₦airaland Forum

carter009:
Lol, hope you will meet him soon dear, cos time waits for no one.

I don't need time to wait for me. Its between me and my God.

I cant do what displeases my spirit , cos i want to marry .

Make marriage hold. Itself abeg. We live life once. I cant be fucvking men upanda to. Know who will end up marrying. Me..

Make such men stay one side biko, I don't need them.

I thank God, my God is taking good care of me. My purpose on earth is to live a peaceful ,purposeful and happy life inline with my Creator . Marriage does not necessarily bring those three things I mentioned, especially if one marries wrong. And there are so many wrong men out there. Jeez! And have had enough dose of such men.
This period of my life is filled with so much peace and free will to live and be a blessing to people. That's my main focus now sef. To touch lives. Make man carry his wahala go stay one place jare. I don't need their sex!

But thanks for your concern

I go dey alright


In fact I'm Alright sef!


But thanks

ericsmith:
i must say i respect ur decision outrightly .. like i said before "sex is not d problem" relationship is all about seein the realness or true colour of your partner, unforunately we men don't showcase our true color until after sex just as women don't showcase there nature until after marriage... espc naggin
Lemme just say these for you, the best way to know if someone truly loves you is not by celibracy or money lavishing as most gurls believe ..sis naa by time.
A man that sacrifices is time to be there for you even when you know he is not idle is worth investin whatever is left of ur heart on.
celibacy can only prolong r/ship its doesnt guarantee a lasting r/ship. madam we men can go to any length than you are assuming o! naa money engagement & marriage go chop

Well I'm not ready to have sex with any man who claims he loves me just to know if he will stay.

It doesn't work for my body system and spiritual life like that.

In fact I will hate the man instantly ,if sex is needed to know if he loves me sincerely and will stay. I don't need it.

If that's the case, Biko lemme stay single until I meet my kind.
There is a man for everyone, likewise there is a woman for every man. That's the reality about life .
Las Las I will get the one that we will compliment each other.

That's for me.

cooooooks:
Your Englsh is so bad that you did not understand that you typed rubbish.

Thank you

Tosinex:
hahaha of course I did ate your own join from the surplus, so com and hav it back lolz!!

I myself just woke up from a short nap of 2+ hours only to discover that the whole place is dark, I thought it's Monday already lolz

I hop I can chat you on your line!

Eeyah


Yes u can

ericsmith:
The way you women use d word celibate @times just crack me up, did you read how linda ikeji spent the last days of her sisterhood, after all the her celibacy sermons
where is she today,las las she hunted for a dvck.
I know u are not a V, probably ur bad xperience must av led you to the decision but ma' with or without ur pvssy d world will rotate ... sex is not the problem, you need to look inward, what makes a woman or man indisposable are potentials people see ... you believe too much in ur independence gudluck

Bros, Sex is the problem.

Since last year, I became celibate. I actually realised sex was the problem. Since I knew what dating was about, guys wooing me no dey take eye see me once, without trying to jump on me, before I even say yes I will date you . It's that bad. And I got fed-up and bored.
Real bored! As in the word boredom! After the rush rush sex, eyes opened. It's either babe will realise the guy is scum with his kind of dumb mentality or the guy realise the babe is not as dumb as he thought because she's sexy. She has more than something upstairs and that's where some guys will start feeling intimidated.

But that apart, you said I believe so much in my independence? In the real fact I don't believe in it. But i believe so much in the spirit of God within me who strengthens me to keep living life everyday afresh as if it's new. For me, without God my independence is zero.
It's better to say, I feel free and at peace in my independent state , that's the right word.
Because the word and the spirit of God is seated right deep in my soul coupled with my practical nature by the side.

Anyways I have received marriage proposals from 3 guys, none from Nairaland o

Outside Nairaland, I opened up to them., I'm celibate. The first two understands why I'm celibate and its no problem to them, they want to earn my trust. God bless them for such wisdom.


But the last one, thinks he's smart , he doesn't realise trying to want to lay me on bed is only taking me further away from him. As I type I realise I'm sick and tired of his stupid annoying attempts in trying to lay me. This week we are entering I will cut him off for good. I have tried cutting him off twice! But he still keeps coming back saying he knows I'm a wife material bla bla bla. And his sister said he shouldn't give up on me. Then I replied if u want me to feel happy u are around me. Stop trying to seduce me, keep your hands to yourself! Get to know the real me and stop trying to think Sex is my problem or your problem. Because sex is the last thing I'm looking for right nw. I will cut him off this week. He behaves like he listens but he's deaf to what I'm saying..

Then I'm left with the remaining two guys who accepts we can be celibate and pray over it, if it's God's will.

That's more like it. I prefer it this way. I wont feel used and cheated on the long run.
Whosoever that wants me for keeps badly, let's see who wins, by God makin whichever one of them serious in doing what's right.

I want to do things right in any relationship i go into and celibacy is one of them. Lemme know the real you and stop hiding behind fucvking all weekend and nights.

Simple.

Tosinex:
end up a pastor? Hahahaha hahaha!!

That's funny though.

Anyway I don't mind having a Pastor as a friend especially a beautiful one lolz
I love it when a lady is worded though.

I'm just getting back from church not quite long!!
We had youth time out! Quite explosive though
And now I'm quite hungry and waiting for the food to done lollzz

My dear, yes o. Its possible.

And it's something I have realised many years back while doing this my entrepreneurship thing. But let's leave until then God knows best

Welcome back. I was taking a short nap since I got back and replied your messages . Just woken up, I feel much better


I love the explosive part of the youth time out, nice very nice

Eat my own join o.

Ryan03:
lol, sometimes you can be crazy but I like you

:DAwwww thanks dear


Everyone has a bit of craziness in them sometimes but I'm simply harmless

Just a free spirit lady having fun online, simple.

cooooooks:
Are you calling Zinny25 a prostitute? ?

Why are you equating money to sex? That sounds like the definition of prostitution.

Have u taken your meds today?


Are u OK upstairs?

luvyaself95:
you don't need to Miss Hard...

Don't mind me, I'm soft today

carter009:
Lol, OK ooooo

Yes o!

I'm in a great mood
Enjoy the day ahead

Tosinex:
okay dearie! I hope you had a lovely night rest. What church do you attend that starts by 7am, na wa o lollzz! Maybe mfm sha ;d
Anyways don't forget to pray for me to blow with my music o! Lolzzzz.

Not mfm, my church even starts around 6:30am . I decide I will go around 7am.

It's called Divine appointment ministry international by Reverend Ben eragbai.

I'm home now. Service was awesome.

Don't worry I prayed for you and everyone under my watch.

Watch out on this space. I could end up as a Pastor too



So how's today so far?

carter009:
You always like using harsh words, take it easy,
I don't know what is eating you up..

Nothing is eating me up..


I'm relaxed and enjoying my Sunday after today's worship in church.

Today's service is a blast!

Tosinex:
so watsap!

My dear, I'm about to sleep jare


Tomorrow is church service. And we start so early around 7am.

And it's morning already


Make i go la la land ! After church we can chat tmrw.

Do have a lovely night rest


Goodnight dear

luvyaself95:
if you're hard believe me i will be hard on you WTF...

Be my fucvking guest.

Do I look like I care?

It's well o



I wish them happy married life

Tosinex:
so watsap!

I dey o


And u

truthsayer009:
I'm not sure you know the value of 100 naira.

Maybe you meant 1000 naira OR 10k.

100 naira? Habba.

Sister FEAR GOD NA PLEASE. FEAR GOD

Hahahahahahahaha


My belle o



Oh Lord! You are so funny.


You are begging her to fear God


Oh God abeg o!!

carter009:
I pity your boyfriend.

U don't need to pity my bf.

He's happy the way I'm treating his love for me. As long as i can allow him see my face and be around me. He's cool with it. Believing with time, it will get better
It's good like that.

Some men like hard women, women who are not easy to conquer and that's where I fall in.

AstroG:
Nne,this one off me wella.
All though ah the BASH Naija women wella but this GIRL IS GOLDen.


This type of GIRLS ARE VERY RARE

Mehn!

Her type is indeed golden. I never see this type before, I swear!


Mehn! Women dey o..

Chai!

Before I click this thread, I knew in my heart of hearts, the woman is not a Nigerian.



No Nigerian woman will make such disastrous mistake.

Never!

AstroG:
Nne,you try jare

Hahahahahahahah



As in over try.

Me, that I thought I'm even kind in spending. My own spending no reach her own o.

Although i plan to spend after marriage not before marriage.


She over try!

Zinny25:
I don't understand guys.... I dated one like that for one year and through out the relationship I never asked for a dime because I don't know how to, moreover I'm employed and he never even gave me #100 recharge card not to talk of giving me money. I had a pressing need at a time this should be after 10months of dating, I reluctantly asked him to borrow me some money, I knew the courage it took me to open my mouth to ask him,and he refused. In his little mind he's wise,no girl can eat his money...Guys are scum

You even have patience to wait til 10 months before requesting for money and he refused can u imagine?

If u tell him to wait 10months before he have sex with you? Won't he run?

Las Las he still behaved like the scum, he is.

Anyways my own is I'm celibate, you can keep your money if u don't want to spend and don't expect me to spend either. Let's see where the selfishness and stinginess will lead us to.

Horlaidex:
Did your girlfriend’s name start with V?

Lol




Anyways op, next time pour the drink Infront of her, not inside your room.

Be transparent for God sakes, terrible things are happening these days, through people we seemingly trust. I don't blame her.

Nukilia:
We keep learning everyday.. The best thing is to stay away from toxic people... You'll live long if you can stay far away from such people.

I'm telling you.

I don't need toxic people around me at all. I try as much as possible to quietly withdraw from such people, no quarrel no fight. I jejely walk away.


Thanks dear

Tosinex:
who knows! You can be lives saver and destiny helpers lolz.

Hahahahahaah, na so.

Nukilia:
You're a smart woman! Thumbs up
You gave the best response to that lady... You're smart!

Thanks dear

I had already seen her problem, and I knew she was jealous and I was shocked she was jealous. I never in my wildest dream expect such but I quickly controlled myself

Because this is a young lady who has her own man o. Its not like she's not dating any guy o. She in a relationship spending weekends in her bf's place hoping she will get pregnant, cos that's the condition the guy gave her before he will marry her. But nothing till date.

Na my body and my toaster her eyes enter.

She was even surprised I didn't get angry and insult her, cos she then asked me another day, hope I didn't feel bad on what she said to me. I smiled at her and I said nope I didn't feel bad. I was just surprised u have such mind towards me. Its not like I asked for your opinion but u simply tried to spoil my mood that fateful day. But I decided instantly not to allow u spoil the wonderful state of mind I was in.
I only blame myself., not you for what u said. Assuming I didn't allow u come into my apartment that day and I pretend I wasn't home. You wont be around to know who came to visit me and who didn't. So don't worry, I'm not angry at you and moreover, I have forgotten about it sef.

She said, ehn she knows I will feel angry but she's just protecting me from bad guys who would want to take advantage of me. I replied babe : I can protect myself, I don't need u to protect me. OK?
I know what I'm doing.


Smhhhh, anyways my dear Nukila its well. I keep away from all these small small girls , some don't have filter at all .. And me? I cant shout Biko. I can't use my own hand and draw wahala to myself.

Mba! I cant.


My Sister it's well o

funmisticqueen:
If wanting a provider and protector,security for themselves and children is called golddigging,then women are proud golddiggers

Don't mind men of these days.

To even stay in just one marriage and make it work with the women, they can't. Divorce here and there, cause they are looking for marriage without responsibilities. But if its to fucvk from morning til the next day, they are capable, strong and ever ready like firebrand . Lol. Men make me laugh, I sweeru Gawd!

Our fathers, God bless their souls marry many wives, gave birth to many children. Took care of everyone in the family, trained all their children to university level with sense of pride and joy . Even built houses which some spineless sons are enjoying today and issuing increase in rents every year to tenants as if they were the ones who built it.

Ordinary to take care of wife, capital zero.

Anyways I blame women who are so desperate to marry at the end, most of them are divorced and single parents nw.

See them all over the place. Single parents, baby daddies, baby mamas Don full everywhere. No sense of responsibility from the man .

Men in this category should cover their faces in shame.

Pure shame.



Babe how u dey dear?

Gistring:
A Nigerian man says men are the cause of high divorce rate.

Do you agree with him? See his reasons below;

See more here; http://gistmore.com/nigerian-man-says-men-are-the-cause-of-high-divorce-rate-see-his-reasons

What more can I say again?

He has said it all.


Its finished.


Women like me no longer take crap from such men anymore.



Lobatan! No time for nonsense!

Passionate1:
Irrelevant gibberish! I know ur type
What profile? Do u even have 10million in ur Bank account. U fit dash her 1m naira

Say one tangible reason why I have to dash her 1million naira?

tracyberry:
That's for you
One's health isn't just from their shape, just because she slimmed down doesn't mean she's unhealthy Mehn look at her skin.

Lol na so

Nukilia:
Keywords: hate, jealously

As in ehn? I was shocked when a younger lady whom I took as a friend said such to me. That the young man wooing me doesn't love me and she can see through him, he's just playing with my mind. And I should check am naw? How can he be in love with me? He's just playing a script. I was like wow! And I asked her calmly why did u say so? She said because I'm older and didn't I tell him my age? I shook my head and smiled. I replied he knows my age and she was like ha! Really and he still came with this gifts.
Hmm, Aunty sorry but he's not serious. He's deceiving you.

And I didn't ask for her opinion o.
She was just opportune to be around, when the dashing young guy came to pay me a visit.

I said well babe, don't bother your head about it. Let it rest OK? I'm done with this topic about him.



Chai, some girls are poisonous. I swear.

Correct Bae


If Beyonce, over sexy woman and supposedly amongst the richest black women alive didn't leave Jay-Z, whenever he cheats on her. With her great beauty to behold , Na me one come leave my husband if I eventually marry?

Nope I'm not leaving either. It's simple mathematics.