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sesaan:
The marriage won't last, Teddy A will surely cheat

Strange but it will last but will still cheat.

At the end both of them will be determined to make it work and stay married.

Ask Peter and Lola, even with Peter cheating , they are both determined to make. It work. They have focus, that's the family must stand.

Check well, he's possessed by a demon. It's not normal.

DameB:
Rather than complain to the police, get boys to carry him or bring in a psychiatric nurse to sedate him and take him to the psychiatric hospital.
If the police comes to take a mentally ill man, what are they to do with him? Who pays his bills?

Don't mind the father. He wants to transfer his responsibility to police.

Tie up the boy and take him to psychiatric hospital far away from where he stays.

Give fake address , dump him and jakpa!

End of case.


Mehn that boy is a thorn in the flesh .. Na wa

Wizywiz:
exactly what i always tell them. Love grows faint and likely dies..but u see friendship is always intact..it keeps couples going when the love isnt there...i made d mistake too..i fear for what will come up in future...marrying ones friend is better

You are right in a way but love has to be there . Because without Love the union will be so bland and boring.
What we have these days is selfish love. Only me, nobody else matters not even my companion . Just me and me alone. It's bad.
And also human beings no longer value themselves anymore.

If a human being values himself or herself, he or she will definitely value who they claim they love and want to spend the rest of their lives with.

What a pity.

zeusdgrt:
Nor be una one marry celebrity?yeye gurls

As in ehn?

Marrying a celeb not funny anymore..

They get carried away by women and men stroking their egos.

What a waste of resources.

Awww

She's so beautiful.




Congrats gurl! Please make the best use of it. Don't get derailed by bad guys plszzzzzz! Bad guyz, bad omen!

Stay focused and build life with a good guy!

She's so lovely like a flower.

MiaB:
Ahh you can say that again, baffles one

With all the divorce rates going on here and there.

It only shows clearly that wedding vows don't keep marriage
Paying of dowry on a woman's head don't keep marriage
Court marriage itself don't keep marriage
Even having children don't keep marriage


But what keeps marriage is the determination of two different people coming together as one, agreeing between themselves to keep working and making the love or whatever they hold dear between themselves perhaps sex or money or power not get worn out or fizzle off. And it takes two to make it work, not just one person.
Then God or Devil at the center of it.

Because someone must choose one, either God or Devil.


Anyways I wish all three of them best of luck in their aftermath decisions.

She still feel., she's not beautiful.

Trick of the devil.


Better move on and forget what people said and will always say, just live your life.

People must talk. It's Iife

I knew he was never in love with simi in the first place.

It's glaring already see his face. The power of addictive sex has died down, his eyes dey clear small small. Human beings must not live by sex and food alone.

Anyways best of luck in your marriage to Simi. it will last long for eternity amen!

So please smile for the camera.

wordcat:
Marriage this days is overrated

As in ehn?


Seriously overrated.

MiaB:
She could have prevented the pregnancy if she wanted, dude prolly promised her marriage

Maybe but she's not fully divorced yet by the court of law.
Except he's ready to wait as long as it takes to marry her.
This kind of thing is very messy
And he himself too, is not fully divorced. He simply packed his things and told his in-laws, they should go take their daughter, he's no longer interested in the marriage.


And I ask? What's the big deal of paying of dowry and all, if the man or wife can just walk away, move in Somewherelse with their lover and say I no do again?

NACE13:
Hanty, I'm not supporting what blossom did. I just wanted you to see it both ways. I quoted you because you were just facing the fact that he cheated and ignoring how the woman disrespects him. The op said he moved out of the house because of her constant disrespect towards him, and to make matters worse, he now got a woman pregnant. It's obvious he met the so-called woman when he left the house or maybe not, I won't conclude.

I'm happy that you are celibate, for now. But who ever broke your heart and dumped you back then truly messed up a good thing. I'm so sorry about that, and I hope you meet that prince that will knock you off your feet and remove the cobweb las las. But how have you been coping since? Just a curious mind here

Anyways mastering the power of the mind over the body, can make me not miss sex. The mind supersedes and controls the body desires.

I have.mastered mine, it's not hard to tell any part of the body to behave when it feels like misbehaving. It's an art on its own. And moreover I'm a busy lady, I prioritise my time on what put food on my table, place security in my home &life, satisfy my clients, also create time for good laughable jokes to excite the mind and body in a healthy way, then lastly worship songs to relax the mind and spirit.

For example I no longer exchange harsh curses or words on anyone who's trolling me on nairaland. I simply place a selective blindness on such lunatics here, then click the Report button. Viola! It pops up! Choose 3 rules that are meant to block the person's insultive messages to you. Then Boom! The lunatic's messages meant for you is blocked and erased. You no longer have to reply those peeps troling one online.

I can't use my precious time for work and be punching curses online, increasing my temperature and anger. It's not worth it.

As you grow older, you realise there are some words u ignore ,click delete or block!

People can no longer control your anger or depressed button, you instead control their mute button


That's it. You make your life so siimple In the midst of chaos.

Everything is in the mind. You can control what goes in and what goes out from your side and also from your opponent without him or her knowing.

[quote author=Anglojosite7 post=81982236][/quote]The news is buzzing everywhere.

Hamachi:
Hi everyone pls I have a tough question to ask the ladies here, especially the single ones. Cos I have discovered that a lot of women don’t even know the major reason why God created them to be a woman. So my question is, what can you offer a man in a relationship other than sex. Cos this days all I see in women are women flaunting their sexuality, especially their seductive sexy body for men to admire them

Let's start with you. Before I say mine.


As a woman, what do u have to offer to a man?

NACE13:
So his 'cheating' is the only thing you read up there right? You didn't read where the wife is so disrespectful, he had to leave the house. Either she was pretending all the while or Blossom ignored the signs and went ahead to wife her. Won't you call that fairweather woman. Can you stay with a man who disrespects you?

Having sex right now or in next century won't change what a man feels for you. You better stop starving and depriving yourself something good and blissful all in the name of searching for a good man. You need someone to remove the cobweb

he deserves the disrespect if he truly impregnate Lilian esoro!

How can he expect his wife to respect and honour him after such disaster. Haba! You men sef!

If your wife got pregnant for another man and you know, will you pamper, love and respect her? Be sincere.

Pertaining to the bolded no be only cobweb na cobhams. I rather stay single then be with a useless man, who will end up making me a divorcee with kids or baby mama.

God forbid! I don't need such emotional trauma.

Huncle, I'm not complaining. I'm perfectly fine with my choice of been celibate till I meet a good man who deserves me. I will never join the bandwagon of having kids with no legitimate fathers littering everywhere. Mba!

MiaB:
Marriage is a joke these days

As in ehn? A huge joke!


Jeez!

MiaB:
Both ubi and blossom are useless not excluding Lilian that got pregnant for a married man

Abi! Both men are useless!


But Lilian sef! She really fall my hand. Why allow a married man spread those legs again and get her pregnant! Even if he's her ex.


That's pure madness..

Having two. Kids for two different men!

Na WA oooo

KevMitnick:
Lilian dumped Blossom and got married to Ubi because of money only to discover that Ubi was a fraud with many baby mamas. Blossom loved Lilian but married Redvigor on a rebound after Lilian dumped him. Blossom never loved Redvigor. Silently, he prayed for the day Lilian and Ubi will separate so that he can go back to his true love. The day came, and he couldn't pretend to his his wife any more. Ladies and gentlemen, pray that the love between you and your spouse is mutual.

Oh my God!


Mehn! But Lilian is still married to that Randy Ubi. Court struck off their divorce application . Chai!


U see why it's good to marry for love and not money.

Chai! Ubi is a very useless man. God forbid

Hmmmmmm


That's why I'm not rushing into marriage or sex sef.


Definitely not worth it, with the kind of men we have these days.


Nowadays it's men leaving marriages and no longer women.


May God save us from the kind of fair weather men we have these days.

God abeg o

Omojudy:
Luckily hers was her step father. Mine was my father. I wrote about it in my life’s blog. A lot of people wonder why I decided to write about it, I guess we hide too many things in this nation and that’s how the cycle continues.
The blog address is

http://astrongnigerianwoman/

None of you is lucky.
Whether father, or step father or uncle or male friend.. It's completely gross and terrible.

So terrible

How old were you back then?

TheEnforcer:
Did you read the report at all?How can you just conclude shes dirty and you are not.Your sanctimonious self.She said she went from the airport straight to her interview.Maybe the flight landed very early (I know delta airline arrives NY very early and she probalby took that airline) and she had to take a ride straight to the venue of her interview,otherwise she ll be late.

Then she shouldn't tell us, she didn't take her bath.

Anybody who has a career or biz going for them, meet up with different appointments and meetings different times in the day and still had to travel some distance to meet with another appointment through flight and none has ever mentioned to anyone they didn't take their bath.

Even davido, wizzy, burna boy etc who meet up with different meetings, flying here and there, will not post online they didn't take their bath before jumping into a flight for interview or biz.

It's simply unnecessary. And she's looking all made up as if it's cool.


Guy! It's not cool.

She's simply telling us, down there is slimy!

Do you how slimy the pussy feels when a lady skips bath in a day? My dear, it's bot even cool to joke about it.

Well na she sabi! With her post, billions of people now know, she doesn't bath often due to her tight schedules. Sighs

As if na only she get tight schedules of taking flights from one place to another.

It's her call Anyways

No matter how much I fine and frosh, cmon! I can't even feel good without taking my bath at least twice a day. Morning and night.

Tiwa don't teach your fans to stop taking their bath. That's wrong and bad habit.

Simply shows she's dirty.

No offense but true.

It's not about packing one liter of oil paint with concealer gum for face.

Let's call a spade a spade.

Wail. On my mentions from now til next year.

IM LESS CONCERNED.

Bruno3000:
He is simply lazy and unserious, no foresight whatsoever. Give me small of his fame and watch me run things.

Na so


Nigerians are mouthed.

Give you small of his fame? It's either u will be like Tuface reborn or collapse on the long-run.

You think it's so easy handling fame and money?

One thing is sure, your pride and arrogance will increase to 1000%.

Give most Nigerians wealth and see how they change to somethingesle. How much more fame join. Na army and mopol u go dey carry waka
In fact you will be unreachable!

goshen26:
Thank you Sir/Ma..

You know I argued over this matter with my wife, saying they only look alike. Don't blame me, I only know how to cram name I don't really know most of them cos I seldom watch movies


Thanks again

You are welcome. Sir.

Initially I was like you too and confused as well about the names until a friend clarified it to me.

I wish her and her new life well.

Female children are very easy to convince and carry along.

Nice one

Bruno3000:
This guy is a big fool. Is she proud of u? Don't go and remarry.

You wicked o


Bros never get himself, not found his feet on anything yet and u are talking of go and remarry.

Remarry how? He is still lost in his world and web, u are talking of remarry.

No woman will marry him at this state he is.

And I doubt if he's even thinking of remarrying.

You think say marriage nah beans?

goshen26:
Someone should clear me oooo



Who is Toyin Abraham and Toyin Aimakhu?

Cos this face is Aimakhu own, how come I'm seeing Abraham recently

I asked the same question too, but a friend explained to me., that Aimakhu which is her original surname carries bad luck in her life. After much deep thoughts and deliberations on her not too long past life, Toyin had seat herself down and realise aimakhu's name that's the family name is not doing any good for her destiny. So she changed it to Abraham, that's her father's first name not her father's surname anymore.

Since she started bearing Abraham, she now married to an actor like herself and has a new born baby, living happily with both husband and new son.

I don't blame her, she should do what works for her.

Nigerians always envious.

If no one dates otedolas daughters, who will?

Can't the rich decides whom to fall in love with?

Must is it be on every dick and Harry standards?

If an average guy dates a rich girl, they call him gold digger
If an average or poor girl dates a rich man, Nigerians will call her gold digger
If the rich dates and marry the rich, Nigerians will still complain, the rich only care about themselves and simply rotating their wealth amongst them
If an average looking guy dates a beautiful lady, Nigerians will complain, beautiful ladies don't stay long in marriage o, divorce is eminent. We give them 1year tops and that marriage is gone. The guy eyes go clear, next time he won't dare marry a beautiful woman.
If a beautiful lady marries an extremely gorgeous man who is comfortable, Nigerians will still complain. Ha! Will this man stay focused on marriage? He won't o? He will be randy to every woman that's falling themselves on him. Babe, cut off quickly her not a marriage material. Why? He's too handsome and looks successful. Tops 1 year the marriage won't last.
They've already condemned the marriage before it starts.


Sighs, Nigerians


The only thing they see good is when poverty jam poverty, that's when they believe the marriage wil last long.
Ugliness jam average or ugliness jam ugliness then yes! Their marriage will last long.
Smhhhhhh


Who do una like this?

When Nigerians don shit full everywhere for SA, and the south Africans are fed-up saying make una go back to una country, we don't want you guys again.

We are now calling buhari to butt in and make South Africa accept us byforce.

Really?

If y'all must know, Nigerians have been banned from entering into some countries cos of our bad traits that follows us anywhere we go.
Scam! Nigerians
Looting! Nigerians
Cult clash! Nigerians
Sleeping with other men's wives and women! Nigerians
Drugs! Nigerians
The list goes on and on.

So tell me, will Buhari start teaching Nigerians how to behave well and upright? Can't we just use out brains and behave well abroad? Is it so hard?

They are both in love that's why he's marrying her.

End of story.

Nigerians sef.

Must getting pregnant be involved first?
Can't someone just love in peace and marry in peace?

AstroOG:
So,he shouldn't test run what he will pay for ??

Don't you knw that Girls are Commodities??

Keep. Test running o

Until you go test run an evil spirit.

MrBrownJay1:
Do you actually really believe that putting a ring on it would change anything?!?!?!?

Abstaining won't change anything about the issue...a man will drop you (when done with you) whether you like it or not OR abstain from sex....because we all know that you can only abstain until this man is fed up of waiting and go meet someone else.

For the records, I'm abstaining for my own self worth and in building a solid spiritual relationship with my Creator, not necessarily to even have a ring on it.

Then getting married is just a bonus to me and someone I'm truly in love and smitten with, likewise he should feel same. Any other thing short of that? I don't think I need marriage from any man, I'm not inlove with.
I think that's why I'm not bothered about sex from any dick and Harry. And I don't fall in love with any man, just because he's a man.
So Bros, I'm perfectly fine with my decision.
There is only one man my heart, soul and my mind has chosen to spend the rest of my life with and I thank God he's celibate as well. He's not in a hurry to be fucvking girls upandan. He's disciplined with his body and dick, which is one thing I admire alot about him.
One can even see the grace and Prurity of God radiating around him as he glows and prosper in his chosen career . That alone is a huge turn on for me, whenever I'm with him.

So don't worry I'm very happy with my decision.