacy are not even virgins,considering age pressure its was a decision after avin fair share of dickS, one man must pay for the sins of others @OP most gurls on celibacy list are not crazy they're only furstrated

Well you are deluded.

I'm. Not trying to trap any man with been celibate.

My celibacy is an agreement between me and God. Which Im fully prepared to keep to the letter T. I have turned off 5 guys since last month til this morning. They were all professing undying love but constant sex before marriage and my answer was no!

Two of the guys claimed they want somewhere more cosy, so we can have meeting up in hotels. I laughed. I was like really? Come and carry my pussy, because u were the ones who created the pussy inside of me. Come and carry Ole!

Pussy dey hungry una abi? Thief! Come and fucvk! Ode!

Even apart from my agreement with God. I rather remains single for life! Than allow a guy use my body anyhow for years and later come up with one useless story that doesn't add up, or probably dissappear into thin air.

If I'm desperate to hook a guy. The word marriage would have made me given my body to any of those 5 guys. But I told them all to go to hell, where they belong.

U can't come and pull down the grace of God which I have been enjoying since I became celibate because of sex. I have total piece of mind, being with friends who do not see sex as a criteria to date me. Yes such guys still exist. Not every guy is hung up on u must fuckv o!

Come and carry pussy, Ekpa!

Does sex add any. Money to my account?

Do u think, I give a damn about sex?

My dear, shove your sex up your assz! I don't need it.

My bank account is increasing and biz flourishing because I kept away from sex!

I rememeber when I had sex in the past, that's how those demonic exes who claimed they were in love and want marriage pulled down my life and biz from up there to zero level. Some guys are cursed from the pit of hell. U sleep with them, a successful woman will become. Penniless in a twinkle. Of an eye, with bad lucks here and there.

Some. Guys badluck no be here, carrying demonic spirits upandan looking for whom.to destroy.

Holy Ghost firee!!!! I dodge all. Of una pass with one useless sex! That's brings sorrows and collapse in one's biz.

Let one guy come and talk about sex to me again in the name of marriage. Na plank I go use hit his demonic head.

Rada rada.. Smhhhh

drlateef:
After so many TESTINGS? Who will buy old cargo? Why dont you women seek marriage first before everything else is added? Are women so desperate that they have to allow a man to "test" them for several years just because they want to marry the man?

I wonder o.

When I looked at olamide's instagram page about the pawon challenge, I realised its a gimmick in having big boiz rolling around olamide's friends and crew from having sexy females to fucvk for a night or weekend. Lol and at a price of course.

I read the comments Below a babe juggling her water melons furiously
And one of olamide's friends said, Ola it seems I love this one. Please tag her to my page. Her jugs is somethingelse. I'm not leaving your instagram page throughout the rest of this year,Ekun! This is mad fun!
Olamide replied: no probs, done deal.

I said no wonder, that's another way of having clients who's ready to pay for sex. Smhhhhhh.

Shake it furiously and a big Boi will slide into your instagram.

Hopefully Toyin will get her 2million naira date from there, if her game is tight in strutting her stuff

Sighs Olamideeee!!!!!!!

carter009:

It's true.

A guy toasting a babe for the first time., will list his criteria and number one in his agenda: I. Love sex alot, I don't joke with it. I can be very adventurous ( in his stupid annoying voice) . At least after work u can drop by at my place.

Then I will ask if you love sex so much why not marry nah? As the thing dey hungry u like fire?

He will say erhmm, but we need to know ourselves inside out Before marriage nah.

My sister, that's pure scam of the devil.

Run! I say run!!!!!


Honestly Carter it's annoying!

When a lady gives herself on a platter of gold to boyfriend, to be fucvking anyhow without placing a ring on it.

That's exactly what happens.

I don't blame the guy. He wants a change of soup, knowing fully well. It won't cost him anything.

And las las, he will still breakup with his slim loyal babe, even kick her out and bring the big assed lady to stay with him again for more years. The only thing that can hook this guy is pregnancy by this upcoming gf, he's thinking of camping again for some years.
Some. Ladies dey try.. I wish una luck!

Abstain una no go hear. Smhhhhhh

The groom is in deep thoughts.


While the bride is


Anyways I wish them well.

culf:
una nkor?

Wetin we do u?

My dear, your marriage was filled with spiritual manipulations immediately your dowry was paid.

Take a cue from funke akindele. She married JJC, all by herself far away in UK , without carrying family along.
See where they are now? Married, happy with kids.
Her first marriage she did with her first husband collapsed like a pack of cards after all the asoebis and all.
But JJC who has three baby mama's with how many kids, she got married to him quietly and they are happy.
Know the kind of family u come from and so. U know how to handle the next marriage coming into your life. Cause it's clear your marriage is jinxed already. Only a miracle from a great man of God can restore your home again.
It's a pity both of you are going through such. May God heal your heart and mind towards him in Jesus name amen.


And even the kind of wedding I want. Quiet without much family and friends getting involved. Cos two uncles are already fighting who will collect my dowry and whose house my marriage rites will take place . With such negative energies I don't need it, when I want to start a new home. So I would definitely prefer Somewhere far away from all of them. I can't shout. Let them keep fighting amongst themselves. Anyways I'm even an orphan sef, so it's better and easier for me to move far away from negative energies.

Some people really have bad luck trailing after them..


But bobo risky na your leaking mouth put you for this trouble . Just admit it and keep quiet on whom you dey fucvk in high powers.

Simple.

Life is not that hard

madenigga:
what you should do is pray he gets uplifted from poverty, its obvious that all he is saying here is based on his perception from the slum/ghetto part he resides

Exactly!

Poverty die die die in dangotemummy life. I decree die in her life. She has suffered enough amen

Olorunnim:
Leave her alone Lagos is a stench bla bla Let her go to her parents town and live there. Eranko inu Igbo

Don't mind her. Just saying rubbish upandan.

Apart from Abuja main town, Lagos is the only place in Nigeria, I can live comfortably without fear and with great peace of mind , security and with lovely environs.

She's purely wicked, saying what she doesnt know. Smhhhh

dangotesmummy:
you need to travel out of Lagos or Nigeria for let's say 3 years,then come back,then you will understand what I am saying.the stench from sewage is so nauseating.open defecation and urine booming everywhere is repulsive

Take it easy with the hate and jealousy.

I live in Lagos. No stench, no open defecation, no urine booming where I reside and work.

Biko take it easy with the hate.

Money good!

So good!

She's not refunding pin!

She has done her job, decorated the place. It's not her fault police came and raided the venue due Boborisky running mouth about sleeping the government officials in higher places.

Biko free the woman jare.

Na her luck! Divine blessings from above.

Hintona:
So he cheated on his wife and everyone is cool with it

If it was the other way round I wonder if Lola middle name wouldn't have been hore by now.

My dear, we all know Peter will always cheat on Lola and she might feign anger but definitely look the other way. It's what she signed up for.
So need getting angry on Peter.

It's a well known fact. And if Lola sees nothing wrong in it and kept quiet, why should we then crucify Peter?

Free the guy let him enjoy his God's given handsomeness and fame.

Goddess of the river is angry.

They've not appeased her well.

They better do what is right.

Eeyah

They've become gays.


God forbid.

Send pickin go school, he ends up becoming as twisted as gay!

God forbid.

We know already



Next!

friendlyadvice:
kaffy but na you wey be bread winner of house na, why you come dey call am "husband"when he is obviously a wife?

He's still her husband, as long as he been a good ,loving and supportive man in the marriage . Not every man must reek in more money than the wife. At least the bond is still there, even without the husband doling out cash for bills.
God has blessed Kaffy as a man, she does not need to rub it on her husband's face.
It clearly shows she's a good woman , a great wife and very supportive one at that.
God protect her home, she will never become a widow in Jesus name. Amen.

Some men even with their wealth and houses, their wives stil leave them.